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so...i've been with my bf for almost 6 months now.. we've had our ups and downs... believe me on that one... but no matter what we seem to find out way back to eachother... lets cut to the chase.. me and him are not virgins.. but me and him have not had sex yet... and he's real sensitive on the subject.. i know guys LOVE sex bla bla... but, why is he so sensitive when it comes to sayin no? i understand, but it;s not like im teasing him or working him up on purpose... im not leading him on... i dont understand =( im not going to give in just because he;s sad... but i also dont wanna push him away or make him feel neglected... what should i do... say? p.s he's a very jealous guy so explanations make things worse sometimes... he's impatient as well lol thanks a bunch!!!
he probably just feels bad because you had sex with another guy.. but you won't do it with him. you should explain to him that your relationship is not ready yet for sex. at least you don't feel that it is. make sure he knows that you still like him you just need more time to get closer to him. or if you never want to have sex with him tell him that your last time was a mistake and you would rather wait to do it again until you're married.
jobrolover3725
would you rather see a 5'5 girl 125 lbs with or without a belly button ring?
are they even that attractive to men?
i'm not a guy but i've heard from guys that they only like belly button rings when girls have flat stomachs. if a girl's stomach is chubby then they don't like it.
jobrolover3725
Hey! Im f/13
Okay so my friend Alex has been my friend for years, but we've never really gotten close. we've always been called brother and sister because we look so alike, and whenever somebody asks he says "No! Never! That would suck!". And then one day walking home from school one of his friends were like "whose that? girlfriend?" and Im also walking with a friend and so I start blushing, but Alex doesnt decline the fact, just smiles. So one night, he texts me and asks if I want to come play basketball so I go and hang out for a bit, and it might've been just me but I thought he was flirting.. Well the next day he texts me asking if I like him, so I say "maybe" just to see what he said back. He texts back saying the same thing, and ever since he has acted really weird around me. I didn't like him that way when this all started but i think I am starting to. My friends always tease me about liking him & being teased about that is embarrassing so I blush and that really doesnt help. Idk what is happening, but I dont think Im ready for a BF. Id be all nervous around him and knowing him, he would too. I dont know what Im asking, but if you know what's going on with him..
i'm guessing he probably likes you too. most guys don't ask a girl if she likes him unless they like her too. if you feel like you're not ready for a boyfriend yet.. just continue being friends with him and see where that goes. that's probably a good choice for now because if you guys go out and then break up it might ruin your friendship. you aren't ready for that yet when you're only 13.
jobrolover3725
how do i know the phone number of the people who call me in private?
there's no way to know unless you set up a trap with your phone company and you can only find out if they call you again. that's the point of pressing *67.. nobody can find out who you are. just don't answer if someone calls you on private. i know it's frusterating.
jobrolover3725
Ok, well im 14/f and i havent had my "first kiss" yet and all of my friends have. They always ask me in front of other guys, "have you kissed a boy yet?" and im like, "no." But anyways, i feel weird because all my other friends come in and their like "Omg, i totally made out with this guy and he was such a good kisser!" I know i shouldn't feel like this but i do! Please help.
that's really rude that they ask you in front of other guys. ask them to stop doing that because it makes you feel uncomfortable. you will get your first kiss when you're ready and when it's with a special guy. don't worry so much!
jobrolover3725
ok so my friend and i made plans to go to this concert we already have the tickets and its this friday... we dont have a ride back and my brother is having a party and its kinda like my birthday party to. so many of my friends are going to it including my boyfriend and i barely ever get to see him.. well the party and the concert are on the same night, the concert i think is going to be so stupid and its just like garage bands except for just surrender but i dont really like them that much anyways well my friend is super excited about going to this concert but i would much rather go hang out with my boyfriend who i hardly ever see besides in school and party... i told my friend i dont think i could go, i mean we dont even have a ride back and stuff and she freaked out saying how much stress i was putting on her but like.. i dont see whats so stressful about it and that i shouldnt blow her off to go party and that she will never talk to me again if i dont go with her and shes going to call the cops? yeah thats what she said ha. i dont want to blow her off and make her upset but i really want to go to my party and i thought i was being nice and i told her that ill give her my ticket that i paid for and she could bring someone else that actually would want to go but apparently that meant to her i was being rude and only thinking of myself? im so stuck if other people were in my situation what would you do? go to a party with all your friends or go to a concert that your going to have a horrible time at to make your friend happy?
