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hey i'm courtney! :)
i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.

advice

All i usually do with my hair is straighten it and put it in a ponytail. What are some other cute ways to do your hair (other than wearing it down, putting it up in a ponytail and french braids)? My hair is reddish/brown (auburn) with some random blonde in it also, and a little longer than my shoulders. And if it helps, i usually wear sporty clothes.

you could buy a crimper iron. and crimp it. there are different styles too. not just one style of a crimp. or try styling it half up, with some little curls on your ends. :]

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Does any one know any of the songs in the movie "she's too young"?
Or is there a site with the track listings?

hon i tried searching and all i get is cast and reg. credits. i doubt they have a soundtrack, you can watch the ending credits of the movie though, and it gives the artist name and song name of EVERY song played in the movie.

i tried. :]

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14/f

k so i want to go to the concert in cleveland, ohio january 3rd. i've looked like everywhere and can't find out how much tickets are, does anybody know? they go on sale september 29
oh and where i can buy them, like you can buy them at ticket master locations right?
thanks so much

you could most likely buy them at the ticket master locations. or what's easier, go online and get them at ticket master. they probably run about 60 per ticket.

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ok so i'm a really shy person i'm really sensitive i have a very low self esteem and well i just started high school at a new school and well it's only a town over from my old school but still new kids and it's high school and it's the end of the first week and i havent really made any friends i mean i might talk to some people in my class like someone who sits by me but thats it and well i really wanted and pictured high school like totaly perfect i made lots of friends i did good in school and i was happy but i'm not happy i have no friends and yeah i really want to be more confident and i'm kinda overweight so i'm a on a diet and walking everyday and drinking pretty much only water so i think if i lose weight i'll be happier and people will like me hopefully but i need more ways to be confident now and whatnot so please help and dont tell me that i dont need to lose weight for people to like me cause thats not true people are so shallow these days and i hate it so i'm gonna change myself

well, don't just leave it up to people to approach you. you're capable too. maybe get involved in activites with kids from your school. :]


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well there is this guy that i think i am in love with. I've liked him for about a year. Him and I have a pretty good realtionship. Im really scared of rejection, so i've never told him I liked him. I think about him all the time. We always flirt and have hooked up a few times. Im scared to tell him how I feel because he is in my circle of friends and i dont want i to be weird. Im honestly would do ANYTHING for this kid. Is this love or lust and any suggestions on what to do? Thank you =]

Well, i think you might be both. you want to love him, and you DEF lust over him. you might just love him and not be inlove, theres a difference.

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Is it better to have the guy you love for just one night, or not at all?

That's pretty much the choice I have to make. I can either be with him for one night, or never be with him.

I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall for him more and then just have to give him up, but I don't want to regret not being with him, even if only for a night.

He doesn't do exclusive relationships.

you are worth more then. He doesn't do exclusive he isnt serious. you're just a tool to him, and you'd be letting him use you, even if you likd him. B/c he doesn't return the feelings.
find a man who returns your feelings girl .:]

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I'm 16, I'm also in love with my best friend(of five years)'s ex boyfriend. I love my best friend and I know she still has feelings for him, but I've liked him since I was 14 (when they were dating) and I don't really know when I started loving him. He's also professed his feelings to me...and he asked me out. I know he really likes me, if not loves me back. He always makes an effort to be around me, tells me I'm beautiful, he calls me at night before I go to bed, studies with me, he's always the first one to notice the littlest changes in either my appearence, or even my mood...

I really want to be with him, but I don't want to hurt her. Please don't tell me that guys will come and go, but friends will be forever. That will honestly not help the situation at all. I really, really love him, and I don't know what to do. I can tell I've already hurt him by not telling him yes or no yet, I don't want him to have to wait any longer for a response. I don't want to lose my best friend either, she's my family.

Well you need to make sure whoever you're siding with you love most then. either way one will get mad at you hon. your friend might understand, but it's not right to date an ex for awhile. i did it, and lost my best friend. I kept it from her, and now we don't talk. it was my biggest regret.
whatever you do, be honest with both people. :]

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REALLY LONG!

I'm 16/F
I've liked one of my best guy friends named Ben for a while but I'm not sure if he's considered a "jerk" and a bad guy for me. I'm wondering if I should let it go. I met a while ago and as soon as I saw him, I knew I wanted to find out who he was and talk to him. I noticed how nice and smart he was and he made me laugh more than anyone I know. We flirted for months and I never went a day without talking to him. We always texted each other from the beginning of school until the time I went to sleep and during class, he would only talk to me and ignore his rude friend who always cussed me and my friends out. He was picking me over his best friend. Eventually, he liked me, too, and even admitted "I can't keep myself away from you." But something happened over the summer and our differences got between us and we only talked about 2 times a month. I secretly still like him and I didn't stop the whole summer. On the first day of school I was walking and I looking around for my friends and I saw him. We were looking straight at each other for the first time in months and I choked up and turned away really quickly and hid. Childish, I know. Later on, my best friend told me he texted her asking about me and why I didn't talk to him and whatnot. So when I finally saw him, I jumped on his back like I always did. He just kept walking though because his best friends Luke and Sam kept telling him to and they kept telling Ben not to talk to me and telling me to go away. They were acting like they were 12! But the bad thing was Ben was listening to them and I couldn't understand why. First he complains I don't talk to him and then when i do, he runs away. I can't stand guys who are too influenced by their friends. He should make choices on his own. Should I let it slide or just ditch him forever? I mean, I can't imagine what he says if his friends tell him I'm ugly or whatever. He used to go around showing off that I liked him and acting like I'm his whore but I know he's a good guy. I never liked anyone for this much and I never wasted this much time on a guy. But should I just drop him because he does whatever they say? I just don't know anymore.

