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hey yah the guy i liked said i was ugly so should i confront him? (link)
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Confront him for what? thats pretty lame. Dont do it. If you want him to ever talk to you again then dont do it. Besides if thats how he feels then just think of it as "his loss" someones bound to accept you for who you are on the inside and respect you for what you are on the outside. -aMaNdA
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Ok, well I have a boyfriend of over a year. He lives in anthoer state but we both love eachother and I'm moving in with him next year, but that's not the problem. The problem is, I'm new at this highschool and this guy likes me he told someone that if I didn't go out with him he would kill himself, but he has supposedly done this before and that's how hes always got his chicks. Hes and awesome guy and everything and one of the first people I met, but I do not know what to say to him becuase he KNOWS I have a boyfriend and my boyfriend actually knows him too. I don't know what to tell him, cuz I still want to be friends with him BUT nothing more, what would you do. Thanks everyone :) (link)
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Well its either be friends with him and be stuck in this postion...or forget about him and find a new friend. You love your boyfriend, your taken. The guy knows you have one, he even know who your boyfriend is! I honestly think if he were you TRUE friend he wouldnt EVER put you on the spot like that. Any guy who would kill themselves over a girl like that is really lame. He may be nice but sounds to me like he also is kinda oDd? ya... Hope i helped! -aMaNdA
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I am 13 years old, and I'm going to a new school. I really wanna be happy, because the last school I went to, people made fun of me and teased me because they knew I was sensitive. How do I make a good impression? What if someone teases me? How do I handle it? Btw, my school starts in a week! (link)
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ok ignore the last guy hes an ass. um if someone makes fun of you just laugh it off. Who cares what people think! Dont let them know you are sensitive. Be yourself and just go with the flow. If someone says something and everyone laughs ...just be like "haha shut up" but dont let them know it REALLY bugs you cause they will continue! GOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA
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Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!! (link)
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ok unless you've met him in person dont do it. Talking to him online, just could be a diffrent side of him TRUST ME! dont count on him not doing stuff with other girls. You gotta meet the person to see what hes like around his friends, just around you, around his family. All of those say what kind of a person he is. You cant just think everything he says to you is the 100% truth. But good luck! -aMaNdA
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Okay...I went out with this boy before and his name is lets just say Dave. Well we went out and it didn't work that well because we didn't talk. On and off we liked eachother after we broke up but never got back together. Well I actually have never really stopped likeing him but when i do think i stop he just randomly talks to me and makes me like him again. Well on to the subject. He recently has been calling me like everyday for no reason just basicly to talk and he never used to do that but anyways my cousin was over and she thought we should go back out because she thought he liked me. I'm not really sure if he likes me he says stuff about how he thinks i'm hott and all but i don't know. Well usally i don't ask guys out because I am afraid of rejection but this time I did because my cousin sorta made me. Well I was talkin to his cousin because he put him on the phone and he told me not to worry about it that i wouldn't get rejected. But he hasn't answered me and if I supposedly wasn't going to get rejected then why hasn't he answered yet? And i'm afraid to ask him again what his answer is because i don't know what to say. Could someone please help me figure out what to do. BTW sorry its really long! (link)
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ok dont even worry about it. Im sure hes probably just wondering if saying yes is the right thing. Like the last girl said call him and ask him whats going on. Dont be too pushy. Maybe he wants more time to think. I hope he says yes! lol for your sake! gOOd lUCk hUN! -aMaNdA
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ok well im 14 and like 2 years ago i some how started talking to one of my older brothers friend online like alot!(he's really hot) and like we would go off and on with talking and stuff and like ive started to REALY like him and now he's leaving for collage tomarrow and im so upset about him leavng but i knwow how i feel dosnet make a differense to him and its not like i dont want him to go i just idk im so confused i can really us soem help! (link)
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ok well your 14 and hes going off to college! BIG age diffrence. Well you gotta just try and accept that hes moving on to better things for him and going on with his life, and that your gunna have to too. I mean you can talk to him and everything but dont go to crazy cause he might not feel the same and then he will talk to you less and less. Good luck! -aMaNdA
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Hey me and m boyfriend were best friends b4 we went out so we were alredy really really close and we got even closer since we r going out...and we could talk 4 5 or 6 hours ont ha fone and never have a silent moment or a dull moment and talk 24.7 but latly we hardy cant even talk like we talk 5 30 mintues on tha fone and prolly get 20 mintues of talkin dun...and i think now thats skools startin were gunna grow further apart than we alredy r ...and i really luv him and he really luvs me 2 but we r just growin apart and not doing as much 2gether wut do i do?! pls help me thx so much (link)