if i go to the concert all my friends and boyfriend will be stuck at my house alone with my brother and his friends..
well you should explain to her that you didn't know beforehand that this party was going to happen. tell her that the party is for you and you would really like to go to it--- since it is for you. haha. invite her to come too. tell her you will have way more fun with all of your friends together instead of just going to a concert, you don't even have a ride back anyways. just try to sell your tickets to someone else. if she is a good friend she will understand.
jobrolover3725
There are some girls in school that always bully me and I take and forget it like always but this time they've gone to far. They told me that if I didn't go with them to their house they'll do something really bad to my family and I beleived them so I called my mom on the phone and told her I was going to sleepover some friends house. Then I went with the girls and they had told me that if I didn't do what they say I would get beaten up. So when we got to their house There was this teenage guy on the door eyeing me everywhere and that gave me the creeps. When we got to the door he put his arm around my waist and told me we were going to have fun that night. The girls sent me to a room and demanded for me to put on the clothes on the bed. I refused (it was like a bikini thing) so one of the girl's slapped me and told me it was either that or naked. I changed and was ordered to go to a room and lay on the bed and wait. A while later the boy I had seen earlier he told me "Looking nice and that's the way I like it" I was so scared to answer so I just shut my mouth. The boy than came over and touched me everywhere and then suddenly stopped and he told me what he was doing was wrong but than again he came down on me again and kissed me and this time he got something that I think was a condum and sarted to undress himself and once again he stopped and said he shouln't be doing this but that my body urged him to and again he got on top of me and he forced something into my mouth and I dozed of. The next morning I woke up with his arm on my bra and the fingers of his other hand on my( you know). I tried to get up but found out I was tied and there was tape around my legs so I fell and my ankle twisted and I yelped and my stupid self woke the guy up. He told me that if I wanted to go I had to suck his private part but I refused so he pushed to the bed and started hitting me and when he was done he told me "that he was gonna do something weather I like it or not. He tied me good this time so that I couldn't move. He revealed my breast and poured milk on them and started sucking on them so hard it hurted me. He went licking down my body until he got to between my legs there he started licking everywhere and then put he's finger in there and pushed really hard until I let out a painful scream. He than said " u feel the pain well that's what you get". He holded my head got on top of me and put his private in my mouth and made me do it. Then he suddenly stopped and said that he'll be watching me at school and told me he knew about my grandma (she has cancer) and he could pay me $200 a week to do this just one day week. I really love my grandma so I decide to do this but I want to make sure this is the right thing to do and he also pays me $20 dollars just he can touch and feel me. He pays me $5 to kiss me and $10 to pose naked for him. $50 to shower with him. I would win good money with this but it just doesn't feel right sometimes he brings friends over, old men touch and even sleep with me and sometimes they even poor beer all over me and 3 at a time lick and suck on my skin and sometimes even bite me. it's been going on for days now and I want to stop but I care about my grandma also the girls say they'll kill me if I sop and I really beleived them because they once killed a because he was such a nerd but that was in another state. Anyways I'm really scared I don't know how to quit and worst how do I tell my family I feel like a prostitude ...just a girl who sold herself...I mean it was my fault inthe first place I should of been better getting beaten to death than to just sell my self to a boy I don't even know....I know I can trust on who ever gives me advice I had the guts to tell you this because none of you know me in person I just wish I had the guts to do what I need ti do.......I hope you can help me.....
honey this is not your fault AT ALL. you were just trying to protect yourself and your family. you NEED to tell someone about this asap. what these girls and this boy are doing is illegal. you could be getting stds from them. they are violating you and your body. if you don't want to tell your parents, tell the police, a teacher, a friend, SOMEBODY! these people can get in VERY big trouble. they need to be stopped.
jobrolover3725
So I was wondering, what are the best wax strips for facial hair to get? I want them to completly remover all the little dark hairs I have underneath my eyebrows/upper lip. I can take the pain of waxing, I just can't stand continuously buying kits that don't even remove half of the hair. Names/pricing information would be so helpful, Thanks :) Oh and I'm 16/f btw.
i heard that the sally hansen waxing kits were good. it also isn't very expensive to just go to a salon and get it done. i'm guessing it's about the same price as buying a kit if you go to a cheaper salon. and it's much easier that way. i heard that facial nair also works pretty well.
jobrolover3725
Someone says he has got me a suprise.
