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E-mail: jane_254@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Valdosta, Georgia
Age: 16
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Member Since: July 11, 2004
Answers: 314
Last Update: February 25, 2005
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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong? (link)
*It is totally not wrong to think something of the same sex. If you feel a physical/emotional attraction for a man and a woman you could be bisexual but if you do not feel any attraction for a man then you are homosexual or in other words lesbian.*


How do gay guys have sex? I now how leisbian have it but buti don't no how guys do! (link)
*Lol I'm surprised you knew lesibans before men but, it's called anal sex, means in the ass*


Im 13 and my boyfriend is 18. Last night I had sex with him for the first time. Well me and my friend were shoping at the mall today and we saw him with another girl! He bought her this hat for her too! Im so heart broken! What do i do?! (link)
*Break up with him!!! He only used you to get what he wanted. Guys are such jerks and I'm sorry you got one of the biggest =(*


ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!? (link)
*You're lucky to have little boobs. Don't push for bigger ones because any size is perfect. If you had big boobs, you would never find the right bikini top and shirts would be a big pain!*


my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
*PLEASE tell your mom that is the most #1 important thing you can do!!!*


I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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*If he didn't answer you back he either doesn't like you or he's nervous to answer. You should tell him how you feel so he'd know. But ya'll do live in different states and most of the time long distance doesn't work...*


can women fall pregnant by a man who is 20years older then them (link)
*Of course, no matter what age you CAN get pregnant if you don't use a condom or birth control*


ok i am 14 almost 15 and i am seein this boy named tony and he is 13 almost 14 and he acts ignorant to me when he is around his friends and the last time i talked to him i told him we are done ad never talk to me again because i was just really mad!! and now we havnt talked him 2 almost 3 weeks and i am upset how do i get him to talk to me i just want to go crazy because i dotn have him with me well please tell me what i should do!! thanks for you advice anyone
~*~*~katie~*~*~ (link)
*What you should have done was tell him how you felt when he was around his friends. I think you should say an "I'm sorry" and tell him you didn't mean and then just explain everything*


One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much (link)
*You are right, 14 years old and having sex is NOT right. It's not slutty of her to say she likes it because it's natural for people to. Aslo, she may think it's not your business to tell her what to do**


ok i just asked a question about me and this boy before but i got another one ok i was over at this boy tonys house and we had sex and i dotn know what to do now because he is being ignorant to me now and i dotn know what to do!! what should i do? thankz
katie (link)
*The only way to say this is he's using you. If ya'll were dating and having sex this wouldn't be a problem, but once you share with a guy your not dating he just wants to get some and then he's gone*


I cant get any guys to like me! Do you have any tips?
Boyfriendless (link)
*Boyfriendless, I felt that way too once. One reason was I didn't have a lot of confidence in myself, maybe that's the same for you. But don't push having a boyfriend, the single life is just as good. My tips are be yourself, be confident, and don't try to hide anything. And if you're shy, that's okay, but just make a little effort to show interest into a guy*


DeAr JaNe, iread that u like to play softball, so do i. i love it!!!! i recently injured myself and the doc toldme to stay away from sball for awhile!! theres this traveling team going on and they asked me to be on it and i want to play really bad and the coach doesnt know about my injury . should i continue to play or not? (link)
*First of all, you should tell your coach about your injury. Second, you really don't need to play. You shouldn't make the injury worse, because if you do you could damage it even worse and never be able to play again. So stay off that injury of yours and find something else to do for now =)*


i really dont like this guy im dating but i dont want to hurt him if i break up with him, what should i do? (link)
*In a relationship someone will get hurt. So if you really don't like the guy, why are you with him? Oh and remember, if you do decide to call it quits, don't lie when he asks you why you're breaking up with him, because truth is the most important thing!*




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