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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can












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I'm 16 F and I've never had a boyfriend. I know some of you might say, "Don't worry! When the time comes, it comes.." The problem is that I hang out with a bunch of preps..and all my friends have already had boyfriends..:-( I'm the only one out of that group that's never had a close relationship with guys! It's kinda sad..if you ask me! The question is..how can I get guys to notice me..what can i do to make myself look prettier (I'm pretty ugly compared to the other girls)..How can I start convos with guys..it's already hard enough to talk to girls! Thanks

be yourself, everyone is pretty, it takes me a long time to realize that an i still dont, even though my friends tell me that im pretty (haha) and well the truth is just be yourself he will come or meet new people and get new chances

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OK.. well usually my period is.. well i dont really know how to put it.. thinck i guess. and dark. But this month it seems a lot thinner and lighter. Is this normal? Or should I see a doctor or something?

no, but if you are really concerned(sp) i would tell your parents or someone close

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I got a couple bleach spots on my FAVORITE pants. Not only are they my favorite pants, they're like the only ones I own that actually fit me and they weren't that cheap either! Is there anything I can do to them to either get the bleach spot to go away, or a way I can "ware" them so that it looks as though they were made that way? I don't like the whole staining in coffee or tea thing so that's completely out of the question. But is there anything else I can do to bring my pants back to life? =( Thanks.

you can put other bleach stains on the pants, to look like they were made like that

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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period.

yes you can still be pregnant. you can also haave a PMS type when your pregnant

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I am a 34 C cup size. Im really skinny though. I actually wear one of the smallest pant size like size 1. I dont know what do do about a bathing suit. Their all to small.

you could get one that you buy the bottoms seperate and the top seperate.

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I just got my school year book and I want a certain guy to sign it only I'm too shy to ask. If someone told me if I should or should not and give me confidence then I would ask him directly. So, should I or should I not ask him to sign my year book directly and why? Also, if you said no is there any other way I can get him to sign my year book?

yes, im guessing you like him? but i dont know, well this may be the time to get to know him. he might like you, if thats the case. what could happen, he will sign it

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OmG! There's this girl that goes to my school, she's one of my best friends. But it seems that she wants to be exactly like me. She bought the same exact digital camera I had, the same battery charger, she has the SAME necklace I have, and the same exact purse. I usually don't get mad over this stuff. But now she's asking for the same cellphone I have. Am I over exagerating?

i dont want to be rude but yes, who cares if she has the same battery charger or camera. maybe she likes your style

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Ok,I didn't know what category to put this question under, but I guess that doesn't really matter right now. My life is falling apart.

My parents are getting a divorce, because my older half sister and nephew (they're in rehab) are planning on moving in with us (she'd take my car and my room) and my mom doesn't want her to. My Dad feels it's his duty as her father. They'd already been having problems, and my mother's set of parents (my last set of grandparents) are dying, and she'd been really depressed lately. My mom decided the best way to get over it is to leave and go to Washington. None of us know exactly where.

So now, in since my Dad is in Michigan a lot, for his job, it is up to me to run a whole house-hold (cooking, cleaning, shopping, EVERYTHING!) and go to school. I have 4 little brothers and sisters (ages; 11, 8, 6 and 5)... On top of this, I have a job at a hospital, and am picked up by my uncle every day at 6:30 so I can work for two hours. I also realize that I'm very depressed, and have been ever since my ex dumped me two years ago. I can't seem to get over him, and if I even try to date anyone else, I always find some reason to dump them.. please help me.. somehow.. I know it's long.. I'm so sorry..

you have to tell your dad, that your only a kid and they are suppose to have fun, not do all the house work. have a one on one conversation.it might help

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ok so people keep thinking im in like 10th/11th grade when im only in 7th(im 13) and its really weird and it just started happening like a month ago...and these older guys will try to pick me up..and when they ask my age and i say 13 they go...ur kidding right? i know this should be like a good thing but its kinda creeping me out

its probably because you matured faster not just physically but mentally. but im not sure what you look like. did you change something a montha ago like put on make-up or your clothing? if so, that might be why, because you look older

