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i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
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E-mail: thepresident89@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: montana
Occupation: student
Age: 17
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Okay...well i know this is weird..but i definetly need help lol. See everytime theres like a hott guy or jus even a cute one that like talks to me or is looking at me, even jus for a second, i start to turn red. AND the worst part is i don't even like them! I mean maybe it's because im shy...but im not really that shy. I don't know wat to do about it...but like i can feel my face get red, and when they're lookin at me i get embarrassed cuz know that they can see my face red... So wat can i do to make it stop...or at least control is better?!!

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have better confidence in yourself. if you think you look good, then you won't get embrassed. my face gets red too, just go with the flow. it will start to wear off when you start hanging out with guys more.


My friend is a horrible singer and he wants to be fameus and sing on american idol but he sucks really bad.. i dont know how to tell him

PLEASE HELP ME !

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if he sings infront of you and he asks how he did, tell him some things to encourage his dream but to make him a better singer as well. like if his pitch sucks, tell him towork on it. give him helpful critisism. that will help him and make it easier for you tell him.


I'm thinking of getting bangs. Like not the kind that goes all the way around and is in front. Side bangs I guess you could call them. I part my hair to the side. I have brown hair, and it's a little past my shoulders. It's straight too. Do you think that this is a good idea? I don't want them to be extremely long though or anything. Does anyone know what I'm talking about and if so does this sound like a good idea or do you think it will look good? (link)
i know what you are talking about.
bangs will look good. if you have straight hair, you should look into getting layered bangs. those always look nice with long hair.
hope i helped.


(sorry for the length) Ok my boy friend and I have been together for roughly seven months. A week before we started going out we would stay up till like 4 or 5 in the morning talking with each other. Now he seems to be more interested in a comnputer game than in me. When we're both online at the same time he doesn't seem to want to talk to me much. Well a few months back his friend sent me this conversation they had about me and it really hurt me because my bf said some very hurtful things about me. I asked him aobut it and he had stayed home sick the day that conversation occured and was on a lot of medicne and he blamed it on that. After I read that conversation I thought my heart broke. I want to tell him that I love him and I want to know if he feels the same way about me, but I'm kinda afraid of what his response would be. What should I do? (link)
leave him. medicine is no reason to say hurtful things about some one. do not take it anymore.


I need advice about what color eye shadows would accent my hazel eyes the best. I have medium brown hair and medium toned skin if that helps. I would really appreciate it, i rate high. (link)
stick with the earthy tones. nothing like blue...i've tried it and it doesn't work with your skin tone. (you're the same as me) stick to browns, golds and mute greens.


okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long) (link)
do not go out with this guy. you will end up doing things that you would never normally have done. and you'll regret it. so i do think that you should go for this guy. there are other fish in the sea. go and find one that will treat you right.


im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not. (link)
DO NOT have sex with him!!! just because these assholes are pressuring you to do it, is not a reason. the only person you should have sex with is your furture husband. no one else. you are 14 for goodness sakes!! why would you want to ruin your life at such a young age? as i said before do not do this. let them tease you, and if they make you mad, tell them that you're not ready. if this guy truly loved you, then he won't pressure you into doing this.


after summer 2003...my boyfriend broke up with me that summer...I thought we were for real...well that following year I was starting 7th grade...I started losing faith in everything and everyone...I started skippin school, gettin in fights, hating everyone, getting lower grades than usual...I thought there was no life beyond my ex boyfriend...I never actually prayed...I'd do it everyonce in a while...and then I'd always have second thoughts towards "him" cuz even when i think positive and pray nothing ever happens for better than for worse...how do I start trusting and believing "he" IS there? (link)
keep praying. He does things in his time, not our own. we have to be patient and trust. forget about your ex..i know that might be hard. but it wasn't meant to be. if it was, then you would of known. as i said before...keep praying.

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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!

signed, scared n wants to stop! (link)
no one should change for the worse for the one that they love. if he wants to have sex...tell him no. he's taking advantage of you and that's not right. stop smoking the weed and get back to the life that you had. forget him. you may love him but if he truly loves you back he wouldn't force you into this. changing to get a guy is not worth it. you'll regret it in the long run.


I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
if you think you're fat...you're crazy!


im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this? (link)
rushing into things like that is the worst thing that you can do. i did it and i totally regret it. and i bet you're not either of those things you said about yourself. i thought the same thing til a guy said he go out with me. unfortunantly i went out with the wrong guy. having a b/f isn't the most important thing in the world. it may seem like it because everyone supposedly has one. they aren't what they're cracked up to be. just be patient and wait for a feeling about a certain guy that you meet. if you get a feeling, start hanging around the guy more. see what happens.




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