hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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how do i become one???
do i have to have a paid account? (link)
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join and you can start giving advice straight away and you dont need a paid account!!!
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okay i kno it is our mom's job to make sure everything is going okay but my mom watches my every move she even listens in on my phone calls and tracks me on the internet i have caught her reading my diary 5 times in the last 3 years....what do i do? it is driving me nuts!!!!! (link)
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hay you need to talk to your mum and tell her your not little anymore and she needs to give you space. she hasnt realised you dont need her as much anymore and you can do things for yourself now. she is just sad her babys growing up thats all. wich can drive evryone nuts once and a while
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ok, a couple weeks ago i went to a party in miami.
i used to live there so i knew a few people there.
but there was this one guy that i didnt know.
and i was dancing with him all night.
before me and my friend left i made out with him.
EVERYONE knows about it.
even at his school.
im going out with him now.
and he was the first guy i ever made out with.
but, do you think im a slut?
thanks in advance :] (link)
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hay your not a slut... a slut is someone who has sex and makes out with random guys all the time.. just by doing it once and people talking about it wont make you a slut.. trust me people are bound to talk about stuff they have seen or have none its no biggy.
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what kind of birds make the best pets? im looking at small or medium birds, no large birds like parrots or anything. ive had multiple birds in the past, so i have experiance with brids. (link)
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budgies are great bird and small, they have bright colours and are very friendly... they make great pets
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it's a really long story so i'll spare you the details... anywho, my dad's going through some legal stuff... it's been dragged on for 4 years now... the thing is that when i was little all my friends turned on me because of it... so now i have tons of trust issues and stuff like that... is there anyway to get over trust issues. and also my dad's sentencing hearing is soon, should i go? my sister isn't... and i don't know if i should miss school... (link)
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hay you should go.. your dad needs as much support as he can get and one day off school wound hurt.. trust is important maybe you should try trust exercises.
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alright well i like this kid named "R". hes one of my good friends. we hang out and stuff. some times i catch him staring at me. i dont think he likes me though. and then i like this other kid "S" who is me and "R"s friend. i dont wanna like "S" but i just do. i dont know what to do. i really like "r" but i just cant help but like "S". s is the friend that everyone calls big and ugly. i heard he spit in his ex girlfriends face and hit her once. he told me that it was once and he didnt mean to hit her. r is the type of guy that doesnt show his feelings for girls at all. me and him already talked about him being gay and hes definatly not. but idk what to do cause i like them both and i know if i tell r i like him, s might get mad cause i think he likes me but if i tell s i like him then ill ruin any chance of ever being with r. (link)
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hay
just think of the one guy that you see yourself being with later on then go for it...
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My mom knows im obssesed with using my computer. I love it. I dont watch tv, I just go online and play pc games or chat with my friends. My mom says I spend to much time. I got my grades in they werent too good, but I passed? She yelled at me and called me a loser. My brother and sister kept telling me hahahaa kc ur getting ur internet taking away. What am i going to do without it? My brother and sister are like loners and have no friends im serious i never see them hanging around with ne one, r they jealous I have a life?> (link)
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hay why dont you take up a sport or activity after school like soccer or something your interested in. you could get your friends to join with you, then even though you cant chat to them on the on your computer you can still hang out with them and have fun. and that way to can have some space away from your brother and sister so they dont annoy you. i think annoying you is just there job... thats wat brothers and sisters do.
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Hi my names kc and my parents gotta divorce about 7 years ago. However, my brother now hates my dad, he never wants to go with him, and he sticks up the middle finger at him which is wrong cos hes only 12. My mom doesnt do anything about it she can careless? Im the only one who goes with my dad on the weekend but i have a better time with him because my mom always argues and is so negative (link)
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hay, i'v been through the same thing your goin though but about 10 years ago. i think your brother is just upset and thinks that b'cos your dad doesnt want to be with your mum then your dad doesnt want to be with him, so he acts like he doesnt care when he really does and that it is really hurting him inside. if your mum hasnt had a partner in a while then maybe she is just lonely... alot of people get lonely. maybe you should talk to them about it.
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i'm a 16 year old paranoid female. a couple of days ago a tiny bump (the size of a zit) appeared on my right breast. i didn't think much of it, but now there are a five on my left breast as well. they definitely aren't zits. they're harder and are all on my areolas. they don't hurt to the touch, but i have no idea what they could be. i'm scared, but i don't want to blow it out of proportion if it's nothing big. somebody help, please. ): thank you. (link)
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hay you should get them checked out by your doctor just to be on the safe side and then you wont have anything to worry aboout. thats the best thing you can do and best way of knowing wat they really are.
