I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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I have a new girlfriend like im kinda scared cause my ex told me she loved me b4 and she will never cheat on me but she did so like its very hard 4 me to trust my new girlfriend because of what happened with my ex but i really really love my new girlfriend but i always question her about like do she like dis or that boy or is she doing something she doesnt suppose to(cheating) and i really dont like her to go out cause i think she would cheat on me and then it scares me cause like she is not a virgin and her cousin is like always trying to make her do stuff like drink and i dont like her to drink cause who knows what would she do when shes drunk what if she sleep with another guy :( so she stopped i really love her i just really want to trust her so bad and she knows i dont trust her and it hurts her :( please help i would be so greatful (link)
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I know its going to be hard to trust her but eventually your going to have i mean you cant go through life not trusting someone important in your life because thats unhealthy so i guess the best way to go about it would be to just sit her down and tell her that you really love her and it would hurt you if she ever cheated on you and that if she is into someone else she should just tell you now and if shes not then have her promise she wont cheat on you ever and that your only saying this to make yourself feel better and to be able to keep the trust and love between you both.I know it seems cheesy and all but i think this would be the best way to go about it because this way you will trust her a little and whenever you feel like shes doing something like cheating just look back to the promise she made and how shes always treated you maybe that will make you feel better. And if none of this works maybe you need to be single for a little bit and just get through the whole trust issue thing which is totally k to do because it will let you have healthier and better relationships in the future. I hope i helped good luck :D
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Hey so i am 16 f and me and this guy from my school that i know welll are kinda planning to hookup. he asked me if he could finger me and do stuff to me. and then asked if i would do stuff to him. Well anyways it would be my first time doing anything!! so he weeks saying .... in a week. and im just not sure what to do really cause i get my period that week, and so im just gonna be like i got my period today. but still i wanna do something with him. What should i do and please dont say to young or something cause i raelly wanna try something fun. not necessarliy just bj and hj and fing. and eat. But don worry i am NOT going all the way. haha! anyways just i would like some advice.
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Well i know you dont wanna hear this but you are young and ill give you the advice but im in no way saying you should have sex but to help you out a little ill give you some advice. First of all i think its totally normal for any teen to get into this stuff so i understand i guess but if your worried about your period tell the guy that you cant because of your period and maybe you could do it either before or after its done and let him know its your first time and if hes nice about it and offers to help you out and tell you what or how to do it then hes i guess the right guy to do it with otherwise hes not.
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this guy i have been dating wants me to come to a bbq with his family today. ill go but i just dont know about food, they hunt all their food and live in the country but im a vegetarian. last night i ate fish because his dad wouldnt leave me alone and i feel bad for denying their food, but i dont want to eat it. how can i nicely go about the eating part? its going to be mainly meat and if i dont eat it il have like nothing on my plate and be bugged about it all but if i eat it ill hate myself?? also were not boyfriend girlfriend so how do we act and introduce? (link)
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Well im sure they will have like salads or something besides just meat so have that instead but if you this bothered by meat just talk to the guy and tell him that your a vegetarian and that you wont be able to eat meat and that your not trying to disrespect them in any way its just how you feel and if he understands great but if he doesnt maybe hes not the right guys for you. And as for the introduction you can say your just dating but not bf and gf meaning you guys are still getting to know eachother.
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Female/18. Sorry if this is long. So i transfered to a new school my junior yr and now its toward the end of my senior yr. Just yesterday one of my friends told me that this girl in our class said that i was obsessed with myself and always looking at myself! And that its annoying.And so i asked this girl that said it and she said that other ppl say it too! ): that made me kinda sad. i usually just go to the bathroom 2 times a day to check my makeup throughout school. 1st, I am a girl and care how i look. 2nd, i have bad self esteem and worry what what i look like so i just like checking that my hair isnt up in the hair or my makeup isnt smeared down my face, because thats happened before and no one has told me! so i worry about that as well! ugh..now im worried n dont wanna go back to school. first off ppl dont know me, so i wish they wouldnt talk like that. but what should i do? i was better off not knowing, but do you have any advice?? it would be really nice!
p.s. lets just say i only have till May and i am done with fricken high school drama!
