Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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me & my boyfriend brian have been dating for a month. My parents met him, and i've met his parents, and everything is good and well. before we started dating, i was a new friend of his, sense quite frankly he almost kinda scared me in his appearence. Soon i grew attracted to him as the beautiful person he really is.
anyway, as we were getting to know each other, he told me he was a virgin. And for some reason i found that totally adorable and cute and it made me blush.
And although is till find it so cute, i;m starting to worry the tiniest bit. Because i want to keep him a virgin for as long as i possibly can, when and if the moment comes to having sex, would i be in charge of that? i was mever a dominant person, im actually quite shy. so what am i supposed to do in this situation??
16/f 17/m
im not a virgin. (link)
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Girl! My boyfriend of a year and a half now was a virgin when he first got with me. Myself, I have had 2 other partners in the past; so I felt bad at the thought of taking his virginity and it not working out; because I know how much I regretted losing my virginity to the guy I lost it too.
Guys don't see it that way. I'm sure your boyfriend wants to lose his virginity; and the reason why he hasn't is cause he hasn't had the opportunity, or because of religion (depending what he believes in)
I thought it was absolutely adorable too when I found out about my boyfriend; and I also felt like you did about being in charge of it.
You let him know how you feel about it; and let him know that when he's ready to let you know, and you can judge from experience if the time is right; becuase you've been there and done that.
You know, people say Virgin's are bad in bed because of being inexperienced; thats not true. My boyfriend was the best I ever had; I was so shocked with how well he was at it! It's kind of like instinct; in a way. YOu may just need to communicate wiht him and let him know what it is that you like, because he may not hit that right spot!
If you have anymore questions, please inbox me! I'm here to help!
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I despise Christmas with every bone in my body right now. I never ever have any money, and my grandma sometimes lends me money, but that's not the whole of the problem.
I am horrible at giving gifts. I'm creative at other times, but Christmas is always a curse... I can never come up with anything to give anyone. I want this year to be memorable, but I don't know what to get my mom, stepdad, sister, or baby brother. And more importantly, I have no idea what to get my boyfriend.
These people always do nice things for me and get me good gifts, and I want to do so in return. My boyfriend is so sweet and he likes video-games, pumpkin pie, and a lot of movies. He says he'll like anything but I want to treat him to a nice, thoughtful gift. My mom is very hard-working and she likes to read, and my stepdad really enjoys video-games like Red Dead Redemption and such, and he'll be satisfied with just about anything. Babies are easy to buy for, so I'm not as struggled with that, and my sister likes toys and trinkets and such, but I need help with finding a good gift for my boyfriend.
Tough having no money... :/
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I know what your saying! Being a college student with no money, you can't give your boyfriend the things you want to give him!
I've learned from experience that home made gifts are the best!
You say he likes pumpkin pie? Make him one! The ingridents don't cost more than maybe $5; if you can't afford that, than how about writing him a love letter? a poem? or how about some coupons? I know what your thinking. Coupons? Like, coupons that you can give him; cooking him dinner one night; free massage; if you guys are at the sexual part of the relationship, you can even relate the coupons to sexual desires as well!
You could even find a picture of you and your boyfriend, and put it in a picture frame. I know it seems so corny and lame; but trust me, he will really like it, because its thoughtful. YOu can't put a price on being sincere.
How about making him a CD with music that you listen to that reminds you of him?
As of your mom and dad; my parents feel like they aren't appreciated enough. So I usually write them a long letter, telling them how much I love and apprecate everything they do for me. I started doing that when I was 6 and they have kept everyone of them. When they are feeling down; they read them, and they say its make them feel so much better.
If you have a very low budget; than you can always do gift cards; get your stepdad one to a video store so he can pick out what he wants; and your mom one to a book store, so she can go pick out a book.
As of your sister, go to the dollar store. She will never know the difference. You can get her something that you guys can do together; like a painting by number, which is only 4-6 bucks. Or anything else that will allow her to be creative.
