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my bf and have been dating for 18 months so far and we've been so happy together.. but im scared of him cheating in the future even though i know he woudn't its just one of my fears. anyways, i am 17 and he is 19 and i hope to marry him someday. i can totally picture myself with him and happy!
but i'm scared that he's not going to stay with one girl. he mentions he wants to marry me to sometimes but we don't want to jinx it do we don't talk about it too much.
his parents, like us, met in highschool (i'm still in highschool and he's in college now) and they were together for 7 or 8 years until they got married. if his father is monogamous, which he is because he's only ever been with his mom, do you think it would be likely that my boyfriend monogamous too? Because I read somewhere that monogamy runs in families.Could it be in his blood to be monogamous and do you think he's capable of that ?
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Monogamy isn't a genetic trait. Everyone is capable of cheating. It just really depends on that person. If you do love him as much as you say you do, and he loves you same way, all you can do is trust him. Without trust, there cannot be good love. Trust is one of the strongest pillars in a relationship, but it can also be weak. Trust his love and believe he won't see another woman. Without trust, there is no love.
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"Last menstural period startung date was 27th march its now 7th may and no sign of period about 2 and half week ago whiles weeing a darkish brown wee was there as well . Took hpt 5 day ago an negative my stomach very round starting from just after my pubic hair and very light headed every othet day please give me advice? (link)
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Home pregnancy tests are not always accurate. Your best bet would be to go to your local physician's office and ask for a pregnancy blood test. Also, for precautions, I would suggest having your physician check to ensure that you have no infections, as some infections can cause irregularity or even cessation of a period. Do also consider, has your daily routine changed in any way? Are you more active? Have you been under more stress than usual? There are several factors that can put a halt on your menstrual cycle. Consult your doctor for a better and more accurate diagnosis.
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I m 24yrs I am From India i have regular periods bt since last 4 months my flow has reduced i mean the 1st 3 dayz of my periods i get flow tht too just like a thick/minute thread like nly durin urination and on the 5th day onwards my flow gets normal and so on so wotz d prob? kindly help
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I am the same age as you, and recently my monthly has started doing that as well. I went to speak with my physician, and she told me that it happens, especially when any lifestyle changes have been made, or even being put under more stress than normal. Are you on any birth control as well? This can change your period in a worrisome way. But it can also help regulate it so you know when to expect it. But do take into any possible factors such as, have you started exercising/exercising more, have you been put under any stress lately, have you changed your diet? If you are very worried about it, do NOT hesitate to speak with your doctor as he/she can give you a much better idea what may be or may not be wrong.
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I need to get fit quick how do i do it?
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Other than cosmetic surgeries, there's no real way to get fit "quick". In order to obtain and maintain a fit look, you must exercise regularly, as well as eating properly. And continue doing so. Some people though, have been reported to show results in as little as 2 weeks, but that is also with regular and proper exercise. For more information on this, google what you wish to work on and find appropriate exercises. Do remember, you can hurt yourself by over exercising. As well as not get the results you desire in an appropriate time. If your body is sore from exercise, remember to rest your body. Otherwise, they won't tone properly.
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I always tend to have a problem of saying things i don't mean at all. Last night, i got pissed at my boyfriend and said "fuck you" to him, and i automatically called back and apologized for what i had said. But he doesn't seem to want to have anything to do with me and that he can't be with me anymore because he doesn't think i'll change. Can i make this better? (link)
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Every relationship has it's ups and downs. True strength in a relationship is being able to get through even the toughest spots. If he can't realize that, then in my opinion, he isn't worth keeping. But if you really want to make this work, perhaps take a break from each other, and learn to think before you speak. (I'm not saying this in a rude way, I have had that same problem before, speaking before thinking it through, and yes, it has gotten me into a lot of trouble. Especially when I was upset.) It took me some time to be able to stop myself before saying something I may regret later, but in time, I was capable of doing so. When you get angry, don't talk, just stop, breath, and process your thoughts rationally. Even if you two don't get back together, remember, there are always other men out there that will see you for you, and see the better you, and not just all the bad. But of course, if he cares enough, he'll love you with all your faults as well as perfections.
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I'm beginning to get really frustrated. I've never used laxatives before, so I can't imagine my body has built a tolerance to them. I took 3 doses within a 24 hour period, but I'm only feeling gassy. I feel like I could "go", but I would really have to strain myself. Would it be pointless to eat more food...shouldn't I wait until I clear myself out from the food already accumulated in my bowel? Btw, I am 21/F. (link)
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Laxatives vary in times, some may help within 30 minutes, while others may take up to a day. First things first, are you sure you were constipated, and not just gassy? If you were only suffering from gas, you should of looked for medicines that specialize in that such as beano, and there are others, I just can't remember the names of the anti-flatulence medications. As for eating after taking a laxative, it is usually best to wait at least 2 hours after taking the laxative (what my doctor told me when I had to take). But really, I suppose times may vary. If you typically have problems with going to the restroom, try adding more fiber to your diet.
Here is a site with foods with a good amount of fiber.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/high-fiber-foods/NU00582
Hope this was helpful.
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I've recently been diagnosed with Lyme Disease. I've been taking the antibiotics for almost two weeks now. I can't help but feel really depressed. I try so hard to be happy, but it's such a struggle. Today I had more energy than usual, which made me happy, but at the end of the day I was exhausted and depressed again.
Any tips on how to deal with depression with Lyme Disease?
Does anyone know when I'll finally feel like myself again?
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There are many sites that may be able to help you better understand the effects of Lyme disease. From what I read, depression is apparently a symptom due to the illness. The best thing you can do, is go to your doctor and explain to him/her about this. I would suggest doing this as soon as you can.
Depression is never fun to cope with. It can get in the way of your daily activities, and possibly your relationships. There is no reason to be embarrassed about getting help, especially with depression. Just remember, life may be hard, but it's not worth giving up on.
But here are some sites with information about your current situation, I really do hope it helps you, and that you get the help you need as soon as you can.
1- http://www.examiner.com/lyme-disease-in-newark/depression-the-most-hazardous-of-all-lyme-disease-symptoms
2- http://www.lyme-disease-research-database.com/lyme_disease_blog_files/lymesymptoms-depression.html
3- http://www.truthaboutlymedisease.com/
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So my boyfriend had sex, with a condom, and during it I look down (doggie style at this point) and saw some drops of clear liquid come out. Now, the condom was not broken, but could it have been his cum?? Or mine??
I never came before , I always lasted very long barely reaching an orgasm. This time however I felt the climax come on very heavily.
Also this was the second condom he used. As in he finished and then put on a new condom on. At first he had almost put it on backwards but he wiped the condom and the tip from any leftover cum.
Please help.
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Chances are it was your own fluids. Typically, a males semen is a milky white color. Though, some women have had the same color, but sometimes this could be a result of an infection, or under cleaning. But for the most part, women have a clear substance. If you truly are worried about getting pregnant, consider having yourself put on birth control. Planned parenthood offers this, even without a guardian present. And wal-mart has the options of cheap prescriptions generic that is. Also, there are over the counter contraceptives other than condoms, such as spermicide.
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ok i don't know if my best friends are my REAL friends because they were laughing at me and i felted hurt and they were pointing fingers at me too! They ignore me, they ditch me with no one to talk to or play with like soccer or something... so i ended up talking to no one at the science fair either.... (link)
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It's often that friends act this way with each other, but not on a regular basis. If they ignore and leave you behind often, without explanation or even a second thought, then it is possible they are not really your friends. But don't take my advice as 100%, something could be going on with them and if it really does bother you, the best thing you can do is talk to them. If they are real friends, they'll listen and understand.
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right, so on my birthday this friday im having a sleepover there are going to be three of my friends coming and near night time were going to watch my favourite episode of doctor who thats scary and my dad is gonna be outside wearing the mask from the episode tapping on the glass! Then I'm going to say run near the front door! And i'll 'accidentally' lock it as we go in! And then my brothers going to go near the front door and start tapping there aswell so were trapped! Is there anything else i can do to scare all my friends (but no horror movies)
and were already telling ghost stories do you know any good ones we can use ? Thanks please reply A.S.A.P as my b-day is very soon! x (link)
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People don't get scared like they use to. But there are many MANY ghost stories that can be told. Some low key just enough to give you a chill, and some that can make it difficult to fall asleep comfortably. Here are some sites that have some decent ones.
http://ghost.new-age-spirituality.com/
http://www.ghostsandstories.com/short-ghost-stories-the-classics.html
http://www.americanfolklore.net/spooky-stories.html
Hope this was helpful. Happy birthday, have fun, and good luck ^_^
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Ok so me and my hubby had unprotected sex on 3/31 he pulled out.. it was during my ovulation.. 5 days past ovulation I'm experiencing mild cramps on left side, faint white discharge, extremely bloated, constipated , yawning more than usual.and no other real symptoms.. AF is due 4/15 .. what's the chance I'm pregnant.. he pulled out for sure.. (link)
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Pre-cum can still carry sperm. The chances of you being pregnant are really only 50/50 though. But since it was during your ovulation, the chances may have increased. The only thing you can do is wait and see if you get your period, though women can still have at least 1 period during pregnancy. I would suggest taking a pregnancy test a day after your period is suppose to start. Though, the symptoms you are currently having may also be symptoms of your period starting. But it's never a bad idea to always be sure. If you are looking for cheap PT's, the dollar store carries 1 dollar ones, and are quite accurate, you may want to buy more than 1 though, just in case you get one that is defective. As my doctor told me when I found out about my past pregnancy, you never get a false positive. So if it should turn out positive, schedule an appointment and get HGC level testing with your physician.