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Honestly it shouldnt matter what people say about you ive been through what your going and at first it bothered me but a guy told me that your doing it to make yourself feel better and if people have something to say they should either say it to your face or just keep quiet and besides it shouldnt be bothering them because it doesnt involve them so just ignore people and do what you want but if you feel like its bringing you down just go to the bathroom less and dont check yourself out as much. Hope this helps :D
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I might be getting a job at Subway soon.
What is it like, for anyone who's worked there?
Interview tips? What types of questions will I be asked?
Any other tips? (link)
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Subway is actually kinda fun to work in i worked there about a year ago as a part time job and it was fun awesome people and friendly too and you get to learn a lot as for the interview its pretty simple they just give you a few senarios and you answer them and they ask you for your qualifications and where you have worked before if you have and also if your good with money and stuff like that. For tips i would say dress to impress wear a nice top with dress pants but not too dressy you want to be appropriate for it.Also i recommend to give honest answers.
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are diet pills effective when paired with exercise? i know the common sense thing would just be to eat better, but i'm naturally pretty thin, so having a fast metabolism i've eaten horrible my whole life. also i live on a college campus so good nutritional food is hard to come by. i do go to the gym 3-5 times a week, so would diet pills help me speed up the process at all? i just have about 5-10 pounds i'd like to lose.
also do diet pills affect birth control?
thanks! 19/f (link)
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Honestly diet pills dont work they dont do anything at all except make you feel weaker and also have bad side affect what i suggest is you eat what you want but in moderation and just exercise you should be eating about 1500 calories a day give or take and in that you can eat what you want just count your calories and you will lose weight trust me ive tried it. Good luck :D
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Ok so a couple of months ago i was tryin to fix our cooker and when it was too late i was near enough engulfed in flames... Luckily i wasnt hurt or burned at all just my hair was a bit singed. My eyebrows were a bit burnt away and the hair on my arm was all gone pretty much. but thats all grown back now and normall. my eyelashes on the other hand! were burnt and kinda crispy so i usd to some toenail clippers and cut the singed stupid looking things off. my right eyelashes havee grown back to normall but my left eyelashs look wierd.
the left part of my eyelashes (furthest from my nose) have grown back normall. but the left half (closest to my nose) are still very short. Its not noticeable untill i point it out but its just a little wierd that they'v taken this long to grow nothing at all. Does any one know will they ever grow back? (link)
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just give it a few weeks eventually they will also if you go to your nearby drugstore you can ask them on some mascara or eyelash repairer to kind of make them less noticable or normal again. Good luck :D
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I want to grow my hair like two inches longer by august would be nice. I was wondering if there is any vitamins or other natural ways to do it. I've heard certain vitamins make your hair grow pretty fast. I was wondering what these are, if there safe, healthy, and if they have any other effect on you. Thanks! (link)
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try Ayur Amla Shikakai with Reetha Shampoo its an indian shampoo with conditioner in it and i have been using it for a few months now and my hair has grown a lot in just a few months and it gives your hair a shine and keeps it healthy it does have a smell to it but it goes away after awhile and you wont be able to notice it you can buy it from any indian food store or online here
http://ayurbeautycare.herbalcureindia.com/ayur-hair-care-products.html
this will take care of your hair and help it grow in just a month or two.
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Just what is wifi, do i need it, how would it benefit me, does my home have it even if no possible internet can come through our telephone line...does it cost and does it consume kb (as in allowed usage by hugher internet)?
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wifi is basically wireless internet meaning you can take your computer anywhere in your house and use it without all the plugs i guess it would benefit you by you being able to use it wherever you need it and more than 1 computer can use it at a time and im not sure about the cost or telephone line thing but you should go to your local computer store and ask them they will be able to explain it better and tell you whats best for you. Hope i helped :D
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Anyone know where i can get similar shorts to these but cheaper and they don't have to be real leather? websites would be great !