Need anything else, let me know! I've got more and more ideas!
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18/F
So the beginning of this year I had long brown hair, I got bored of it and one day I had it tied back and my friend said he thought I looked good with short hair (my hair looked like it was short) Well he said to let him cut my hair, he said if I didn't like it he's pay for extensions. Well He cut my hair off and I didn't like it, he bought me extensions and I wore them for about two months before I need to replace them. I decided just to let my hair be short. Having it short it was easy to dye, so I would dye it all sorts of crazy colors using vegan hair dye. It didn't damage my hair. Well I dyed it this dark green and after about a month I decided I did not like it. I started using products that weren't hair color safe to strip the color and using a spray in hair lightener. I bleached it after it got lighter and it went to white blond. I then used Aphogee hair treatment and it made my hair feel amazing. This was about four weeks ago, You are only supposed to use the product every six-eight weeks. Well After I got it blond I took a vegan dye and did it a natural pretty red. But the problem is my hair is starting to get dry again, I really want it healthy because it hasn't grown very much. I am keep it at this natural color and I am not dying it anymore, I want my hair long and healthy. I use hot oil treatments once every other week, I use a leave in conditioner and I try not to wash my hair more than twice a week. It has been helping and my hair is feeling a lot better. But does anyone have any beauty advice? I want to know if there is any at home treatments I could do. Preferably cheep, I'm kinda broke right now because of Christmas. Also I am looking for tips on how to get my hair to grow fast. I am debating if I should just save some money and get extensions...Please help! (: (link)
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To help your hair grow, you can take Vitmans. I konw they are nasty, but they really work. There is also certain shampoos you can get that can make your hair grow as well.
As of making it look healthy, you can always try butter, eggs, or a certain type of milk.
You can find plenty of ideas on google.
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17/female
I have absolutely no privacy. I don't have a bedroom. My parents are home most of the time. So I don't get much if any time to masturbate. I also don't have a bathtub, as that has been suggested before: just a stand up shower with a very small bathroom so that doesn't give me much of an option either. Idk what to do. (link)
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Hm, that sucks. Have you tried locking the bathroom door, and doing it on the floor? Or maybe while your sitting on the toliet?
I'd even go to the extremes of going outside, sitting in a vechile, or around the side of the house where no one can see you and doing it there. Your options aren't very open to chose from.
Your just going to have to find a place that works for you. Which seems like the bath room.
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What is dry humping?
How can you get pregnant from it?
How can you get pregnant from a lap dance?
Is a lap dance the same thing as dry humping? (link)
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Its basically like humping, but with clothes on. If you aren't familiar with the word "humping" it means when you are on someone, and you move up and down in a slow, or fast motion. You cannot get pregnant from dry humping, the only way you can get pregnant is if sperm enters your vagina.
You cannot get pregnant from a lap dance, unless both of you are naked, and his penis inserts your vagina, and he nuts inside of you.
Lap dancing is kind of like dry humping, but dry humping for instance, is where you both have clothes on, and you are on top of your boyfriend and are going up and down, like you guys were actually having sex. Vis Versa.
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Normally I'm not a country music fan. But I heard a song and was so shocked that the lyrics were exactly how I was feeling! I'm starting to like country more and more.. But I'm not familiar with country songs or artists. Can a few people recommend songs or artists for me?
I'm mainly looking for songs about love (moving on, finding someone new, or waiting for someone) or about happy things like doing the things that make you smile or just partying and having a blast. But I'm up for anything really :) thanks!!! (link)
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Sarah Evans- A little bit stronger
Scotty McCreery- Gone
Nikki Flores- Let it Slide
Auburn- Over You
Ina- I wanted you
Country Girl Shake It For Me: Jason Aldean
Bye Bye Bye; I'm done; Stand beside me; Fool Hearted Man- Jo Dee Manissa (my absolute favorite artist!)
