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I've realized how alot of girls are asking how to loose weight and such. Everyone wants a flat, toned tummy, and it really bothers me because we think we have to be like all of these models and stars so guys will like us. Guys, honestly, do you want a stick for a girlfriend or a little cusion for the pushin? I mean back in the 70s and 80s people werent so judgmental and didn't look at someone and say, "your fat". I mean can i get an AMEN! Im sick of people saying they are fat, and saying they need to loose weight when they dont. Think about it! Leave comments and explain why you want to be a stick.

I agree with you. I am not saying I want to become a stick or anything, I am not girlie at all really, it's not like I wear skirts everyday to school like some do, since I haven't in the last 3 years. Yet I still want a some what flat stomach in the summer when it comes beach times thats all. But I do agree with you and when I see some who is skinny like crazy (my sister for example) and they say they are fat, I say "yeah your fat in the head" because they are so skinny compared to half the world. But I agree with you!!

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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention?

Just tell him u need comfort. Maybe something happened at home or something and he trying to keep it to himself? Sry I know it wasn't much help

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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate!

Stretch Marks...don't worry!! Use Palmer's Coco Butter rub it on and in a few days it will be gone!

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This may sound wierd but im friends with this guy i met maybe 3 weeks ago at a teen dance club im 17 hes 19, i bearly know him and i dont know what makes me feel so much like i need to help him but its killing me that i cant come up with my own solution.

This kid was recently kicked out of his house where he lived with his father and step mother, and that may possibly be a good thing. his father was abusive and it wasnt a good living situation. the last few days hes either been sleeping in his car or finding people to stay with. What hes planning on doing in 11 days is moving back to texas (from new york) and back in with his biological mother who hasnt seen him in forever and who hes only been talking to for 2 weeks. All his friends and his life is here though and hes not even sure if texas is going to work out for him.

i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of things he can do. chances he has of staying here. He did graduate highschool etc and is really a nice guy though obviously he has his issues. This is a last resort for me. idk if theres people i can talk to or what i just need someones advice on this

thanks

If he has any money, suggest maybe a hotel for now, till he decides he wants to move to Texas. Maybe his mother can send some sort of fast money and pay for the hotel stay? Like credit card type pay, till he wants to go to Texas. Maybe help him find a low rent apartment? Try going to a homeless shelter or a church and ask them if they have any suggestions of where he should go. Hope I helped

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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

HAHA I 100% agree..eithe write in normal english, or don't write at all!!! geeze

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I have a myspace account and I can't seem to log in. I keep logging in and it always brings me to this page that says "You must be logged in to do that!". I clicked on the forgot password thing just to make sure I was putting in the right password and then I went into my email and now I cant get logged into my email. Any clue what's going on? This is driving me insane. I have a yahoo email account if that would help any.

I used to also have the same problem with my Myspace it would keep making me sign in to do certain things, that it was driving me insane then after a while it stopped. Someone could be hacking into your pc if you cant log onto Myspace and Yahoo. That happened to my friend on AIM and some site he goes on. I am not really sure.

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Can you get your belly button peirced at Claire's? i heard that from a friend but i dont think you can. thanks for your help.

They only do ears. You have to go to a tattoo place to get it done.

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ok i have stretch marks on my legs (15/f) and i was wondering how the heck do i get rid of them? summers comming up and i dont want to be seen in a swim suit with stretch marks on my hip/legs...
please help i rate high

i had them..Palmer's Coco Butter..it works best!

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hey i love your advice column! ok i have a huge question...what are somethings that i can do(actions) to make my bf want to kiss me more?

Hey, Thanks. Somethings that you can do to make your BF want to kiss you more are like playfully take something from him and hid it behind you, and make him kiss you to get it back as many kisses you want and then you can give it back to him. You can kiss his noses like guys kiss ours to let us know that they want to be kissed or you can just give him lil kisses right between the mouth and the cheek and ect. Hope I helped.

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Whats the name of the song/band that sings the song that starts "where is your boy tonight i hope he is a gentelman??" i rate 5s thanks!

My friend sings it all the time in the chatroom we are in with friends it's:


Artist: Fall Out Boy
Album: Take This To Your Grave
Title: Grand Theft Autumn (Where Is Your Boy)

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Here's the deal.
I have been single for about a month now, and it really sucks, I don't feel lonely so much, but at the same time, I am really lonely. I just need help meeting guys and getting them to like me and everything, something I've done before, I just don't know what to look for anymore. I guess I just need help finding a good guy, someone better than my past relationships. I have to get back into the single life I guess you could say. 14/f.

Signed,
Lost Mojo

Hun, your 14...you don't need a bf right now, you don't need a guy around your life now...all you need right now @ 14 are you girls and a few credit cards lol...trust me, you don't need a relationship @ 14 now when you have your whole life ahead of you to date. I know I feel alone sometimes too and wish I had a guy who would hold me in his arms and make me feel happy, because im 15 and all my friends do are talking about their BF's and how much they love them and crap. So just give it some time and Mr. Right will soon to be at your door.

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my father abuses me what should i do

tell ur mother or someone!!! A.S.A.P.!!!

