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The thing about all boys doing it though is that we are now 12 hours apart and i would go 3 or 4 days without hearing from him and before I broke up with him I like asked him to show me he cares enough to just get in contact with me once a day and the first day he didnt, its like he didnt really care if he lost me. And last night I was thinking of him so much that I decided to send him a stupid text just to say hii and he never responded. So things like this make me believe hes just not that interested or something? We are both going back home for winter break for 2 weeks and im not sure if hes even gonna try to hang out still? Im just so confused cause I cant tell if he really does love me or what? I feel like I should get stronger without him before I jump back into it but im terrified he will completelty forget me. Plus I hate not havimg a boyfriend :/
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Oh, well when you say it like that; than I can agree with what your saying. If he loved you as much as he says he does, than how hard is it to talk to you? Shouldn't you be on his mind, enough for him to wanna speak to you? Those are questions I'd be thinking, If I was in your position. I think you need to ask him how he feels for you and to be honest about it. Let him know that if he still loves you and there isn't ANYONE else than he needs to show it, or your going to think he's over you, and MOVE ON. Once you tell him this, and he doesn't improve; than its time to call it quits. You can't put in all that effort just for someone not to give the same in return.
As of the Winter break thing, thats something you're going to have to wait out for. I wouldn't even mention hanging out with him. I'd wait ti'll you guys come home, and see if he makes the effort to see you; and than I'd hang out with him, and ask him all the questions that you want to ask, because in person, he can't ignore you. He will have to speak back; and watch closely to his body language; this can determane if he is being sincere or lying.
Now if he doesn't make any effort, than I hate to say this; but there isn't any hope. Just let him go. I know its hard, because in your mind you probably have a bunch of things running through it, "just send him one text to see if he will reply back" DON'T GIVE IN. You cannot text him first, no matter how hard it is. If he doesn't show any effort than you need to get your number changed, or contact your cellular provider, and get his number blocked. This is the one way to cure the urges of texting him. I know being without someone is hard, but its for the best. You'd rather be single, with no worries, than with a guy who doesn't know what he had when he had you.
You deserve the best girl. If I could take all this pain away from you, I would. Your struggling alot, and you just need to get angry. Once you get angry, you need to stay as mad as you can, because once your not thats when it hurts the most.
Everything you are wondering can only be answered by him; and the best time to ask him is in person. So just relax, and wait for Winter break, and that'll let you know if he is serious about you.
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