Almost any song by the following artist can relate to what you are looking for, you just have to listen to them:
George Strait
Kenny Chesney
Allen Jackson
Tim McGraw
Faith Hill
Martina McBride
Jason Aldean
Brad Paisley
LeAnna Ryhmes
Luke Brian
Shania Twain
Taylor Swift
Maranda Lambert
The Wreckers
Gretchen Wilson
Kellie Pickler
Billy Currington
Toby Keith
Carrie Underwood
Lady Antebellum
Rascall Flatts
Reba McCantire
Trisha Yearwood
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So this guy and I are friends...I think ill start from what happened today...
I went to his house....we first sat on the porch and then a few minutes later, he invited me inside. So we were in his kitchen talking and I was wearing a lot of bead bracelets. So he decided to take one (because we were freakishly bored), put on some music and throw it at me.. so we sat down at his kitchen table and started sliding it back and fourth over the table. We soon got bored of that so we went into his 'room' and I layed on his mattress on the floor. He just kept circling the mattress (walking around it) and kicking it. I told him I was going to grab his leg if he kicked it again...and he said "oh really??" And kicked it again so i grabbed his leg. I soon let go because he tried to pull me off the matress. Then, he lyed down next to me and put his arm around my waist. I quickly rolled over onto my side because I'm really shy...and all he did was get up and sit by me head. I told him i was going to use his leg as a pillow if he moved any closer. Of course, he did. So i layed my head on his upper thigh (no, not by his crotch...a little lower) and he started rubbing my back. I was about to fall asleep when he layed his head on my back.... he said to me "you know i can hear you breathing" all I did was laugh and roll over so I was on my side and he stood up and started poking me while walking around the mattress again. He poked my butt and then he layed down next to me so we were facing eachother. He grabbed my hand and started playing with my fingers for a little while...before he intertwined our fingers together and we were holding hands. He just smiled at me and layed his head down on the mattress making it so he was not facing me...but we were still holding hands. I layed my head on our hands and he faced me. I took my hand out of his and got on his back (I was pretending to wrestle with him) so he decided to roll over so i was sitting ontop of him. I got off just as his mother was walking down the stairs...just in time. I ran out his door, and he told me that he was going to tell his mom that he has company over. I said ok and he went and told her... he came back out, but I had to go home. We hugged and he rubbed my back when we hugged. He told me I should come back next week and i said I would. Then i left.
So do you guys think he likes me?? And if so, how can I sow him I like him too?? Thanks!! Oh, and he kept getting up and changing the music, and wen he did..I got up too and wrapped my hands around his stomache..he kept saying "ahh, what is this thing on my butt??" I was wearing a belt so I said it was my belt. Ans he kept sating he felt voilated wen I did this....do u think he was joking or just wanted me to get off of him??...so what do you guys think i should do wen I go to his house next week?? (link)
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He likes you. It seems like you are acting like you like him too. There isn't anything you can do to show him you like him, because I see that you are doing a good job at it, as is. If you want to do more, than you can always be more flirtatious. Be more touchy, and when he touches you, don't pull away because your shy. If you aren't comfortable with how he is touching you, than pull away. But only if your not comfortable.
Maybe when you go back over there, he will kiss you. Get his number or something, and call him. Talking on the phone makes things a little easier, and than find out how he feels for you. Be the brave one and let him know that you really like him. (:
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The thing about all boys doing it though is that we are now 12 hours apart and i would go 3 or 4 days without hearing from him and before I broke up with him I like asked him to show me he cares enough to just get in contact with me once a day and the first day he didnt, its like he didnt really care if he lost me. And last night I was thinking of him so much that I decided to send him a stupid text just to say hii and he never responded. So things like this make me believe hes just not that interested or something? We are both going back home for winter break for 2 weeks and im not sure if hes even gonna try to hang out still? Im just so confused cause I cant tell if he really does love me or what? I feel like I should get stronger without him before I jump back into it but im terrified he will completelty forget me. Plus I hate not havimg a boyfriend :/ (link)
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Oh, well when you say it like that; than I can agree with what your saying. If he loved you as much as he says he does, than how hard is it to talk to you? Shouldn't you be on his mind, enough for him to wanna speak to you? Those are questions I'd be thinking, If I was in your position. I think you need to ask him how he feels for you and to be honest about it. Let him know that if he still loves you and there isn't ANYONE else than he needs to show it, or your going to think he's over you, and MOVE ON. Once you tell him this, and he doesn't improve; than its time to call it quits. You can't put in all that effort just for someone not to give the same in return.
