My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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I entered in a chance to win a fender "something or other" But I doubt I'll win. . So I will be crossing my fingers, and looking for a bass at the same time, thanks! (link)
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Okay...good luck.
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ok i have had to decide between to guys and i have picked my neighbor not only is he the man of my dreams but is every thing to me i mean im just the girl next door and have the look to but i ran into a problem i cant stop thinking about the other boy can anyone help me find a way to put him in the past as a boyfreind but also be my friend too? (link)
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I'm sorry but there's really nothing you can do. If you really want to put this guy in the past, your going to have to do it on your own.
I know this seems harsh, but find this guys flaws. Maybe it will help you to put him in the past.
~GL~
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hey this isnt a question but i got a 160$ dress for 35$ great deal huh its so cute it is like a dark red at the top then it goes toa dark purple then to a black and it has black beads all ova it and the back part is an open back with these beads going straight across then it hangs down kinda hard to tell ya exactly
anyways its for the skol miltary ball and im goin wit my best friend kate
(no im not bi lez or anything) but i really wanna go wit nick or todd but ow ell
*******happy********
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uh...K!
Hope you have a...good time...
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omg!!! what do i do if i have fallen in love with two boys at the same time???? this is true love i swear and i need major help (link)
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Trust me...no matter how much it may feel like true love, it's really NOT true love if you "love" them both at the same time.
Just focus your attention on the one you find most attractive. You know, their personality, their sense of humor, how attractive they are to you. Try talking to them, or find out what type of things each guy likes. I know what you mean. It feels like love...and it may well be love...but I highly doubt it. I've felt this way before...and there's nothing you can do. You can't help who you like, it just happens. But if one of these guys is a jerk, drop 'em.
Don't waste your time liking them. Once I really liked this kid named Kendall. It turned out he was a huge jerk because he made fun of my friend. I kind of pushed by him in the hallway afterwards and he saw me and I think he knew I liked him. But then after what happened I immediately didn't like him anymore. It felt like love, but it wasn't if I just stopped liking him so quickly.
Boys who are jerks are a major turn off for me.
So just focus your attention on one and see what happens from there. That's all I really can say because I don't know you or these boys.
~GL~
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For the past 3 months I have had a sort of half-period. Absolutely nothing that I am used to. Before that, I just didn't get one at all for 2 months. Its very strange and somewhat concerning but I'd rather not go to the doctors if I have nothing to worry about. Help? (link)
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Well, are you a virgin? Because if your period is thinner then you normally have it, and you had sex, then there may be a SLIGHT chance that you can be pregnant.
As for if your a virgin. If you recently started your periods, it's normal for some of the first few to be late. One time mine didn't come for a month...but then afterwards I started having them regularly again. See if it returns to normal after your next two periods. So wait two months, and if you don't get it one month then I'd go to a doctor.
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is it a bad thing to fall asleep while ur babysitting a 3 yearold in summer while thre in a pool?
~>confused (link)
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Yes, it is. Even if they have floaties on. Or if they know how to swim, it's still not a good idea because if anything ever happens where they injure themself in the pool, they may not be able to get out.
Doi!
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my parents are christian, so they raised me up to belive in God and all that stuff, but when i pray to God, my Prayers never come true. now i am starting to not really belive in God anymore, and im thinking about becoming athest, plus my brother is athest. i know you cant tell me what to belive in, but i just wanted to know what to do. (link)
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I know what you mean. But God doesn't always respond to prayers. God never would let you go through more than you can handle.
He goes by his own rules. He doesn't just do what he wants to. He pretty much has a schedule for everybody living in this world. He knows what you want...but he can't give everybody what he wants all the time, because then there would be nothing to keep us going. We would achieve every goal we wanted without even trying. Do you understand?
He has a plan for all of us. He can't just change that. He goes by his own rules and he does things his own time to help you. Some things may be things you hate, but you have to live with it. From what I see, you do believe in God if your this upset about him not responding to your prayers. I think if you become athest, deep down you will still believe in God. And just because your brother doesn't believe in a God doesn't mean you will become that (unless you wanted to).
Praying isn't just about getting what you want. It's about having faith. If you give to people, you will get back more. I know you probably hear this all the time, but it's the truth. I've had little prayers come true before...but some were not really big. But then I realized that I can't always ask God for things, because if we enjoy life, and give to people and are good in the heart he will give us back so much more. He knows the things we want and if we work hard and not just sit around waiting for it to happen, God will probably make it come true.
Pray every night. For people you love, for things you are upset about. They don't always have to be formal prayers...just talk. Say what's on your mind, talk like you were talking to a friend.
I believe there is a god because at times when I feel so upset or I want to see someone I love who has passed away, I see them in my dreams. My brother's girlfriend passed away when I was in the first grade. She got into a car accident, and my brother saw the whole thing. The car went out of control and it banged into a telephone pole. She got injuries on her face and head. Well, I never knew that she got injuries on her head, and I always wondered why every time I dreamt about her I never saw her face. It was always blocked. But then I understood that it was probably a message saying that she's okay, but she doesn't want to show me the pain she went through. Most people probably don't think she was contacting me, but I think she was.
