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i have a 5 page term paper due.
its on how greek archetecture, litature and art relfects culture and manhood and womanhood.

my microsoft word just expired and i dotn no wat to do!!!!

besides the fact that im screwed for this term papperrr

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you can try downloading it again. From www.download.com

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I would like to know how this could be done. With a picture uploaded from my digital camera: how can I pick and choose the parts that I want to be color and the other portions to be a black and white effect? If it helps I have the program IrfanView.

You cant really do that with irfanview.i would try corel paint shop pro or Adobe photoshop CS2. You can go to download.com and try them out!

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Which 1?

Im sure they like in the middle. Cant go wrong when they arent too short and not too long =]

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What can I do?

Well, im not sure about the whole girlfriend part. He probably still does even though he has a girlfriend if he hasnt been with her for a long time.

but heres some signs that he may like you =]

How to know when a guy likes you
Here are some things to look for to know when a guy likes you:

1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.

2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.

3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.

4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.

5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.

6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.

7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.

8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.


Here are more explanations from FAQ Farmers:


The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.

One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.

He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.

Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.

You will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt.

I'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and actually make less eye contact

I'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many guys have the same problem.

I'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you.

Here are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.

I think you can tell if a guy likes you if he always looks at you, he always wants to see you smile, he doen't like it when other guys talk to you, he looks at you when you are doing something, he follows you places, he doesn't know how to act when he is with you.

A guy is interested in a girl if he says "yes" to things she asks him to do. Time is very valuable to a guy, and if he is obliging and generous with his time, a girl certainly has his attention. Especially if he's a busy guy, he'll make time for a girl if he likes you.

He will make you feel special. He will be romantic. He will not move too fast. He will consider your feelings and take things slow.

He will show off, sometimes on small things. (For example, my crush at the moment was drinking infront of me, but then stopped when I said it was uncool.)

I knew a guy who would try to embarass his friends when they were around me. He wanted to look funny and seem cooler than his friends.

Sometimes a guy who likes you can behave in a very confusing way and be hard to understand. It might make you wonder whether they like you or hate you.

Shy guys like me will most likely tell their friends. Some will be confused if you flirt with them because they have never had this happen before, so they don't know what to do. Most guys don't do things unless they know exactly what they are doing. Girls just confuse us.

A guy likes you if he: 1. Makes fun of you. 2. Has cute little nicknames for you. 3. Remembers everything you say, in the smallest most insignificant conversations. 4. Finds any excuse to touch you or sit next to you. 5. Talks and looks at you differently than other people. 6. Talks about you with your friends.

A confident guy is easier to read. He'll make eye contact. Shy guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing! Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have soemthing in common.

Confident men who aren't afraid to stare at you and ask you out may just want you for the sex.

Sometimes a guy will pretend to flirt with other girls in your presence, to make you jealous.

I tend to like shy guys, so it may be hard to read them at first. But, once they open up, they give you their confidence completely. I find that they will: 1. Make eye contact with you, then look away when your eyes meet. 2. Always be willing to help you our or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work). 3. Will always look for you in a crowd, then when he finds you will act like he doesn't see you. 4. Will laugh at all your jokes/will try to make you laugh. 5. Talks to his friends about you. 6. Mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together. 7. Will always find a reason to talk to you or touch you in any way. 8. Pokes fun at you, but in a nice way (unless he is very young and immature). 9. Seems genuinely interested in what you have to say. 10. Remembers little things that you've talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up in conversations to let you kjnow that he remembered. 11. He will always stare at you, and your friends may notice it too. 12. When you are talking with him and your friends, he will only comment on something that you say, or will look at you whenever he speaks. I hope that these help, but remember, you can't always rely on physical things. I think that most of all it is a feeling. If he likes you, your instinct tells you. Go with your gut. Don't let your logic tell you any different.

