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let her know?
hi everyone =] 16/f
soo for a month or so i was hooking up with this boy who was 21. its pretty bad i know. but anyway, then he told me he has a girlfriend (who is also 21)
i should have ended thigns between us right there but he was so manipulative that i coudlnt bring myself to do it. i always tell him no when he asks to see me and he tells me i break his heart all the time.yesterday i saw them both at the local pool and he was starring at me the entire time and acting weird towards her. i feel bad. should i tell her or is it not my buisness?
thanks so much
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if i was you i would tell the girl because you would rather be told too, right?
keep doing like you are, dont take his calls, dont see him, etc.
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Sounds like he is still trying to
manipulate you. You're doing great,
don't let him get to you. Tell him
to stop calling.
I wouldn't exactly tell her, but if it
continues, and you see them at the pool
again, you could, Right in front of her
tell him he better leave you alone and
to stop contacting you. If shes smart
she'll get the message. More likely
he will sweet talk her into staying
with him anyway. :)
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agreed. their relationship is none of their business, but think : is he using you? he's just a no good player, using two ladies at the same time. and you need to value yourself, because this guy isn't. he's just taking you two girls as a game. so my suggestion, break it off. he's gonna tell you he loves you, he can't be without you, that he'll break it off with this other girl, that you're tearing him apart.. blah blah. but it's all talk. good luck mama!! you're worth way more than this.. good luck
flirty :)
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It is true that it is not your business, and they are the ones in the relationship and need to work it out themselves. But then, you have to ask yourself if you would like to know if you were in her shoes. whichever way you feel stronger about follow that lead. you could also tell this guy that either he can tell her or you will, and give him fair chance to be honest with her. good luck
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