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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
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sorry for the weird question but how far do you put a tampon in ? =/ this is weird lol! x0x

well i dont think theres really an actual answer, just as far as it goes so that the string is still on the outside of your body?
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im 13 years old and im a girl. i just want 2 know if there is any jobs that i could get at my age. and please dont say babysitting because i dont really want 2. please and thanks!

haha i know how you feel...when i was 13 thats what my parents wanted me to do...but it didnt happen. lol i know when i was 13 and i continue to do so...i help my stepmom with office work like putting addresses into an address book on the computer, making labels, fileing stuff, and i also just started to help my stepmoms friend with her business by helping her with taxes and i also do that with my stepmom. so i dunno maybe ask your parents if they could use your help in exchange for a little bit of $$$.
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eh, i think my boyfriend likes someone else. what should i do?

talk to him! confront him. the worst that could happen is he does and if so hes not for you. or he could tell you you're crazy.
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My boyfriend is really fast. and like is always horney. we are in 8th grade and he tried to finger me =\ and then he braged about how he tried to his friend. next time should i let him? should i talk to him about thet bragging thing? PLEASE HELP ME !!

i would just simply say "hey can we talk about something?" next time you're on the phone or when you see him and just simply say i would prefer if you didnt brag or tell your friends what happens between us. and if he really likes you and RESPECTS you he wont. guys need to respect girls...oh yeah about the fingering thing...only if YOU want, dont let him pressure u into to ANYTHING!
hope i helped!
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okay ive been friends with this guy for a little over a year. i dont like him like that this isnt about that. well we got into a fight bcuz his girlfriend told him i said all these bad things about him. thats not true. he wont take my messages he wont even talk to me. his girlfriend totally ruined our friendship. i wanna no how i can get into his head that i didnt say those things and his girlfriend just said that.

PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!! ill rate 5s for good help

well u know the saying friends come before girlfriends or boyfriends? well tell him that say u'll be here after shes long gone...now who are u gonna trust?
hope i helped!

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EEk I have alot of blackheads and the facewash im currently using isnt working! DO u know anything that works beter? Like gets rid of the blackheads? Please! THanks

ohhh there is one i used to use...its by neutrogena and i think itscalled blackhead clearing scrub and it has these beads in it and works really good!

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is there a way to burn cds without buying any equitment or a membership?

well if u already have the CD burner for the computer...(some come with it) then no.

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Hi, I really want to get a Yorkie, maybe a teacup yorkie, or a mini yourkie. Does anybody know about how much they cost, not including the pet supplys. and if anyone has one are they good pets? And does anyone have any names for dogs? Thank you!!

im not quite sure how much they cost but i know my grandparents got one and she has cost them an arm and a leg...because the teacup ones are so tiny they are easily hurt and my grandparents one has gotten sick a lot...but other then that they are adorable and sweet loving! lol sorry.

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i cant decide whether i should ask this girl that i like for her number, i know she kind of likes me back, but im nervous that i may be pressuring her and i dont want to screw up anything between me and her. i know it would be best if i waited a while before i asked her, but i really want to now...

hahaha...im not saying anything...u decide for urself

...if its kevin. lol
orrr ill feel stupid

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

how about im my own anti drug? or love or friends or music...just pick something you like a lot

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because i set limits...and he cheats on her because he doesn't like her too much...he likes me. and if he does cheat on me, well i know how and when to end it...what's your advice?

personally i wouldnt do it...but its totally up to you once a cheater always a cheater is what i go by. sorry girl
hope i helped a little

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I rate high....

Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him.

get a few of ur friends and theri boyfriends together and go maybe that will slide past ur mom.

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hes adorable...and romantic...but taken. hes kindof crazy, like hes convinced hes gonna marry his gf in 11 years (we're all 14!) and anyway....so this girl, lets call her lizzy, is goin out with this guy, will call him shaq...so theyve been having some problems lately, like he kinda cheats on her...and has done it with me a fe times...but she doesnt mind too much. in fact, when she tried to break up with him, he cried! hes so sweet like that...so lizzy and shaq are currently dating, and i am always counselling lizzy cuz shes my girl, but secretly i really want her to dump him. and i can just barely stand it sometimes...no offense to her, but shes really not attractive, kinda bitchy sometimes, not so many friends, kinda racist (even tho shes black)...so i cant help feeling sometimes that i deserve him more! well anyway i could go on and on but still, what am i supposed to do? how can i stand her having him when i want him so bad? and i know he likes me...help please?

well if hes cheating on her, what makes you think he wont cheat on you? just a question.

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okay i don't understnad when people say or its on an icon or something what dose it mean when they say its ther Anti drug?

it like saying i do this instead of drugs, or this keeps me from doing them... you get it?

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k yea i really like this guy he recently just broke up with one of my friends. i realized that i like him, but he acts weird around me, i don't know why,i want him to act normal around me, also i want him to like me back, so how can i do this, and don't say flirting. if you do at least be specific

maybe hes acting weird because he likes you. but if you do chose to date this guy talk with your friend...just to make sure.

hope i helped.

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I know this is a question thats probably commonly asked but i need to kno. I recently switched into a school with tons of gorgeous pretty girls. I know i`m not the BEST looking and i`m no where as skinny as those other girls but a few people have been calling me fat. I`m 4 11, weigh 120lbs and i`m 13. = / i already know i need to louse a few pounds but am i really over weight. be honest. and what are things i can do to louse weight? lots of details would be helpful. Thank you!!

well i cant tell you if ur over weight or not...you could have a different body type. but to lose weight u need to burn calories. maybe do some cardio (jog around the block...and like make a plan of what you want to accomplish.) i know there are plans on toneteen.com where you exercise then keep trakc of what you eat and weigh yourself and everything...but dont let those other girls get to you....dont follow the crowd stand out! be different!

hope i helped ya girl!

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Just out of curiosity, what are some hints that guys may give if they like you? And what are some really subtle ones? I'm always oblivious to these things and was just wondering. Especiallly to see if any of them apply to the guy I like. Thanks!

well it just depends on the guy...some guys flirt with you by being mean or joking around or taking your stuff or you know something like that...but maybe he could talk to you a lot or really pay attention...just really pay attention to that boy sometime.

hope i helped!

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I am in middle school, 13 years old, and there are some pretty cute boys there. Some boys only have one class with me and each class is about an hour long. Also I can't talk to them between classes (weird issues won't get into it). How do I attract their attention or flirt with them without getting in trouble? Just so you know I am a shy girl so try to answer with something that I might be willing to do.

maybe during lunch if u buy ur lunch just be like so hey whats up just start a conversation...maybe about something funny that happened in class or something...i know how you feel i used to be soooo shy

hope i helped!

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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes?

the only way to get things straight is go up to talk to him...maybe hes just confused and likes a lot of people but just try getting it out of him, and tell him to tell you the truth

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Do any of yew have a 6 pack??? If so what did yew do to get it and how long did it take. I really want to get a six pack withen a few months. By the way Im not like fat so I duno how long it would take and what I should do? Please write back...Thanks!!!

i was getting close to it before the holidays but then since the holidays are here i didnt do anything to keep it. im guessing ur sorta like me im 15 5'4'' and 107 lbs. i did as many as i could of each of the following

http://toneteen.com/exercises/abs_crunch.htm

http://toneteen.com/exercises/abs_reversecrunch.htm

http://toneteen.com/exercises/abs_bicyclecrunch.htm

http://toneteen.com/exercises/abs_side.htm


and each day i did them i would build up the number i could do...hope i helped!

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