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does anyone take latin here? I took it for one year so far. What are some good ways to help you be good at it.

get pratice books and just keep reviewing the basics!!!

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Well I am a 20 year old female and lately I been wanting to have a baby. So when I ask my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years he was like no because he had to babysit his 6 nephews all the time. So what should I do?

if he is still your boyfriend then you shouldnt be having children. Wait until your married!!!

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Iam 18 years old and just got into a new relationship with an older guy. Hes 22. Im still a virgin and he isnt. He told me when and if Im ready to have sex with him then that will be an issue that we sit down and discuss. Iam very mature and know exactly what I want out of life. Im a great person..so Im told. I really do think that I am emotionally and physically ready to have sex. Its just that Im so self concious and think that I wont be any good. Not just at sex, but kissing and oral sex. I havent kissed a guy in 4 years and Im terrified to mess up. How should I handle this? How can I make myself feel better about this?

if you feel that you are ready then you are ready. But if he tries to have sex with you and you dont feel right about it then dont. Its all on what you feel inside

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can you get pregant 2 weeks before your period?

yes

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i have a welt on my leg that i got from a bad fall 2 years ago and i kno it's been a long time, but is there any way to make it less noticeable or get rid of it??

well it shouldnt be real noticeable if it was years ago. but putting ice on it and a little make-up could help

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My brother is in Iraq, and hes only 21! it hurts so bad! hes my best friend and i'm only 13! he had to stay till next may and i cant send a lot of stuff and neither can he! what can i do? all my language arts projects are on him too! i wrote and 10 page story about a memory and he was it! can someone help me find out how to keep in touch and live my life not worrying soo much about him?

just know that your brother is always going to be right there with you and that he is over there fighting right now so that you can live your life in a safe world and not have to worry about problems when ever you step out your front door. He loves you and i msure he is thinking of you just as uch as you are of him. Since he is in another country it is hard to keep in touch. Just keep a picture of him always close to you and know that he will be home soon!

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Okay Heres the deal:
I really like this boy in my grade and well I don't think he likes me like that. I think he likes the girl who I really really hate! I know the boys phone number but I'm too chicken to call and I never can ask my friends to call even though they know! Please Help Me!

well if your too scared to call then you may never have a relationdhip! just call him and make casual conversation and start buildig up a good friendship! then that could turn into something more!

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i am a freshman going into higschool, and i have a problem w/ this girl going into 11th grade whos 2 years older than me. well back in middle school we were on the same bus, and she was really mean to me. she would SCREAM mean things to me in front of EVERYONE, like saying im ugly and stuff, and she would take my schoolbag and dump it all over the place, and she would pour soda on me.. it was humiliating.. she used to threaten to beat me up when i got off the bus, and she would have people come up to me and say shit to me. LAST YEAR I TOLD MY MOM AND SHE WENT TO THE SCHOOL AND TOLD OUR PRINCIPLE AND MADE IT WORSE CAUSE THE GIRL ONLY HARASSED ME MORE AND MORE AND PEOPLE MADE FUN OF ME... well now were gonna be on the same bus again, and i wanna know how to handle the situation. if shes yelling at me on the bus, should i say something back? ignore her? ask her if we can talk it out? or ask her why she's doing this since i didnt do anything to her?... i dont want to make her even more mad, because then she'll be worse to me. tell me how to handle it, but dont tell me to call the cops or anything, i wanna know what to do... im REALLY SCARED.. thanks

well dont be scared of her or let her intimmidate you at all!! once she knows that she gets to you or that she can put you down and hurt your feelings, that will send her on the powertrip of her life!!! whenever she says something about you that makes other people laugh...then just laugh along with them! show them that you dont care what they think of you and that you know who you are and your confident in yourself! also think about it...you guys havent seen each other in like 2 years so what are the odds of her remembering you and STILL wanting to humilate you?and people also get more and more mature as they get older so making fun of you could also make her look like a dumbass in front of her friends.