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I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for along time and this year I can tell he is starting to like me a lot more then as just a friend. I like him as more then just a friend too and my BFF says she can tell that we like each other. I am afraid to bring it up and so it he, because we are afraid we might ruin our friendship. Could stay friends if we broke up? Should we take the plunge? Like this morning when me teacher was handing out scrach paper for the cst's She said we could use it for anything, drawings, doodels, notes, or even love leders. I saw him looking at me when she said this and I was looking at him too. I really don't know what to do!!!

You can still stay friends after you break up, my 2 friends...were friends in 7th grade...went out in 8th grade and broke up early november this year and they are still friends...make the 1st move and ask him out, yes I know it's risky losing a friend after going out and all...I can see your point there...bc I feel like I am in the same bubble where I am scared to go out with one of my friends because I am so close and I don't want to destroy the friendship, just do what you feel is right, if your scared. If you do happen to go out just explain to him on how much you care about him and all..you don't want to loose him as a BFF after loosing him as a BF...can see what I am saying?

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i think i like my friend, but im not sure, and i think he might like me too. we live in different towns but we went to camp together. He has been much more social and like IMs me right away wehn i sign on. help! im 14 and female fyi!

I have the same problem my friend IM's me as soon as I when I sign on, or he signs or if one of us come away. It's does sounds like he likes you. If you think you really like him maybe you can try asking him out, the summer is coming soon you can probably hang out a lot over the summer if you go to camp together.

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i straighten my hair EVERYDAY untill its straight enough..but the girls at my school have the hair thats perfectly flat..and straight ends..like pointy straight and it looks really cute..all their frizzys are hairsprayed down or something, did they fri their hair..or how do i get my hair like that?

I agree with EGCiviccoupe...Be a leader not a follower...u can create your own style as well..and on the count havin smooth straight hair they get it periment done...and for frizzy's by anti-frizz hair stuff...the stuff my sister uses its sliver and a purple label and says ANTI-FRIZZ across it.

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So I started my spring track season pumped and ready to go in the beginning of March...then my hip started hurting me when i ran so i went to the doctor and she told me i had a growth plate problem and i would have to sit out for 4 weeks then get 7-10 days of physical therapy and i looked at the schedule and i was heartbroken but i was only gonna miss 7 meets and be back in time for one of my favorite meets for freshmen and sophomores only...well i finished my 4 weeks rest and today the physical therapy perscription came in the mail saying 2 to 3 times a week for 3 to 4 weeks....which means i would miss the entire rest of the season....i told my mom i wasnt gonna do it and shes like fine go run and i want to because my hip doesnt bother me anymore but i dont know if my coach will let me run without a doctors note saying i can...i spent an hour crying over this...sports are my life and i can't imagine not doing track, ive been to the meets ive missed to watch and i almost cried because i miss it too much..what do i do now?

aww I'm sorry, but I think you should do the therapy just in case. After your done ask the coach if there is some sort of summer camp where u can run track n ect..and be all ready for the fall/winter track..sorry it wasnt the best

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my friend at school is going out with this boy that i liked.i'm asking u do u think she is a true friend or no. but i don't like him now.please help me i will rate.

did you even tell her that you liked him? Why should it matter anyway...if you don't like him now why do you seem mad at her, its not like she is doing it while you like him.

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im asking this question for my friend...

one year ago, when my friend and her family were away, some little girl was walking through the alleyway. my friend's neighbor's dog is really big and scary, so the little girl ran, and jumped my friend's fence to hide from the dog, and as a result, broke her arm and needed surgery.

one year later, my friend's parents get a letter in the mail saying that they will be getting sued because it happened on their property. IT'S NOT EVEN THEIR FAULT. can they fight against this?

thats stupid...shouldnt they sued the neighbor instead??

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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way?

I have to agree with kiyya when she said "It is wrong, your telling me not to bash you for your opinion but look, your bashing this girl, she might not be happy about her desicsion, but you do not know what situation she was in ,and you don't know why she made that decicsion."

Do you know that she didn't use protection? Maybe the condom broke, because I don't understand how someone had sex and got an abortion as well...why not just use a condom? How do you know that it was her decision? Maybe she wanted that child and her parents wouldn't let her live at home if she had it. How did the school find out anyways?? Can you see where I am coming from?

Yet, I have to agree I think as well that Abortion is totally wrong on the case of..how would you feel if your mother got an abortion and didn't let you have you the life you have now? So on that point I have to agree.

Yet on the other hand everyone has their own veiw on things.

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EDITED-...u said that i didn't see the added info n ur right..i didnt because u added it 5 mins after i answered..

but when you said "could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her?" you said you dont want to be friends with her..sorry but it sounds like your judging her

EDITED AGAIN-- but was it her choice to give up the child?

EDITED AGAIN-- ok then....what the hell was she thinking? now i see why you don't like her decision..and i have to agree with you on that...because what she did was plain pathetic

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Me and my friends are having a sleepover this weekend what sort of things can we do besides the usual stuff like watch movies? any ideas? thankyou xxx

Every girl should know what they can do at a sleepover..talk about guys, read magz, listen to music, play games and ect..there are a lotta stuff you just gotta think..normally when my friends stay over...we talk on-line bc i have a pc in my room, watch a movie, talk and play video games..and ask for advice on stuff yeahh its pretty fun...or we would dance..make cookies...skip in the rain singing the Wizard of OZ while locked arms...lmaooo there is a lotta stuff you can do...just think!! lol

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