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5'10
130 lbs
16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
1 tattoo
no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


!!STAY SiC!!

advice

is there anyway i can ban someone for cursing people out and saying its me? i have a hater thats really annoying me. im xoseenbeenxo

go to the 'report abuse' section on the left hand side of advicenators.com.

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people are talking about a website where you can find out what your name means in diff languages. i couldn't find it on google. if u find it plz tell me. -olga

Olga? I AM OLGA! I LIKE PANCAKETH!
Ok? Heres site that should help you
http://www.behindthename.com/
http://www.omniglot.com/links/yournamein.htm

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I have naturally straight hair, but my cuzin (Nikki) ahas straight also, but she somehow gets it superr straight! She wont tell me how she does it. And i dont have enough money to buy a new straigter. (i have one but it works for freakin crap)

well the only way to get it super-straight is to use a straightener, but yours sucks so i would suggest using the blowdryer. Theres this brush thing i have, you can get it from **WALGREENS**, and its very much identical to a straightener, but it has bristles, and you put your hair in it and go down like a straightener but you dry it at the same time. Im telling you this because you can buy this instead of a new straightener, its alot freakin cheaper than a new straighter. To keep your hair looking its best, put gel in it when its wet and when your done with it, top it off with hairspray, ;-),thats what rabbits do! Good luck!

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does anyone know where theres a place i can find fake belly rings and stuff?

Claires or the icing, but they suck, you need to like. close them with a plier to get them to stay..and they hurt real bad, and tehy look fake. Good luck newayz!

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do most girls shave their pussys?

Yes, unless they want their boyfriends to have a mouthfull of pubes, they don't.

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Okay.. I'm an advice colomnist for this but i don't have advice for myself...But i might have ADD.. This Tuesday I'm going to get tested.Like their gonna make me do all these word problems and stuff. And i feel like a weirdo or a physco when their doing this. Like i might have either ADD or ADHD. And i'm gonna feel so dumb when they make me do these questions...Does any have advice for me?

Don't worry..don't feel weird. It will make u feel less uncomfortable when you get there. theres so many people that go for these tests...they get alotta people in the place your going to anyways, youre not the only one. Just get alota rest before you get there and eat a good breakfast! Good luck!

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how exactly do you finger a girl? and do you have any other advise you can give to a guy that he should know like how to get started or hw to tell when shes ready? well just about any general info will work thanks

haha, well, im not gonna give you anything but a site::
http://www.sex-project.com/fingering.shtml
(just search on google, oh great, now this is gonna be in my history), okay well, good luck with the .. .fingering..

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I know that every girl down there is unique, but im not a lesbian or anything but i see pretty girls in magazines and all of them dont have any visible things in their bottoms. like my question is, is it unattractive to have larger "lips" than most girls and will guys be turned away by it? I dont wanna sound weird its just i dont know who to ask without seeming like a weirdo. lol thanx!

I know what you mean .. and alotta people say that like faces, genitals are unique. Theres nothing you can do really about ze size..except surgery, but thats pretty drastic. Well, i'm a girl, and i know that 'having larger "lips" doesnt really make a difference!! And if you wanna wear bikini bottoms just wear either the boy bottoms, bottoms with a little padding to cover up any bulges, and kinda big bikini bottoms.

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what color eyeshadow brings out dark brown eyes on a girl with dark brown hair and tan skin?

light eyeshadow

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I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!!

fix the light! lol..think of something else right away or watch tv, or think of something really funny one of your friends did and laugh. Ive heard that singing helps take away some of the fear haha..just keep thinking it's just a movie, and nothing had ever been reported to the police that some weird cat-person baby murderer vampire (or whatever the hell that thing is) is out killing people. ! Good luck you baby!

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my dad recently died and i cried a lot when it happened but the day after i didnt really cry but i think about it a lot. I was wondering if if it is wrong not to be crying and should be.

no.

"Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time or other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce or some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same.


There are five stages of grief. If we get stuck in one stage or the other, the process of grieving is not complete, and cannot be complete. Thus there will be no healing. A person MUST go through the five stages to be well again, to heal. Not everyone goes through the stages at the same time. It is different for each person. You cannot force a person through the stages, they have to go at their own pace, and you may go one step forward then take two steps backward, but this is all part of the process, and individual to each person. But, as stressed, ALL five stages must be completed for healing to occur.



The five stages of grief are:


1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, or if it is death, setting the table for the person or acting as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting or even acknowledging the loss.


2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back or get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.


3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, or attempting to make deals with God to stop or change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.


4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.


5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. You have to accept the loss, not just try to bear it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make or break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave you on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.


Get help. You will survive. You will heal, even if you cannot believe that now, just know that it is true. To feel pain after loss is normal. It proves that we are alive, human. But we can't stop living. We have to become stronger, while not shutting off our feelings for the hope of one day being healed and finding love and/or happiness again. Helping others through something we have experienced is a wonderful way to fascilitate our healing and bring good out of something tragic."
-http://mt.essortment.com/stagesofgri_rvkg.htm

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me and my friend, lets call her Sarah, got into a huge fight over a little misunderstanding. I tried over and over again to tell her that i was sorry...but what ever i said it came out soo twisted and messed up!! she is my only friend and now she hates me...how can i tell her im sorry without screwing up?!?!?!

