so theres this boy.
and i really like him.
Like REALLY like him.
everytime i think about him
i get butterflies in my
stomach.
Hes 2 years older than me though.
and i know i have no chance
with him. and it really hurts.
His sister is in my grade too. so
it feels really akward.
Last night, we spent 2 and a half
hours on the phone with eachother.
I really like him, but i dont
think i have a chance. How do I get
over him?
Thanks.. And I think your advice is
amazing by the way.
=)
13/f
Hmm, I think I know where your coming from.
Dont be down on yourself, you have to think positive and dont give up just yet.
What you might wanna do is talk to his sister,
but dont act desperate.You might wanna tell her how you feel depending on your choice.But if you wanna get over him , you have to give it time.
Dont just think your gonna wake up and not like him , one time i liked a kid for 3 years and realized he was a jerk, so you never know.
And also , realize that when your older you might have a chance too. But if you still want to get over him , then look at another guy ,or maybe make him jealous, guys like girl who are hard to get.
Hope I was a help!
--Kendra and Carly.
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okay-
i think i pulled a muscle in my leg im a cheerleader && i need to know if there is anything to do to make it not hurt so bad cause i have practices so much && i cant do my jumps wiht my leg && i need to so is there anything i can do to make it not so sore??
It seems as though you might have pulled a muscle, as you said.
The best thing you could do , is loosen it.
You can do this by putting it in hot water or steam.
If it hurts you constantly then you might wanna see a doctor.
Any more questions?
--Kendra
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Okay so i used to be known as the supersweet kinda shy girl but then last year i broke outta my shell and i guess some people didnt like it cause no guys used to like me and this year i had a ton of guys like me so some girls got jelous of me and thnn i became best friends with an ex best friends with the popular girls and they hated her so they all started hating me since i was friends with her and then my friend would go on my myspace and act like me and post really rude comments and then they all found out it was her but still hate me and they all are supppr rich cause i go to a private school so they dont like me cause i wear the same shoes as them or whatever and i like being different and schools about to start and i wanna be friends with everyone and i dont want any drama to happen but i just get so scared to like talk to them now so i just end up not talkin to them and i dont know the right things to say and im just nervosssss! so can you please help me. and also i've apolized for everything millions of times and they all still talk about me and crap like that and ima pretty low esteam kinda girl so it just makes me really sad when i hear what they say so can you please help me i just want to go back to my old rep. not this stupid one. that so isnt true! thanks a ton!
and i think the thing that you said to the cheerleader girl that wanted to be popular was so true and so FUNNY! ily girls!
Well, I know what you mean.
The worst thing you can do is worry about it , Worrying will just cause it to be worse.
And another thing , those arent your true friends
if they care about the shoes you wear, thats not what friends are all about!
and So dont keep trying to say sorry to them , they just want you to suck up , so stay away from them for a while and they will come around sooner or later.
Good luck!
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heyy. theres this guy that i broke up with a couple weeks ago and we went out for about a month and a half. but i broke up with him. and about a week later he told me that he still liked me but i did'nt like him at the time. and now i relized i have strong feelings for him and i dont know what to do. i think of him all the time and i've tried to get over it but i cant. i dont know how to deal with this problem so i've come to you. can you help?
Hmm, well Tell him!
Thats the best way to deal with this situation.
He might have feelings for you too stiil, so if you tell him , then he might confess his feelings too and if you hide it , then he will never know. So somehow ask him and see how he feels about you and if he feels the same way about you , then YAY! But , if he doesnt. Give it time, he might take time to realize he has feelings still, just like you didnt realize you had feelings for him until a while after. So try that!
good luck!
--Kendra
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i tryed popping a pimple in between my eyebrows last night and i succeeded but...... i must of squeezed for too hard and too long and now there is this light red blotch (kind of big) and i have had these before and they turn into big scabs , is there anything i can put onn it to make it not turn into a scab?
Ah! I hate that!
Well, The best thing you could do is reduce the swelling, by putting ice on it. It will make it less red and about the scabbing, if it scabs up dont pick at the scab but if you put plenty of moisterizers than it might be okay and wont dry up to a dry scab. If it does, then use a light cover up , but dont use alot and dont use it all the time it clogs pores and makes even more breakouts!
good luck!
--Kendra
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By any chance is there any kind of shampoo or something you can use to make your hair lighter. Because i want my hair to get blonder without dieing it.
Hmm , ive been trying to do the same thing !
Well, Im not so sure if they have any shampoo that makes your hair lighter, but they do have a treatment that makes your hair a little lighter and brings out more natural highlights.Its kinda like a reconstroncter treatment , its about 4.00 at a professional hair products store.Another way is to go out in the sun alot,that will make your highlights come out more and your hair will get lighter!
Good luck!
--Kendra
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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever.
so im a cheerleader and all the cheerleaders are popular. but the thing is none of the popular people like me. i used to hang out with them and be wicked popular but not anymore. i love my friends to death but it seams like all the popular people get the guys . im not trying to sound stuck up or anything like that.
if this helps-- im wicked preppy i shop at abercrombie . im a ton of fun and everyone says im very pretty.
UM YOU SOUND LIKE THE BIGGEST IDIOT ISNT THAT SUPER WICKEDD??
lisen babycakes,i'm a cheerleader and i wear abercrombie and people also say that i'm pretty
just because your all of these thing doenst make you super popular.
kk? maybe you should wake up and smell the bacon
no wonder they dont like you
you sound like a bitch
and now you sound stupid because you dont even
have a question.
omg your wicked awesome friend.
ALEX.!