I highly recommend the new book: "He's just not that into you." It is so right on about how to tell if a guy likes you! :) Actually, the first rule of thumb is that a guy will ask you out if he likes you. To get him comfortable enough to do that, all you have to do is smile and seem interested in him as a person (just in case he's the shy type).

A guy who likes you may tend to notice new things about you, and compliment you.

The truth is, most girls can tell if a guy likes them. If you get the feeling that he likes you, you're probably right


Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Make eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.
Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh, even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
See if he always end up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him.


Generally, think about how you act when you like someone, and look for those signs in others.
He might be shy and/or introverted. In these cases, you have to be especially gentle and patient.
Make sure the male in question is heterosexual. Some homosexual men are more comfortable showing affection toward female friends because they aren't worried about the friend thinking they are romantically interested. You could easily get the wrong idea


Hope that helped!
Good luck

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Ok, Superbowl sunday is tomorrow and my boyfriend is going to be at my house. I know for a fact that there will be some making out and such going on. I was just wondering, what are some ways to "spice it up?" Like, he said he wanted me to sit in his lap one day. [Not talking about when we make out, just in general.] I thought that, that might be a fun way to start it out. Like, straddle him then start making out then start playing with his hair possibly? I just need help on how to start these things. I don't wanna make it super obvious and just jump on him. I want to just gradually move into it.

P.s. Parents will be in the house.

Well, sometimes i like to pull their hair a little and dont do it everytime. I touch there face and like doodle on their chest a bit. Another thing i like to do is gently bite his lip..NOT too hard!! just a little. Also, lick his lips too, not like all slobbery but just enough to make him go crazyy.

Hope i helped =]

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is there any way when you have sex on your period you can smell absoultly horrible afterwards?

Well, i dont think thats such a good idea. But i would imagine that you couldnt do anything about the smell.

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Is it true that if a guy is staring at you and you look him in the eyes and his pupils are big or get big then he likes you as more than a friend ?

Well it depends on the lighting. But yes its body language. When his pupils get bigger, it means he is attracted to you. But keep in mind it DOES depend on the lighting. So makee sure its the right lighting.

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13/f

i have chubby cheeks, but im not a chubby person, i wigh 87 pounds and i have a round face.

i know im am still growing and going through puberty and my body is gunna grow faster in some places (my cheeks in this instance) and i know my body will catch up i guess, but heres the thing

i am a VERY ungie person that ALWAYS is going through change thats just me im exotic, im hippie, im punk, i just live my life fullest and i dont care what otherss think

currently my next change is i want to shave my head not TOTALY shaved bald but i want no hair, im worried about how it would look with my roundish face with chubby cheeks =]

any sugestions about how i can mabie losse some fat in my face?

hair style i want: http://www.sxc.hu/pic/m/b/bo/bohemienne/281044_bald_girl.jpg

me (this isnt the best pic. but my cheeks are bigger then they appear): http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/DSCF1106.jpg

thanx in advance --ashley

You are such a pretty girl ! I dont think you should get that hair cut. And theres really no way of just losing weight in your face. People that have round faces, are going to ALWAYS have round faces. Whether they weigh 100 pounds or 300 pounds...their face will always be round. Sorry =[

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that song is about death, right?

haha sorry i have difficult a time reading inbetween the lines.

Im pretty sure that it is about death. Even in the video it has like a darkish death theme going on in it. Plus, the lyrics imply that somebody has died and they miss them.

Good luck

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can anyone tell me the website for myspace code that will hide the stuff under my headline? THANS!

www.myspace.com/crash_codes has A LOT of codes... Maybe they'll have it on there

Goood luck

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where can i buy cute black flatts? (any kind) thats not a lot? link please :]. thanks !

They have a whole bunch at hottopic!

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How do I make my eyes pop? I have brown-red ish eyeliner/black eyeliner. Liquid eyeliner. I have really dark brown eyes and long eyelashes.

Do purple/green really make your eyes stand out?

What colors [eyeshadows] do I need to stay away from?

Any pictures?