So, God responds to people's problems in many different ways. But I believe he exists. I have many reasons because of this too...but I probably can't fit them all into this.
You don't have to be afraid of God.
God would never let you go through more then you can handle.
Hope you understood.
Remember, praying helps very much.
Make your own decision, but personally, I hope I made a little difference in that decision.
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Why do women whine about equality but still expect guys to pay for stuff and open doors and all that crap? (link)
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*scratches chin* hmmm...because we women are strange but unique specimens...
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I hate you guys. You gave me terrible advice and now i am stuck in spanish and failing. THANKS (link)
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Nobody says you have to follow our advice...your choice...
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I have a disease of the nervous system and can no longer write with my dominent hand. Should I give up writing? Im in the 8th grade and this is very frustrating! (link)
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Im sorry...that sounds difficult, but don't give up writing. Practice writing with your other hand and type things up if you can do that instead.
~GL~
Don't give up...try writing with your other hand...it's not impossible to learn to write wonderfully with it.
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my mom and dad are two worried about my baby brother in the hospitaland dont have time for me anymore i feel like they dont care about me i mean im 13 but they never do anything with me anymore and i feel like they dont love me. i mean they are so boring these days and they arent very old so do they care about me or not? help me please (link)
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Your mom and dad being worried about your baby brother is perfectly normal if he's in the hospital. I know how you feel, even though I don't have any younger siblings, but older ones are just as bad sometimes. I always feel like my parents take their side.
I know you can't help but feel jealous and irritated by this, but it's just something your going to have to deal with if your brother's in the hospital.
Try sitting down and talking to your parents about your day at school, or something you saw on the television or something you heard somewhere.
That really could help, and if that doesn't work, just burst out and ask them why they don't pay attention to you (even though Im sure thats not it), but just tell them everything you feel. I do the same thing with my parents when somethings on my mind. Also, I have a baby neice and a baby nephew who get most of the attention to and it gets annoying (I love them to death though).
Just sit down and talk wit your parents because Im sorry, but I don't know you and your parents (and your brothers condition) so that's all the help I have.
~GL~
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p.s. Help them around the house and do all your homework, and that will get them to notice. Also, if you don't want to sit down and talk with them then I's say to just be extra nice and see if they realize you are changing.
Good Luck! :p
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i made my news years resolution to loose weight but the only problem is i cant stop eating like even when i am not hungry i need help and just to let you know iam 14 1/2 and over wieght (link)
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Maybe you just think you're overweight.
But if it's really obvious and you know you are, you should do something about it.
If you really want to lose weight, set goals for yourself. You should excercise. Stick post-it-notes on your wall saying "2 times around my block = 1 snack". That way you motivate yourself to do better. Also...once you start to lose weight, and don't eat as much (but still eat healthy)then you should start doing crunches, jumping jacks, pushups...and keep motivating ytourself with the post-it-notes.
I do pushups about 15 minutes after I eat SOMETIMES. It helps a lot and you feel so refreshed afterwards.
Just don't not eat. You don't want to go there. Don't be intimidated by the fake girls on the magazines. AIRBRUSHING?...nobody's that pretty.
Also, at this age it's normal to put on weight. I'm starting to gain some...doesn't necessarily mean i'm overweight, but it's normal.
Just keep it up. Just like your new years resolution is to lose weight...mine is to come out of my shell and be more outgoing. You feel like you can't help it, and that's the same way I feel. But if it's a New Years Resoultion, that means it's important to you, and that means that you have a better shot at achieving that goal.
~GL~
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Ive liked guy and only guys ever scence kindergarden, but now that im in middle school, im kinda afrid that im not only interested in guys...this is really embressing, but i have been lookin at girls breasts and butoxes. Im hardly doing it anymore, but im still a bit worried that i may be intrested in girls not just as a friend. im tryin to convence myself that its just a phase or im just tryin to compare mine to others. Please tell me if i am bi or if its just a phase, im really worried! Thanx,
Allie (a girl) (link)
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That's perfectly normal. I don't check girls out or anything...but I look because I'm jealous or I just wonder what I would look like that. But I DONT want to see them nude, I just want to know what I would look like with you know...what they have.
I know...it sounds stupid, but trust me...your not alone. A lot of girls do this even if they don't admit it. There's nothing wrong with this especially if you don't think so and it doesn't mean your a lesbian or anything. This is a normal age to be feeling so many feelings and emotions and don't worry...unless you find yourself asking a girl out I don't think your a lesbian.
You have a lot of guts to ask this question.
~GL~
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Should I dust my room when I can see cobwebs all over...well..everything? (link)
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Definitely. And keep at it because if you don't dust a lot of nasty little things could get into your room.
