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Alright when you go to a show is dorky/weird to wear a shirt of the band you are going to go see? I would think wearing another band's shirt would be rude yet I see other people do it all the time. Is it ok to do either?
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I think you should be able to wear the band's shirt that you are going to see or the another band's shirt, either way is okay.


You just answered one of my questions and it really helped! my usernames jco, i'm adding you to my favorite collumnist list! thanks! (link)
Your welcome and thanks, i'll add you back.


i am a girl about 5'3. I weigh approx 135 pounds. i dont think i look fat, but i can say it wouldn't hurt to loose some pounds around my legs. am i over weight? any excercise tips? x0x0x0
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These "Am I fat?" questions are getting redundant. Since you obviously don't know how to use google I will teach you how.

First: go to google.com
Second: type in 5'3'' 135 pounds
Third: click on the first one.
Fourth: Scroll down the page and look for your height and beside it should be the ideal weight range.
Fifth: Thank Selena for teaching you how to use google.

If you are so idiotic where you can't even follow those simple directions then here is your answer.

If you are a male then you are in the ideal wieght range. If you are a female then you are 8 pounds over the ideal weight range.

edit: You're welcome.


Well, my 15th birthday is this Thursday. I'm having my party on February 11th, and I've decided to have an 80's themed party. Does anyone have any good websites that I can go to to find cool 80's stuff- like information on 80's music, fads, ect. . . I would really appreciate it! (link)
http://www.80s.com/default.html
http://eightiesclub.tripod.com/
http://www.pure80spop.co.uk/
http://www.remembertheeighties.com/index2.html
http://www.fdic.gov/bank/historical/history/contents.html


ok, so i've been going out with this guy, and he lives in a different state. We're going out from camp.... I REALLY like him but i wanna have fun. (aka, i wanna get with guys and he's not here so i can't get with him). I want to go out with him because I like him but I want to get with other guys. I hooked up with someone and felt bad so I told him and he said he was upset but how could he be mad at me? it was so cute! He really likes me and I could never do anything to hurt him.... HELP!!!?!?!?! (link)
You can't change the fact that he lives in a different state. So if you can't resist the temptation of hooking up with other guys then I think you should try to just be friends. Its better to stay friends then to break his heart by cheating.


can someone give me some heartbreak quotes? (not websites) for my aim profile? thanks (link)
"When the heart grieves over what is has lost, the spirit rejoices over what it has left." -Sufi Epigram

"The only cure for grief is action." -George Henry Lewis

"Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated." -Lamartine

"The best way to mend a broken heart is time and girlfriends." -Gwyneth Paltrow

"Maybe part of loving is learning to let go." -From the television show The Wonder Years

"The heart is the only broken instrument that works." -T.E. Kalem


What is Gmail? and How can I get an account?

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It's email through google.

Look at the latest site news, that should help you.
http://www.advicenators.com/news.php


Ok, so i have this guy friend and we're not close or anything, we're just friends but he always touches me and tries to hook up with me and stuff and it's really obvious that he wants to get with me. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. to be really honest, i have big boobs and I'm pretty sure thats why he wants me so bad. But I'm not sure.... He always puts his hands on my legs (really high) and around my waist and rubs my arms and like puts his arms on my stomachh and pretends like he's about to feel me up, (he thinks i think he's kidding but i know hes serious....) does he like me or not, and what should i do/don't do???
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He sounds like he is in it for the benefits. Because if he had serious feelings for you he wouldn't be so quick to touch you. I think you should let him know the way you feel about it. Let him know you don't like it when he does that and make sure he stops.


My best friend likes me and says he is in love with me and i dont know what to do. I like him but just as a friend even a brother. i dont know what to do and its hard because i dont want things to change between us. so can anyone help me? (link)
Tell him what you just told us.Tell him that he's like a brother to you and that you don't want things to change. Let him know exactly how you feel about the situation.


ok so me and my bf have been going out for like 4 months now.. but his exgirlfriend has still liked him the whole time.. she still flirts with him and he doesn't do anything to stop her, i don't even think he notices that she does it. i've tried talking to her but she just denies everything.. help! (link)
Let your boyfriend know that you don't want him to flirt with his ex-girlfriend. But if he still had feelings for her he probably would not have been in a relationship with you for four months. That shows he's committed to you. So I don't think you should worry to much.


what age to people start masabating? (link)
When they can learn how to pick up a dictionary.

But if you mean masturbating, its when their hormones start kicking in. Normally around 12 years old.


me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do? (link)
If you are backing out then you should have never made the bet. It is important to keep your word, but your feelings are what's most important. So if you don't want to then don't do it.


I got an offer to start babysitting but I have a probllem. Its really stupid but, Ive seen the commercials to "When A Stranger Calls" the new horror movie about the girl babysitting. Im afraid that when I babysit a) IT WILL HAPPEN.. or b) Ill be too freaked out and the kids will get scared, or I wont be able to take care of them because Im too scared. It will also be my FIRST time babysitting. What can i do to make myself feel safer?! (link)
Remind yourself that it is JUST A MOVIE! Its not reality, just a movie.


Recently, my friend Jennifer confided in me to keep a secret from her friend Lauren. Lauren is now with Jennifer's ex boyfriend and Jen told me that all Lauren ever talks about is the boyfriend(she talks about him 24/7). Jen is really annoyed and bothered by talking about him because she still has strong feelings for him. But, Jen doesn't want to hurt Lauren's feelings because she is really happy. Jen asked me what she should do and what should I tell her? (link)
You should tell her what YOU think she should do.

We can't tell you what your opinion is.


does anyone know where i can find some cute clip on earrings? either a website or store :] thanks! (link)
Both of these stores have nice clip on earrings for reasonable prices.

*Claire's http://www.claires.com/
*Icing http://www.claires.com/icing_main.asp


What does "Heritage" mean ??? (link)
Go to dictionary.com
Type in Heritage
And you will find your answer

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=heritage


iwant to give me advice about poliomyelitis (link)
only search advicenators.com


i am 18 and under weight doe anyone know how i can put weight on it is realy hard for me to put weight on i have always been under weight please help i will rate (link)
Eat more...

Here are some websites that have ways to gain wieght in a healthy way.

http://www.primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/library/weight/gaining.htm
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/healthy_living/your_weight/reaching_gain.shtml


why do people on here ask about touchy questions when they dont want to hear the truth? like for instance some person just asked why people are mean to mormans or something along those lines and although ive never heard that i told the person exactly why i know mormans are unliked from where im from and he flipped on me because i guess thats not what he wanted to here. so if you dont want to hear the truth why do you ask those questions? (link)
Some people want advice but don't actually want to hear the truth. And when you don't give the advice they were expecting they want to get all offensive.

Personally I think its stupid. If you want advice then you should be able to handle the truth.


is the show summerland over? i loved that show!! (link)
http://www.summerlandcentral.com/
http://talk.thewb.com/viewtopic.php?topic=620266&forum=78&5





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