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I have a question regarding my ex-boyfriend...we broke up in December of 2001 abruptly after a horrendous visit to meet his parents (it was all just bad timing) he broke up with me because he felt our disagreements during our visit made a bad impression, thus he broke up with me on the plane...it was all very quick. We had only a very passionate 7 months together mind you. Yet, we had this awkward year and half afterward of not being together yet still feeling so much and having a sexual relationship. I really stopped being close with him around April of 2003. I graduated that year and have since moved. He has been emailing me every so often wanting to know what is up with me and how my life is. He is the type to always have a motive in doing something...why is he bothering?! Yet, most of me is over him..I am curious..and still heart broken. Should I avoid anything really personal when emailing..I dont want him to hurt me again, yet sometimes I wonder about the possibility...I am 24 female he is 23.
Thanks
You have all the right to be heart broken. It's not easy to stop liking/loving a person in a few seconds.
He broke up with you because he thought it didn't work out...so why go back? I find him a lonely pig. Not one couple will not have disagreements.
You two can still be friends, but don't go back to him if he can only play with your heart again and break it.
Well their is this boy that i really like and he also likes another girl. i think he likes her more though because at lunchtime he always sits next to her and he says that he likes her more. Meanwhile, their was this school dance and he asked ME to go with him and i said yes. We have been together for 3 months and this girl came along now! wow! Also, This other boy really wants to go out with me and he said he will do anything. But i think i still really like the other boy.What should i do? He also really likes me . we are having a trip and he wants to sit next to me on the bus meanwhile the boy i went to the dance with asked this new girl to sit nex to him.and if i say i like this new boy the boy i went to the dance with gets mad.what should i do?
The boy you went to the dance with is a womaniser. Forget him, you don't need a guy like that. Go out with the guy that actually wants you. Just give him a chance, he could be better than the other guy. Emotions aren't easy to get rid of, you know.
O.K i think i might still love my x boyfriend but one of my best friends is his girlfriend! whenever i get bak together with him she always ends up taking him away from me! they have been going on and off for like 7 months and i cant take it anymore. i mean i flirt with him sometimes but i dont think he notices. i feel that his girlfriend is like just completly better than me and i hate it!!!!! sometimes i just really hate her but then at other times she is just the sweetest thing. i wanna get bak together with my x, but that would mean breaking my best friend and the boy of her dreams up! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!! WRITE BAK ASAP!!!!!!!
*lauve645*
But he doesn't have feelings for you. Why would you want to waste energy on that? It's hard to forget about your love, but it just doesn't worked out the way he wanted it to. Don't you want him to be happy?
She has the right to take him away...it is her boyfriend now. As much as it hurts, just let him go. With her. they are both happy, right? Did she like him when you two were together? If so...then that's how she probably felt. It's her turn with him.
I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere.
>.<
Oh yes, that above was not directed towards you. Heh...
Anyway, I am sure you thought about what can happen after and talked to your boyfriend about it.
And about the pill...I hate pills :(. Doesn't it say somewhere on the back or side of the box thing? Try looking it up on google...type in the name of the pill thing. It should say on the website. If that still doesn't work, go and ask your doctor...it really depends on what kind of pill it is.
THERE'S THIS BOY THAT I LIKE BUT HE HAS A G-FRIEND WE FLIRT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. SHOULD I TRY TO BREAK HIM AND HIS G-FRIEND UP OR JUST LET IT BE.
He shouldn't be doing that...and you know it too. So it's partly your fault as well.
Don't try to break them apart. It's just a big no-no. How would you like it if she did that to you and him? Not so much, huh?
My friend's teenage brother died last night in a car crash.....what should I say to my friend?
As said, there is really nothing much you can do nor say.
Just let her/him know that your there by him/her side. Through everything. Hug them, cry together. Nothing will bring him back.
I have a really good friend. She is head over heels for the guy of her dreams. She even now dates him. She is overbering in a caring way. She really likes him but while she was gone i found something out. He thinks that she is crazy and is going to break up with her. I know if he does, she will be devistated. Should i tell her of the impending doom. If i do she might hate me but if i dont she will lose the guy of her dreams. What can i say?
It's all about how much he can handle her. You know some people annoy you, or some things that a person does, and if he thinks and feels that he can't handle her, or maybe doesn't have feelings for her anymore, why fake it? There are a lot of other men in the world, she can find another one. Bedside, it was just a boyfriend. Not the love of her life, or else they could of still been together, no matter what.
It's judt worse if he fakes it.
Don't tell her, let her find out for herself. It's nice that you are concerned, but it's between him and her.
pick a number 1-100 make it a good one or i lose
Two. Yes, two.
2.
my friends and my ex bfs all tell me that im beautiful/pretty but i dont believe it. i have low self-esteem and i cant get over it. i dont think im pretty at all. except my eyes. i like my eyes. i think i have a big nose, bad lips, stupid looking hair and i think im fat and everything and my best friend says that my low self-esteem is a big turn off but i dont wanna think im all that or anything and i just cant help but think im ugly and not good enough
Ha. I think I am pretty but I can be "shy" as they call it. So blah to them.