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okie well i no im not the very pretty but is there a way i can like talk to guys on get them to notic me or how can i get guys to like me????


*I rate well*

make them laugh! it doesnt matter what you look like!! guys love girls who are funny and confident in themselves! also wear cute clothes with bright colors to get attention!!!

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ok i started wakeboarding last year, and i can get up, go to each side of the wake, and jump the wake. But does any one know any tricks that are easy to learn and do? thx!
i rate high!!

well you could start by trying to when ever you jump the wake, turn your bored around. Also as soon as you get real big in the air(like clear the wake by like 7 or 8 feet) try and bring your board back and grab it with your hand...its not as hard as it looks or sounds!!! wakeboarding is awesome!!!!!! go big or go home baby!!!

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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money

make flyers and put them in people's mailboxes

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I'm 16 years old and recently my boyfriend and I have been giving each other oral sex. The other day he fingered me, and when he pulled his fingers out, there was a little bit of blood. Could my hymen be broken, and if it is, do I need 2 get an exam?

if your not a virgin then yes he could have popped it. And you dont really need to get a tes cuz like nothing is wrong really

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My birthday is on Nov. 2nd. and my b/f's b-day is on Nov. 4th. so should we celebrate it on Nov. 3rd? Or have 2 seperate celebrations? What would you do?

it would be cute if you 2 had a bday party together and he dress like a king and you dress like a queen and have a big bday party!!! lol

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OMG YOU GIVE THE MOST BAD ASS ADVICE!! HOW DO YOU DO IT??

ha thanks!!! umm i dunno...i just tell people what i think!!

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i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?

you kiss him!!!

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Okay, I have a problem with sweaty armpits. I'm sorry if this seems gross, but it's becoming a big issue. I always have to wear black shirts to hide it, but school is starting on Monday, and we have a uniform (a baby blue t-shirt) I don't want to wear a jacket, because I'll get really overheated! I even tried switching to men's deodorant and nothing changes! I'm really embarrassed about this... I don't know what else to do! Someone, please help me! Thanks sooo much, in advance!!

go to your doctor and tell him about the problem and maybe he can give you something a little stronger!! or wear a light shirt under your blue one

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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx


* a curious george *

well you should do what you feel comfortable doing. bj's arent the easiest thing to do and alot of girls dont like doing them. but if you want to do something then just like give him a sexxi message or a hand job or something!

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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx

-x- unknown -x-

well honey im sorry to tell you and i know this probally isnt what you are looking for but him being the love of your life is some what un reasonable. Your 13 right now and im sure in about 10 years you two still wont be dating...you wont be married...and you probally will only remember him by being the guy you lost your virginity to. And if you know people who are younger then you and they are already having sex then that is sad. Little kids shouldnt be doing stuff like that. And you shouldnt say that your going to lose it when our 16. Just dont be in a rush to give up such a precious gift. Just wait and get a few more years under your belt before you make a decision like that. If oyu give it up no...you will regret it i promise you babe!!!!

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I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!

*4evainLuv

hey nothing wrong with metros!!! lol they are awesome!!! just start thinking of cool ways to ask him. what i would do is tell his parents that you want to ask him then have them get him out of the house for the day and have him come back sometime around sunset(or in the evening). Make a HUGE sign that is asking him to go to prom with you and have his whole front yard like decorated. Be standing by the sign(it should stand on its own or be put into the ground somehow so you dont have to hold it)!! use lots of glitter and ribbons and color and everything!!! then when he is walking up to you...take both of his hands and ask him!!! he is sure to say yes!! hehe

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hey ya'll ..i just turned 15 and i was just wonderin..when does your chest usually become fully developed?..like i'm a 34B & iduno i think that's small..but i'm already 15..is that guna b my chest size? or am i yound enough that i'm still developing?..=/..thanx xOx

your whole body(for a girl) stoprs growing around 17 or 18 depending on your body

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