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my name is sarah. or doodle. i'm 16 and now a junior at SMHS. HATE IT! i play slowpitch and fastpitch softball. im verrrry sarcastic. you'll never know if i'm being serious or not. i'd have to say i've been through a lot, but you might not think so. try me, i could surprise you =)

advice

I'm going on holiday with my friend in the summer and I am a very picky eater!!! I have given her a basic list of what I really don't like and like, totally won't eat, but Iunno, there's obviously going to be other stuff they feed me that I don't like. So I'm gonna take a bit of food in my suitcase just in case. I've already thought of cereal bars and crisps but is there anything else I could take? Ignore the fact that I'm a picky eater, just say anything you can think of. If it's a good idea but I don't like the food then I'll still rate high because you tried.

you can bring some rice cakes, beef jerky, chips, fruit snacks, peanut butter (i like to eat plain peanut butter strait from the jar)...im thinkin...those skippy peanut bars (they are sooo good!), cheeze-its, pudding, cookies, sorry but that is all that i can think of!
~*Sarah*~

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Is coffee fattening? Like just black coffee, nothing added?

no its not if it is just the coffee..not millk or sugar
~*Sarah*~

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me and this one guy were like such good friends ;) now hes changed and now he always ignores me its so wrong

forget him..people change..and trust me i no that from experience..only about 3 of my friends from when i was younger are still my friends..yeah so people change and theres really nothing you can do..just remember the good times you guys had together..
~*Sarah*~

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theres this girl right here name is shelly right and im kinda shy around girls im 6'0 brown hair 150 guitar player for a little local band and i like her but i dont no how to express my self so how could i approach her ???

just go up to her and start a conversation with her...ask her if she wants to hang out with you or go watch your band play..once yall hang out for a while if you still like her tell her how you feel..or just go up to her and tell her how you feel
~*Sarah*~

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My mom and I had an argument over braces the last week and she got really mad. I'm going to get them anyway and she won't talk to me. It's been almost a week and she always ignores me..and doesn't tell me wen it's time to eat or anything.. PLEASE don't tell me to sit her down and have a talk..we don't have that kind of relationship..and I can't wait it out! Please don't critisize..I rate!

do like i do to my dad..if shes ignorin you..ignore her
~*Sarah*~

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I have a boy friend and my perants are cool with it but then my friend said that he was going to ask me on a date my parents say that I can't date till I drive what should I do

invite him over for dinner one night and let your parents get to no him..play board games with the family..i no it sounds boring but maybe if they can trust him they will let you go..or go with some friends..
~*Sarah*~

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I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know

make flyers and when you are at there house or something and then say something about how they need a babysitter mention that you babysit
~*Sarah*~

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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!

talk to him about it and if he doesnt stop within a week or two go to your principal or tell your parents..but i would talk to him first..he may not notice he is hurting there feelings..he may think he is being funny when he really isnt!
~*Sarah*~

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i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...?

i no this advice may not help..but the best thing to do is to be there for her through everything..if she is pregnant..then stay by her side the whole time..help her with everything until she finds out for sure if shes pregnant or not..i no i prolly didnt help!
~*Sarah*~

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when do you start showing when your pregnant?? and does anyone know how much tests at planned parenthood cost?

i think you start showing when you are about 3-5 months pregnant. im pretty sure that the tests are free!
~*Sarah*~

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How can i find paying not so hard work i need money so please help i need lists and ect. please help?¿?

do stuff around the house, help out neighbors, make bets (haha hope owes me $30 from bets and my sister owes me $20 from a bet, so thats $50 right there)..umm...babysit...thats all that i can think of right now!
~*Sarah*~

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is the best way to get a lil tipsy without throwing up..to drink small parts a time ..and not all at once? also is eating before you drink helpful in not thorwing up..thanks

eat before you drink..i no im only 14 and how would i no this but one of my sisters used to drink 24/7 so trust me on this one..eat before you drink!
~*Sarah*~

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Where can i find cities/states minimum wages? I already tried ask.com and typeed in the place but nothing came up.

go here: http://www.dol.gov/esa/minwage/america.htm if it wont load for you then leave me one in my inbox and i can look it up for you!
~*Sarah*~

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time now. I love him so much and he asked me to marry him. I told him yes of course because I have never felt this way about anyone and he is flawless. But the thing is, I am only 16 years old. And latley, aka as of two days ago, I have been having doubts and it doesnt feel the same. Nothing happened between us, it just feels different. I want to love this guy again, because the love I had for him was perfect. I dont want to lose him for feeling this. What can I do to 'rekindle' the flame again?

tell him that you are having second thoughts about getting married..if he really loves you and you really love him..he will understand.. but since ya'll are engaged wait a few years until you actually set a date to get married. just have a long engagement so that way you no FOR sure what he will be like once you two get married! hope i helped!
~*Sarah*~

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okay sorry guys heres a little background information before the question, i am 16 and my b/f is 17. i drive, and i live in TEXAS... things we normally do are watch movies, eat out, and even go to church together. we have been together for a year and a half and i just want to shake things up a bit.. now heres the question:
i was just wondering some good ideas for my aniversary with my longtime boyfriend coming up...i was wondering if anyone had some ideas for a romantic evening, something that we don't normally do. thanks

go to six flags or seaworld (whichever one you are closest to) and then have a picnic together and watch the sunset..i no this is boring but its all i can think of!
~*Sarah*~

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Does anyone know of a place (online or a store) that you can get dog tags (the necklaces) with your initials inprinted on them?

Thanks!

customdogtags.com, you can probably go to google and put in 'custom dog tags' and it should give you a bunch of websites!
~*Sarah*~

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

ummm...NO..im in 8th grade now..but when i was in 7th grade i went out with a 6th grader...
~*Sarah*~

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I waas wondering if anyone knew where there would be cheap and cute/hot clothes cheapp like shirt:25-30$ etc. thanks website is what i mostly need because we don't have any great stores here. thanks

abercrombie.com, aeropostale.com, ae.com, hollisterco.com, kohls.com thats all that i can think of! hope i helped!
~*Sarah*~

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I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!

try abercrombie, hollister, buckle, pacsun, american eagle, aeropostale, gap, gadzooks..thats all i can think of right now!
~*Sarah*~

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Ok i am haven the hardest time with cutting after i do a practice swing!! (that means hitting my self on my shoulder with my bat)
What can i do so i stop hitting myself?
Kris

when you practice swing, dont do a full swing so you have a less chance of hitting yourself. just about everyone on the high school softball team i was on, hit their shoulder. my one friend does it REAL bad but nothing has happened to her yet. but i understand why you want to stop hitting yourself.
~*Sarah*~

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