I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
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There is this white wiger at my school and friday the dance he kept bumping in to me and when he did he would say what punk u want to fight. i want fight him but there is cameras and teachers so i dont know where i should fight him??? (link)
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If you want to fight him, do it off school grounds.
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I have a friend, well he's actually a sisters friend, but I would also consider him my friend and I'm sure he would do the same. He's in 9th grade and I'm in 10th. One day while we were out we were on the topic of God and he said he didnt believe in God. He says he thinks Jesus existed but that he was just a normal guy. He said if God existed then he wouldn't have diabetes.
Now I want to educate him about God and help him accept him into his life. I feel it is my duty as a Christian to guide him to a better life with God, because you are supposed to help the people who don't believe. He is a really sweet boy, and I told him that I was going to teach him and he said "you can try but it won't happen" so if he said I could try I'm going to make every effort too!
My problem is I don't know how to approach it. How should I start off with this teaching and showing? I've considered asking my pastor but I decided to come here first. Thanks for any help! (link)
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Do -not- try to force your beliefs on him. I, myself, am an atheist and completely hate it if and when someone, especially one of my friends, tries to get me to believe in God and/or dwell on the fact that I don't. It is his life, let him live it the way he wants. He isn't doing anything to harm himself or others just by not believing. Accept him for who he is, rather than try to change him. Afterall, you can't change who people are without destroying who they were.
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What age is normal for girls to start masturbating or wanting to or getting horny? (link)
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There is no "normal" age. It is different for everyone, based on how fast you mature.
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My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....
I'm so confused. Should I call him? (link)
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No, you shouldn't call him.
Yes, you have the right to be mad.
And yes, it is natural to still have feelings for him. I am sure that most, if not all, of us who have been cheated on still, on some level, had feelings for said boyfriend for a while. In time, those feelings will go away, even if it seems impossible now.
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well see i got a boyfriend and i care bout him so much and it will be our 7 month anniversary on the 16th but there a problem...he's been put away in a boys home for almost most of ur relationship..and it kill knowing i cant see or talk 2 him at all...i saw him twice this whole summer and it sux....but i really care about him and i've known him since the 2nd grade but i dont know if i shuld break it off or just stick it out until he cumz home...which is in like 2 or 3 months...well im 16 and im a female....WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
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If you really care about him, do not leave him just because he is away. He is worth the wait, correct?
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Hey! okay so i like this guy named zach. he's my best guy friend's friend. I barely know him at all. He doesnt really know me.. So what do i do? (link)
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Hang out in groups and shit. When he is there, actually talk to him. Get to know him. Maybe something will happen between you two, maybe you'll realize that you do not like him at all, but you never know until you try.
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My little sister is almost 13 (I'm 16) and is in the 7th grade. She got this boyfriend over the summer, some guy who's in her math class, and she really likes talking about him. I'm starting to worry about her. Is this age-appropriate? I'm homeschool because I'm blind, so I don't know about these things. (link)
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Yes, people around her age generally start (or are already past the "starting" phase) dating. Do I agree that people should date that young? No. It is all a matter of opinion.
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hi. this is another "guy" question (i'm 14/f). Okay, there's this guy who's not hot at ALL but I seriosly think I love him. I think about him all the time. Ive been feeling like this for a few months now. we arent that close at all (we never talk or anything) but we say hi to each other and stuff. if someone asks mewho i like I say "noone" but his name pops into my head. sometimes I find myself thinking in my head "i love *hisname*". I REALLY don't want to like him bcuz my friends all hate him and stuff (but he's actualy really nice but they are just predjudiced (sp) cu he's not "hot". I know hes ugly and stuff but I still think i love him!!!! Do I or do I not?? ANd what should I do? PLZZZ help me!!!!!!! I rate 5s for good answers. (link)
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Judging people by their looks is very superficial and shallow. You never know, he might become attractive later on in life. You should never not date someone because of their appearance or what your friends think.
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I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 5 months. We live an hour apart and honestly, I've never had such a good relationship with a guy. My relationship with him is the kind that I could only dream of & hope for. And maybe for other people too. Everything seemed to be going along smoothly, no problems, and then out of the blue, my feelings just change. I all of a sudden didn't care to talk to him on the phone so I haven't talked to him in a couple days. I don't know, things just changed drastically & I don't know why or how. I know in my heart that I want to be with him more than anything & that I could never break up with him just because of how good our relationship is but I hate feeling like this & I want it to stop. Is there any way this can change? (link)
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Talk with him about it. You may be going through a depression. However, you can't force yourself to have feelings for someone.
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Sometimes i get a white/clear discharge in my underwear, well more like everyday. is this a sign of a Std? (link)
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No. It happens to most, if not all, females at one point or another.