He gave me 3 clues which were:
- Its pink
- It blossoms
- It spreads itself
He insists it is not a flower of any sort
I can't work out what it is and neither can any of my friends!
Help!
yeah im guessing its a vagina..
or a penis. because he said he has a suprise for you... so maybe he wants to do something with you. he sounds like a perv. haha.
so my bff has liked this guy for ages, but he's just a friend. i'm the only person that knows and she's sworn me to secrecy. but i just found out through another friend that he has a thing for me. now i dont like him like that and even if i did, i wouldn't pursue it out of respect for my bff. but what i want to know is how do i tell her? do i tell her?
i dont want her to hate me cause i usually get the guys not her. help!
wow yeah i was in this same exact situation.. except the guy actually went a step further and asked me out. i had to say no. so you're right in not pursuing it out of respect for her. thats just mean. especially since she's liked him "for ages". this is like a tough thing to have to do. personally, i didn't tell my friend because i didn't want to hurt her feelings or get her mad at me. i would advise you to do the same. she probably won't find out and if she does you can just tell her you didn't want to hurt her feelings. she will understand. =)
Well, me and my boyfriend had sex like 3 or 4 days ago and he told me he got off in me, twice, 'cuz we had sex twice that day and that he got off in me both times. well, he said that he's had sex before with like 3 girls and he's got off in them and they didn't get pregnant. He says that he thinks he may not be fertile, but I'm just scared that there may be this chance that I could be pregnant. If I am, my parents would absolutely kill me. What are some of the syptoms that you get right after you get pregnant..like food cravings?.. things like that? is there a big chance that I could be pregnant. answers asap will be appreciated very much!!!
WEAR A CONDOM. its not that hard. there is a HUGE chance that you are pregnant. his sperm got inside of you. if you're not pregnant, you're very very very lucky. there's not really any symptoms this early. you should get a pregnancy test or go to a doctor. also if you miss your next period then that shows that you are pregnant.
Okay, My mate is fifteen and she went to a parety a few months ago and drank too much then slept with a guy from her class.
They were both virgin's before hand but she now recons she could have a sexually transmitted infection... Is that possible?
And also I think she should go to see a doctor for help but she's scared because she is under age for having sex.. Can they do anything like with the law or something if she asks for help? And also if she does have an S.T.I doesn't she have to tell the guy she slept with... how can she do that? help.. I'm worried about her, they can be serious sometimes right? x
shes not under age for having sex. they cant do anything with the law. its only illegal if she slept with a guy whos 18 or older and if he's in her class then i'm guessing he's not unless he got held back like 3 years. haha. even if he was 18 or older the doctor would not ask her that. but anyways she should definetly go to the doctor. she needs to get checked out asap. she can just tell the guy by calling, texting, or telling him in person. she doesn't necessarily HAVE to tell him. but it would be a nice thing to do so he can get checked out too. yes they can be VERY serious. some of them never go away. like herpes. and some of them can kill you. like AIDS. next time she should make sure she is protected. also, she should make sure she isn't pregnant. xoxo
my prom is coming up and its probably impolite if i smile with my mouth closed.. but my teeth are crookedish and yellow! the crookedness is fine i guess but the yellow is unacceptable.
is there some way to get them whiter without whitening treatments? like white-out my teeth for one day or something?
crest white strips work pretty well and i dont think they're very expensive =]
Here is a txt conversation tween me and my crush... just to warn you... we kinda hate each other... but i love him.
Me: Hi hoe, Hi hoe, it's off to work you go
Him: You are the beaver Bitch
Me: That made no since hoe
Him: You are the hoe beaver Bitch
Me: You're a white whale, BALOOGA
Him: What kind of comeback is that?
Me: Your kind of comeback. Your legs are open and you're loose.
Him: Do you know what that means?
