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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!
just by going over your friends house you like her brother? it kinda doesnt sound that great! did anything happen? you really shouldnt make a rash decision and break up with your bf for your friends brother. btw..im sure your friend wouldnt like you going out with her brother anyways! (ive come close before..its just not a good situation) anyways, i think you should stay with your bf..but dont stay with him just to be with him. if you really love him then be with him
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Hey everyone.. well i need some advice here.. see my b/f is going away for 3/4 for labor day weekend, and i want to get him like a going away present, nothin too, i can't think of the word but you know, just something simple yet cute. i was thinking about getting a small box, not too small though, and decorating it, like maybe cutting out letters from magazines and make it say "i love you" or something. then in the box i want to put like hershey kisses in there and maybe a cute picture of me. then i wanna write like a little love note to put in the box as well. in the note i wanna say something along the lines of "this is since i can't be with you, since u can't have any kisses from me, or you won't be able to see me" but you know more detail, i wanna make it be almost a page long to make him feel special. and then at the end i'll use "xoxo hugs nd kisses" and stuff.. i haven't thought about everything i'm gonna put in the letter yet though. but anyways.. so i guess my question is, do you like my idea? (got it from somewer else though) or wut else can i do or put in the letter? also i was thinking about getting one of those big hershey kisses instead of a whole bunch of little ones but i'm not sure yet, which do you think would be better? oh also.. frame or no frame for the picture? i just wanna make him feel special, loved, ect.. i wanna let him know how much he means to me and how much i love him and am going to miss him over these days.. so any ideas would help me, thanks in advance and if you want rated ask. sorry if it's long Lol, bye.
wow..hes only gunna be gone for 3/4 days and your getting him a going away gift? it seams kind of xtreme..but then again i dont know how you and your bf are! haha! anyways..it seams like a great idea! deff go with the HUGE hershey kiss!:) and then get a bag of hugs and put them in the box with the big one..so there are hugs and a huge kiss!:) Before he leaves you should invite him over, and give it to him. Dont make it to be such a big thing..just say you want to hang out before he leaves. and surprise him! Deff go with the pic w/o a frame..so then he will be able to put it into his wallet! on the back of the picture write something like "as long as you keep this picture with you, by your wallet side..ill be forever with you" something cute and sweet!:) and in the letter..dont get ALLLLL mushy! guys like mushyness..but not WAYY over the top!
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I'm fifteen, female.
I get whistled at, hooted at from trucks, minorly harassed A LOT. It's harmless, and a little of it I have no problem with, but it gets annoying.
It's reeeeeeeally hot most of the time (I'm writing from Mexico, and I usually live in Southern California), so just covering up isn't an option, and it doesn't seem to help. I tried it one day when it was cool outside and got just as much unwanted attention as usual.
I've tried being a bit aggressive, but I don't know these people and most of the time they just laugh. Also, it doesn't stop it from happening the next time, which is all I really care about.
So, how can I stop guys from doing this? Is there anything I can wear that's nice and cool but utterly unflattering?
Cover yourself up a bit more..wear a long dress..or a long skirt with a baby-tee! boys will be boys and their gunna honk and say shit to you if your walking down the street..its just how they are! if it really offends you that much then dont walk down the street! lol! uH..if you want to walk..go to a gym and walk on the treadmill or walk down some less populated streets where the trafic isnt that heavy
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where do u think is a good place 4 a ffirst date?? ( romantic)
THE BEACH! at night especially..it always depends on rides and such. but then again, me and ryans first date..like uMm..official on our own not at home - was probably prom! haha! but where ever you go make it romantic by doing little cute things for him/her!
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Im not sure if my friends are tru friends they always say they are but then go behind my back and talk about me and sometimes they r really mean 2 me wut should i do?
their not true friends if their gunna talk shit about you! if their gunna talk shit about you, dont do the same and stoop down to their level..fight back and tell em' youve heard the shit their saying! dont be nice about it at all! you dont deserve to be talked about! tell them you dont like how they act all nice to your face but then talk about you behind your back ((srry ive had bad xperiences..so i kinda know alot!)) dont loose your ground..if they say that havent *which they probably will* just tell them off! dont wuss out and be all..ohh alright? tell them that you dont apprechate them saying stuff and then acting like best friends to your face. life isnt long enough..or worth it to hang out with people like that!