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I always get sidetracked and daydream in class. like i dont pay attention [i still get A's and B's somehow]. sometimes i will space out when people talk to me and they get mad sometimes. My friend always says "pay attention" or "i think u have ADD" .. this is botherin me now that someone pointed it out to me. Is this ADD.. if it matters 13/f

a lot of people think they have ADD, when they really dont. but it sounds like you could have it. i would tell your parent

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There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

you can tell him that it hurts. and no one is ugly, everyone is pretty in their own way

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hey. this is the girl who asked for advice about the school shooting. Nothing happened. Everybody was sitting on the edge of their seats until the bell rang but nothing happened. Thanks for your advice.

yay! you answered.truthfully compared to some people on here i suck at advice. but thanks.

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ok so i like this guy. he just moved in before christmas. i have liked im since then. well he knows i like him. but he talks to me alot when we're at home. but when we get to skool he doesnt and i dont know why. can you help me? bc idk why he doesnt talk to me at skool? so yeah im confused.

15-girl.

i have never understood why people do it, in my opinion which you shouldnt get offended by is that i think he has someone else on his mind or he doesnt really want to be open. im horrible at these questions, as you can tell, but you should ask him for yourself, to know the truth. im sorry i didnt help you that much

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Does anyone know if Billie from Green Day is married? i heard he had a wedding ring on. any info?

yeah i think

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My eyebrows are really hairy! I have super long hairs and I look really bad. My mom won't letme get them waxed..I have asked her many times and she won't let me. I've tried plucking them but they hurt! I don't know what to do because I'm about to be a junior in high school and it's really getting to me! Any advice would be greatly appriciated! Also, don't tell me to sit down and talk to my mom-it won't work..Also, peopple that give crazy answers that want attention, please don't answer!

either way waxying and plucking will hurt. but look in magazines and pluck them into shape. but make them look natural and not thin thin, or big big. yeah confusing but make it right for your face or ask one of your friends to do it. or go to a place that does them and get them done.

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I love doing my own photoshoots for my Myspace.com - what are some good ideas? I want to do a pillow fight so how can i do that?

get some of your friends, and go on the bed, and then have some feathers and have then in front of a fan and blowing everywhere and have pillow, hitting people

thats how i can imagine it

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Hey guys,
I have to make a poetry book in English, and I can't think of a good title that I could create for my book. My topic for the poems that I chose to pick was on LOVE. If anyone could help me try to think of a good title that I could use, I'd really appreciate it! I'll rate you a 5 if you try to help me atleast a little! Thank you so much! I have to create 4 of my own poems on love, and I've already made a few of them, so if anyone wants to read them and let me know if their good or not, please let me know. I'd share them with you so I can get your opinion on them! Alright, thank you so much! :-)

first you should write the poems, then the title will come easy. if you could put the poems in my inbox i can think of a title, if you still need help

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i have begged and begged but mom will not let me get my tongue peirced! she says im too young to make that kind of choice.im 13! one of my family members got it done when she was 11 and my mom approves of it! i really want this done but i dont know were to go that will let u with out your parents permission and one of my friends said to do it my self which i thought about but then another friend said that if you hit the wrong spot it can kill but still this is a choice.what should i do?

NEVER pierce your own tongue, you can die because there is a main artery(sp) there. just convince your mom that your responsible, even though it really has nothing to do with it and tell her that theres nothing wrong with it and your old enough. stuff like that

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My b/f thinks im cheating on him... but his friends are telling me he is the 1 that is going around grabbing other girls butts! should i believe them and break up with him... or should i just go on pretending like i don't notice?

ask him for yourself. but it may be hard, but you should if you really want to know. or see what hes doing for yourself

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i have a lot of trouble getting to sleep. i can't switch off wheni go to bed and i feel tired a lot of the time. I have tried cutting out caffiene, herbal sleeping tablets and all the obvious things and nothing works. can you help

there are pills for that, you could have diabetes(sp) because sometimes you cant sleep. but i dought you have it.dont eat before you go to bed like dont eat 3 hours til you sleep

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