You have to love who you are. For me...that's not a turn on. Or a turn off. It makes me see people in a different way. Different in who that person really is.
The more you say you suck, the more it will get stuck int oyour head.
Next time before you go to bed, say "I love you" to the mirror.
i have blonde...little bit lower then shouldner length hair. its kinda shaped like a mullet. but cuter lol. and it goes diagnol from the bangs to behing my ear. anyways.. need a way to style it. and im not poor but my family is having a bit of money problems right now...where can i get cheap clothes that still look really "cool"? i wanna look good 4 my soon 2 be boyfriend and i really really need some new clothes lol. well, thanks 4 any help! bye!
You can make your own tee-shirts. It's hip around here if you do that. So...do that.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&q=make+your+own+shirts%21
and/or
http://www.livejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=t_shirt_surgery
i can't say anything about hair...just play around with it and see what you like. That's what I do...my hair is wacky...
go to google and type in "hairstyle" and click on "images."
yes, yes...lame "answer" but you should go and experiment.
I work the light board for school plays, but I'd really like to try out for a part. I love acting, but my stuttering problem makes it difficult. How can I prevent speech impediments from becoming an obstacle?
You practice at home. :) Over and over again.
Oh, common! I know you've heard that before.
COver one of your ears while speaking. I do that when I sing. Maybe it will work for you too. :)
Anyway, do you do that when you talk to your friends or family members or something? If not, then your just nervous. Think of a favorite actor or actress...what will they do in that kind of situation?
I think that's what you meant. I didn't get enough sleep this week.
yes or no?
Everyone took my answers! :'(
poo...
NEXT QUESTION!
HAVE ANY OF U PPL HAD THEIR PERIOD????????? WUT DOES IT FEEL LIKE??????? DOES IT HURT!!!!!!??????? TELL ME I NEED TO KNOW!
Yes.
It feels squishy down south when it happens. You might not notice it aat first...it took me a few periods to finally feel the difference.
It's a bit annoying...if you think about it too much, you'll find yourself in the girls room looking at your behind to see if there is a red spot. Unless you have dark pants. I use always...and it works. But you hvae to change your pad in the middle of the day. After the first three days, for me at least, less of it comes out.
It used to hurt AFTER I had my period. But there are pills so that the pain will disapper. I only took them for a few days (I'm not great at swallowing pills), and since then I have been pain free.
But it is different for every girl.
does it hurt when you have your period? im not talking about like the cramps but like the other stuff. and why do people have pms before or after or during their period?
No. Not me...at first, it hurt after my period was over. As if someone punched me on the stomach or something. I can't remember because I took pills so it wouldn't hurt. Since then...I am free from (that) pain!!!
W00t.
:)
I want to loose some weight. Do any of you people have like a cure... well not a cure, like a thought of how I can maybe loose a few pounds?
PLEASE ANSWER A.S.A.P!!!!!!!
Eat whatever you want. Exercise for five minutes a day...a slow start.
Let a week go by, eat better diets, exercise a bit more. Challenge yourself.
Let a week pass, and don't eat after 8PM.
And always have a buddy rooting by your side.
:)
lately i cant wait to grow up. like i cant wait to get my period, i cant wait to become a teenager, i cant wait to go to colledge, i cant wait to get married, i cant wait to have kids, i cant wait to drive, like all of that stuff! does this mean anything?
*lauve645*
I remeber that feeling :( All the adults pushing me away...and I wanted to be all grown up because then they would let me get into coversations...
Really...I hate it.
While your still a "child," enjoy being one. Your not young forever, and even I am only 13...I miss being "young."
There is a lot more to life than what it really seems.
how can u tell if someone else is having there period do they act diff or sumptin
A lot of people call it when a girl is PMSing...usually when a female acts more moody. But some people act the same.
*cough*
People won't know someone is having their period unless they tell them they are, or someone is just spreading the word. So really, you can't tell.
if u r younger and hav a friend who is only few yrs old, not too much of difference but can it bond more than a friendship and become somthing more?
Bah...it's just what the other said...it doesn't matter IF "there isn't much of a gap."
PAH.
I disagree. You could be 16 and he could be 30...and it can still work out. People don't know it, but it's true. But you do have to watch out if that is a case someday. As long as you to know and love eachother deeply, then it's all fine.
Anyone care to explain why so many dumb***es insist on having sex before they turn 18!!!!!!!!! It's bad enough they don't wait until after marriage, that I can live with easily, but COME ON PEOPLE, it's illegal. SOMEONE TELL ME WHY!!
It was like this since way back....only it's /more/ out of control these days.
They just do whatever they and and what they don't know most of. The less they know and the more they watch those TV shows with sex in them, the more they would do it.
It also depends on their lifestyle or if their parents are at home, if they listen to the or if they beat them.
I think my big toe is interesting. I know that's weird, but I can't help staring at it. What should I do?!
"beauty becomes obsession"?
why am i even using that quote?
just turn your head around and look at something else. because really, you can fill your days will better things.