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This is going to sound stupid but the term "getting off" does that mean like when a guy "gets off" he gets a hard on or he orgasms??
when a guy is getting off? hes getting off (like getting hard) off of something your doing..or something that is going on. jacking off..haha! diffrent story! lol!
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hey. how long does the pleasure last when ur having sex? i hope it lasts longer then masterbating cuz the pleasure only lasts lyk 15 seconds when i masturbate. i rate high!
uMm..for ah girl it can last for ah lonnngg as time! we last WAY longer then guys do! guys..it kinda varies..as soon as hes hard and cums its kinda over for them..unless you keep things lively and keep him hard for ah bit! haha! But for girls it lasts for awhile, pretty much as long as he can last and do shit to you!
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okay well i havnt gotten my period yet.. and i have like no shape to my body... barely any boobs like no ass... when i get my period will my body start growing faster n stuff.... cuz i really hate how i look... im 13 im tall ( 5'3) I have really long legs... im really skinny... and i can never find pants and like i hate school shopping bcuz i can never find good tight pants that are long enough like if they are tight enough they are to long... so im really self concious.... idk what to do
dont worry! its just ah hastle once a month when you finally get it! haha! yah as soon as you start your period your body will change SOOO much! you'll deff get boobs and an ass..aswell as curves galore! haha! dont worry its iight! as for school clothes..idk what your into..but ALOT of places sell pants that are short-regular and long. go for the long pants! try out pac-sun they always have longs there!
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Can Sex keep you in shape?
haha YUP! i deff read that in a mag! you burn so many calories when you have sex! you even burn A TON when u make out..and making out cleans your mouth out..cuz of the saliva..so it keeps your teeth clean aswell!
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umm if my boy friend likes me but then he dumped me for a gay...! why is that???
uMm..that probably means hes bisexual
hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol?
uHh..it means you got back? your ass..hes talkin about if you got chur self junk in the trunk! haha! (that means do you got yourself ah booty) pretty much he wanted to see if youd shake it for him prolly..cuz guys are dumb and get off on dumb shit like that! dude! id deff go up to him..rub up against him and be like..yah i got the junk? do you got anything to show for your little hands (if he has em!) or little feet (if he has em!)
haha!
x0x-dani
Hey could any of you give me idea's on how to earn around 30$ by sept. 28th? 14/f
Depends what its for..go ask relatives or people around the block! another GREAT idea is sell something you have that u know will be sold easily on ebay! you make GREAT money!
x0x-dani
I'm moving pretty soon, and I really want to have a "theme" for my new room. I get whatever I want, and I don't know what would look good, my interests:
1. Anime and manga (Japanese stuff) That's my favorite, I really want a Japanese style room.
2. Nature.
3. Dark stuff, i.e. kind of punkish.
4. American Eagle, and Aeropostale. I know you can't really make that into a theme, but y'know.
5. California! =D
Thanks?
check out www.pbteen.com its the pottery barn for kids. they have like FULL room stuff goin! its pretty cool with themes and everything you need for a new room!
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does anybody know a site for ringtones that i could download songs that actually have singing with the real music? for a verizon wireless phone.
thx
uH..i dont know of ANY ringtones that they acually sing. there are polyphonic ring tones and some other kind~ haha! on the box you got your phone in..go there and it will have a web-address..go there and there should be ring tones there!
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How do i put my advice colum in my aim profile?
on the left hand side it says Welcome, (your user name) then 3 down it says your advice column..it will bring u to your page..copy the http and paste it into your aim profile. if you want it to say something specific like mine says .*advice*. then click on someones name..(like you were goign to chat with them!) there is a blue thing underlined saying link click on that it will bring up a diffrent box , in the hyperlink url put the http you copied. then in the next one it says hyperlink text. you can put anything you want there. afterwards its gunna show in the box where u type your message..cut it and paste it into your profile!!
(hope this wasnt too confussing!)
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I am a week into my freshman year at college. I am so stressed out as to how I am going to get all of my work done and still have time to relax. All of my professors have been saying to come up with a daily schedule and when I did, I don't know if I will be able to fit my homework in just four hours. What do I do? Any advice will be appreciated as to what to do and how to deal with it. My major is Music Education. Thanks!!
definitally talk to your professors and ask them to help you out with a schedulle. my older sister is in college and has 2 jobs. she works full time and goes to college classes full time aswell. her schedulle is kinda revolving around her classes. she goes to class - goes to work - goes home and relaxes for about an hour - homework for 2 then sleeps..and does it all over again. there reallie isnt any time to relax during college cuz its reallie preparing you for life. but deff ask your professor..or even roomates!