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*SIGH* We found Caspian. Dead. Hit by a car, as a matter of fact. What really gets me is he was about three feet from our house... he had been trying to come home! Any ideas on how to not become even more majorly depressed? (link)
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I'm sorry about Caspian. I know how you feel. I've had two of my cats run away before...and I don't have hope for one of them that ran away four years ago. His name was Tomorrow (Tom for short. He was one of my favorite cats and he was orange with little white spots in certain places on his fur. I'm still and torn up about this. I have his sister Kathy still. She is one of the best cats too. She is the only cat I have now, and I used to have so many because my best friend/cat was Callie had so many litters, and those cats had litters.
Callie died last year because she had lukemia. She understood a lot of things that many cats don't understand. She once stood beside my parents' room and meowed until they came out to see that something on the stove was burning. I miss her and I still cry about her. When she was sick I'd read her the fourth Harry Potter book. ...But I never got to finish it to her.
I loved her and my whole family cried the day that she died. It's totally normal to be very upset about this kind of thing...but I just miss her so much.
But...I pray which makes me feel better, and then I dream about her after I pray before I go to sleep. I also prayed to see my other cat that ran away before, Tahlula...(I know its a girls name...and he's a boy but I didn't know he was a boy when he was born)...and I saw Tahlula again. He comes back every year for winter, and sometimes he stays until fall and half of spring. I see him every once in a while and I feed him and I try to pet him and I have a few times. He remembers me but he's just scared. I pray for almost every night because he's practically out in the wild and I want him to be safe.
So, to answer your question there is no way you can really get out of this. You will grow out of it. You will still miss Caspian and love this cat very much but there's nothing you can do about what happened. Just pray, trust me, it helps if you just talk to got for a few minutes or a few hours even if you would like, and you just say whats on your mind. It helps a lot, and some of my prayers have even come true when I prayed. There really is a God.
Good Luck...and even if you start to feel better about the situation with Caspian, just remember that it's okay to still have fun even though you feel bad, and you will love him no matter what and he'll know that...because animals are smart creatures even if we don't always see that.
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do u thinnk beagles are cute? (link)
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YES!!! hehe...haven't you ever seen Shiloh? What a cute dog...
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Hi!I am a complete dog Freak and i have a chance 2 earn one.one problem i have 2 keep my room clean 4 a whole year.and i am the messiest person ever.HELP! (link)
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Organize all your clothes in your dresser. Put all pajamas, underwear and socks in one; then all pants in another, all shirts in another, and hang your dress clothes up in yor closet. Make your bed and make sure to sweep, mop, and vacuum (depending on if you have a rug or not).
Put your shoes neatly under your bed. If you store things in your attic, put some stuff you know you won't be using in a year up there. (plus, you can always bring them down as long as you put them back up there) If you have extra drawers or night stands, you can put extra papers lying around in there. Also, whatever clothes you don't want give to good will because that way you don't have extra things you don't need lying around.
Get a hamper for your room to throw your dirty clothes in instead of throwing them on the floor. Straighten up a little after school or after work if you have a job or something.
Also, if you have a bookshelf you can put all your books neatly on there, and if you have any extra room on the bookshelf because you can fit all of your books on there, you can use the extra shelves for little knick-knacks you have.
I have the same problem as you. I cannot keep my room clean for anything. Every time people come over they mention how messy my room is. I just moved into my brothers old room which is MUCH bigger then the room I used to be in. It's so much better and I finally got a desk to do all my writing and homework on and I keep all extra papers in there. If you have a desk...organize it and put rulers and pencils in the drawers of it.
Also, if you have a television or stereo, dust those off every once in a while and clean your windows off a few times.
If you have a T.V, then shut it off when you're not using it (That's definitly a plus) hehe
Hope I helped
~GL AND I HOPE YOU GET THE DOG YOU WANT~
Ask me questions whenever you like and let us all know how it turns out!
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does it hurt to have sex if it is your first time?i eman is there a lot of pain involed for the girl? (link)
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You buy one just in case.
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ok i've been studing tons of stuff on phycis and all this other stuff and i think i'm an empath now but i'm not to sure how can i tell if i am? (link)
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Get someone who you can really connect with, and sit down with them and focus. See if you feel all their emotions. It's possible that you may be an empath now...but just focus and see if you feel strange emotions that aren't coming from you.
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OK GTHIS BOY I WENT OTU WITH TELLS ME IM HOT AND THAT IM BEUATIFUL AND COULD HAVE ANY BOY I WANTED BUT HE SAID ALL THIS AFTER WE WENT OUT SO IF HE SAID I COULD GET ANYBOY I WANT HOW COME NO BOYS AVE ASKED ME OUT? (link)
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3 words: scared of rejection
But then again, he could of just been saying that because HE likes you. Although, it could've been true. You should ask him "What did you mean by I can have any boy? It's not like anyone asks me out" hehe...I mean if you want you can say that to him.
But Im sure other boys like you if one boy envies you that much. You shouldn'y worry about this so much...if a guy really likes you that much he'll probably ask you out soon. If not, and you think someone likes you...he's just scared of getting rejected.
~GL~
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