As of the Winter break thing, thats something you're going to have to wait out for. I wouldn't even mention hanging out with him. I'd wait ti'll you guys come home, and see if he makes the effort to see you; and than I'd hang out with him, and ask him all the questions that you want to ask, because in person, he can't ignore you. He will have to speak back; and watch closely to his body language; this can determane if he is being sincere or lying.
Now if he doesn't make any effort, than I hate to say this; but there isn't any hope. Just let him go. I know its hard, because in your mind you probably have a bunch of things running through it, "just send him one text to see if he will reply back" DON'T GIVE IN. You cannot text him first, no matter how hard it is. If he doesn't show any effort than you need to get your number changed, or contact your cellular provider, and get his number blocked. This is the one way to cure the urges of texting him. I know being without someone is hard, but its for the best. You'd rather be single, with no worries, than with a guy who doesn't know what he had when he had you.
You deserve the best girl. If I could take all this pain away from you, I would. Your struggling alot, and you just need to get angry. Once you get angry, you need to stay as mad as you can, because once your not thats when it hurts the most.
Everything you are wondering can only be answered by him; and the best time to ask him is in person. So just relax, and wait for Winter break, and that'll let you know if he is serious about you.
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:,(((( me and my bf my first bf broke up on wensday and yesterday he already has a gf
i have never cried this much in my life
he was my first kiss, first bf,, first relationship
everything
he didn't know english so i learned spanish soo hard just for him
whyyyyyy what did i do wrong :,(((((( i'm starting to cry again :,(
i did sooooo much for him, i was a good gf i did soo much but what did he do nothing, even while we were dating he made me miserable and he changed soo much we broke up 4 days before our 1 month.... we didn\'t even make it to a month whyyyyyy what did i do wrong why does god hate me why does my bf hate me why do they all wanna see me crying and in pain
:\'(((((((((((((((((((((
but i dont understand wht i did wrong
the part that makes me hurt the most is
he already has a gf
he was my first everything...
igave him my firstkiss
i hate first love
i wanna find the old me
i use to always smile, never cry, just happy with my friends, but he changed me and he changed alot.. he took away my old me, my smile, my happiness and only left me tears
my friends were goin to cuss him out yesterday and she went upp to his house and he was home and he didnt open then 30 later he came out to hang out w my other friends
:\'(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
and then i found out he has gf
the lst string of love i have for him is all gone
now its all hate
a guy that treats me like this, how can i possibly still love him
what is wrong w me
all my friends r calling me stupid cause i still love him after everything he has did to me, the day we broke up i ran in front of 3 cars
and they honked
and the 4th one was goin soo fast and didnt stop
my friend knew i was goin to do something stupid and chased after me, if it wasnt for her, i wouldnt be alive right now. why couldnt she just left me be, i could be in heaven right now, all the pain would be much less and i could forever
i loved a guy for 7 yrs and i rejected all 64 guys that aske dme out b4 jose and jsoe is the 65
a guy that can make me forget about the guy i love for 7 yrs
isnt easy
me and jose hung out everyday
since we dated
till night
i would walk home alone
everyday
and ride his bus
i did everything
to show how much i love him and to be a good gf
i woke up at 5 in the morning
walk 40 min to get ot his house
and go to heritage and just to watch him play soccer
then the coached liked me and wanted me to be the manerage. what did i do wrong???was i a bad girlfriend 15, female
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One of your friends need to smack you into reality. He is your first boyfriend. You are 15. You were together a month. You arn't in love with him. You just loved the fact that someone who there. You actually counted how many guys asked you out bfore him? Get a grip.
