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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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can anybody suggest some really hard hangman words? Whenever my friends and I are bored we always play hangman and all my words are too easy LOL! (link)
Go into a dictionary and look up words that will give you a challenge to look forward to. Good luck :D


okay im female 16 and have only had boyfriends
but lately ive been looking at lesbian porn :S i enjoy it .. does this mean im bi??? (link)
That doesnt mean your bi. Being bi means you feel attracted to females so my question to you is do you feel attracted to girls when you see them at school or around town or w.e and if you do then ya you probably are but watching lesbian porn isnt enough to go on so try going deeper into this and try figuring it out if it bothers you otherwise just less nature take it own course. Good luck :D


well me and my boyfriends broke up a while ago (still friends) and resently i have been recieving some mix signals.
the probs is i keep having dreams about him, this has never happened befor but has been ongoing since last week.
last night i had a dream we were talking and suddenly he puts his arm around me. in my head i was like , if any one saw us what would they think. We walked into class and he sat infront of me and put his feet on the desk. i said "gross no" and he put them down i laughed and said im kidding its fine, he smiled then i woke up.
what does this mean??? (link)
I think it means you still have feelings for him and that you just want him back these kind of dreams always happen when a relationship ends it only means that you still have feelings for him or wish that you were still together but if you think you two cant or shouldnt get back together then try thinking of something else and get you mind off of him by dating other guys or just keeping yourself busy that will stop the dreams unless you like having them in which case you should go talk to your ex and maybe talk about getting back together? Good luck :D


So, in my analysis of whether or not the boy I like may have similar feelings I have done some research on body language. I came across "hands on hips" as a nearly giveaway sign that a guy is interested. So today I was in my class as usual and we play this review game right before tests. So when it was his turn to stand up he stood up and put his hands on his hips. Is this the giveaway sign that I read about? I mean, he wasn't talking to me or anything, he was simply standing up to answer a question. Though technically since he sits next to me he was facing my direction when he did it. Am I reading too much into this? It isn't exactly the only sign I've gotten from him, but I just found it really shocking when I saw him do this. Thanks guys. ;) (link)
Body language can be misinterpreted a lot of times so i wouldnt go on that to see if he likes you or not because that doesnt seem accurate i think the only way to know is if he flirted with you and hung out and talked to you all the time or looked at you all the time or if he told you he did so ya dont go by the body language because it might be wrong. Concentrate more on his actions than his body language it will help you understand more trust me. Good luck :D


is Barry Manilow gay? My mom loves him and if she ever found out I think it would kill her. She was arguing with her coworkers about this and she was the only one standing up for his straightness. So which is it? (link)
he has GOTTA be.... only entertainer gay-er was liberace...and he wear more make up and hair spray then liberace did lol but i dont know for sure a lot of people say he is and hes done a lot to prove he is too i guess the only person who really knows is him.


F/13
I just met a new friend this year. I thought she was amazing. Except she is kinda strange b/c she dresses emo and goth but says she's not. She also is OBSESSED with tokio hotel and hellboy. And it gets sooooooo anoying b/c she talks about them all the time. So she also told me in the beginning of the year that alot of ppl turn on her b/c they think she's wierd and gets really mean. And I was like "that could never happen with us. Well be friends forever." boy was I wrong. We always had fights. One day we'd be friends and then the next we'd be enemies. So one day I was walking home with my friend and he asked to have her number. I told him I'd have to ask her first. So the next day I was joking around and told her I gave him her number. So then she said.....and I quote....."so I don't care" so then I gave it to him. Then the next day she was all mad at me. Cussing me out, talking about me behind my back, pushing me out of her way in the halls. She just is such a jerk. Then one time....since she's obsessed with tokio hotel I was telling her that bill looked like a girl. So then she says "OMG NO HE DOESNT!!!!! If he looks like a girl then that means you look like a boy." so then our friend Mariah told her the EXACT SAME THING. And then she replies "I kno seriously. He needs to change his image" and I was standing there lik WTF So what should I do???????should I stay friends with the basterd or try to fix the friendship?????? (link)
end it shes obviously not nice and seems a little bitchy so i think you should just let her be and move on and meet new friends i meant why fight all the time when you could spend your time having friend with your real friends. Besides if she was a true friend she wouldnt be doing all that she does to you. So end it now before it gets worse which it can. Good luck :D


is there a special diet that models follow? I mean is there an actual "model diet" or do they all just do their own thing to stay skinny? Thank you for answering my question! :-) (link)
theres no model diet most just starve themselves and other have a very good healthy diet that works for this for example they exercise and diet. If your trying to lose weight then try exercising by running or working out on the tredmill or eliptical bike for about 15-30 minutes a day or until you burn atleast a hundred calories and then for diet just cut out fatty and sugary food and cut it out for a month but you can have a little something once a week to keep you motivated and this will for sure help you lose atleast 5-10 pounds in a month.


