I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please!
That sounds like a good way to get noticed in a new town and everything!! Maybe try putting fliers up on the street sign on the corners or something, but b4 that if your mom works you could have her see if any of the poeple she works with have kids that might need it, that way it helps you out with all the work of Posting!
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
well there is nothing you can do about him being gay! just be like so what? try not to let it get to you becuase nothing you can do will chnage that, once they see it dosent bug you , i bet they will stop trying to tease you like that!
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There is this girl that I really like and she is a little bit younger than me and we talk a lot and are friends, I want to ask her out on a date but I do not want to mess up our friendship, plus the age thing might not go over so well, even though I have a feeling that she might like me a little bit. Should I ask her out on the date or should I just keep my feelings inside and go along as if I do not like her???
Well it all depends on the situation.. i think age is just a # and it dosent really matter and it shouldnt be holding you back, if you think she likes you alil bit.. then maybe try and tell her and talk to her about it, if you go and flat out ask her on a date, and it turns out she dosent like you then things might get weIrd Bewteen you guys.. if i was you i would see how she reacts to it, and then go from there, but that is a really confusing situation!!!!
well hope i helped you.. * BloNdIeE*
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it?
Go out with ure frIends, get your mind off things, dont sit around being sad becuase then , your going to start thinking about things way to much instead of just gettin Rid of all of it, so just go out and have fun!
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.
Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.
I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.
Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.
My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?
~ClarinetKtM
I think you and ricy should become good friends and get to kno eacother better and stuff like that, and that way when u guys d0o go out it will b a lasting relationship.. but dont just rUsh into something thats not Ready yet!
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me and this guy (that i like) always talk online (he goes to my school) but we never talk at school...actually i think he avoids me at school...he doesnt have a girlfriend and we seem to get along...whats up with him?
Well he might feel alil ackward, like maybe he opended up to you online all kinds and yet u guys still never met in person, maybe you shoukd go up to him and talk to him ... Try to break the ice and then maybe he;ll come around, if not then thats alil bit wEird.
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I went out with this guy (we'll call him Tim) for a few weeks but then we broke up. Now, a year later, Tim is one of my best friends. He tells me anything and always comes to me when he needs advice about his new girlfriend (we'll call her Callie). The problem is that Callie hates me! The reason why is because before Tim dated Callie, Callie had another boyfriend (we'll call him Connor). Connor dumped Callie because he thought I was hot and wanted to ask me out (which he never did). Tim said Callie hates me because she's mad that her ex boyfriend dumped her for me. I don't want her to hate me because she seems like a cool person and I don't like it when people hate me! And I know for sure that Tim is telling the truth about her hating me because he is so sweet! Please help thanks! I'll rate ya! ps. I'm 13/f
Well i mean its not like you went out with her ex boyfriend "Connor" , if h said he dumped her to go out with you, and then never asked you out it was probely just a excuse to get out of the relationship, since you and Tim are like best friends and so close i dout that Callie can break you guys apart, maybe have tim talk to Callie about it and have him explain or all talk about it together, and try to become friends , that way you guys can all hav fun and there dosent have to be drama bewteen everyone.
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Well here's my situation. My mother was seeing a man for awhile that seemed totally normal, well as time passed he began to become controlling and totally weirded out. He was suppose to be this guy living "the good life" with money ect. ect. Well things started to get weird whenever everytime we were suppose to visit his house the meetings would get "cancelled." After awhile he started to turn my mother against me. He convinced her that I was a hell raising child who needed to be locked up, and I needed help because I was "Ill in the head." All of this was far from the truth. Anyways, to make an extremely long story short, we found out he's not who he says he is, and he has a major criminal record, just got off parole for MURDER. He has an obsession over me (For God only knows what reason) and now the police are after him and he dissapeard before they got the oppurtunity to arrest them. This has brought so much strain on our family. My mom is constantly drinking, and I just can't look at her the same after the things she did to me because this psycho told her to. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what to do in this situation. I want things to be better in our house-hold after this, but I have no idea where to start to mend it back together. Sorry it's so long, thanks for the help.
thats really hard becuase your mom rerally was into him sicne heshe was lisnting to what he always had to say.. thats also VERY scary! id be still scared if i was you! Maybe try and talk to your mom about it and dont make her feel bad about what happeNed, things are already hard enough for her i think..
