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Ok so I have to do a senior project in order to graduate. You can do it on anything you want. I was going to do alcohol and how it affects the brain. And as my product I was going to have a normal brain, and a alcohol affected brain. But my best friend is doing the same exact thing so I want to do something different. I need creative ideas ! Thanks so much
hi!
if you want to go on teen based issues there are always those types of ideas... for example. abortion, std's/HIV AIDS, drugs, etc..
or by then, our next president will have been chosen and you can do a project on the changes they 'promise' to make, how they affect our lives, our way of living...
so many ideas... from who inspired you since high school, to anything fun... good luck!!
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Is there a site online, where I can share my writing for free and recieve feedback, without having to enter any of my personal info, beside the basic, email etc. But not my school, adress, phone # etc. ? Thanks
hmm.. gspoetry.com :)
this is my site on it
http://www.gspoetry.com/member-belkisakamzredii-25556
so my best friend is going out with the most concieted selfish guy i have ever met.
he will seriously flex in the mirror until he pops a boner. he plays mind games, in his words "kill the victims slowly with emotional agony" and thats exactly what he does. he twists words and screws with emotions and is only caring and sweet and nice when he wants to get laid. ANYWAYS! my friend is 100% under his spell. and every day she freaks and stresses out about what he wants or what he wants her to do or not to do. how can i make her see that he is just using her and doesnt love her?! i hate seeing my friend like this and she refuses to believe he is a master of torture.
thankyou
16/f
hi there!
well, here is the raw honest truth...
your friend might not realize this until the worst happens...
which is what you're trying to prevent.
is there any way you can catch him in the act of flirting with other girls?
or can you use his words and show her these words he is using to play with her emotions?
bcause we all know that when we are crushing or in love, we get blinded, which causes us to say 'screw the world! its me and him only!'..
i guess the only way is to use his words and show her the meaning, because if she wont open her eyes, she just wont until she's been hurt =/ good luck mama!
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15/f
i'm 15 yrs. old and i still haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed. I KNOW whoever answers this will say something like " don't worry it'll happen someday" or "when the time it'll happen". I'm not saying i WANT it to happen. but i just want to wonder why it hasn't happened. you know what i mean? please give me your honest opinions.
there is a couple reasons why it probably hasnt happened..
i think one of the obvious ones can be that guys like you, maybe friends, they just choose not to tell you. guys are shy too! they can feel the same way us girls feel about having a crush sometimes.. also, the way you portray yourself. are you confident? friendly? do you come off as decent? these are things you need to take into consideration.. well good luck!
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is it normal for a 13 year old guy(me) to have never been in a fight, be really sensitive(cry when im angry and when im pissed off/annoyed) and just weird things like that
it's normal.. everyone has different ways of dealing wit things. some people have anger problems so they fight... some people cry because they feel its better, some people write poetry or play drums... and about not being in a fight, thats totally normal.. that means you dont look for problems or people get along with you.. you're just 13, so you have alot of time to change, and trust me things will change. your state of mind, state of being, etc. so good luck!
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How do you make guys notice you? as in wow i like her kind of way or a look way?
hmm.. well, you can try smiling alot.. be friendly around others so he won't think it's only an act..try to make others laugh and you have to portray yourself as confident, fun to be around, and also caring.. i think the smiling and looking his way can be the best hints.. and once he starts to get to know you, show him you.. not an act.. that way he won't be surprised if you guys go out.. good luck :)
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lawlz. okay, I met this guy when I was like 12 and playing an MMORPG FFXI, well ive known him for awhile now, and we just really talking talking in depth lately (as in the past month)...
Im 17 now, and im pretty positive that I am in love with this guy he's all I think about anymore.
but yea... he's 5 years older than me, and lives 8 hours away (in a different state) we might meet up at youmacon, ill have friends with me and all that but im just really nervous, im not a touchy person and he said hes gonna be all lovey dovey... Im a shy person, and as much as ill wanna open up, i think ill freak out when I meet him XD...and is this even a good idea?
yeah... you have to be careful. i mean, he might say he;'s five years older than you, but it can be a trick... considering you will have friends around, try to not stray from them.. about the him being lovey dovey thing, i wouldnt suggest it, because he might try to take advantage.. and lure you into other things.. he should respect you above all, not be all up on you, because although it's been a long time of knowing eacother, its the first time being up close, and he shouldnt be trying anything fishy.. it's not a bad idea because people do it all the time, but it's not the best idea either. just keep your friends close, seriously.. good luck
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does anyone know where you can chat for free and like flirt online w/ ppl???
