ask xojessii



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



I'm mature for my age.
i love helping people out.
when i grow up i want to go into the medical field, preferably a dietitian/nutritionist or veterinary medicine. so bring on the diet/food questions! i try to get on here as much as i can. & i H@Te Wh3N Pe0pLe TyP3 LyK3 d1s. or don't use proper grammar and spell simple stuff wrong. but i don't always either, so I'll forgive you & still answer your Q =]
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: August 9, 2006
Answers: 713
Last Update: July 29, 2009
Visitors: 34736

Main Categories:
Pets
Nutrition
Health
View All

yah i dont know what category, but its kinda computer/ipod.
ok my ipod video has the sad face ipod on it and then it says go to www.apple.com/support/ipod. so i went to that and it told me to restore it, and i know how but my problem is it wont come up on my itunes when i plug it in, and i have to do that to restore it. also it has the "please wait, very low battery" and it never charges even if i have it plugged in for a couple hours!

please help i need my music :( (link)
if its an older version of the ipod i say you trade it in. when you do that you get 10% off your next ipod.
if its new i say you go to the nearest apple store and complain!
ipods are having a bunch of problems. all of my friends with ipods that they have had start to crash and burn after about a year and a half after they have had it.
i'v had mine for almost two years now and thankfully haven't had any MAJOR problems with it.

good luck & hope i helped
Jess


ok i have this huge bruise on my thigh and its huge, really, its like about 4 inches by 3 inches and its really ugly. well heres my problem. i cant wear shorts or anything until its gone! so is there any way i can get rid of it quicker? ill try anything, please help! (link)
try not to poke it/touch it/ or hit it against anything on accident.

thats about the only thing you can do.

and may i ask why can't you wear shorts until its gone?


what is it?

my stomach has a little 'baggage'
so i want to make it flat
how do i achieve that? (link)
exercise.

sit ups. and other ab exercises.

FitTV, turn to that channel on your tv.


has anyone read it? i read it for ap english lit and i got lost about half way through.. can anyone sum it up for me or give me a link for a good, in detailed summary? (link)
www.sparknotes.com

that website right there is my savior!
wonderful.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Are wheat thins that good for you? Are they really any better than other junk food? thanks !! (link)
they are better for you than other junk food. they are baked instead of fried. and i think its made out of whole wheat. low in fat and calories compared to chips.


i naturally have really oily hair that needs to be washed alot, which is a really big hassle especially now that i'm in school. so i was just wondering if there was any way to keep it from getting oily after a day so i don't have to wash it everyday. i heard baby powder works but i'm not sure. please & thanks :] (link)
babypowder does work.
but i just got this spray stuff from Avon that you spray in your (dry) hair when its greasy and then you blowdry it, and it absorbs all those oils.
it works great!
if you don't get an Avon catalogue, you could start or you could search the internet for a product like that and find it at a store.
hope i helped =]
Jess


17/f
I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and half when he cheated on me. He didn't just kiss another girl or hang out with her but he had sex with her at a party after we had had a fight. He didn't even tell me and i had to find out from the girl herself. She didn't even know i was hius girlfriend and she asked me to give him his ring back.( the ring was a promise ring we gave to eachother awhile ago) up until this happened i thought i could spend the rest of my life with him. I haven't talked to him since but he is always with my brothers. I just don't know if he went so far that i should throw away everything we had. Where is the line of going to far to be forgiven? Do i just give up and say let's be friends? (link)
hm.


try talking to him and get his side of the story.
tell him that you really don't know what to do and if you should trust him.
get his reactions and thoughts.
talking things out in person helps alot.
i wouldn't rush into throwing everything away all of a sudden.


OR you could do it carrie underwood style and trash his car to death. just kidding ;)

good luck. if you need more help message me =]
Jess


i've had a little crush on this boy for a while. we've never really talked. but very recently we did. and we had like a full out conversation and i realized i really really like him. he was kind of flirting with me. and now im like on a mission for him to be my next boyfriend. he's really the first guy i can see myself with since my ex. i like never see him though and dont really have an excuse to. idk if he even really likes me. so heres my two questions...1 how do i know if he likes me? and 2 how id i get him to hang out with me if i dont really have an excuse to even talk to him? (link)
just flirt.
and theres no specific way to tell if a guy likes you because every guys is different.


http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm


16/f
Okay there is this boy, of course. He has been my friend for a while now but lately he is really flirty with me and stuff and everyone sees it so i think he might have feelings for me. I'm kinda staring to ger feelings forhim to, but then today i find out that my friend likes him. She doesnt know i know and she doesnt know that i might have feelings for him. I really wanna take it further but i dont wanna hurt my friends feelings since now i know that she has liked him for a while. what should i do? (link)
talk to your friend.
get all into your girly talk about guys and be like i think i like "whatshisface" but i heard you liked him? is that true? and then work it out with her and stuff. =]
if she is your friend she will understand.

