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Should I break up with him?? I'm soo confused!
Hey there(: So first off at the end of 7th grade I really started liking this boy who I knew liked me from the first of my 7th grade year he was in 6th. Well I knew he liked me that was no worries, so my friend got us together I was sooo happy(: We texted every other day and he was alwayss soooo sweet and I really thought he was cute. Well after a while we started slowing down with texting because his phone was broke. So we never got to talk plus he is a grade younger than me so I never see him. Now that we have been going out 3 months going on 4, we barely talk at alll! and I'm starting even tho I know its wrong to texts other guys in my grade that like me or etc. And I'm starting to like guys in my own grade that I actualy see everyday. Plus there is this one new boy who has the most beautifulest hair, eyes, eyelashes, smile like a pixie (laughs) and he plays basketball and soccer, and hes in all the honor classes. My friend thinks we'd look cute together and wants to get us together. My problem is Im petrified of breaking up with people. I hate it I feel so bad and wind up crying, I hate it because I know my bf realllly likes me. Also when we text he is really sweet. So I don't know what I should do. Plus Im scared that what if I broke up with my bf and the other beautiful boy says no. Although he kinda says yes to like everyone. So I'm so confused on what I should do please help me!! :p sorry if this was long. Thanks:P -Sarra
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The thing is that at your age, your brain is still developing a lot, which leads to often sudden changes in preferences and how you view the world and the people in it. So you don't really have anything to feel guilty for. You're just experiencing things that happen to everyone. And this breakup won't be your last, either. The fact is that relationships at your age have very short lifespans.
So being able to initiate a breakup is part of the maturation process. Just tell the guy that you feel you are growing apart from him because of how your feelings are evolving and that it's not anyone's fault. Yeah, it won't be fun. But if you don't do it you will only create more drama and life is way too short for drama.
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It's pretty clear that you find your relationship with your boyfriend very boring. If you didn't you wouldn't be texting other guys that you know like you. Your finding something in them, that your boyfriend isn't giving you. Is it wrong? Yes, but atleast your not cheating. So I give you props. What you need to do is the thing you fear most. Leaving him. Yes he will be hurt, and you will feel bad. But your young. If you aren't happy than no need to be tied down, or your going to miss out on good times with other people.
Just because you break up with your boyfriend, you don't need to get with this beautiful boy. This will only make you seem like you need a guy to be happy, and you really don't want that kind of reputation. If this guy says yes to everyone, than why would you want to be with him? This means he has no standards for himself to go by. Which mean under all those good looks, and athleticness- he will probably be nothing major.
Break up with your boyfriend, its not right to lead him on just for the benefit of "having someone there". The longer you stay with him, the more it'll hurt him. You need to just go ahead and get it over with. Its not fair to him that your texting other guys because your bored with him. Have a little respect and actually break it off.
Yes, you'll feel bad. But girl, in the end it's whats best. Your happiness matters too. No need in wasting time being unhappy, ya know?
Now, after a couple of weeks go by, and you are officially over your boyfriend, than I'd go after Mr. Good Looking (:
But whatever you do, DO NOT rush into it. I've seen so many of my friends rush into stuff and only get hurt worse in the end with drama & the boy lying.
Good Luck.
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