http://www.lagarconne.com/store/item.htm?itemid=6961&sid=22&pid= (link)
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I am completely stuck. I have borderline personality disorder among many other mental disorders which leaves me majorly over sensitive with extreme trust issues and a poor self-image. My boyfriend knows this and tries to help me as much as possible with it but unfortunately his idea of playfully flirting with me is to joke about other girls and things along that line which are major triggers to my disorder. Although I can logically process the comments and know he's just flirting with me my emotions take control and I get extremely upset. I have no way of controlling this except to continue with my therapy and with intense treatment I will eventually be able to control my own emotions. My boyfriend and I have discussed this many times and he feels awful and has tried to stop but he still does it some. I was wondering if anyone else has this specific problem and what you have done about it outside of therapy that has helped reduce the extreme emotions provoked? This is really becoming an issue in an otherwise very stong supportive relationship. (link)
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Maybe you should go to a therapist and talk to them about it im sure a therapist will help you or if that doesnt help maybe you and your bf should just sit down once in a while and just talk to him about your feelings im sure if you do this enough you will be fine if not maybe ask a doctor what could help you. Good Luck :D
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I am looking for a very specific bikini. Help?
Here's what I'm looking for: coral or pale pink bikini, possibly ruffle, and relatively cheap.
If you've seen a swimsuit like this anywhere please tell me what store. Or better yet a link.
I'm dying for this bikini. (link)
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Try victoria secret or La senza they will for sure have something similar to what your looking for here are the links to the websites
http://www.lasenza.com/eng/categories/Swim
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/landing/?cgnbr=OSSWMZZZZZZ
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Hi im 13 years old and i like this guy but i get nervous around him and i cant really even talk to him on the phone cause im so nervous and i get my younger brother to talk to him for me but what do i do? p.s major need help!
how do i ask him if he likes me more than a friend since i get nervous? (link)
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K well first of all its very normal for you to get nervous but you cant have your younger brother talk for you thats awkward for the guy and it going to make him think your not interested so if you like this guy your going to just have to pick up the phone and talk it will be hard but if you dont try you'll never be able to do it so ya just pick up the phone once and after that you will feel comfortable enough to talk to him. Good Luck :D
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im 13 i weigh 94 pounds and im 4'11 am i over weight? (link)
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No your not actually your weight is perfect for your height of course there will be kids your age who will be heavier or lighter it will be because of the height difference so dont compare your self to others.
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Okay so i am a flyer on my competitive cheer squad and my coach wants me to do a Kick-double. i have flown before but i am really scared of doubling!!! what do i do????
I am from north america (new jersey) (link)
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Well your going to have to practice it a few times to get the fear out of your head so i suggest asking your coach if you two can meet afterschool and just practice that so you wont be so scared anymore of get a few girls to come to your house or go to the gym and practice it a few times that will make it easier on you. Good Luck :D
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Can anyone tell me the price range of a hamster?
Hehe, thanks. =] (link)
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The hamster itself cost 3-20 dollars depending on the breed and then the accessories like food, cage etc costs a little more basically with accessories added it will be about 60-80 bucks.
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where do u find eigher soccer shoes (link)
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Basic athletic shoe stores should have them like
Nike
Adiddas
Sport chek
Champers
or you can check online at any of these stores and get them that way.
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Well im going into High School next year and there is this really cute guy on the football and and wrestling team and he is 1 grade older me and he knows I like him but we have never talked my cuz told him and just smiles and he will look at me and smile and turn away but my question is when I do get to High School how can I get him to like me how do I make him mine. thats just how much I like him this may sound silly but I think I love him. I dream about him every night and think about him constantly and when he looks at me I loose my breath my heart skips a beat its like I need him. Please help me you could change my life. Please help me nomatter how dramatic I may sound but its true. What do I do? What do I say? Please and Thank you! (link)
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I think you should just go up to him or have a friend introduce him to you and then just talk to him about his wresting or football and ask if he would like to hang out and eventually he will tell you if he likes you or not and ya just hang out with him because thats the only way he will notice you or even start to have feelings about you.
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My poor kitty has the sniffles, what should I do? (link)
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The best thing to do it take it to the vet because you dont want to try home remidies because the chances are they wont work so ya just take it to the vet and get it treated. Hope it gets better :D
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can anyone find this bag cheaper? I love it so much but its really expensive.
http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww1.macys.com%2Fcatalog%2Fproduct%2Findex.ognc%3FID%3D455948%26PseudoCat%3Dse-xx-xx-xx.esn_results&h=795d29063b9441156bbd1c439e9caa92
thanks! (link)
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I think its probably a one of kind because macy's bags are kinda exclusive so i suggest just waiting for it to go on sale and it will in 2-3 weeks and then just get it then because even if you find someone like it the chances are it wont be exactly like it.
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