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ok i have been going out with my bf for 5 months now. and we love eachother liek crazy. he has been thru the worst because of me! but my parents dont like him because hes 19 and im 15. but he is the best guy ill ever meet. trust me. idk what to do because i rarely get to see him and i miss him...it hurts.....i dont wanna break up because he would do something stupid...itz happened before....help me please (link)
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wow honey thats tough but hes 19 if anybody suspects that you guys are dating he can go to jail for a long time hes almost 20 and u better hope your parents dont call the cops on him.and since you love him and you hardly get to see and because hes 19 i would just become friends with benifits you know just until your a little older like 17 or 16 you know but you guys should sit down and talk because it sounds to me that you guys have important issues to work out hope i helped good luck
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Me and my girlfriend have been sleeping together for a while, except recently I've been worrying myself to pieces. Even when we use a condom and it hasnt split or slipped for weeks later I'll be stressing out because I get paranoid she could become pregnant.
Recently Ive been avoiding sex and she's starting to notice I don't know how it'll affect our relationship. I don't want to be this paranoid about sex for the rest of my life either I just can't stop worrying! I don't know what to do? (link)
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you dont have any control over it why are you stressing when shes not and you said so your self you didnt spill so dont worry if your really worried pull out but dont insult her
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my friend is 2 months late on her period and has taken 2 pregnancy tests from the store and both came out negative but she is worried she hasnt started yet. her breasts are sore and she says she notices her stomich looking a little bit bigger. i am the only person that knows and i have to find a way to help her!!! (link)
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you deffinetly need to go to the doctor or find some one that you can trust because she needs help there are alot of complications to go along with pregnecy
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A: I’ve been together with my girl friend from three months now and we met first time for a week and second time for ten days. Sex in the first meeting was great between us however the second time we met and slept for a while in the last days of the tenth day meeting I get to finish before her and I can’t make her satisfied because I’m done and can’t continue. if I even start again to have sex with her it doesn’t work.
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try 4 play first so your both getting satifide and i heard if a guy whacks off or gets whacked off before sex they last longer and if that doesnt work than when your doing her think about pleasuring her and not how good it feels so good luck
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do guys like it when a girl moans during sex? (link)
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yes as far as i know guys love it just as long as its real and your not faking it so go head and moan
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ok well i'm catholic but i masturbated and it feels really good even though feel uncomfortable i do it well cause i love the feeling should i stop? my friend doesn't know but we talked about it and she said people encourage it please help me cause i really like doing it (link)
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than keep on doing it and its completely normal to masterbate everybody masterbates its actually healthy hey i do and almost everybody i know does so keep on doing it
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I'm a 15 yr old sophmore and i like a 13 yrold 7th grader, is this wrong? I skipped a grade so i dont think its that weird but im afraid my "friends" would if they found out. (link)
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thats not to bad and thats only 2 years so dont worry if you like him go for and who cares what your friends think do what you want and in my opion i dont think hes to young so go get him lol hope i helped
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ok, here's the deal. there's this guy i have a pretty big crush on, he's about three years older than me and he most likely has no clue i exist. how do i get him to notice me? (link)
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start a convo i know it sounds forward but you might be suprised you know just start a convo about something weird or ask him a question or just say hi and start talking he wont notice you if he doesnt think you notice him you know good luck i hoped i helped
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Ryt wel i am seeing this lad and i really like him i have been with him for about a month now and i dont want to hurt him but my ex..who i still love.. wel we have just bin kinda flirtin with each otha and he has asked me to go to the pictures with him and i said yes. I have made sure were not going alone yano so nothing wil happen becausei dont want to cheat. but the thing is i really like my ex and he said that if i wasnt with someone, he would ask me out. The only problem is he has played me before and he has really hurt me..but he apologised for al that said he was realy sorry. i really dont know what to do..so i stay with my bf or what ? please help! x
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well do you really think that your ex is sorry and if you do than make your choice it seems like you like your ex more than your current b/f and i would go along with the flirting and see if you and your ex can work out and about hurting your current b/f flirting with your ex that you still LOVE and not ending it with him beleive me your hurt him more if you lead him on and if you cheat than i guess you made your choice good luck i hoped i helped
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I'm really skinney but I have a floppy, ugly, stomache so i'm trying to do crunches do everytime I move up while doing it, I keep sucking in my stomache by accident and I can't stop even though I keep trying to do crunches again without sucking in. Am I supposed to? Any other excercises that will help? (link)
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well i always hold in my stomach when i do crunches and sit up helps and doing ball exersies also paliaties does alot of core exersies dancing helps with the abs as well hope i helped
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Ok well theres this guy Ive liked since July. He used to work at the store my sister started working at and thats how i knew him. We never really communicated I just liked him and I didnt know why. Over the months we started hanging out and he was AMAZING!!! He said he liked me too but needed some time to get over his ex who cheated on him. Well I went away on vaca. for about 2 weeks and when I came back we never really had time to see each other and to make long story short he went to jail and will be there for 12 years. How do I get over him??? My friends say I loved him and mabye I did but I know Im never going to see him again so how do i stop thinking about him? please help (link)
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dont allow your self to think about him and when you do just think that your never gonna see him again you know and i know its gonna be hard and its not gonna happen over night but think there are plenty of other fishes in the sea ones that you can acuatual have a relationship with and think if hes going to jail for 12 years it must have been one hella of a crime your get over him itll take time but you will and when ever you feel yourself thinkink about him try to change the subject and think about something else
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Well .. i like this boy right.. ive liked him for a long time. Almost a year. And like 6 months ago he said he liked me as well as my friend amy. Then he asked me out and hes like "Maybe if we go out then ill forget about amy?" and i was stupid and said yes to him. Then the next day he said hes sorry for screwing around with me and he dumped me. Then out of no where hes like "I love you" and im like I dont know what to say and he said Neither do i..then for like a week he flirts with me, then after he just stopped talking to me. Then i found out later that he used me to get to amy. Its been about 4 months and its really getting to me that he did that and i still love him. I think im in love, all i want to do is be with him.