Like you said, he treated you badly, so stop wasting your time, and go find one of the 64 boys that asked you out, and move on! He clearly doesn't love you, or cares that you guys aren't together, because he has a new girlfriend.
I'm sorry if my words hurt you, but you need to get a grip. He isn't worth it. You need to seriusly chill out before considering dating again.
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Hey, its me again. I wrote you twice already but I am really going through such a hard time and cant seem to deal :/ I hope you remember me. you gave me your email but mine is acting weird right now. But I really cant get this kid off my mind. Weve been broken up 3 months as i said but I still havent moved on. I feel pathetic because my friends are all so tired of listening to me and I dont really want to talk to anyone else because I feel like I know what they are gonna say...it takes time and time sucks right now :/
Well heres what Ive been thinking about lately..I do love him..thats obvious. But he was never good about calling me and letting me know whats going on. It never bugged me in the beginning because I liked having my space too. But when we began our long distance relationship, I naturally thought I deserved text backs and a call every now and then.I know I deserve better than that. And I'll be honest, I enjoy going out without worrying about hurting his feelings or making him nervous/jealous. AND to make it worse he lied to me all that time. So my trust was gone in him...and no matter how badly I wanted to forgive him and forget what happened...I just couldnt. So I know exactly why I couldnt have continued dating him and am glad I ended it before we completely hated each other. Now when we broke up he said that he wanted to date again in a year and just needed time to get his stuff together. And then the text message a month ago from him telling me he hadnt found anyone else or had sex..
Does this all mean that he really meant what he said? And how will I even know this?
EVERYONE says that I can do so much better and that he treated me so badly. So maybe they are right...theres a lot that I was unhappy with and towards the end I really didnt feel good at all. I wanted so much more and it seemed like he just didnt care. He SAID he cared and loved me so much but it didnt SHOW sometimes. I dont know if thats because he was being lazy or what...cause he always came back.
Then again I think of how much fun we had and how much I miss just being in his arms and spending time with him. We had some of the best times and Im not sure I want that time to be over. But I really dont want to go back and get hurt all over again. I really wish there was a way I could tell how he really feels and I wish he would just show it more in the relationship. I wish we could date again when all this is fixed. But then I catch myself depressed thinking it will never happen again...or that he doesnt even want me anymore and is gonna find someone better. Im his first real girlfriend and his only love partner.
Sorry this is so long, I jsut cant seem to deal :[ Ive never hated myself and felt so badly. I just want the confidence to know theres something out there for me. Many guys show interest I just cant move on:/ (link)
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Hi there! It's good to hear from you again! I know exactly what you mean about your friends. They do get sick of hearing the same crap over and over again; thats why you feel like you know exactly what they are going to say. It's a lot easier to talk to someone who you don't see every day.
You know, your ex isn't the only one that is like that. Almost EVERY boy I have been with and/or known is like that. No guy likes to feel like they should check in with their girlfriends, it makes them seem like it's their "mothers". Guys have big ego's as well. They feel like when they reach a certain age, they don't have to listen to anyone, better yet inform anyone of what there doin, where their going, or even where they are at. It's just how they are. The only way this thing will get fixed is by communication. Guys aren't mind readers, therefore they don't know what bothers us as females. They assume that everything they do is okay, UNTIL its brought to their attention.
Yeah, I know you guys love personal space; but asking 3 simple questions isn't going to invade your privacy.
1. Where you at?
2. How long you going to be gone?
3. Who are you going to be with?
Those three questions aren't hard to ask, or answer. It's not being to pushy, clingy, or nosey. YOu ask those three questions, and you suddenly start to feel alittle better when he doesn't text back. Once those questions are answered, you can finally leave each other alone, and go about the rest of the night. Of course, a few other nexts won't hurt either. Like the simple, "I miss you" or "I love you". Or even an "I hope your having fun baby, text me when you get a chance".