Write it

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I go to an all girls Catholic School, except recently I was accepted into a co-ed boarding school. I'm going to go to the boarding school, except how do I tell all my frieds that I'm leaving them? Even more so, how do I tell them that I won't even be around?

i don't know... ``though you'll be missed dearly..=(

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My friend got a new puppy. Its a Yorkshire Terrier and its brown and black. Its a boy and she really needs help thinking of a name for it. Can some one please help! I rate high! Thanks!

Aww those are soo cute! haha. what i usually do when i get my animals is that I dont name it right away. i name him/her on one of its characteristics! Say i get a dog and it whines .. i'd name it whimper or something lol. Im not very good at naming pets..i named my moms dog Buddy haha, too original..heres a site with male dog names that mite help::
http://www.cutepuppydog.com/Popular_male_dog_names.html

good luck!!

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what do spanish people eat for breakfast? like what is it called in spanish and also in english..and same for dinner..i need to know. pleasee....thanks

cereal = siriel

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so I want get rid of the hair on my bikini line, and when I shave it I just get bumps. I've tried bikini zone and everything, but I still have these red bumps there. Any ideas on how to change that?

Ahh...razorburn. theres not much you can do about getting rid of that completely, but you can try bikini-touch instead of a razor. theres also bikini zone shavcing cream and after shave stuff to put ion it. okay well heres some things you can try.
*shave with new razor never used.
*shaving in the direction of hair growth.
*waxing.
*using conditioner instead of shaving cream.
*putting conditioner, special non perfume lotion like cetaphil on after, or dabbing milk on with a cotton ball and wearing boxers.
*wear loose clothing after shaving.
*get specially formulated shaving cream for razorburn.
*put baby oil on when youre done.
*donating money to the poor.
Hope i help!!

x3 me

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My best friend and I just had the worse fight ever.... we both said very horrible things to eachother and i guess all of our true feelings came out... i can't explain how i'm feeling right now but i guess i'm feeling a strong urge to just cut myself and get it over with... i know people reading this think i'm a freak... but i need someone really bad... please help me.. :(
Lost N Broken

5's to anyone who helps me.....

cutting yourself obviously isnt going to take back what you said and its just a cry for attention. well i have no idea what you guys said to each other so i cant realy help what you did but say to write her a note or letter and apologize, and make sure to say that she said mean things to you , too. you could also work out the problems that you guys have with each other. good luck

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How do you treat or make a sun burn go away?

aloe vera helps, and try to stay outta the sun that much, and if ur goin back out into the sun put sunscreen on. heres some sites that should help

http://www.beach-net.com/Oceansunburn.html

http://www.thefrugalshopper.com/articles/sunburn.html

http://www.indianchild.com/sunburn_treatment_remedies_relief.htm

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ok so here is the deal everyone knows i am Bisexual like everyone at my school knows. and i knew i was gunna get crap from people. But it has gone to far people are startin to make fun of me like way more and it gets more intense everyday. Not to mention people make fun of me because i watch wierd movies like "Hook" or "Aladdin" I mean sure i am male. but still why does it give people the right to say mean stuff i am also colored and people are being racial talking to adults doesn't help very much. what can they do. and i am out of ideas ignoring them doesn't help.

I know that being Bisexual is bad and i am trying to be straight and i am gettin close to just likeing females. and it seems that god isn't here for me i pray everynight hoping for a better life. and for god to send somone to know who i am. al i need is a friend. my dad lives in switzerland. and i never get to see him only in the summer. and it feels like my life is going down hill. my dog died we had to put him down. that still gives me tears. and all my friends seem to be going against me. because of rumors going around that i am dishonest. and what not i only have 2 friends. and i just don't know what to do it seems like i have run out of options.

can you help me like to find someway to get noy only my mind off but at least pray for me.

thnx a bunch

Monn

ugh. people suck. i have so many friends that are bi, and i have alot more friends that are bi, and are against bi people. i dont think being bi is wrong at all, im not bi but ive done things with people of the same sex lol. the people who are actually your real friends you need to be real happy about that because it shows that throughout it all those are the peopel that matter to you, not the ones who are trying to make your life a livign hell. there was a rumor going around my school that i was a lesbian so i know how you feel (somewhat), and you shouldnt try to make yourself like straight. If God made you Bisexual, then so-be-it. I get really pissed when people say shit about people who arent straight, i mean seriosly...theyre just bi...ugh..its just another characteristic bout that person. its like hating someone with brown hair or making fun of someone wearing shoes with uhh pink shoelaces=), but really being bi isnt uncommon, theres more bi people than you think. i didnt know one of my really good friends was bi until at least a couple months of knowing her, i really wouldnt have known. most of teh bi people i know are proud about it. just like being proud about what heritage you are, you should be proud of who you are and how you are. i know it seems hard, but teh teasing might go on for a while, but eventually it will be old news..and im sorry about your dog, too. feel free to im me, too.

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Is it possible for a guy to like a girl younger than him? What about older? My sister and I are both crushing on the same guy (we aren't fighting about it, we just are seeing who he falls for) I'm younger than him by one year, and my sister is older than him by two years.

oh yeah..trsut me..there was this guy who is 23 and im 14 and he likes me..two years is okay..but i dont think its a good idea to go out with a guy that your sister likes, or vice versa..you might end up hurting each other or something weird like that.

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