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Sometimes you'll have bad and good days but someitmes there will be a mixture, but as you grow up you'll have some unforgetable memories that will always be with you... The friendships you make come and go, but as you look at all the flash backs there's always something about eachone you can't forget... You'll move on in life, parents will seperate and you'll feel pain the you didnt know even existed... You'll leave old friends and make new, leave ur house you lived in yer childhood and become something you didnt imagine, but now that you can see what its like, just remember nothing last's FOREVER-- thank you for listening to me!


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Everyone at school thinks it is REALLY weird for poeple to wear pure black outfits and black make up. Black is the only color that really looks good on me, so I prefer to wear it.

is there any other color that has the same slimming effect as the color black? im not fat, but im not the skinniest. ive got big boobs and a kinda chubby lower stomach. i want to hide this, so i wear the black stuff.

i just need another color in clothing that looks good with almost anything and is slimming in those areas i mentioned.
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You dont have to change yourself for judgemental ppl! and besides you dont have to wear black neway =) you can just wear regular colors/clothes that arnt tight.. you should be confortable with yourself! Try just wearing regular t-shirts that are a little baggy =)


Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help! (link)
Oh.. well why do u HAVE to wear a thong to feel "good enough" or "sexy" ? Dont change/wear stuff to get a guy for you.. that shouldn't happen at ALL! You need to be yourself or your gunna fall in love wit the guy that only likes you cuz u wear thongs.. besides.. it shouldnt matter if you wear thongs or not.. besides its not there buizness knowing if you wear thongs or not unless you're pullin it our or pullin your pants down and showing them! =P


this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate (link)
*NO ONE* should pick on you because your changing!! you're just goin on a different stage of your life! and besides its a NEW year you gotta change sometime or another!! and i dont think ne1 would pick on you for wearing different clothes and wearing more make up.. but dont get out of hand wit the make up.. or they might call you a clown >.< lol hope i helped!!


hey i'm a 13 year old girl, and i'm really petite(and dont have that much of a chest lol), and i'm like 4 foot 11. evry time i try on jeans, theyre 2 baggy around mi butt.lol. where can i find jeans and shorts n stuff that (link)
pacsun, aeropostle, mandees, limited 2 if yer desperate lol um.. marshells.. try nething!!


Thanx for the help.I tryed flirting but i dont know if its working.I mean i tryed being sweet and she likes it but i dont no if she likes me.Do you have anymore ideas.What would u like for me to try if it was you i was likeing?i hate bugging people for advice but i really like her and i really wish i could make her mine
please try to ehlp
Me~ (link)
Well thats good.. but i really dont know what i like.. im kinda, in a mixin bowl? idk if you get what i mean.. but sry i cant help wit that cuz i realllllly* dont know!


hey. im really skinny so its hard to find tight fitting jeans like i want. i shop everywhere and i cant really find jeans that arent a lil baggy. i shop at hollister, abercrombie, pacsun, nordstrom, marshall fields, some designer stores u havent heard of and more.. and i cant find any good tight fitting jeans. even the slim sizes arent tighter, they just fit better around the waste. where should i shop? thanxx
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Try aeropostle? i dont know what kind of girl you are punk, prep, goth, etc. but try aeropostle it might* help or limited too? if you are *really* small!!! or mandee's if you have it up there.. i really havnt tried there jeans but some of the clothes are nice =)


I just met this really sweet,funny and hot girl off the internet.I mean she seems like a good match but she dont really know me that well.I'm trying to get her to know me better.I really do like her alot.Lena can you please help me?What should i do?
Me~ (link)
tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels, get to know her some more! flirt wit her but dont go overboard.. you dont wanna scare her away! And if she rejects you.. dont get to hard on yourself! she just might not be interested in guys at this point.. or she might like another guy or be stuck in a past relationship.. who knows! GoodLuck.. hope it all works out =)


Ok, so I'm thinking about getting some plain t-shirts that are colored and getting clothes paint to right on them, but I dunno where to get some shirts (for cheap) and what to right! does anyone have some suggestions? (link)
Oh.. well if you want plain white go to wal*mart =) lol if you want colored then go to marshells or something =) or you can always color dye them too!