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I'm 14 and a female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concertrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse. When we were dating he told me he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. After we broke up we still talked and he told me that he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and I was upset. We started to say hey and gave hugs whenever we saw each other and I told him to call but he never did. The next day at school I found out that he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks after we were broken up). I try to get over him and move on but it's hard because I still have alot of feelings for him and I still love him. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he did was totally wrong. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me...right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I dont know how he is feeling right now. His friend is supossed to see how he is feeling about me. I don't know what to do though. Can you help? Thanks!
of coarse you love him still 6 months is a long time for ure age and hes what you have been with.. maybe he just wanTs to try other things out, you guys are young and maybe he had second thoughts, i think he still likes you alot, but i think he might have mixed feelings on what he really wants. Maybe he just did tht to see if ure what he really wanted, still he shoukd have told you thats how he was feelingbecuase it was unfair for you to find out the hard way, im sureif he found out u did that with other guys hed be pist and confused 2! so talk to him about whats going on, and about what happened, maybe its time you guys took a break for alil bit, but since u guys still have deep feelings for eachother plann on gettin bacK together, who knows? maybe you will find somebody much better that will be commited to you,, ure still young .. date around and see what tings you like and dont like in a guy!
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Well there is this guy i use to like...well he told me he liked me in all right...well noe hes goin out with this gurl jenny..an well i told him im mad at him becasuse he lied to me..but i dont want him thinkin an tellin people that im mad becasue he dont like me ...which i dont like him anymore beaces he lied too me ..an i cant talk to him an tell him becasue i freakin hate him..ugh what do i do ...help me ...I RATE GGOOODD
well, i think your over reacting, when he told you he liked you .. he probeely did.. if you want him to like you even more you should be supportave of his new relationship, most likely things with her wont last long and when they break up he'll Rememeber your the one who was there. Just be there for him to talk to about things and in the long run it will be a good thing and maybe you guys will hit it off!
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There is this guy i have liked for awhile. Im pretty good friends with him. And everytime i see him i just want to run up and tell him how i feel. And i just want to be with him every second of the day because he is such a great guy! He is single too!!! I don't know what to do. Im way to shy to just come out and say it to him...but i just wish he would know. How do i go about doing this besides being straight forward about it?
Well maybe write him a note, or a poem or do something spontanious to make him know how you feel bout him, he sounds like the perfect guy for u since he has you so swept off your feet! Take advantage of that and then go for it!
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I am a 14 year old boy who will get a caniche toy poodle in less than two months and I am very, very happy about it but there is a problem. Waiting is killing me. Those two months seem like eternity for me. What do I do to make me feel like the time is going faster. Hope you know what I mean.
Any advice will be appreciated.
well im not sure what u mean by Caniche toy poodle, if it a toy or a real animal? Well if its a Real poodle then dont start getting things for him justyet becuase then time will take way tooo long, id get ure mind off it forawhile, like get into some video game or something that taks up time, soon as it comes down to a week or less, then start setting up while it will stay and gettin things for him and all that stuff, tme should go by much faster!
if its toy like a toy, then id sey u need some help!
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My friend and I are trying to plan a party. The thing is, I know that at most parties, not much goes on. I mean, you eat, and then when the going gets slow, someone gets everyone to start dancing. I'm not a big fan of dancing, so I'm trying to figure out what I could do besides that. I'm not saying I'm completely opposed to it happening, I just don't want to spend an hour trying to avoid the swaying mass congregated in my living room.
Soooo...if anyone has any ideas on fun things that I could plan (that aren't too corny, I need them to be things that a bunch of sixteen-year-olds would agree to doing) I'd love to hear them! Thank you!
(by the way, it's a holiday party, so anything Christmas/Hanukkah themed would be appreciated)
well most parites now a days have dancing,hmm no guys are going to be there? im not qure what to sey then!
