17/F
Okay so I'm seriously getting annoyed with all of this! I'm a senior and the guy I like is a freshman so in age we are 3 years apart. The problem is it's really hard to tell if he's interested or not. Sometimes he acts like he is and says things like I'm lookin forward to hanging out with you :) or he'll tell me I'm pretty or something along those lines. But in the other hand he won't text me back (I'll only send one so it's not overboard) or we will be talking and A. He stops answering or B. Suddenly has to go...the kne that really bothers me is when he just doesn't answer me when I text him. We are going to prom together and everything but I'm not completely sure he's too excited for it. Another thing is my phone acts up from time to time but mostly it's just while talking to him I think but I'm afraid to say something like idk if you answered me since my phones jacked up bc what if it wasn't my phone and he intentionally didn't answer bc I'm coming on too strong or something. Usually I'm straightforward with these things but I'm afraid to jus flat out tell him I like him bc it could scare him away!! So my question is what are your thoughts on all this? Is he interested? Should I just tell him I like him and want to get to know him better? What do I do?! Thanks in advance.
It could also be that he thinks that he's out of your league because of the age difference.
You should tell him I think because you really have nothing to lose. It could be that he does like you. And if he doesn't then at least you'll rest assured knowing that you tried rather than graduating and wonder what would have happened if you told him.
Katlyn answered Thursday April 15 2010, 12:41 am: Just tell him how you feel because theres no other way hes gonna know i mean whats the worst that can happen he wont feel the same way that doesnt mean if he doesnt like you that you cant just be friends but you need to tell him how you feel because chances are he probably likes you too otherwise he wouldnt be texting or talkign to you all the time and about the him not answering you back sometimes all guys do that my bf does it all the time because he just gets bored of texting and rather just talk in person because its just easier im sure he doesnt mean anything by it just give him a chance and tell him you like him that way you will know for sure if you both can go beyond being just friends. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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