As humans, we don't like to be controlled. We like options. Ya know? By giving him the option to text you back, on his own time, will make him seem like he isn't being controlled.
So in order for that situation to be fixed, you just have to let him know. "Hey, when your gone and you don't text back. It bothers me. I just wish you could let me know whats going on, so I don't have to sit here and worry becauase you aren't texting back"
And see how he reacts to that. He shouldn't be angry, or negative towards it. He should be happy that you are expressing how you feel, so BOTH of you can move forward.
Well, I've been thinking about your situation a lot over these past couple of days; and maybe the reason why you can't get over him, is because your not suppose to? Maybe you guys are meant to be, and thats why its so hard for you. Do you want him back?? Like, would you take him back? Or are you still not able to forgive him and move forward?
Another thing I came up with, is maybe its because you aren't ready to let go. I think you want one more try with him. That what is takes with me. Like, I started dating this guy, and I was his first romantic lover, and we dated for a couple of months. He left me because of mixed emotions. I was so hurt. Everyone told me "Oh he's an ass; you can do so much better! Forget him! Just move on, you don't need him!" Hearing those words gave me motivation; and believe me I tried, but I just couldn't do it. The pain wasn't getting any easier; than I realized, "I need one more time with him to clear all these "What if's" in my head; to kind of get my closure. And a year and a half later, I'm still with him. I'm so glad I gave him the benefit of the doubt, or I would have really regretted everything.
You see? You need to either cut all contact from him completely, or give him one more chance, when the time is right. Talk this over with him. Ask him if he still wants to be with you, and how long would he like to wait. Let him know all the pain your struggling with, to let him know that when the next time comes, your going to take it more seriously, and make sure its something you guys CANNOT work out, before you leave.
You never knw, he may have really changed, and all this pain you are feeling was for nothing.
As of not showing that he cares, or loves you. Once again, its a guy thing. Some guys are more affectionate with words, and touching; and some guys just don't have a clue. You can tell them over and over and over and over again of what you want from them in that way, and it'll never click. Me and my lover have that issue aleast once a month. I know he loves me, and he cares. I just wish he'd show it sometime. It's not that, they DON'T want to, its that, they don't know how. You need to show him what you want, not just tell them.
Guys are visual learnes, not mental.
Kinda like the expression "Guys fall in love with how a girl looks; while girls fall in love with what a man says"
We are verbal/mental learners when it comes to love; and guys, they are just visual. Not either of our faults; just how we are.
This is alot so far, so I'm going to stop here. I'm assuming your going to reply back, so I'll cover the rest than, along with whatever else you need help with ok? Just try to relax for me, and calm down.
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My original hair color is dark ash blonde. I'm full Mexican and I want to keep that "Mexican look" but I'm getting tired of dark hair. Which color would you think suits me best?
If it helps I have white skin, green eyes with a little hazel, and long hair. Thanks in advance : ) (link)
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I know how you feel. Personally, I am friends with this one Mexican (I feel bad calling her that, but thats what she is,) and she looks similar to what you described. She got tired of her long, black hair, so she colored it.
I think its best to leave it dark. The darkness of your hair complements your eye color along with your skin tone.
If you want to try out different things, try bleaching the underneath part of your hair. Like half dark, half blonde, and you can add some cool colors to it. The bright colors mix really well with the darker color. I know my friend Merlin, she added a really pretty purple, and it looked amazing.
If you aren't into those kind of colors, try some highlights. Those always look graet. Especially some caramel.
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So I like this guy who's name is Zack and I like him a lot. He does know that I exist, but the problem is that he acts like he doesn't like me. Last year, a lot of his friends said that he liked me and I don't know about this year, but I have a big feeling he does. My question is how do I get him to like me or know that he likes me so he can ask me out? (link)
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No you aren't in love. If you have to ask if your in love, than chances are you aren't.