have you ever been hanging out w/someone and they just look so good and you want to say:

i want you so bad right now :)

i feel like saying that to this guy. don't give me the sex lecture or anything. i was just wondering if anyone has said this what the outcome was. would it be stupid of me? would the guy think i was crazy or do you think he would think it was hot?

anything will help! thanks!
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unless the guy feels the same way about you he would probably think your crazy so before doing anything stupid talk to this guy and find out his feelings for you otherwise you will just embarrass yourself and make him want to run away from you. Good luck :D


like i love my girlfriend with all my heart but its hard 4 me to trust her but i really do love her but anyways my girlfriend been bringing up dis new guy that goes to her school and shes like he annoying and stuff but i believe she keep thinking about him because she likes him cause like she saids he is annoying when he is not evening doing anything to her and he doesnt even talk to her so i believe she likes him but she wont tell me i ask her lots of times and she gets all mad saying i only love you and i only want you i really need some help and no disrespect but please dont say if you really love her you should believe her i cant cuz it doesnt add up :( (link)
Sit her down and talk to her tell her how your feeling and that if she likes this other guy then tell her that she can go out with him and that you understand because im sure you dont want to be with a girl who doesnt feel the same way about you. Basically what im trying to say is have her open up and tell you whats going on and tell her that she has to tell you because not knowing is driving you insane and that if she loves you at all she will tell you the truth. GOod luck :D


17/F
Okay so I'm seriously getting annoyed with all of this! I'm a senior and the guy I like is a freshman so in age we are 3 years apart. The problem is it's really hard to tell if he's interested or not. Sometimes he acts like he is and says things like I'm lookin forward to hanging out with you :) or he'll tell me I'm pretty or something along those lines. But in the other hand he won't text me back (I'll only send one so it's not overboard) or we will be talking and A. He stops answering or B. Suddenly has to go...the kne that really bothers me is when he just doesn't answer me when I text him. We are going to prom together and everything but I'm not completely sure he's too excited for it. Another thing is my phone acts up from time to time but mostly it's just while talking to him I think but I'm afraid to say something like idk if you answered me since my phones jacked up bc what if it wasn't my phone and he intentionally didn't answer bc I'm coming on too strong or something. Usually I'm straightforward with these things but I'm afraid to jus flat out tell him I like him bc it could scare him away!! So my question is what are your thoughts on all this? Is he interested? Should I just tell him I like him and want to get to know him better? What do I do?! Thanks in advance. (link)
Just tell him how you feel because theres no other way hes gonna know i mean whats the worst that can happen he wont feel the same way that doesnt mean if he doesnt like you that you cant just be friends but you need to tell him how you feel because chances are he probably likes you too otherwise he wouldnt be texting or talkign to you all the time and about the him not answering you back sometimes all guys do that my bf does it all the time because he just gets bored of texting and rather just talk in person because its just easier im sure he doesnt mean anything by it just give him a chance and tell him you like him that way you will know for sure if you both can go beyond being just friends.


lately me and myboyfriend have been fighting for like a week. and we have been going out for two years i really dont know if anyone can say anything to much different then what im thinking but im really sick of fighting over everything and i dont know what to do i want to keep it going but how can it just stop for good or is there no way i have no clue anymore im about just exhausted from it all please help me to get my boyfriend and me back to us again. (link)
Maybe you two need to sit down and just talk and get all your problems out and sort out everything just tell him you dont want to fight anymore and just forget whatever and move on that way you can continue your relationship basically forgive and forget and your relationship will work but if you keep going on about this the fight will just get bigger. Good luck :D


I live in a small town and there is only one shop that sells dresses. Now, I would like to have my promotion dress be different than everybody else's if at all possible in any way!