does ne1 have ne ideas of how to dye my hair like wut products [home made stuff or store bought stuff] and wut color i shuld dye it i have dark dark brown hair close to black??!! soo if u have ne ideas of how to dye my hair and wut color is good for it help me plzz! (link)
Dont dye your hair! i always wanted dark dark brown.. lol umm just get highlights! cuz if u dye your whole head it may not be the color you want! so go for highlights and if u like the highlight color alot go for that!! try gettin a little bit lighter! or put sun-in or lemon juice in! since its the summer while your tanning!! you dont wanna do something you will regret! =)


well, i always flat iron my hair. it takes foreverrr..but anyway, i live in GA ..so its really hot and humid here, during the summer monthes especially. soo my hair always frizzes up and gets kinda wavy. any suggestions on how to keep it stick straight all day long..thanks=D! (link)
Okay get a chi, or a regular curling iron thing and just straigten it! it works! and get this gel stuff.. it smells good and it works! its called garnier fructis style! it might help =)


my personality is wild and punk, i love pac sun and shop there very often. i love being comfortable in what i am wearing, but also love top express myself through my clothes. what kind of clothes would make me look more punk? the question is pretty obvious, but no, i am not trying to be somthing im not..and i am not a poser. where can i find punk clothes?
will rate WELL (link)
Gadzooks! veryy* punk store for girls! =) i think it also turned into an all girlstore! check it out =)


i get so jealous when i see someone that's really pretty- it makes me feel as if i'm ugly...what should i do? (link)
Thats normal.. it happens to everyone..(basically) and your not ugly! =) no ones ugly!!!


this year for clothes i'm really on a budget. where are places i can get cheap, but cute clothes?? not old navy, i'm sick of it. also, where are cheap places to get tight jeans?? (link)
Marshells..? or something.. ummm Ross i think you can go to the website at rossstores.com look at all the cleerances at pacsun, aeropostle, a$f, american eagle... express.. Express has tight jeans.. Holister... umm check it all out!


i'm having a definete dilemma! i go to an all girls school, so makeup isn't a big deal. in the grade i'm going into, people wear makeup more, and i love wearing makeup, but just... don't. not regularly, at least. how can i start wearing make up without it being obvious??? and also, you know when u see celebs and they aren't wearin makeup, and they look wierd... almost like sickly, just cuz you're used to seeing them with makeup.... well i don't want that to happen to me!!! if i don't feel like putting on my makeup, i don't want it to be obvious! any way to wear makeup subtley, but not pointlessly???? (by pointlessly, i mean like if i looked the same as before, it would be stupid to even wear makeup) (link)
Wear eye shadown.. brown eyeshadow so its not as dark.. and wear colors that almost match your skin.. you dont have to even change yourself cuz all the other girls are =) you look beautiful the way you are =D if you have ne more questions bout make up ;) you know where to find me!


hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic? (link)
Dont put so much mascara.. and try puting BROWN or LIGHT brown eyeshadow on.. =) like you would put eyeliner on.. it works JUST the same =) thats what i occasionally do.. and then curl your eye lashes =)


hey.i need help.im going out with my best friends brother.im not a bad person its just that if she eva found out she would kill me and our friendship would be ova wich means mine and my boyfriends relationship will be ova too cuz i wont be able to c him much.she is always tellin me that he isnt good enough for me but he really is.he is the sweetest peron.i hate hidding or relationship from her and keepin it a secret but i dont know what to do.i love both of them so much and i dont wanna loose them.Please i need some advice..anyone can help me.thanx so much. (link)
tell her how you feel! and be nice and honest... shes your best friend, best friends are suppost to tell each other EVERYTHING!! =)


Does anybody in here know or is related to a famous person? if so who?

italian_diamond (link)
I know maroon five, and my dad was goin to build a house for 50cent but then he got into a gun fight so my dad didnt want to.. and he knows him and so does his friend =)


okay ive liked this guy for like a year and i cant stop liking him...hes like perfect...and i want to stop liking him because I dont think I have any classes with him and I dont think I will see him a lot but ive been trying to not like him...and i just keep thinking about him all the time and how i like him so much...please give me advice on what to do... (link)
Go out with him.. talk to him! be friends.. do stuff.. try to get yer emotions out .. dont bottle them all up or they will explode at the wrong time =)


i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP! (link)
Fallow your heart


do u guyz think u have 2 be a certain age 2 be in love?? im 12 but i do think i have been in love.. i bet most ppl will say it wasnt.. i wasnt even dating tha guy but i totally felt like it was love......and like i sed i loved him and stuff.. and i meant it. he sed it back 2... but he thinks hes to young 2 be in love... i juzt dont think u have 2 be a certain age 2 be in love. like if hes all u think about, all u dream about and all u talk about. is that love? or is that juzt like?

x3 CuRiOuS BeBe x3
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Thats love.. but dont rush things you dont wanna get your heart broken.. believe me..! dont thro your heart at him =) he may not catch it.. and then they're will be an akward silence except for the sound of yer heart shattering to the ground...




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