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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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okay if u masterbate too much like maybe 4 years none stop would your penius shrink?? i was juss wondering because i was searching on google an average penius size.. (by the way what is an average size) and this guy said his been masterbaiting for 3 years.. and he's notice his penius shrinking.. thats kinda weird could that really happen?

No, it shouldn't shrink. Maybe that guy was shrinking for other reasons and just blaming it on masturbation, haha. Don't worry, you're fine.

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15/f
how long after a guy pre cums does he actually ejaculate? because i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and i know he didnt ejaculate in me because he pulled out and jacked himself off for like 20 seconds before he actually came so im just kinda worried about pre cum.

Pulling out doesn't do anything whatsoever. You can get pregnant from precum just as easily as regular ejaculation. Pulling out is not an effective way of contraception. You have a chance of being pregnant, just as high as if he finished in you. Use protection!


Edit:

Haha, shit sorry. I didn't even realize it. Oops. :[

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Hey there i was just wondering what can guys use to masterbate like what things around the house will give them pleasure or is there anything you can but or make?

Umm, Pretty Sure Most Guys Use Their Hands, I Haven't Really Heard Of Any Other Things. You Could Use A Pie And Pull And American Pie Moment. Hah, But You Can Check Out www.solotouch.com If You Wanna Look Up Other Stuff.

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I like quotes and sayings and stuff a LOT...but i can't find any sites for them. ones like, "Hold me like I mean something, Kiss me like I don't." (i made that up!!) and emo ones, and love ones, and stuff like that. can you help?

Check out my quotes site:
www.myspace.com/hollywoodxquotes

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Alright, well I know hair straightners damage your hair. But I was reading a magazine once and it said that Jennifer Aniston uses some straightner, barbar? Or something along those lines, and it said something about how the plates actually moisturize your hair?


Anyone have any input to this?
Or know any other hair straigthners that would give postive effects to your hair, other than negative?



Anything is much appreciated! =)!

I think I know what you're talking about. My friend had a straightener sort of like this. It uses water or something, and keep your hair from drying out/the heat. I think that Chi's are also another brand of straighteners that protect your hair from getting completely destroyed, but I'm not POSITIVE. They're a bit more pricier than your average straightener, though.

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ok so im a 16/f and ive been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now and we are ready for sex.we've already gone pretty far(we've tried fingering and a small bit of oral) but sometimes i dont think that im good enough to get him off cuz usually im a bit awkward and he does most of the work and he is amazing i must admit.even though we havent had sex yet i usually orgasm when he fingers me but when its my turn to favor him i cant get him to cum! any ideas on how to be better?
any ideas would be greatly appreciated

It might seem a little awkward, but why don't you try talking dirty to him, hahaha. If he's into that sort of thing, maybe that will really turn him on and get him into the mood. If you're not really into it, even small things like "You look so hot right now" might even make him feeling even more 'in the mood.' Sometimes even when you're 'going at it' and make out with him a ton, try to be more aggressive than him. He might like that. Try that out & see how it goes! Good luck!

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how much does it cost for unlimited texting for verizon?
cause they got unlimited and i wanna know how much a month it is

$5 a month.

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Today when I went to the doctors, he told me I need to get an MRI done on my spine to make sure everything's okay with it. But my question is for people who have had MRI's before. Do they hurt? Are they boring? Are they long? Etc.

Basically, what was your experience like?

Thank youu. :]

Hey, I've had an MRI done for my knee twice. I don't think they have the same style of machines, but they're the same thing.
My MRI's took about an hour. If they need to add dye to get clearer results (it's just a needle with some minerals), it should take around an additional 20 minutes.
They don't hurt at all. You just lay there.
I find them extremely boring. My MRI machine was super loud (I had to wear earplugs) and made really weird sounds. I always end up falling asleep, even through all the sound. Plus it goes by a lot faster.
Overall, they're not bad at all. Good luck with your results!

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any way to remove it besides shaving?

Waxing. There's many different shapes & types of it, so find whatever is easiest for you. It's not too expensive, either.

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ok well i havent had sex, or anything close to that. i havent even made out with a guy!!! but my period is late, and i dunno what to do. should i go to the doctor?? is this normal??? HELP MEEE

thx in advance!!!

Yes, it's completely normal. Your period doesn't turn regular until you've had for period for a few+ years. Don't worry about it.

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so this is the same person who gave a guy head like a year and a half ago and got a sore throat the next day. i recently talked to him and he said he just got std tested for the first time and he was 100 percent clean. do you think i should still be worried about having an std? like do these things go away on their own? (btw i haven't done that since)

If he's 100% clean, then you're fine. It was just probably a sore throat from oral sex, and that's normal.