Definetly like a white color mixed with light brown and kinda darkish brown. It will definetly make youre eyes pop. Also, with black mascara and a bit of green eyeliner in the corners, and black eyeliner...just a little of black eye liner though


Goood luck!

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yaa this is gonna seem like the weirdest question on earth..but here goes.

i recently got engaged, and umm well..i dont know which hand my engagement ring shud go on. my fiance sez left hand, and so do his friends. my friends and my parents say right hand. and we tried googling it online, and we couldnt find a straight clear answer. its not really that important...but im curious to know which hand?

left hand =]

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there is a really mean girl at my new school and during the summer we were bff, and told secerets but when we went to school she told them all to people and she is now making rumors about me that arent true, i told my teacher and mom but they are both like "she dosent mean that." she has done some really mean things! she wont even tel me why she hates me!!help!!!i tried to talk to her but she is giciving me the silent treatment!!! 12/f

Helllo :)
Well, im sorry to hear that. But, all you can really do is try to ignore this the best you can. Youre only 12, so i am assuming shes the same age. && you both still have a lot to learn about friendships and all that funn stuff. Dont let it get to you so much and try to just forget about it. Sooner or later she'll come around, make her see what shes missing =]

Gooood luck

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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated

Well, im assuming youre a teenager and if you are thats definetly normal for teenagers to get bored. Maybe hang out with friends more? Or join sports and get involved with schoool more? Start working out? Coloring is also fun too. Meeting new people and making friends isnt hard at all. When you have an eye on somebody you would like to be friends with observe them for a little, and get to know what they like and then just start talking to them. Dont be rude, or anything. Just maybe compliment them or something...Small talk is always good. And sooner or later you'll see them more and more[at least it will seem like it] and then you will have a new friend !

Goood luck

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On average what age do your boobs really grow? That sounds weird. I was just wondering if there was a certain age in which they grow a lot for most people. Thanks

Usually about 10 years old.

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does anyone know where i can get a really cute hanging backpack that's a really bright spontaneous color???

Thank ya!

spencers in the mall has some cool ones.

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Ok, a long time ago I vagly remember someone telling me that when you get your period, its not actually real blood. But I only heard that once, everyone else like my health teacher just said blood and stuff. So is it actually blood or something else?

Well, its all the old bloood in your body. && by having a period, it gets rid of the old blood, then you get more and so on.

Goood luck

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13|f|virgin guys i dont have like AIDS or something [ sorry if this is long ]

ok. today i got this really dry | sore throat so i got a drink and it helped with the dryness but not the soreness. and i have naturally large tonselles [sp?] but ive never had strep throat so the doctor wont remove them , but i decided to take a look in my mirror + my tounge was blackish [ewwiee] some bumps toward the back , my tonsells [sp?] are bigger , and the dangly thing is really short. so i was like well , i had chiesee so i brushed my teeth and the blackish stuff came off. but my tounge then turned white. i also had this sore throat thing earler this year and the doctor said it was nothing to worry about. but i had it over the summer too. and he said it was just a sore throat. but im starting to wonder. i told my mom and she gave me some mouth wash [ i ran out of mine ] but it didnt help.. she said she'll look tommorow. but im afraid something serious is happneing here. please help me.

That doesnt sound too good. I would go to Wal mart or a store near you and get a tongue scrapper...Yes, there is a such thing and it works. After you use it, make sure to gargle with water. You can also try gargling with sea salt. If none of these work i would seriously go to the doctors to make sure everythings okay. I would for the meantime stop kisssing youre boyfriend, just to be on the safe side.

Goood luck with everything !

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i need to tell my boyfriend im sorry but i dont know what to say . i need a very sincere apoligy help!

Well, i really cant tell you what exactly to say because that should come from YOU. But, i will give you ideas. Tell him that youre really sorry about what you did, and for him to give you another chance because nobody is perfect. And basically spill your heart out because thats all you can do. && be honest about it, otherwise he'll know it wasnt from the heart

Goood luck!

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