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Your probably just getting annoyed of eachother. I mean sounds to me like thats whats going on. Dont talk to him EVERYDAY it can just start to get boring. And im sure your not growing apart cause you love eachother right? ya so im sure its just talking to much and spending to much time together. Try laying off a bit. But dont let it get to be to long cause then you could forget about eachother. GOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA
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ok...i knew this girl since kindergarten(now were in 9th grade) but we both went to the same school in like k-4th grade and we were best friends but then she and her family moved to another school. and in the start of 7th grade i moved schools and i found out that the one i transfured to is where she goes, i was so happy :)....and then we started to hang out and stuff and then ppl who were my friends that i made when i moved here started to be mean to me like spreading rumors and stuff and just calling me names. and then she didnt like that so we decided not to hang out like that in school. so we stopped and now i IMed her to see if she wants to hang out or do nehting with me cuz its summer you know and were not in school...but she flipped...this is what she said..."no cuz ur a bitch and tlak behind my back at the swimming place my friend jen told me u and denise for so fuck u:-)" and that makes me mad and i have never talked about her behind her back or nething and i havent been to any swimming place so idk what that is about...but i really dont know what to do or say to her now :/...can sum1 please please please help me i will rate you!!!! (link)
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Well maybe that really wasnt her.. now adays people get other peoples passwords n stuff. BUT if it was for sure then you gotta call her or go to her house and dont leave until she listens. You gotta let her know that you NEVER said anything. If you honestly did then tell her everything you said. That way she knows. If she still doesnt listen then forget it. dont waste your time on someone who isnt gunna give you a chance to explain. A REAL best friend wouldnt treat you like that..and wouldnt believe EVERYTHING they hear. Also to not be friends at school but then at home.. isnt good. True best friends stick by eachothers side thru THICK N THIN no matter what! Fix your friendship!
-aMaNdA
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ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D (link)
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yes you did. Any person who is an honest and true person, wouldnt ever blame what they did wrong on the other people they were with. GOOd jOb! Just face the punishment. -aMaNdA
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Hey guys if you guys need help with ANYTHING just drop by add a question and ill try my hardest to get back to you within that day! :) *jess* (link)
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uhh wouldnt you want that to be in your inbox.. people wouldnt leave there questions on here for everyone to know who they are... uhh ya sweetie i would think about that..
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My girlfriend is moving three states over for 6 months because of family problems but will for sure be back by then. She says she wants to continue dating while shes gone but i dont know if i can do that. We would only beable to talk on the phone and maybe i could drive over a few times. Anyone else had a long distance relationship? Whats it like, what do you have to do to make it work? (link)
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Well i dont but i did. Trust me its really hard. But we cared so much about eachother we did what we could to make it work. If you care for her then just try your best. To make it work, you guys both gotta be there for eachother. Talk alot. GO0d lUCk sweetie! -aMaNdA
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after u eat ALOT is it bad to make ur self throw up just one time ?? i know i wont get like obsessed, but it it bad for just 1 time? (link)
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ya cause thats all it takes.. then your gunna be tempted (sp?) to do it again then after awhile your not gunna be able to stop. Dont do it. Its not good. -aMaNdA
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i had sex like a few months ago...well ive gotten my period since..and its been on a regular schedual but this month it hasnt come...i havent got it!! im freaking out!! it usually comes at the verrrry end of every month n goes into the begining of the new month but this month is hasnt!! =( could i be pregnant since ive already had my period about 2-3 times since ive had sex?? =\ (link)
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im kinda confused.. but i think if you mean that after you had sex, that you had your period a few times but THIS month you haven't started, then NO your not pregnant. To be pregnant you wouldnt of started your period at all. -aMaNdA
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Hi,
I'm currently going into high school and have one huge problem, all girls find me non-attractive. I'm a redhead, freckle faced short haired pale (a little tan, barely) loser. I've had a crush on exactly 27 people since second grade and none what so ever have liked me back. This summer I have currently been training 4 two reasons, to look nice for girls and for soccer. Is there anything ANYTHING AT ALL I can do to improve myself and my looks so I will atleast be a little bit more attractive. BTW I have my left ear piecred twice. I'M DESPERATE, PLEASE HELP ME. A girl friends would help my confindence alot. Plus I cant stop spooning my pillow.
