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Ok so Im dating this really special guy named Angel. He used to be my bestfriend till we started messing around at my house and started dating.We have been dating for almost nine months now.Im really happy and he seems to be too,we do alot for eachother.Only trouble is...I feel that I love him but Angel has had a bad relationship that scared him(with the onlygirl he loved)she lied to him and snuck around and yeah now he never wants to be in love or say those words ever again...Idk what to do about this because I love him n he knows it but if i say it im afraid I will upset him cuz he hates those words.But Lately like today he was telling me how much he likes me that he really really really likes me and that words cannot express how much he likes me....Does that mean he loves me but doesnt want to say those words? He has been saying this alot lately and im glad im making him happy...I just wanna know if you think he loves me or i shud give up on the hope that he will or does and will say it to me?.....Im used to everyone else falling in love with me but me never falling for them. Never had this situation before. Please help
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"he was telling me how much he likes me that he really really really likes me and that words cannot express how much he likes me....Does that mean he loves me but doesnt want to say those words?"
Sounds to me like that's what he's trying to say. Do this. Next time he says something like that, you say "I need to hear you say it, the thing that you're trying not to say. I need you to say it once. And then I won't bother you about it again. Say it once, or don't say anything at all". Geez, that sounds like something out of a movie. But try it, or something like it. Maybe he just needs a little nudge, just a little sign that its ok to step out on that ledge. You're going to be there to catch him.
P.S. - Got your feedback. Awwww.... I'm so glad that worked out for you... and you didn't even have to say anything! That's awesome. Enjoy the feeling. I hope you two have a long and prosperous relationship.
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K well the best thing to do is sit him down and just open your heart up to him and tell him that you will never hurt him because you love him and that you just want him to tell you he loves you and that if he needs time to say it thats fine but you just want to hear it basically make him feel comfortable enough to say it prove to him that you wont hurt him and that he is special to you by doing this he will be confident enough to say it to you. Good luck :D
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