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i really like this guy. we've never met, but hes two years older than me. I'm 13. so. i really really like him, and we've been exchanging messages over myspace. like 70 messages- yeah. so do you think he like me if we've been messaging eachother that much?! thankss
Hmm , well messages arent nessacarily the best way to meet someone, but I shouldnt talk since Ive done the same myself. But if you guys seem to like eachother keep it at that rate but if he gets pushy about meeting you in person, you might wanna back off , he might not be the best person.
Good luck!
--KEndra
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Okay.. so me nad my mom dont have the greatest relationship. actually our relationship sucks. we never talk or nething and i hate her. she always yells and stuff and is really annoying. we went on this crusie in december of 2005 and i got my period but i never told her, and i still havent told her to this day. i was thinking about telling her this month or next month. but i dont know what to say or even what to do. please help
Hmm , let her find out on her own.
Maybe give her the hint,if you have a pad or something leave the wrapper in a visible place and let her find it herself , and then it will be her job if she wants to confront you about it.
If you dont wanna do that, then ask her you need something personal from the store, she will hopefully get the hint.
good luck!
--Kendra
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I have about 1 month until school starts. I want to loose some weight, about 7 pounds. Is this possible? If so, how do I get motivated? I don't eat much, but I can't get myself to exercise. I mean, I get exercise when I do stuff with friends, but otherwise, I can't get motivated to do it myself. Don't tell me to ecercise with my friends. What are some tips on loosing weight? What exercises should I do? I basically want to tone up my stomach, that's the main goal. Please don't tell me anything super strict. Thanks.
I wanna loose 7 pounds before school starts to!
What Im doing is cutting down on calories, im eating more chicken [high in protein ,low fat,no carbs] veggies, and fruit and light peanut butter and whole grains. Those are great!
And for exercise , since you have a goal think about what you will look like after you loose the weight, that should get you motivated quickly enough. Or put a picture of someone you wish you looked like on the fridge or in your room in a visible place, even though thats corny it still works. You should go on long walks, those burn calories and dont make you too tired and some weight lifting for legs and arms will help tone your body and make you stonger .
Good luck!
--Kendra
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My sister, 40/f, was scratched by her kitten a couple weeks ago and was feeling ill so she went to the hospital. They informed her she has Cat Scratch Fever...Yes, it's a real disease!
I have researched this for her, but I cannot seem to find out how long her symptoms are supposed to last.
Has anyone out there experienced Cat Scratch Fever, and if so would you please share it with me? Any help is appreciated!
Well , I have been injured and it was an opened wound.
So to stay clear from infection, i was taking Cepalexin, which is a pill.
That might be good to take to prevent bacteria and infections from growing .
Good luck!
--KEndra.
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hello..
random question but i was wondering if anyone knows of any exercises for thighs?
thanks!
Ahh yes.
Simply lay on the floor on your side and life your leg up and down , for a few counts and keep going. It will deffinetly build muscle in your thighs.
Another one is to run or mild jog, that will build up all the muscles in yourr legs.
Squats are pretty good too!
Good luck!
---Kendra.
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you see i have been insulted and ridculed since grade five so much that i find it relly relly hard to talk to new people can anyone help me.
I have had the same problem before too!
What I do , is completely ignore it.
Show them a different side of you and act completly different around the people who insult you.
Or show them you are better than them at something.
Hope I was a help!
----Kendra.
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okay so my friend is trying too hook me up with someone online but i really dont wanan get raped!
HELP!
ahh i think you should give this hunkyy a chance
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everyone tells me that im really skinny, but i really dont think so. i dont think i have anerexia or anything its just i dont think im skinny. its weird!!! i always look at calories on packages too!! is this stupid and do i have a bad self image? HELP!
Well , its all about what you think!
If you think your the right size , then stay the way you wanna stay.
Dont worry about what other people think , they are probably just jealous.
But if you do decide some weight needs to be gained , dont eat junk food to gain weight.
You can build muscle by eating lots of protein.
If you have any further questions , get back to us!
---Kendra
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WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!!
Hmm , Well Think of it this way.
If you were her, would you want someone to tell you?
Most likely yes. If she needs to loose some weight, you should confront her, but in a nice way. Friends should always be honest with eachother ,and you dont want her to be embarassed.
Good luck!
--KEndra
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does the scar stay on forever.because I poped a white pimple on my face and this white stuff came out and the pimple turned redder and the scar started going away little by little then it just stayed there...
Well, The likes of it going away are good.
One thing you should do is deffinetly put ice on it , to reduce the swelling.Another thing you should do is use facial masks to replenish your face. If a scar stays there, there is something called mederma and it is used to help reduce scars. Or Im pretty sure vitamin E will help too.
Good luck!
--Kendra
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it still says, we have an answer, well send it to you shortly....
Ahh sorry, i'll get to it right now!
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Okay. so i have liked this one boy since the sixth grade and have had strong feelings for him everrrr since. unfortunately, he only sees me as a friend and nothing more. hes blinded by the light of one of my good friends, and is in LOVE with her. what do i do? should i just move on or keep waiting until he gets over her?!?!?!
Well, Time is the key.
He probably wont like her forever, and if he sees you as a friend maybe you need to spice it up a bit.
Change your style and change the way you look , and flirt a little with him to give him the hint.
If that doesnt work and he still likes her, then keep waiting , its not gonna last forever :]
Good luck!
--Kendra
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im the girl with the question about the myspace thing. where i messaged him, and told him he was hot, and he has a girlfriend. remeber? yeah when will you give me the answer???
i already did check out the page.
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