HELP ME PLEASE (link)
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well tan! Go outside and tan! then Open up. SAy something nice and flirt with lots of girls. They will notice you when they hear how your so sweet and everything. If they are in your class talk to them. dont try SUPER hard tho. Its not that HUGE of a deal. You get a girlfriend when you get one. even maybe die your hair? alittle...? make it shaggy and go blonde.. or brunette. GOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA
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Me and my best friend have been friends for 10 years and shes really getting on my nerves. She tries to be just like me-she copies everything i do,buys all the same clothes i do even if she doesn`t like them,and whenever i like someone she likes him too-even if i know she doesn`t actually like him. Sometimes i have fun w* her and then other times she just reallii pisses me off.Ugh..what am i supposed to do about her? (link)
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choose whether you want to have SOME FUN or always be pissed and annoyed of her. I mean you guys can stay friends, but dont let her be like you. That doesnt make you your own person since you have someone JUSt like you. Tell her that you want her to get her own ideas, diffrent clothes and she shouldnt like the same guys as you. A true best friend DOESNT do that. My best friend used to, but i finally showed her that its not cool. ALSO dont ask her for help with guys or tell her what you got at the mall! If you ask her for help to talk to the guy you like, she could end up flirting with him and make him like her! trust me from experience. Also the mall thing, if you dont tell her that gives you a chance to wear it before she does so then that way people've seen you in it and then they see her and are like gosh she always copys her best friend. Eventually when ur friend gets her own life she will want her own taste in guys and her own sense of style! things will change! -aMaNdA
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Does anyone know any really good concealer, foundation or powder? I don't know which make-up brands/kinds are the best, so any help would be appreciated. (link)
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MAC the studio fit its like 25 $$ or the L'oreal true match, its like i think 11 dollars or somethin. But ya they work greAt! -aMaNdA
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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..
well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or (link)
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Dont be depressed over HIM!
Sorry sweetie but it totally sounds like hes completely using you. If he liked you he wouldnt "break up with you to go out with nicole to make her boyfriend jealous" wtf is that.. LAME! You can do alot better than that trust me! Try finding someone who does care. Also hes gone out with another girl, then you, then another girl, then you, the 2 other girls, now you again... ya.. i rest my case. Hes comin back to you cause he knows you care about him and he "wants" someone ALWAYS.. so while hes got you and is goin out with you, hes lookin for the next girl. And it sounds like its gunna be nicole. Which to me. to dump you for her to make her bf jealous ..is just a reason to make you think that he still will like you. Which really its just so you think he will so that way when him and her break up he can come back to you, then find the next victim. BREAK UP WITH HIM! You really dont have a choice unless you want to stay with someone who really doesnt care about you. I'm sorry your goin thru this. Dont cut yourself tho. It doesnt help ANYTHING at all. Just think of it as a chance to get out there and find someone else. Theres TONSz of boys im sure. Hes not the only one! GOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA
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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you! (link)
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Well, say "(his name) i think maybe we should just be good friends until we see eachother and everything.. maybe then this could work out. But im older and i dont find it fun going out with someone i've never met or anything." Tell him your really sorry and you still wanna be good friends. If hes a good guy he will understand. If he flips out on you then hes not worth it for the next time. Hope i helped! -aMaNdA
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me and my friend fight ALL the time.. i really wish she would shut up! she brags and annoys me a lot! then she thinks we are like best friends! i dont know what to do!! i dont want to tell her i hate her cause i dont know how she will react! but what if she feels the same way as I do! please dont tell me to just "talk it out" i need real advice that will work!!!! thanks (link)
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Tell her! You wont get anywhere by keeping it to yourself. just say like "you know you bug the hell outta me and i really wish you would just GO AWAY for awhile", and if you hate her...damn it tell her! who cares what she thinks. Shes annoying right? and brags... i hate that.. i know where your comin from. Dont "talk it out" with her cause then that gives her time to speak and beg for you to still be her friend, also to feel sorry. Which you shouldnt. Just say it straight up. Maybe she thinks your her best friend, cause you might tell her some of your secrets, or invite her over or to other places, or talk to her online, or go to her house, laugh at ALL her jokes.. etc.. Hope i helped some!
-aMaNdA
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i have been friends with this guy for like a year now well since last summer and we stoped talkin after i moved but now that i have moved back we started talkin more now and we r starting to hang out together alot more and i am starting to like him he is one of my first love...(ex boyfriends) friends what should i do should i tell him or keep it on the dL cuz i am scared he will freak out and it will mess up or friend ship but then agian i am scared that if i don't tell him then i will neva have a chance wit him..... plz help me what should i do... (link)
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Well maybe when hes in a good mood, make it a funny thing. You'll scare him if your like "omg i like you so much! n do you like me?! " saying it like that makes them get nervous and shy. Since you dont know if he likes you, try like seeing if he will hug you, and flirt, and sit close, and stuff like that. Do it BEFORE you tell him. Dont just think he hugs you means he likes you or something. Try a few diffrent ones, if he does them all, tell him! Just be like... ya know ive liked you for awhile..i was just kinda chicken cause i dont wanna ruin our friendship... gOOD lUCk hUN!
-aMaNdA
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