As of Zack, you can't make anyone like you. It something they have to do on their own. If he wanted to ask you out, he would. You can't make him do anything. You said he knows you exsist, therefore, if he wanted to be with you, he would.
The only thing YOU can do, is let him know that you like him. To me, it doesn't seem like he's interested in you. He liked you last year, and has probably moved on by now.
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i have redish blond brown hair that's washed out looking, i dont know how to make my hair look sexy when curling it and its short, its about the length up to my shoulders/chin? and i have brown eyes, i have no idea what makeup idea i should go with, i've looked up so many and i can't find the right one. i have an oval shaped face, and i biggish nose. im pregnant and don't feel sexy at all! please help. (link)
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Well, normally with brown eyes, your suppose to wear browns, purples, blacks, grays, anything dark and dramatic.
I have brown eyes, and I learned how to do make up while i was in cosmetology.
What you want to do, is go to Walmart, and purchase eyeshadow that has the four in one. Like it'll look like a square with 4 different colors.
Get one with a gray color, purple color, or a brown color in it.
Like I have one that is Gray, Silver, Black, and Dark Gray.
Than I have a white, purple, dark purple, black
and dark brown, light brown, medium brown, and a tan.
Grab one of those.
When you get home, apply it like it says. It'll take some practice and you'll see improvements. YOu also have to fit it to match your eye shape. You may not have enough lid for all 4,, but you may. Make sure you put a thin line of black above your eye lid. Like close your eyes, and put it along your eyelashes. NOT THICK; just thin; or you'll look like a raccoon.
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Well first off its sad how so many cute guys are playes, they cuss every word that comes outta their mouths, all they want is one thing, go out for girls for a day and then break up. I hate that it makes me sick! Well I was just wondering is it possible for people to change like when they get a little older like from a 15 year old boy to maybe 16 or 17 Or do you think they wouldn't? Thanks! (link)
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Sadly, chances are slim to none. Once a player, always a player. The only times guy like this DO change is when they meet someone worth changing the "game" for. OR they change when THEY realize THEY are ready on their OWN time to settle down. Kinda selfish if ya ask me, but like my mama use to say,
Boys will be boys! lol
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Hi.
I'm depressed now because the girl i like doesn't like me back. I'm not very cool, but i'm not a nerd. I think i have my own category. I go to catholic school, 13/m. How do i get this girl to like me? She is jusr like me. She juts doesn't know it. We have tje same interests, but she doesn't know. (link)
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If she doesn't like you, than she doesn't like you. You can't make somoene like you. You need to stop wasting your time with this girl, and spend your time finding someone else who likes you for who you are. There are plenty of girls out there that are probably more than willing to have a chance with you. Opening up your options and don't settle for less that what you deserve!
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Ok so I like this Guy but the thing is he is my cousin cousin but I'm am related by her mom side (her mom and my mom are sisters) and he is related to her by his dad(there brothers) . So I really don't Know if it's illegal or if its ok. To like him.
Please Help!! (link)
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You've already posted this question twice already.
It's not illegal to like him. You can't go to jail over it. You might have some conflict within the family, depending on what they think.
But from my understand,
you shouldn't be related by blood at all, so its not like if you guys did make it to having babies, it would be inbreed or anything.
You have no worries, except for casual family drama.
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Is it possibe for a celebrity to go out with a fan or just a non celebrity, what are the chances? Is there a lot of celebrities that do that? Because its so unfair to want something you most likely can't have. Thanks for answering:D (link)
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I've heard of it happening, but what are the chances of our biggest crush actually wanting to be with someone like us? The chances are slim to none. Thats basically what celebrities are for. A tease. Something you can't have. Thats why they are famous.