For the past three days, ive been having a dream about him - Its after school..and i was on the stairs.. standing talking to a friend and looking at my phone..then he comes behind me and hugs me from behind and holds my hand, and i like push away and im like "What the hell are u doing?" and then he looks at me..then walks away then i try looking for him but i cant find him..then i call him to see if he wants to walk home together..but he wont pick up his phone.
Can someone please help me, and help me figure out what this dream means?
One of my friends think that its interpreting my life, that he says he doesnt want me, but he flirts with me and its confusing me, then he gets pissed that i reject him.. And my other friend thinks that he really does love me, but hes confused, and so am i, so every time he goes to make a move, he does it, then regrets it and takes it back.
I dont know..can someone please help me?
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this is a hard question but ill try well i think that he needs to make up his mind because hes playing mind games and your letting him in a way and i have the same problem u cant help who you love and next time he trys to make a move tell him straight out that he eighter likes you or he doesnt and if he says he does than do what you think is right and than if he regrets it i know it will be hard but i would just cut him off completely you know because hes playing with your head probley to make him feel better about him self and you dont need it just think your falling for him and he only talks or flirts with you when its convient to him and if he cant make up his mind think to yourself why if he really loved you or liked you than his mind should of already been made up you get out before he hurts you anymore i hope i helped goodluck
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I hang out with this guy a lot, like we go to each other's houses and we always cuddle and kiss and he makes me feel so happy when I'm with him. He also hugs me whenever he sees me in the hall at school.. and I really like him.
BUT he is a very flirtatious person and has lots of friends who are girls and flirts with them at school.
Do you think that he genuinely likes me or is he just using me and thinks of me as 'just another girl'?
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wow thats a hard question to answer but ill try ok well he flirts with you and other gurls but does he always go out if his way to flirt with you like does he always gives you hugs and trys to make u laugh and does always make eye contact and the most important thing is does he flirt with you the same way he flirts with the other gyrls and i wouldnt read to much into it if hes a player cause love to flirt and play mind games so be careful sorry if i wasnt much help much luck
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Alright...christmas is in 3 days...and i STILL haven't gotten my boyfriend anything! I have no idea wat to get him, and im really starting to freak out. I need some ideas as soon as possible!!!
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why not cds or video games you know every guy likes video games or get him jelerwy or just get him a whole bunch of little things its nice and easy good luck and happy hoildays
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Ok well i've had my period for about 5 or 6 months now. It's always been irregular. Is it normal to skip a month after youve had it for 6 months? Im still a virgin too so i can't be pregnant. (link)
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im not compelety sure but as far as i know yeah its normal because im 17 and i still have irregual periods i missed a month or two and i know i anit pregnet because im still a virgin so i guess its normal
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hey, is the only way that you can get eaten out is by being in the 69 position? are there other ways also? (link)
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i beleive therer are plenty different ways u can stand up sit down sit on ur partners face you can squat you can lay down there are plenty of ways the fun part is finding them all
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OK... so I just decided to be bi. And me and my best firend( who is straight) always make out. And i think i might have a crush on her but i dont know what to do because shes straight. (link)
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well if your always making out are you sure shes straight and if she knows that your bi than i dont know maybe she has a little crush on you two like does she enjoy it also maybe you should tell her how you feel you know also if shes bi curious than thats good for you goodluck i hoped i helped happy holidays
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what does it mean to "get your cherry popped" and what happens? (link)
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well you can get your cherry popped by having sex and thats called losing your virginty but you can also break you hymn doing anything the wrong way lke horse back riding and bike riding and other things so i hoped i helped good luck and happy hoildays
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I am 25 years old, i am currently on birth control (iud) is it possible that i can be pregnant, my last menstrual was 11/03/2006 (link)
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yes its possible what most women mistake is they think that your completely safe with birthcontrol but its not true because my mom got pregnet 2 with birthcontrol so i would get it checked out just to be on the safe side good luck and happy holidays
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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not? (link)
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there are other things to do besides sex but are you sure your not to young and only you can decide if your ready or not and just think about it theres stds now more common than ever theres pregnecy and other conquenses and complications that come along with having sex and once you give away your virginty you can never have it back you so before you do please think about it it also makes your relationship much more complicated so just think are you ready to deal with all that follows after sex hope i helped and good luck
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