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Said something i don't mean =(
I always tend to have a problem of saying things i don't mean at all. Last night, i got pissed at my boyfriend and said "fuck you" to him, and i automatically called back and apologized for what i had said. But he doesn't seem to want to have anything to do with me and that he can't be with me anymore because he doesn't think i'll change. Can i make this better?
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Every relationship has it's ups and downs. True strength in a relationship is being able to get through even the toughest spots. If he can't realize that, then in my opinion, he isn't worth keeping. But if you really want to make this work, perhaps take a break from each other, and learn to think before you speak. (I'm not saying this in a rude way, I have had that same problem before, speaking before thinking it through, and yes, it has gotten me into a lot of trouble. Especially when I was upset.) It took me some time to be able to stop myself before saying something I may regret later, but in time, I was capable of doing so. When you get angry, don't talk, just stop, breath, and process your thoughts rationally. Even if you two don't get back together, remember, there are always other men out there that will see you for you, and see the better you, and not just all the bad. But of course, if he cares enough, he'll love you with all your faults as well as perfections.
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