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So my brother was never really a great student. He finished his first year of college with mostly 2.0's. My dad was furious because my brother lied and said he got 3.0 average , thinking my parents wouldn't ask to see the online report card. Well they found out about the 2.0's, and my mom was calm and talked to him, whereas my dad really gave it to him. He said horrible things such as, "You know what?! I'm not sending you back next year! I'm busting my ass paying thousands of dollars and you think it's a game? No, just don't go to the stupid college and sit here for the rest of your life." It sounded worse because he yelled it, and that's not all he said. I felt bad. My mom felt bad. Even SHE thought my dad was being harsh. So my brother got pretty mad and was in his room all night, and then he got out of his room and went for a drive. When he came back, my mom saw that he had been in tears the whole drive. This sunk my heart because my brother NEVER cries, ever. The last time he cried was probably in highschool when it was his last football game. So I was saddened that he cried and I felt even crappier because I always get good grades. I felt like my brother would do something crazy out of sadness, feeling unwanted. I felt scared for him and for myself because I couldn't live without my brother. Sometime soon, I'm going to 6 flags with my dad, friend, and brother. I was talking to my dad about bringing a friend, and I said it had to be on a Saturday so my brother wouldn't have work and he could come. My dad said, "No. He's not coming. He gets 2.0 in school and lies about it, I'm not bringing him." I was heartbroken, and said it wasn't fair. Then he got mad and asked me if I decided what was fair and what wasn't. My mom got firm and explained clearly how harsh my dad was to my brother, and I told him that I agreed. He was mad, and then I left because I was too sad to even think about it. How do I help the situation? My dad was being really harsh on my brother, and I can't stand it because I love my brother too much to see him unhappy.

It really is good that you're looking out for your brother. But I can see why your dad is really upset. College is very expensive, and your brother isn't doing too great in it, and plus he lied about his grades. Of course your dad wants the best for your brother, and that's probably why he's upset. He probably knows that your brother can do so much better. He's probably just disapointed. I know that if I did the same to my dad, he'd probably react the same way. I can see how your dad's being harsh, but it's a lot better than him not caring at all. If your dad didn't care at all, your brother might continue & maybe his grades will drop even more. I think that your dad is just looking out for your brother and he wants him to do his best. It's really good that you're watching your brothers back, but I think that it's something that you dad and your brother have to resolve. Try not to get involved, and I'm sure that you dad and your brother will work it out. Try not to worry about it.

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i am inlove, inlove, with boys like girls. but then, all of a sudden, it got on this really popular radio station that EVERYBODY listens too, and they keep playing it, and now like everyone i know is like, "omg i just love them!" and im like you dont even know anything about themmmm. you only know like those two songs. and uhh, there like well, so. and its just EXTREMELY annoying. i dno, im just one of those people who like to be the only one who knows a certain type of music, so then no one can say they like it. because they dont. and its just annoying all the way around.

does anyone ever feel this way??

This happens to me constantly, and I hate it. I know that a certain band doesn't belong to one person and it's not like we OWN them, but it seriously is so annoying. I've liked bands like Hellogoodbye, Taking Back Sunday, Panic! At The Disco, Boys Like Girls, Plain White T's, Cartel, and a ton more, (include My Chemical Romance, which I hate now). I know how you feel, and it is annoying. I LOVE Brand New, and somebody played ONE song from them at a talent show now every girl is like 'Omg I love Brand New!', when they only know one song. It's annoying. You can't really stop bands from getting discovered, though.

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14/f, if it matters (:
i want to find songs like these;
When I Go Down - Relient K
Save Us - Cartel
Gravity - John Mayer

my friend died last friday, her funeral is thursday, and i'm supposed to make a CD of songs like that,

like, rock-ish, but slow songs, and sad.
thanks in advance for any help

Wish You Were Here - Incubus
Radios In Heaven - Plain White T's
Here You Me - Jimmy Eat World
Wish You Were Here- Pink Floyd
Stairway To Heaven - Led Zeppelin
Can't Take It - All American Rejects
Knocking On Heavens Door - Bob Dylan
In My Life - The Beatles
Live And Let Die - The Beatles


Sorry about your loss, hun. :(

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what does vagine mean? not vagina, im not an idiot. thanksss

Slang for vagina.

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am i still a virgin, even though my cherry's poped because i fingered myself?

Yes, you're a virgin. You're a virgin until you have sexual intercourse (penis into vagina).

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ok i have only stuck my pointer finger in my vagina and i use super plus tampons and i was wondering, is my cherry popped? it was a long time ago so i dont remember if i bled or not. my finger is about 3 to 3 1/2 inches long.

thanks.

You could have, and you couldn't have. The person a few spots below me is wrong, you can 'pop your cherry' in a ton of other ways besides sex, such as masturbating, bicycling, running, tampon usage. You don't really know. You might have, considering you've stuck things into your vagina, or you couldn't have. You don't really know.

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I was just wondering can you masturbate if you don't have your period? Like, can you get an orgasm, or whatever it's called? Thanks.

Yep! You don't need to be on your period. :)

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okay. so i am too young to have sex. 14/f. but i do want to be able to masturbate. i hope i am spelling it right. don't judge me on my spelling plez. anyway... i know how to but i don't seem to be able to orgasm. i have been on my period for over three years almost. i really want to be able to mastubate. plez help. thx in advance.

Just explore 'down there' and see what you like. Try visiting www.solotouch.com and look at techniques, I'm sure that you can find something that you'd enjoy. =)

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my hairs straight but kind of curly underneath. how can i make my hair look beachy kind of with cute curls? (without using a curling iron) THANKS %%

If you're talking about the beach wave kind of look, mix salt and water together, spray it in your hair, and scrunch. :)

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