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best friend's crush
so my bff has liked this guy for ages, but he's just a friend. i'm the only person that knows and she's sworn me to secrecy. but i just found out through another friend that he has a thing for me. now i dont like him like that and even if i did, i wouldn't pursue it out of respect for my bff. but what i want to know is how do i tell her? do i tell her?
i dont want her to hate me cause i usually get the guys not her. help!
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If you don't like him, and nothing is gonna happen between you and him, then there's no reason to tell your bff about it. It would just upset her for no good reason.
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I wouldn't tell her. If you don't like him and he wants to go farther than its not going to be hard to pretend that your not interested because...you really aren't. Its okay that you get most guys but just pretend that you really had no idea about this guy. the person before me had the same idea and they are right to. If you do tell her it would be hard to explain to her that you don't actually like him since you told her yoursel if you know what i mean.
hope i helped
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wow yeah i was in this same exact situation.. except the guy actually went a step further and asked me out. i had to say no. so you're right in not pursuing it out of respect for her. thats just mean. especially since she's liked him "for ages". this is like a tough thing to have to do. personally, i didn't tell my friend because i didn't want to hurt her feelings or get her mad at me. i would advise you to do the same. she probably won't find out and if she does you can just tell her you didn't want to hurt her feelings. she will understand. =)
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