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advice on getting over him
HeYy dani!
i've liked this guy for about a year, and i really like him A LOT, but the thing is he has a girlfriend and he has for a while (but he didn't have one when i started liking him) and i keep trying to tell myself that maybe things won't work out between them and there may be hope for me, but he claims to really "love" her :( and then i realize that i can never have him. i've tried getting over him and liking other people but he keeps coming into my mind. i know it's selfish but i like him soo much, and i wouldn't feel bad for his gf if they broke up :/ i would really like to have a relationship with him but i know its just a dream that won't come true. he knows i like him and at one point i THINK he may have liked me, i just wanna know how i can finally get over him and be free to think about things other than him and what it might have been like to be with him, being in love with him is breaking my heart...please help?
--someone you know but i don't think you know who this is (sorry so long, i've had this bottled up)
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AwH sweetheart..that sounds so horrible! ((the whole time i was reading this i kept thinking, "i hope this isnt about u liking my bf ryan!" which i dont think it is! haha! newayz!)) alls you can do is move on..hes with someone new, and you really cant change that. he can..and nothing is forever (cept me and ry! haha! JK!) so dont ever give up hope. do alot of activites to keep your mind preoccupied..do some sports you like to play, hang out with your best girlfriends..do stuff you love to do so your mind will be off of him. heck! if ya need to..ill hang with ya! haha! (if im not busy with soccer!) but there really isnt anything you can do to cure a broken heart..its better left broken, cuz if you try to fix it more bad things can corrupt it and hurt you more. my sudgestion is just start some new things, try new things..tryout for a school sports team! join some clubs that you think would be intresting!! dont just mope around, thats not the way to go about your life..stay positive! and im always here!
x0x-dani
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