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Hi everyone, i'm in tenth grade, and i'm in advanced algebra. well anyways i bought a TI-83 Plus calculator, and i was wondering if anyone knew how to download games onto it. like what websites, or what are some codes you can just type into the caculator. i'd really really like oregon trail (an upperclassman i used to know had that), but any games will do. o, and i'm not a calculator whiz, so i'll rate high for specific directions.
THANK YOU!!!
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Try these sites:
http://s95359928.onlinehome.us/ti/ti-83.html
http://ostermiller.org/ti82/games.html
They give directions and shit.
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Is it okay to date several guys at once. i am 14 and i dont want to be serious with just ONE guy...i just like to hang out with them all!!! (link)
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If you are in a relationship, then no, it is not okay. This is considered cheating. However, if you do not want to settle down, make sure you tell the guys that you aren't their girlfriend. Let them know that you are not making the relationship exclusive because you went on a date.
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I am having constant headaches. Basically every day I need to take medicine. I usually take 2 excederin a day. I am 14 and I have been having these headaches for a month or 2. My period has just ended and I'm still getting them. I get stressed easily, and I listen to music regularly. I get them during the end of school and at night. If i tell my parents I want to go to the doctor they will probably just say I'm fine. Should I be seeing a doctor? Is this normal? What should I do? Thank you so very much. (link)
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Those are called constant migranes. You would want to see a doctor, particularly a neurologist, to find out the cause of them. The cause can be many things, but some are serious and need medical attention.
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Well as of yesterday her and this boy broke up. It didnt bother her cause of how the boy was acting. And i really want to try to make her realize how bad i wont to go out with her. Does anybody have any suggestions on how i can do that (link)
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Just tell her. Be open, help her out in the situation, and be the friend she needs to talk to. Soon enough she may develop feelings for you. If she isn't ready for anything right now, give her time. Afterall, her happiness should be important to you.
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okay so...i totally have this thing going with this amazzzinggg guy. i really love him. like i really do. this isnt just like one of those 2 week things and then your over him. i really love him. and idk it just seems its so much easier to talk to him on the computer. but i HATE THAT. i want to beable to talk to him in REAL LIFE...it really annoys me how i get like that. i mean i dont like freak out or anything...its just like so much easier on the computer. so thats why im happy schools coming soon and i get to talk to him. any good tips to calm down...or good lines to say? anything ill rate high. thanks a bunch! love, -me (link)
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I agree that certain people are easier to talk to online, while others are easier in person. Some things you can do are:
Talk about common interests you have.
Ask him to go with you somewhere over the weekend.
Tell him how you feel about him.
Ask him about himself, get to know him.
Let him get to know you.
Just say what comes naturally. Think before you speak though, that way you do not say anything you will regret later. Once you get a conversation going, it will be easier and less awkward.
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I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this??? (link)
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In my opinion, it is good to have a variety of friends. It hardly ever gets boring that way. If everyone acted the same in your clique, you would all be clones and shit. There is no fun in that, now is there? However, it is always good to be friends with people who are into the same things as you. Talk to new people who have common intrests, join clubs, go to parties where you can potentially meet people.
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this boy broke mi heart.. do u guys have any ideah how i can get over him? please (link)
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This is hard to answer, since you didn't give much background information on the situation, but I'll try. If he was an asshole, reflect on that whenever you think about him. Feelings for him will eventually change, and you will move on. It is hard and shit at first, but it happens. Do things that you enjoy to do, and maybe even meet new guys. You will get over him in time.
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As soon as i get out of the shower, and i just shaved my underarms, It looks as if I haven't shaved in 2 days! All my friends at partys lift their arms up, and you can't even tell they shave there! I feel really uncomfortable raising my hand in a halter or like stretching in public because it looks as if I haven't shaved in a while! I shave my armpits every morning, but still! Do You have any idea of what i may be doing wrong or good products to use?? Please help me!
X's and Oh's
(I've read that you can wax there, but that's gone too far for me) (link)
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This can be common when you are a teenager. If it really bothers you, wear sleeves where your armpits do not show.
If you are very hairy in other places also, have medium-heavy acne, and/or are overweight, talk to your doctor or see an endocrinologist. You might have PCOS.
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my friend has a weired smell what is it and how do i tell her. Most of the time it smells like fish and I'm not the only one who notest in my school. And she is really nice and very fragel in her feeling.I'll rate high thanks. (link)
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Lend her some prefume or something. She'll just think you are being nice.
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MY 7 YEAR OLD SISTER JUST TOLD MY COUSIN MY DEEPEST DARKEST SEFCRET!!!!!!!!!!!! i kno i shouldnt have told my 7 year old sister it but i had to tell someone and i REALLY thought i could trust her cause shes never done nething like this before. she thought it was the funniest thing! i hate her rite now! what do i do??? like it was so personal!!?!!! (link)
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Let your sister know how you feel. Around your cousin, act like it isn't a big deal that she knows. However, next time, be careful who you trust with secrets. People may be friends with you one day, and enemies the next. Always be wary of these things. Tell people who you -know- you can trust.
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