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My friend liked this guy for a while, so I decided to in a way set them up. He had quite a lot of free time, so they started to hang out with each other often. He really likes to wrestle, and has always asked us to try to trip him or flip him over. My friend decided to try to do it again and again, and she'd always loose. Sometimes she gets hurt, and asked him to stop, but sometimes he just do it again. He puts her down sometimes, and my other friends and I can't tell if he was always joking or not. They spend a lot of time alone, but my friend don't really know him that well. She's a pleasing kind of person, and I read an article in Teen People that made me worry a little. Is it normal for them to be always wrestling? Am I just paranoid?
uHh..i personally dont think it is normal to always be wrestling! me and ryan fool around ALL the time..like we'll beat each other up ((not reallie!)) and wrestle like every once and awhile..but we never hurt eachother..its just joking around and we laugh the whole entire time. there has been times that he has gotten a little carried away and come close to hurt me but i always tell him it hurts or to stop and he does immatially! and that guy should aswell. if he cant respect her enough to stop before he hurts her then you need to get her out of that situation.
((let me know what happens!))
x0x-dani
i want to loose 4-up pounds in about 9 days. I really just want a flatter stomach but still wanna loose some punds. What can i do? Need all the help i can get. (Usally rate HIGH)
well..the best way to stay in shape is to RUN~ alot! run on the treadmill or go run on the road..start out little..with a mile..then work your way up! be sure to time your first mile to!
try this system!
1st day-stretch, pushups, situps, 1 mile jog
Ok...I'm 16 years old and I don't go to a regular school...I go to a girls' school. I don't KNOW any boys. I just don't. I wanted to meet some because I really want a boyfriend. So, I went to a restaurant the other day, and started smiling at one of the guys there. He just gave me a look like "What? Why are you staring at me?"
What is wrong with me??? I thought that was a good way!!
Well, atleast I got his attention, right?
ugh.........
well..thats not the way i would go about it! what you should do is go to a chem free night at a local club! you'll meet so many guys and people!:) dont flaunt your stuff too much cuz guys may get the wrong impression! its cool you go to an all girls school! go to one of your hometowns football games, with some of your girlfriends and just go up to guys and say hi im so and so!:) it works...as long as you dont scare them away. just have confidence in yourself!
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HeYy dani!
i've liked this guy for about a year, and i really like him A LOT, but the thing is he has a girlfriend and he has for a while (but he didn't have one when i started liking him) and i keep trying to tell myself that maybe things won't work out between them and there may be hope for me, but he claims to really "love" her :( and then i realize that i can never have him. i've tried getting over him and liking other people but he keeps coming into my mind. i know it's selfish but i like him soo much, and i wouldn't feel bad for his gf if they broke up :/ i would really like to have a relationship with him but i know its just a dream that won't come true. he knows i like him and at one point i THINK he may have liked me, i just wanna know how i can finally get over him and be free to think about things other than him and what it might have been like to be with him, being in love with him is breaking my heart...please help?
--someone you know but i don't think you know who this is (sorry so long, i've had this bottled up)
AwH sweetheart..that sounds so horrible! ((the whole time i was reading this i kept thinking, "i hope this isnt about u liking my bf ryan!" which i dont think it is! haha! newayz!)) alls you can do is move on..hes with someone new, and you really cant change that. he can..and nothing is forever (cept me and ry! haha! JK!) so dont ever give up hope. do alot of activites to keep your mind preoccupied..do some sports you like to play, hang out with your best girlfriends..do stuff you love to do so your mind will be off of him. heck! if ya need to..ill hang with ya! haha! (if im not busy with soccer!) but there really isnt anything you can do to cure a broken heart..its better left broken, cuz if you try to fix it more bad things can corrupt it and hurt you more. my sudgestion is just start some new things, try new things..tryout for a school sports team! join some clubs that you think would be intresting!! dont just mope around, thats not the way to go about your life..stay positive! and im always here!
x0x-dani