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OK there's this kid Nick who is really cute and yea i like him. He asked me out yesterday! and i have school tomorrow and like what do i do when i see him? i mean we are technically b/f and g/f but he hnags with the realli popular crowd im just popular so i dont really feel comfortable aroudn his friends. So my thing is... hwo do i approach him and what do i talk to him about? i mean he just broke up with his girlfriends 3 days ago and has a reputation for dating around and being kind of pressuring-ish... yea i know its sounds so thetic but idk if it'll work out. Any advice or comments plzzzzz
Well it seems weird tht you are so nervous bout taking him to and hanging out with him! i dont think you should be with him it sounds like hes not the b/f type, and he jus dosent give his feelings out.. so you might end up getting hurt! But if your realy into it just go up to him and get to know his frIends and hang out with them, if hes not going to want you to hang out with him and his freinds then your going to have probelms.!
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any quick tips for getting my dogs to go to the bathroom outside?? or is it true, you cant teach an old dog new tricks?
yea of corse you can! dogs are really smart animls you can teach them alot, but your going to have to be really patient and train them with Treats and stuff and reward them evertime they do something good! It takes time but sure they cna learn!
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well i broke up with my boyfriend in may and now i go to the same school with him and he still wants to be with me i dont even want to be friends with him and now he has a classes next to my locker and i see him everyday i dont want to talk to him and i told him i like another guy and he insists that we should get back together but i told him i dont like him at all and now he doesnt stop bugging me what do i do. or what can i do
well if u told him you dont like him, and you told him your into another guy and he still likes you, i dont kno what to sey i gues he REALLY LIKES YOU! lol! But try and avoid him i guess, or be mean to him to get him to not like you any more if thats really what you want!
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Okay, this is kinda compicated. So theres this guy i like. hes a year younger than me, hes 16 im 17, but i couldnt care less about that. last year, at homecoming, two of our mutual friends decided that he and i should go out. so they convinced him to ask me to homecoming. he really liked me. but i was still in the process of getting over this really complicated relationship/non-relationship which it has taken me until a few months ago to get over. i did have some feelings for this guy (the first guy) but i wasnt ready and i felt cornered cuz our two mutual friends were pushing for this so when he asked me,... i reacted pretty badly. as in not good. rejected him. not gently.now, hes hung up on these two different girls, one is an exchange student from new zealand. shes really nice, but ive talked to her about her and him, and she says itll never happen. the other girl is not allowed to date. so there's no problem except that he likes them. sometimes i get signals from him that make me think he likes me, and then hell make a comment about one of the other girls and im really not so sure. but i really like him. but im going to college in less than a year and we wont be in the same school or even the same city. well be in the same state though. im so confused. please help.
Well it dosent sound like things are going to hapen with both you guys if your leaving and wont see him any more,if u want things to still be there though, id stay n touch with him and maybe smething will happen, but i duno if things will happen 4 awhile! if u guys are ment to be then it will happen!
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Okay....I've liked this guy for almost 3 months, we don't even go out and I had sex with him. I know that's bad but I let all the influence get to me. Well that same day, him and his friends was playin on my cell, and when me and my friend was walkin home, I was looking through my phone and his phone #'s were gone, so I my friend called his cell, and he gave us his "supposed" house number....well my friend called it the other day the number was wrong. I was sooo mad. Plus he told his friends what happened between us now they think they gonna get some from me and their not. It's like he used me for sex but he says he didn't. I like him for the better side of him cause I know it's there. But I'm a good person and most pplz say that he's not worth me, but it's always been hard for me to get a boyfriend. So I don't wether or not I should try to stick with him or not....
Well i for sure wouldnt.. thats bad that u had sex with him and hes not your Boyfriend..but sometimes things can happen.. i Dont really understand why he took his #'s out and then lied to you bout a house #, that is kind of surpising and he sounds immature too me.. i think you coukd get much better thEn him
nd also somebody who wont play lil head games with you like that!
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I go away to school and I have a little sister who I dont get a chance to see a lot. This past weekend, I came home but I didnt spend as much time with her as I should have. We got into a little fight and when I left, I didnt even say goodbye to her. Do you think she can forgive me?
Yea she will forigve you over time, im sure shes mad now becuase things didnt go right and she dosent get to see you aot ne ways, but im sure after time she will forgive you..
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My room is always messy and when I clean it up it just gets messy again! Im try to keep organized but it just never seems to work! What are some tips or things I can put in my room that will help me?
Well if you dont have shelves maybe you can get some of those put in or like those movable drawers alWays work, and then you can have all your thingsput away, Also just when you get something always put it back, then u'll be organized all of your life!
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