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ok im not quite sure if i have an eating disorder or not, or if im in the first stages of it. My friends are constantly telling me how im too skinny and need to eat more, but my mom tells me its fine if i diet and w/e. i hate eating, especially around other people, and when i do eat then it makes me feel sick and fat. but sometimes i just go on these binges and eat a ton. is it normal, or could i be in the early stages of an eating disorder?
if you eat a lot and u feel sick right after wards you could be belemi (idont no how to spell that)
should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy?
wear wht you normally wear
A GUY WON'T CARE ABOUOT YOUR LOOKS!
So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong?
dude carbs r good for you they give you energy ITS THE CALORIES YOU NEED TO WATCH OUT!!
Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?
hun y our jus jelous and its this type of feeling that you want to get rid of him from your friend right?? well neways hang out with your friend more often but dont b possesive
i knew that the guy i liked liked me back so today i decided to tell him i liked him and so when i did he was like "oh i dont like you anymore sorry" and it said it like such a jerk...im not hurt like by my heart or anything but im just pissed off, how do i give that jerk a taste of his own medicine? please answer. i rate.
flirt with his hotter friend and make out right in front of him then hell be sorry!!
all of my friends are destructive.
friend #1-cuts and gave head.
friend #2-drank shoplifts and sneaks out of her
house
friend #3-does pot and shoplifts
friend #4-shoplifts
this is so annoying. what do i do?!i still want to be friends witht them but they're all mad @ me anyways. that's a diff. story though. help!
signed,*cAuGhT iN tHe MiDDlE*
watch the movie thirteen then youll regret being friends with these people
i am having a big b'day party this year. this one gurl on my bus, i invited her. i just told her about it b/c the other gurls were talking bout it. and my mom hates her. i dont know how to tell her she can't come? can yall help me?
i will rate you.
you cant just walk up to her and tell her that she is not invited cause that is really mean. ask your mom why she hates her you cant just uninvite someone cause thats being a b**** (no affence)
(13 year old girl) ok well i like this guy a lot .. my two best friends both went out with him like 6 months to a year ago (but he was more serious with one of my friendsz than the other) anywaysz i want to tell him i like him but i cant ... cuz he's kind of ugly and lacksz common sense lol and well i dont think he likes me .. well mayb only as a friend but thats all .. so how do you think i can find out if he likes me ?
p.s - no one knowsz i like him .. not even my friendsz ..
thankszz! =]
you cant date your best friends exes thats just like off limits and thats the rules of feminizine. jk but wouldnt you want someone hotter if you think he is ugly and not smart
does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!!
gee rupa sesee dupye yea i know how to speak french (actually i dont) but go to google then language tools on the side or bottom of the search engine and put english to french type in your text
i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?
if y our 58 and y ou weigh 120 that is thin.
My sister is organizing a public speaking club, for people who want to improve on their speeches, nervousness of speaking in front of a group of people, listening skills, etc. It doesn't begin until 2 weeks so we have a lot of planning to do, and it last for about 2 hours. Do you guys have any ideas of what we should do at the 1st meeting to make it fun, interesting, and to let people like it?
practicing projecting, vocal skills, eye contact
Ok so I've tried about four different legal, free ways to downlaod music but either they don't downlaod or I can't burn the music onto a cd. What do you think is a good, free, legal, music downlaoding program?
downloading music is Illegal bc i remember this site had free music to download but they gave your computer a virus, and have this tracking device to know where you live and everything but you can get music that you have to purchase for 99 cents is itunes
im trying to find a winter jacket! i already have a north face but idont want to end up wearing that everyday of the winter.. any ideas? thanks!!
there are some good ones at sport chalet i think or sport mart but if your talking about a cute fur one and not a skiing one chek out rave, abercrombie, charlotte russe
my boyfriend has like a problem with calling or something....i mean whenever he says hell call he forgets...and ive talked to him about it bc it really hurts my feelings! and he says im sry and he loves me and stuff and he ALWAYS has an excuse and hes lkie im just not good with the fone i dont kno....but i mean im so sick of always having to call him...i love him and i love talking to him but im so sick of it!...is there ne thing i can do to get it through to him that it hurts me when he doesnt call...ive told him straight out b4 "u hurt my feelings when u say ull call me and u dont" n he gets all sweet n stuff....and i kno 4 a fact he isnt cheatin or nothing we r reallie close n stuff....but idk...today we sed we wer gonna do somthing and i havent heard from him all day same with yesterday so i called him up at nite and we talked but idk.....=\
oh cry me a river build me a bridge and get over it- hell call soon
Hey look this year has been so hard bettween tryin to be most popualr and all taht and tryin to beat tha skools biggest hotties and all i have totayl gotten lost u see last year i was Queen bee! this year im not and i wouod do tha world to be that again and i dont kno whut to do to win it back
So whut should i do plz help me!
Clueless
get a life this is reality... THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU
ok well i think i have a problem... everytiime i look in the mirror i see an ugly person lol i kno it soundz gay but its true... like all of my friends r pretty and all the guys like them and they tell me im pretty but i just dont see it wha do u ppl think i shud do?
wear makeup wear your hair in a different style
I just signed up to be on my schools fencing team. I am 14 years old (female) and a freshman in highschool. I was wondering, what would be the best weapon to use? My coach said that we had to start out with the Foil, but after using a Foil for a while I wanted to use something different. What would be best for me to use? An Epee or a Sabre? Also, how long should I stick with using a Foil until I change to using an Epee or Sabre? Thanks if you can help!
a fencing stick
my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!
thanks....
tell her parents, its really dangerous
13/f
Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp
sorry your just going have to go through with it. theres nothing you can really do about it
Ok. I want to lose 100 pounds or more in about 1 -3 years. Will this make me lose 100 pounds. For breakfast all I eat is cereal. Then I have gym for 4th period. Which 2/5 days I walk about a mile or more. For lunch I have a sprite and sometimes chips. Then for dinner I have whatever my parents make. Then after dinner I do 35 sit ups, 50 squats. 30 jumping jacks. Also, I do watch what I eat. I drink water most the time and sometimes Ill have a pop. I usally only have 1 pop a day. Is there anything else I should do to help me? And do you think that'll make me lose 100 pounds in 1 - 3 years? Ok thanks.
if you do your daily routine every day it could probably take around a year or less, but dont have sprite every day for lunch high in cal unless its diet