umm... well you cant google chat avenue and click the first link that comes up. or you can google 'free chat rooms'. just dont trade info or anything o.0 be smart ;)
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I've come to you before wit dis question, but I can't let her go. I like my bestfriend, she is jus amazing, funny fun to be wit, careing, I jus wanna be wit her. I jus wish she could see me as more den a brother. All the time she tells me abt sum guy she had a crush on or she wud like to go out wit. I jus wish she could see me da same way. Then ders her current boyfriend. She tells me all the time about there aguments, an I hate the way he puts her down or stresses her, an makes her sad. I jus dnt knw wut to do anymore. Before I met her I use to feel alone like no one understood me. An when we talk I feel happy, she makes me smile when we talk, jus her messages me makes my day, I dont know what to do anymore
hm... well JONATHAN. lol. i know it's you... i told you my advice before.. =/ ... you just have to be strong and let her go...
well first of all im a guy and i wanna ask this one girl thats my friend out on a date but i kinda dont want to because, what if something goes wrong and our friendship ends so what should i do?
well, how long have you known this friend?
i personally think a real friend wouldnt abandon the person who likes them just because of the fact that they like them, personally i'd accept it.. and cope with it.. and still be a good friend. if this friendship ends over you liking her, she's not mature enough to handle a friendship.. losing a friendship over something so little is petty.. if you like this girl, be honest with her.. but not too frank because you dont wanna scare her either about how you want to marry her or anything lol. good luck!!
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well i just got a hair cut and its looks so bad and im worried hat the person i love is gonna look at me and be like ew what do i do?
i agree with the other advicenators... if this person you love loves you back, and truly loves you back, he wont care what your hair looks like, he'll care whats in your heart. because at the end of the day your hair isnt going to be the one sending emotions on how to treat him, your heart and mind is =] ... buuut, if youre so self concious with this, possible a hat can help? or style your hair more in a more flattering way.. good luck!
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Hi , my name is ashley!! Ok, so... I do like this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me back. He asked me for my number at the end of the school year and he hasn't called me yet this summer, could he be scared or what? Hmmm... anyway's he's very intelligent and I'm not really smart but I'm about average. He has most of is future planned out, he's in the marching band, and has straight A's... do you think he might expect that of me? So, there's this physics day at my school where we go to an amusement park and do problem solving things. Well, I went on a roller coaster with him and you know how they take those snap shots? When we got off the rollar coaster my hair was up and everything and I was so embarrassed, so I said I look horrible there... then he looked over at me with soft eyes, smiled at me and said you look good sincerely. What does that mean? It seems like when I see him in the hallways at school he looks at me differently then he would someone else...??? I'm curious on how guys our age think, but he's just so mature. Then there was this one time in the lunch room... I was sitting next to him and my elbow kind of touched his and neither of us moved it until we had to...???? Do you think that means anything? I really like him but I'm not ready to date and he's not allowed to, but I just wonder if he likes me and if they're any hints to that...??? Do you think he'll call? Anyway's thanks for reading this, I know it's a lot to read... but for some reason I have a good feeling asking you about this???
hey there ashley! thanks for stepping through my inbox..
well, from what you tell me, it does sound like he is an honest guy, humble, subtly dropping hints that he likes you.. for one thing, he compliments you.. he looks at you differently than any other person, etc.. does he talk to you gently? does he notice details about you no one else knows? i mean, from what you said about the look in his eyes, i think i'd go for it.. do you have his number? if you do, be brave, give him a call =] if you see him around, stop him and talk to him... if he hasnt called, he's probably too scared, shy... good luck!!! and if things dont work out the way they seemed, just remember there's plenty other guys out there for you to get to know
hope i helped!!
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I'm 16/f 11th grade, and I met this guy in 9th grade and ever since we've been friends. I'm being honest when I say that there was no tension, we both liked different people, we were friends. But, the last day of school before this summer I asked if he wanted to come over and swim at my house. The day before he was going to come over we were talking on the phone and he said he'd call me and tell me when he was comming over. So the next day he didn't show, or even call to say he couldn't make it. We haven't even talked for the rest of the summer, and I was afraid to call him or text him because I thought I did something wrong. Did he think I liked him because I asked him over? He's a good friend and I don't want to lose him over something stupid I said or did.
Thanks,
JustAsking
the only sure way is to just talk to him. send him a regular txt or phone him asking him how is summer is going and is everything okayy... then bring up the subject.. if he's a good friend he won't push you away over something little like that... good luck!
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In your opinion, how stupid are boys?