Me: Yes I no what both of them means. You are loose in the ass hole.
Him: No you don't know what that means cuz if you did you would not have said that
Me: Ya I do I no you dont have a vagina but you are gay so you are loose in the butt
Him: You have a penis and you are a man hoe
Me: You know what?
Him: What, did you fart?
Me: No you did but that's not the point. And tell Blake he stinks
Him: You're rigt. I did fart.
Me: Did you fart on Blake?
He didn't say anything after that. I know that it seems like we hate each other, but we txt each other that stuff all the time. So do you think there's hope, or should I just let go?
its kinda hard to tell from this conversation if he is just joking and being flirty, because somet guys do that, or if hes actually trying to be mean and hurt your feelings. it also seems like you're kinda mean to him. and you dont wanna do that if you like him because if he likes you he may be wondering 'if theres hope' just like you are. its also hard to tell from just one conversation if theres any hope. try to write a few more. if they are ALWAYS like this hes probably just being immature. also.. does he text you first or do you text him first? because that plays a huge part in this too.
xoxo
so i just got a cell phone. my mom said she got me unlimited texting. is unlimited texting to everyone? or just at&t customers?
its probably unlimited texting to anyone. you could just ask her. if she doesnt know, have her call at&t and ask.
13/F
I got a couple of questions about this kinda stuff, do you guys mind answering them?
1. Does you hymen break if you use tampons, just like having sex?
2. What would you recomend ; tampons or pads?
3. I've been getting discharge (not too heavy) nearly every day since 5th April, and i'm kinda worried; anything i can do/is it alright?
4. Is there any signs if i'm gonna start soon, cos i'm kinda worried about it?
Thanks lol :D
BTW should this question be in sex or somethin else lol ? thnx xx
1. theres a possibility that it can. it can also break by doing other things like sports.. especially gymnastics, dance, horsebackriding, etc
2. definetly tampons. theyre so much easier. i never wear pads i think theyre gross. tampons you dont even feel.
3. thats totally fine. as long as its like white and not weird colored (yellow or green) then youre fine.
4. if your boobs are growing.. ha
me and me boyfriend just had sex.since he couldnt stay up,we didnt have sex for very long.i was wondering is there a certain amount of days someone should wait to have sex again?
15/f
no there isnt. you can do it the same day/ next day if you want to! haha
okay well i want to buy a hair straightener, but i dont really know too much about them. im between three {a bedhead, a chi, and the new conair infiniti that uses steam)...
http://www.hsn.com/bed-head-tourmaline-nano-ceramic-1-1-4-hair-straightener_p-4279459_xp.aspx?&ccm=bs|bs0025|bs0029
http://www.folica.com/CHI_Glacier_Ice_d4191.html
http://conair.com/infiniti-nano-silver-conair-high-temperature-ionic-steam-straightener-p-621.html
price doesnt matter, but i want to know which one works better, and won't damage my hair too bad in the long run. thnxx =]
i have the chi. i love it.
i've had it since 7th grade (i'm a sophmore now..so thats like 3 years) and it's still in good working condition. it makes my hair really straight and i have puffy wavy hair. all straighteners damage your hair a little so use a straighenting oil to minimize the damage.
15/f
i started growing little hairs on my nipples and so for some reason i thought it would be a good idea to shave them off? they weren't even noticable at all in the first place but now their like darker since i shaved them and everything. anyway i could make them go away without having to like pluck them or something..
thanks :/
you can wax them.
or even better you could just bleach them blonde.
you can bleach them by getting blonde hair dye and using that. or you could just use hydrogen peroxide.
16/f
alright so, ive been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, and i dont love him is that normal? like.. if i dont love him by now should i brake up with him.. what would other people do? everyone around me is saying to brake up with him.. i do like him a lot i just dont love him..
thanks.
you dont ever have to love him. well unless you're like dating him until you're like 30.. then maybe you should think this over. hah. but right now you're only 16. you dont have to love the guy you're going out with. some people our age (im 16 too) aren't ready for love yet. you may be one of them. or he might just not be the right guy for you. i wouldn't break up with him though. if you like him a lot your relationship may turn into love. it doesn't have to right away though. you don't need to love your high school boyfriend.