Can somebody tell me good places to shop for promotion dresses online? Maybe if I can find a really cute one I can order it and have it here in time. :-)

Thank you in advance! (link)
try these websites they have awesome dresses and outfits

http://amiclubwear.com/
http://www.hotmiamistyles.com/
http://www.cutesygirl.com/home.aspx

they have the cutest clothes and they ship pretty fast too i hope you find what your looking for :D


Ok so Im dating this really special guy named Angel. He used to be my bestfriend till we started messing around at my house and started dating.We have been dating for almost nine months now.Im really happy and he seems to be too,we do alot for eachother.Only trouble is...I feel that I love him but Angel has had a bad relationship that scared him(with the onlygirl he loved)she lied to him and snuck around and yeah now he never wants to be in love or say those words ever again...Idk what to do about this because I love him n he knows it but if i say it im afraid I will upset him cuz he hates those words.But Lately like today he was telling me how much he likes me that he really really really likes me and that words cannot express how much he likes me....Does that mean he loves me but doesnt want to say those words? He has been saying this alot lately and im glad im making him happy...I just wanna know if you think he loves me or i shud give up on the hope that he will or does and will say it to me?.....Im used to everyone else falling in love with me but me never falling for them. Never had this situation before. Please help (link)
K well the best thing to do is sit him down and just open your heart up to him and tell him that you will never hurt him because you love him and that you just want him to tell you he loves you and that if he needs time to say it thats fine but you just want to hear it basically make him feel comfortable enough to say it prove to him that you wont hurt him and that he is special to you by doing this he will be confident enough to say it to you. Good luck :D


I am just wondering what exactly a pelvic ultrasound is. I know what an ultra sound is, but what exactly is the procedure for a pelvic one? Will I need to take my pants off for it? (link)
check this website out it has all the information you will need for a pelvic ultrasound

http://www.radiologyinfo.org/en/info.cfm?pg=pelvus

hope i helped :D


I want to compete in the school talent show, but how do you find out what your talents are? I don't even know if I have a talent! It seems like everybody else does but all the obvious ones like singing and dancing are things I have no talent at all at.

Can anybody suggest some new talents may be some uncommon ones that I can try out to see if I am good at them? (link)
talents are something your good at and that can be anything so just write down a list of things your good at and find something to do with one of those things and thats one of your talents. Or you could do a dance,martial arts, or even be a magician and do card tricks and stuff theres endless possibilites really you just have to find something you find fun and likes to do. Good luck :D


hi there! Does anybody know some good class of 2012 quotes? I don't want to be the stupid one who has nothing to write in the yearbook! :-) Thank you! (link)
here are some my grad class is using this year

“I hope your dreams take you... to the corners of your smiles, to the highest of your hopes, to the windows of your opportunities, and to the most special places your heart has ever known.”

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”

“To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.”

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.”

“Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.”

“All our dreams can come true...if we have the courage to pursue them.”

“Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.”

“If you can imagine it, you can achieve it; if you can dream it, you can become it.”

hope this helped :D


i think i might be a lesbian. how do i tell? i mean i have had sex with guys before (only 5) but its getting boring...i mean i dont get off very easily anymore and i dont look forward to having sex. i mean the kissing and foreplay is fine but the actual pentrating kinda turns me off. could i be a lesbian or is there something wrong with me? (link)
I guess the only way to really know is to just wait and see who your more attracted to men or women i mean if you find women more attractive then your obviously going to be fond of them and that could mean your a lesbian but if you think your attracted to both your bisexual meaning you like either or. Hope i helped :D


are there any jobs for teens that will hire you if you are only 15 years old? I have been looking around, but maybe I am not looking in the right places because I haven't found any jobs at hire at 15!

Help? (link)
any fast food resturants like mcdonalds burger king subway and stuff will hire you at the age of 14 so you should apply there because any other job you need to be atleast 17. Hope i helped good luck :D


can anybody give me some advice on graduation dresses for the eighth grade? I need a place where I can buy one that isn't going to cost a whole lot but is still going to look really cute!

So where can I find a dress for my eighth grade graduation?

Thank you! (link)
Well because prom is around the corner for many theres actually a lot of dresses out and you can find them pretty much anywhere but here are some stores you can check out and check out the websites to them first so you know for sure if they have what your looking for ill also add some online stores so if you can or want to you can buy a dress online :D

Forever 21
Wetseal
Charlotte russe
hotmiamistyles (online store only)
amiclubwear (online store only)
cutesygirl (online store only)
Suzy shier (canadian store)
pac sun
hot topic
delias

thats all i could think of i hope i helped :D


okay, prepare to think I am really stupid but I don't have any idea what I want for my birthday!

My parents asked me what I want for my birthday but I already have a laptop and an iPod and a digital camera. I don't really want to ask for clothes because I already spend a lot of money on clothing.

So, what do I want for my birthday? :-)

Good answers will receive feedback! (link)
I would just ask for money that way when you want to get something or need to you can just use your birthday money thats what my parents have been doing with me for the last 2 years because i didnt really need anything so ya money is a good option or just think about what you will be needing soon and have them get you that. Hope i helped :D




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