hope i helped =]
jess


So i am 15 and i am going to my friend birthday party in 2 days. At the party there is not going to be alcohol or smoking or anything. But afterwards I am spending the night at her house with a whole bunch of people and there is gonna be drinking and smoking and i already know i don't want to smoke but I am iffy on the drinking. My friend told me I didn't have to but I would feel kind of left out so I kinda want to. Do you think its a bad idea? or should I enjoy my youth? (link)
enjoy your youth.
don't smoke because its addicting and will mess you up in your head and stuff. trust me. i know people who do.
but i wouldnt worry about drinking.
just remember!!!: Beer before liquor couldn't be sicker! liquor before beer, never fear.
and the reallly sugary drinks are the ones that will like make you throw up alot. ie, daquiries. even though they taste good.

have fun & don't get into too much trouble. =]


what are some cute quotes from the show The Hills? (link)
love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone - Lauren

every girl deserves to be treated like a princess - Heidi

thats all i found.

hope i helped =]
Jess



Well I have this friend on Gaia and his birthday is in a few days.. I saved up all day and spent a lot of money on his gift. And I gave it to him early, and he didn't even thank me.

This isn't the only time, once I paid real money to buy him a sticker on IMVU which is something I NEVER do. But I spent like the entire day earning 10,000 gold on GaiaOnline for his gift (I'm sort of poor o n there) So I worked Very hard. And he never thanked me! All he said was its SO COOL and asked how much I spent on it.. but thats it. I feel unnappreciated. What do I do about it? (link)
hes a guy. men are kinda bad at that stuff. well most of them are.

so him saying its SO COOL! is his way of saying thank you. =]


hope i helped
Jess


what are some other flirty things you can say with guys like joke ones...such as:
-lets get married
-im not talking to you
-i dont know if i wanna hang with you again

also what are some other ways to flirt? (link)
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm



its alllllll in there =]

hope i helped
Jess


My best friend Carrie introduced me to this guy named Ben and we started texting and eventually he asked me out. I couldn't be happier with him! But I haven't exactly met him in person yet and I'm kinda nervous about it. Of course I want to meet the guy that I like so much but I'm scared that he won't like me or won't think I'm skinny enough. If Ben and me do break up because he doesn't like me, should I stay friends with him or not? I wouldn't want to lose his friendship but then again, I don't know if I would want to be friends with someone who dumped me because I wasn't skinny enough. Please help me! Much appreciation!

(link)
if he dumps you for not being skinny enough then hes a jerk. and you don't want to be friends with a jerk.

hope i helped =]
Jess


wat song goes
"as we move on, we remember"
like it was sung at a gradutation and it was so sad (link)
you can search the lyrics here
www.letssingit.com

or tap the beat here
www.songtapper.com i absolutely LOVE that site.
its the best.

hope i helped =]
Jess


ok. my sister& her boyfriend have been datin for a year& a half. shes sixteen. always been a goodgirl.
i just found out last night that hey had done it 2 times. she says i cant tell anyone!
when she told me i started crying.me& her are really close andshe wont tell mom.
i told her to never do it again but i think she will. i'm 13 so she says that its not so terrible when you're older.
im really upset about her doing that though.
what do i do? (link)
don't freak out about it, its okay.
its your sisters choice.
everythings going to be alright

Jess


Im cutting my hair soon for school, and i wanted to do something funky with my layers. I have searched on the web for nice layers, but i couldnt seem to find any good pictures that i can show my stylist. Does anybody have any pictures that can help? Thank you!

(14/f) (link)
i don't have any pictures.
but whenever i want a new style i go to the grocery/drug store and go in the magazine section. there are always hair style magazines with just different cuts, layers, and styles.
so buying one of those is your best bet =]

hope i helped =]
Jess


Okay, I've recently lost quite a bit of weight (started at 135lbs and I'm now 105lbs) and my breast size went down by two cupsizes (I was a C, now I'm an A).

Big breasted women aren't exactly common in my family, I'd say my mom was about a B but I wanted to know what the chances of me growing up top (if I'm 15 and still developing) are? without me gaining all my weight back?

(link)
your boobs don't completely stop growing until you are about 18-20. so they could get a little bit bigger.

congrats on your weight loss! =]
Jess


What is the difference beetween gel nails and acrylic nails? Which one is better *lasts longer, looks prettier, which one is worth my $*
Thanks! (link)
both of them make your nails EXTREMELY weak when you get them taken off.
but gels don't mess your nails up as bad as acrylics.
but if you are going to get solid colors, get acrylic. but if you are always planning on a french manicure definatley get gels.

hope i helped =]
Jess


so i got fingered by this guy at the beach. it wont hurt me in any way will it? like, what actually happened? (link)
no your fine, unless he has like herpes on his finger or something but i doubt it.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker