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I really like this guy his name is lester and he is really cute but my friend went out with him and he wsa cheating on her with another girl. But i do not kno if i should care because i love him.
Wat should i do?

Okay so you like this guy name Lester.You say you love him? Just how well do you know this guy? From what it sounds like you don't know him all that well.. You love him?.. for cheating on your friend?.If he cheated on your friend,this guy sounds untrustworthy to me so before you even think about dating him, ask yourself this question.. Is he gonna cheat on me? You should never have to even think about this question. If you are then he's not the one for you sweetheart, there is other fish who are waiting to be loved and be a hopeless romatic to you, and not cheat on their girlfriends. So Good luck!

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ok well i really like this guy named tacquin and i just found out he has a girlfriend and he has had one for three weeks now and last weekend i had sex with him and i just realized that he had a girlfriend and i dont know what to think is it a bad think please help me:'(

If you didn't know that he had a girlfriend, then no I don't think that you did bad. He was the one that did wrong because he didn't tell you he had a girlfriend in the 1st place, and that's totally wrong. I know you like him, but you need to stop your focus on him and fixate on someone new,you need someone that can be honest, has no secrets,and had his focus on you, not someone else. Good luck, hope this helps.

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okay so a couple of months ago i was taking out my tampon (i have been wearing them for about a year now) and i had a lot of trouble. im pretty tight so taking them out always was associated with a tiny bit of pain, but hardly any usually. bu this time was different. it hurt terribly!!! i was in tears it hurt so bad. well, of course, i wanted to look to see what the problem was. it was like the tampon was coming out in the right direction, just, it was hooked on a peice of skin. and now, it does it EVERY SINGLE TIME i put in tampon. its making me CRAZY?!?!!!?anyways, i told my mom, and she thinks it maybe a septate hymen, but what do you think? my mom said i could go to the gyno a get it cut if it bothers me that bad? has anybody been through the surgery or know anything about it? thanks in advance...

okay, well i know my describtion (sp?) wasnt to great, so i made a (kinda retarded) diagram. maybe it will help. keep in mind.... I AM NO ARTIST! (:

http://i16.tinypic.com/486zpqf.jpg

THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH IN ADVANCE.

xoxo
(:

From your description, it could be one of a number of parts of the vulva. If it is located above vaginal opening and the clitoris, it could be the clitoral hood, which covers and protects the clitoris. Or it could be part of your inner labia. Or it could be a skin tag — the growth of tissue that has been cut or torn. Or, if it is located within the vaginal opening, it might your hymen, which might be partially torn.
I don't think it's a seperate hymen, and I don't think you have to have surgery, Hope this helps.

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okay, first off i am 15. the guy i like is 19. we really get along greatly, we talk on the phone for hours and never run out of things to say. we even finish each other's sentences sometimes. a lot of people have been saying he just "wants some" but, mostly everyone knows i'm not that way, including him. i really like him but i dont want to be called a whore for dating him considering everyone says college boys only want one thing. another thing i worry about is my parents. what they would think if i told them. what should i do about people talking about me? please help me. :(

That's sweet, to me age ain't nothing but a number. If he treats you right and respects you for that, then it shouldn't matter what people say,you like him, not everyone else has to.If you are worried about what your parents will say, don't. If he treats you right like the way you say he does, then you wouldn't be asking yourself this question. & when it's time to talk about him to your parents or to bring him home make sure he's up for it. If he's not, then he's trying to hide something. Make sure he has good manners too , so I say go for it, and Good Luck ;).

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