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i would like to know what is the most appropriate time for a girl to have sex so that she dont get pregnant? (link)
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First of all, you must understand that semen can live inside of your body for up to 5 days. As well as when you are ovulating, where your egg is in your uterus for up to 5 days as well. My best advice, is if you dislike using condoms, there are other alternatives, such as birth control. There's the pill, the depo shot, plus many others. But if this is not an option for you, I would suggest using ovulation calculators, and getting a general idea of the days you are ovulating. And avoid having intercourse 6 days before ovulation, and so forth. Go to google and search for ovulation calculator. It will ask for several periods, be sure to mark exactly the day it started. So it can give you a more accurate reading. I'm not saying it's 100%, but you will at least have a general idea.
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Ok so dont even waste your time reading this if your going to comment and say its unhealthy or dangerous or lecture me, i dont want to hear it. Anyways Ive been prescribed adderall since the end of my junior year and now im 19 and i still take it just not everyday because i only work some days and dont feel the need to take it. However I took it my whole senior year and at the end of the year I was the smallest Ive ever been, due to adderal. Now Ive gained that weight back plus more and Im the biggest Ive been. Its depressing and with summer right around the corner I need to get back in shape. Ive been putting it off for so long and now I need to get down to business and I plan to take my adderal everyday to help control my appetite but this time I dont have all year to loose the weight, I need to loose it asap. Any suggestions on when to take it, what to eat, what exerises to do etc? Does it work well combined with any other diet pills? Thank you. And its 20 mg. (link)
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If you are prescribed adderall, there is no reason for anyone to tell you not to take it and blah blah. But if you wish to mix it with other medications, it is best to consult in a pharmacist, or your doctor to ensure it will be safe to take together with other supplements. As for losing weight, the best thing to do is Cardiovascular exercises, such as running, jogging, bike riding, swimming. But this will only burn off your body fat, if you want to have that lean look, you must also tone your body as well. Depending on what parts you wish to work on, there are many different exercises, and some, focusing on specific areas. For the breast/pectoral muscles, weights work great. With your age as well, it won't take too long for you to get the results you are hoping for, but you must also remember to continue with your work-outs. Even if you achieve your desired looks. But remember not to over do it, you can damage your body as well. If you want to work on specific areas, google can give you exercises for that. Google knows everything ;p As for diets, Diets in my opinion never work. I've tried many, my advice for what to eat; Just eat healthy. Old saying my grandfather would tell me, "Eat until you are 80% full, and eat the other 20% with your eyes." This can help keep your weight in proper balance. Do not cut out meats, as they have many of the nutrients to give you energy and help you tone your body properly and quickly. Do remember though, give your stomach time to settle before exercising, don't want to get a cramp.
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Hi Rena-Chan!!Well,I'm the person who had been suffering from sleep deprivation,well the link you sent me once in answer to my question was really helpful.So I have no more dozes luckily,I'm sleeping very well lately,thank you very much!!!;) (link)
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No problem. Glad I could be of assistance :)
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sooo... it's been five days since the condom teared and the guy came inside me...
i've done research and i don't know what to do. i had my period not to long before we had sex, is there a chance this means i won't pregnant? even though he came REALLY DEEP inside me? what is the waiting period for taking a test? i bought the test already because i'm dying to know. and even though it's been five days can i still take some type of morning after pill? if so, what pill? (link)
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Sperm lives for 5 days in the uterus. If you ovulated any time during that, chances are that you may be pregnant. It is typically best to wait at least 2 weeks after the possible conception date to take a pregnancy test, though if you were to go to the hospital they can check for the hormone much sooner. As for the Morning after pill, I'm sorry but it is too late for you to take it. It's only meant to work within 72 hours after the fact. The best thing to do is keep track of your periods and learn about your ovulation dates, this way you can avoid having sex on those days. Should it prove that you are not pregnant that is. As for being pregnant, I don't know your ovulation cycle, so it is difficult to say. There are plenty of sites though that can give you a good estimate on ovulation dates. All you can really do now is wait. Hope this helps
Ovulation Calculator -
http://www.webmd.com/baby/healthtool-ovulation-calculator
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Hi, in the last few weeks my breasts have been growing, every week my boyfriend says that they are getting bigger. I now notice that i have blue veins showing and there pretty big. But what really caught my eye was these two little stretch marks on my breasts this is the first time i have ever had stretch marks on my breasts because i have small breasts. I've always been an A cup since high school maybe by the end of high school i could fit some B's but barely. I don't buy bra's anymore, i just use my old ones so i don't know what size i am now. but even I can tell there growing. My main concern is if i'm pregnant because I smoke and i don't want to be smoking if i'm pregnant. i know everyones gonna tell me to take a test, and i will if more signs show. but i wanna know if these symptoms make it possible or positive that i'm pregnant. the other signs are little signs like i eat a lot more, when i don't eat anything or snack for maybe 1 - 3 hours i start to get hungry / munchies, i'm much more tired, and i sleep longer than i used too. but that's it. thanks for reading. let me know what you think. bye. (link)
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Knowing your age may make it much easier. If you are still in your teens, high chances are you are just going through a growth spurt.