You should call him or meet him in person.
talk to him about the situation first.
Don't write him off just yet. If you are wasting this time on him you must like him enough right? Well, maybe since you two didn't talk much over the summer he thought you moved on anfd were too good for him. He might just be feeling rejected and so now he wants to agree with his jerk of friends. See how he feels and if he's still into you. and it'll all work out. :]


goodluck!

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hey.. what are the effective ways to prevent hair loss????

thanks in advance.

aviod things with vitamin A.

exercise, do yoga.


use gentle shampoos and conditioners. that wont damage your hair.

massage your scalp in rosemary oil, in olive oilbase.


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What exactly is Gospel? i know it's a type of music..one time I think its a type of person..

We have a song and we have to tell us what the Gospel values are in that song, What ARE gospel values?

so confused! please help!

Gopel is about the teachings of jesus& the apostles. the christs' life and such.
it's about our god in music. :]

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why cant i just let go & move on
when i know im just holding on
to a hopeless wish thats
never gunna come true.


its a qoute thing i made. i wanna put something in my profile explaining whats going on in my life. which is :: i like this guy. we went out and i broke up with him. now i regret it and i miss him like crazy and the " hopeless wish" is that i could get another chance. if this doesnt make sence and you have something better please tell me =] and that wasnt the first time we went out so it cant say anything like " having a second chance. "

wishful thinking is a heartbreaker.



love isn't worth the second chance.


i wish the 3rd time could be a charm.


I tried lol. :]

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im 16f.

i SECRETLY have a huge crush on this guy for about 4 months now. i invited him on friendster and yahoo messenger. my friends forced me to save his number in my cellphone. we're classmates. they we're really fooling around and they started to text him as if im the one texting. they asked him about our english project because we're groupmates. There was really no conversation, just a read and reply type of thing... as if he's not interested.

some of my close friends in class often catch him starring at me.
he's close to other girls but he just ignores me.
he becomes quiet wen im around or near him.
we just glance at each other from time to time.

what is really going on with him? i dunno if sum1 told him bout my secret or does he just hate me being around? wut do i do?

im not really used to guys ignoring me... i often please them but this guy, the one i like the most is the one i can't stand.

please help.... thanks in advance!

Ask him if he knows your crazy for him? He won't hate you for it, he'll like it. Tell him you want to talk more. That he's a great guy, and you like him. :]


just don't worry, it'll be alright hon.
Goodluck. :]

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i like this guy but he doesntseem like to like u what do i do

Make him notice you. put yourself out there more. try flirting, be cute. :]

let him know you like him . goodluck.

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yeal im one of those weird chics who likes metal cauz i used to be goth andi never got over it.....

i also like country cauz im from hickville and everyone here likes country! but the problem is i usually lisen to the radio so i dont know many of country bands or metal bands so if you know any GOOD SOUNDIN counrty or metal band names it would really help.....

metal,


metallica. duh. nirvana. mindless self indulgence. my faves.

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what do guys look for in girls looks physical and mental. be completely honest what makes you think were hot?

I'm not a guy but most im sure like girls who aren't stick then have some meat on them. And in the right areas. Girls that make them chase 'em. They like the adventure, the fun. :]

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What are really good stomache exercises that will flatten your tummy, that actually work with a healthy diet, and exercise.

SIT UPS really aren't doing it.

Help?

eat things that you know are healthier. full meals. snacking a lot isn't good for you. strech a lot. loosen your muscles, try jogging, even walking for 15-20 minutes.

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what does "Never underestimate my Jesus." mean?

maybe someone is saying "my jesus" meaning, their own jesus, the one who they pray to and who helps and guides them. That they are capable of things you wouldn't imagine.

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okay well when me and my boyfriend hang out once a week we never can think of things to do soo any ideas? we cant really go anywhere sooo if you have any ideas of things we can do at home please help!.

watch a romantic movie. go for a walk, bikerides. they are nice. :]

try talking about eachothers weeks.

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14/f
recently i have been talking to an guy 2 years older than me. he lives in my town but goes to a private school. ive hung out with him once and i really like him. his friend told me he was thinking of asking me out. i have no problem with that, i just dont know how to tell my parents. i usually tell them everything but i dont know how they would react. what is an easy of telling them?

thanks in advance

Tell them you're friends first an want to hangout, ease into the situation with them. try buttering them up. :]

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what are some songs about regret things you did. and wishing you could take it back??

thanx. :]

armor for sleeps' album

"what to do when you are dead."

those songs on the album are good for that. :]

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