LOL.. wow.
in my opinion, i'd say boys and girls are stupid. we all do mistakes and whatnot, so why accuse one gender of being stupid. just my opinion though
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So I have an old hotmail address that I haven't logged into in a REALLY long time, and i know that hotmail used to have you reactivate your email after you haven't used it for a while, but I try to log in and it won't take the password that I was pretty sure was the right one. So I click 'forget password' and it says 'invalid address' or something like that.
So, does hotmail delete old email addresses now, or am I doing something wrong? I don't understand why it won't let me get my password back.
Thanks!
i think they might've deleted your account due to you not logging in.. how long has it been? well, if anything you can go to msn and search for the help or support button. good luck.
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Hi!! I was wondering if anyone knew of any organizations that you travel places and volunteer to help out. I love to travel all over the place, but I also love the feeling I get when I am helping someone and making a difference in the world or someone's lives.
Websites work too.
http://www.volunteertravel.com/ thats one website. idk how far you'd like to travel, but thats global. you can also use Google.com and type in traveling during volunteering.. good luck :)
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hi everyone =] 16/f
soo for a month or so i was hooking up with this boy who was 21. its pretty bad i know. but anyway, then he told me he has a girlfriend (who is also 21)
i should have ended thigns between us right there but he was so manipulative that i coudlnt bring myself to do it. i always tell him no when he asks to see me and he tells me i break his heart all the time.yesterday i saw them both at the local pool and he was starring at me the entire time and acting weird towards her. i feel bad. should i tell her or is it not my buisness?
thanks so much
agreed. their relationship is none of their business, but think : is he using you? he's just a no good player, using two ladies at the same time. and you need to value yourself, because this guy isn't. he's just taking you two girls as a game. so my suggestion, break it off. he's gonna tell you he loves you, he can't be without you, that he'll break it off with this other girl, that you're tearing him apart.. blah blah. but it's all talk. good luck mama!! you're worth way more than this.. good luck
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Ok...
So there is this guy(Kenny) that my friend likes and lately me her and him
have been hanging out a lot you know just being teens, like going to the park and playing disc golf...
anyway like today we were with me her, her friend sam and Kenny and we were
playing disc golf and me and kenny were just messin around you know like
throwing the discs at each other and hitting each other with them and I
guess now that I think about it, it would kinda look like we were flirting
but it wasn't intensional or anything... but yeah after I took him home and
I got back to my house she texted me and asked if I liked him and I said no...
for her sake because she has liked him for a very long time...she said that
she asked him the same question and that he wouldn't answer it...and she says she thinks he does...
so what am I to do if he does like me...
I dont know if I like him of not...
well, if he does like you, and you DONT like him, then just fall back you know? you guys can hang out in a group, but just try to be serious all the time with him, try not to always be with him or make it look like he has a chance with you.. but, if you do like him, then there's a problem, because there is two outcomes to this. either you let your girlfriend go for him, since she liked him first, or you go selfish style and take him.. i personally would just let it go, because there are other guys out there, he's not the only one.. but just make sure you don't lose a good friend if he is one.. hope i helped
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18/f
is it true that rock music is the easiest to sing to?
I can sing to some stuff but im not really that good.
i've never heard that rock music is the easiest to sing to. depends what you mean by singing though. screaming? growling? actual melodic singing? all in all, singing is singing.. and if you're singing to rock music like metallica- nothing else matters or pop rock like saliva- click click boom, you need to control your voice, so it's still hard.. not as hard as high notes though lol. good luck
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female/18
okay so there is this boy that im falling for. he is so great! i like him A LOT...problem is... i cant tell if likes me too or if he is just being a friend. he flirts with me,i flirt with him and he is always hinting things that suggest he likes me but then will say just kidding or something silly after.i get so confused like the other day we were talking and he asked why i talk to him all the time and i was like hmm idk:)(even though i wanted to be like bc im crushing on you so bad) and i asked him the same and he said bc your a fun person to talk to and then was like what do you want me to say and i just said idk i guess i was just wondering but then he was like would you have rather me said bc your beautifully wonderfully amazingly extravagantly gorgeous and smart? and i was like WOW i love that answer and then he said yeah "if only it were true haha jk"...i just get really confuse and i want to tell him so bad how i feel for him but i just dont know how to tell him or even hint it...any suggestions??
you can try being direct with him?
i mean, he must tell you must be crushing on him. if you're leaving the usual hints. just that sometimes theyre just as shy as us, when it comes to making the first move.. there's no harm in being straighfoward in my opinion.. and im sure that if he's not interested, maybe he won't be a big jerk and brag to everyone nor stop talking to you.. good luck :)
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