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Hey there(: So first off at the end of 7th grade I really started liking this boy who I knew liked me from the first of my 7th grade year he was in 6th. Well I knew he liked me that was no worries, so my friend got us together I was sooo happy(: We texted every other day and he was alwayss soooo sweet and I really thought he was cute. Well after a while we started slowing down with texting because his phone was broke. So we never got to talk plus he is a grade younger than me so I never see him. Now that we have been going out 3 months going on 4, we barely talk at alll! and I'm starting even tho I know its wrong to texts other guys in my grade that like me or etc. And I'm starting to like guys in my own grade that I actualy see everyday. Plus there is this one new boy who has the most beautifulest hair, eyes, eyelashes, smile like a pixie (laughs) and he plays basketball and soccer, and hes in all the honor classes. My friend thinks we'd look cute together and wants to get us together. My problem is Im petrified of breaking up with people. I hate it I feel so bad and wind up crying, I hate it because I know my bf realllly likes me. Also when we text he is really sweet. So I don't know what I should do. Plus Im scared that what if I broke up with my bf and the other beautiful boy says no. Although he kinda says yes to like everyone. So I'm so confused on what I should do please help me!! :p sorry if this was long. Thanks:P -Sarra (link)
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It's pretty clear that you find your relationship with your boyfriend very boring. If you didn't you wouldn't be texting other guys that you know like you. Your finding something in them, that your boyfriend isn't giving you. Is it wrong? Yes, but atleast your not cheating. So I give you props. What you need to do is the thing you fear most. Leaving him. Yes he will be hurt, and you will feel bad. But your young. If you aren't happy than no need to be tied down, or your going to miss out on good times with other people.
Just because you break up with your boyfriend, you don't need to get with this beautiful boy. This will only make you seem like you need a guy to be happy, and you really don't want that kind of reputation. If this guy says yes to everyone, than why would you want to be with him? This means he has no standards for himself to go by. Which mean under all those good looks, and athleticness- he will probably be nothing major.
Break up with your boyfriend, its not right to lead him on just for the benefit of "having someone there". The longer you stay with him, the more it'll hurt him. You need to just go ahead and get it over with. Its not fair to him that your texting other guys because your bored with him. Have a little respect and actually break it off.
Yes, you'll feel bad. But girl, in the end it's whats best. Your happiness matters too. No need in wasting time being unhappy, ya know?
Now, after a couple of weeks go by, and you are officially over your boyfriend, than I'd go after Mr. Good Looking (:
But whatever you do, DO NOT rush into it. I've seen so many of my friends rush into stuff and only get hurt worse in the end with drama & the boy lying.
Good Luck.
If you need anything else, please don't heistate to inbox me!
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I like a guy iv'e never seen just text. How do I tell him I like him?
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I guess the same way you talk to him; over texting.
I think its best to actually see someone, and hang out with them to make sure you actually know what your getting yourself into. You haven't seen him, or been around him to know what he's really like.
If distance is keeping you apart, than I'd give up. Long distance relationships NEVER work out, and if they do, it takes a lot of trust, communication, and honesty to keep it together.
So just tell him how you feel. Worst thing he will do is not reply back!
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Im the one with the Question, yu jst answered. Im 15, Nd my Boyfriends 16. We've been dating a little over a Month. (link)
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Oh I see.
Well, it seems to me you don't have a real strong chemistry built between you too.
Being boyfriend and girlfriend, you guys should have something to talk about. Maybe you guys are spending too much time on the phone.
DO you guys see each other alot? If you guys hang out, and than when ya'll leave one another and talk on the phone, it limits conversation. Try taking a couple of days to not speak to each other, to build up conversation.
But, if you don't want to do that than try getting to know him better. Talk about something he really enjoys doing, or watching.
Like for instance, my boyfriend loves basketball. I absolutely hate it; but I asked him questions about it, just to make him speak and talk to me. He enjoyed talking about basketball, it never got old to him.
So try that.
OR..
You can be completely random. Ask him questions to find out more about him;
like..
What is something that really attracts you to the opposite sex?
What's your favorite color?
Hobby?
something you like about me?
something no one else knows about him.
just silly little questions to make conversation easy and fun;
I hate to say this, if conversation doesn't perk up, than it means that he is either bored with the relationship, and it won't last long.
Or,
you guys just need to take time apart.
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