Though if you are older, those do sound as though it could be pregnancy symptoms. Though every woman is different during pregnancies. But through my experience, here is a list of symptoms I went through with both.
1 - Morning sickness (not only in morning, can last ALL day)
2 - Breast/Nipple tenderness. Hurts to touch.
3 - Increased appetite.
4 - More tired than usual. Fatigued.
5 - Possible mood swings due to hormonal changes.
6 - Breasts enlarging, without surgery, medications, or topical creams.
If you don't want to spend too much on a test, the dollar store has them for 1 dollar a piece, and are quite accurate. Told me right off the bat for my second pregnancy. Though sometimes you may get a defective one, so purchasing multiple tests would be best.
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I'm fingering my self and I was wondering Can I have an orgasim if I'm a virgin. When I say virgin I mean I(nor some body else) has not "pop my cherry". Going to the than skin. So can I have an orgasim? (link)
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Of course you can. But remember, you can break your own hymen. If you are to rough (vaginally, IE: Penetration) you can tear your hymen. But clitoral stimulation is safe, and poses no danger to your hymen in any way.
Here is a diagram to help you if you are unsure where the clitoris is located.
http://www.patient.co.uk/images/I44_L.JPG
As for how long it may take, it truly does vary from woman to woman. Some women may have an orgasm only after a few seconds, and some take much much longer. If you wish to know more information about the female orgasm, your best bet is to google information on this and read up on it, or experiment for yourself.
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http://media.thesimplygroup.com/stockimages/Seafolly_Beachside_Bliss_Playsuit_-_Black/98372/1/2.jpg
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The answer is in the link. That outfit is called "Beach side Bliss Play suit" or in short, Play suits. If you were to type Play Suits into google, or that specific outfit "Seafolly beachside bliss playsuit" I'm sure that you will be able to find it, and compare prices from several different sites.
Edit : And by the answer is in the link, I mean the link that you posted. :) Hope this helped!
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My dad HATES his side of the family for an unknown reason. I can never go to their house(s) because he forbids me to see SOME of them!
I made plans for Friday to do with my cousin(I already met her) and when I told him, he was like "Uh no your not" and my mom said it was ok!!!
I talked to him about it and he said "Until your 18 you live under MY rules" and stupid crap like that. I'm not waiting like 7 years to see them!!!
What do I do? I can't talk to him because he walks away from me and shuts his door!!!! (link)
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If you yourself are unable to speak with your father, perhaps talk to your mother and ask her why he doesn't allow you to see some of your relatives. If this doesn't work, then have her speak with your father. Perhaps there is a good reason as to why he does not wish you to be around these relatives. When I was younger, I went through the same thing, only to find out that the reason my father forbade me to be around certain relatives was truly a good reason. I just didn't learn them until much later in life. And honestly, I'm happy that my father did so, because who know what type of things may have happened to me should I not have listened to him. But as I said previously, ask your mother, and have her speak with your father this way you may better understand why. Or perhaps ask your father what possible dangers may occur should you visit these family members. Just remember, do not get upset and remain calm, chances are if you get upset in anyway with your father, you may never get an answer yourself.
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do birth control pill in you shampoo make your hair grow long and strong (link)
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No — birth control pills used topically will not thicken hair. There may be a misconception that since hair loss is related to the male hormone DHT that a female hormone agent such as birth control pills may work. This is NOT true.
If you would like your hair to grow long and strong, the best thing to do is find a shampoo that actually works for you, there are plenty out there, and properly take care of your hair. Get it trimmed regularly (once every 4-6 months). There are also hair products (other than shampoos and conditioners) that help promote strong healthy hair. Perhaps you should look into that.
If anything, doing such things like putting bcp in your shampoo, may actually end up having you lose your hair rather than grow it. And I'm sure that this is something you do not want.
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