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there's this guy patrick and me and him got really close over winter break... too close, we even made out... so then i told him that i didn't like him "like that", he acted really cool about it but then the next time i saw him he called me a fatass a bunch of times, said that he hated me, and threw my cell phone in the snow.
the next day he texted me on my cell and said hey whats up, so how're you, exc.
then after him doing this for about a month he told my friend that he hated me and i was a stuck up b****, and i f*** with people until i get what i want.
but, he still texts me and says that i'm beautiful and stuff... what should i say to him? (link)
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hay
i think that when you kissed him it ment a lot more to him then it did to you and that he wondered why you kissed him if you didnt like him. by the sounds of it he probly thinks you made a fool out of him and is a bit embarrassed that he thought it could be more.
maybe you should just talk to him about this and try to work it out together cos he oviously still likes you and is willing to forgive you.
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we just got a pet cockatiel and we are stumped on finding a name.
my mom wants a name that means something in another language or just a cute american name.
please an many answers as possible.
thanks =]. (link)
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hay
if you want a name with a meaning wat about bella... it is italian and means beautiful, i think it would be a good bird name... or wat about lilly thats cute
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where can i buy short board shorts for girls? thanks (link)
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hay
how about looking in surf shops you should find some there... if not then maybe beachy or swimwear shops.
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If your friend's boyfriend is cheating on her do u tell her or keep it 2 your self i mean everyone knows and she is really in love with him each time they break up they get right back together but she found out a couple of her friends know and she aint talkin to them anymore but im her best friend do i tell her i know (link)
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hay
have you heard of the quote... boys come and go but friends are forver..
well you need to tell her cos if you dont and she finds out you knew it will just hurt her and you dont want to lose a friend over a guy.
xoxo
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Someone told him i liked him and so i had a friend go ask him if he likes me and he said he hates me. I still like him and the girl who told him is my friend. What do i do?
13/f (link)
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hay
there isnt much you can do if he hates you.. just see if he comes around but if he doesnt dont waste your time cos there are plenty of other guys out there..
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I look around the site at comments about how high school relationships suck/are based off the wrong things/etc. And I am getting REALLY freaked out, because there's a guy I like (i'm 14 and a freshman by the way) and I want to get with him but i don't want our relationship to end up like all others..I genuinely like him as a person and as a boyfriend so I'm not just lusting after him. I guess my question is, how can i make a high school relationship last past that? (link)
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hay
you should go for it if you really want to.
and beleive me you will probly have heaps of high school boyfriends so dont freak out ok... but some relationships just dont work and some do, you'll figure it out.
to try and make this relationship last you need to know your on the same level as him, you need to trust him and dont lie to him.. just be loyal cos that will help your relationship stay on track. also if you hang out a lot be sure to give him space once and a while cos if you dont he will go crazy and he might end your relationship over it.. and most of all just try to have as much fun with him during your relationship so its not boring for you or him.
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okay i want to get a new hairstyle cuz mine is pretty plain.
so i have blonde hair and its like 3 inches past my shoulders and its layered.
but i want something not so boring but veryy cute.
is there any suggestions? (link)
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hay
why dont you get streeks/highlights in your hair they always look good..
if you want something cute maybe try a fridge or a side fridge cos there all the fashioin these days...
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Ok - I need to workout and I know it. What are some good warm-up workouts? I feel fat and i'm even afaid to walk up to guys sometimes or even go to the Mall. I feel like i'm being judged and that even though we actualy seem to look so much the same ... its just little features that are able to tell us apart. I would like to know some good work outs or workout sites that could help me or maybe something that would help me with my convendence?
- Thanks
Katherine
P.S. What does Beautiful mean? (link)
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hay
i dont think your fat because a lot of girls are worried about how they look when they dont really need to. BUt for something to help you...
why dont you try palates,its a geat way to lose weight or just to feel good about yourself and to boost you confidence. I do plataes and rether.
i think beatiful is said when someone likes the way another person looks...
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this kid, who i used to be best friends with, but then this thing happened & so i figured he hated me [because he blocked me for one] so i didnt talk to him anymore. [but i kinda turned him down, to like him.. is that maybe why...] anyways, i switched schools & now go to his school. & people told me he was excited i was coming. & i was like .. oh great, he'll probably pick on me.. so then anyways, when i get there, about 7 or 8 people asked me if i knew him, if they remember that i dated him, if i was still his girlfriend, & what i thought about him.
when i saw him, all of his friends were like "no way!" & staring at me. & stuff. i didnt really get what that meant..
what was happening therE? (link)
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hay
well turning him down is probly why he stoped talking to you. i think he was excited to have you coming to his school... he may still like you, and by the reaction of his friends it sounds like they might think your hot and cant beleive he went out with you...
you should be friends with him again and see what happens, you never know.
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How do you START a fight to END a friendship?
I've written many questions about one of my "best friends" on here, and i've come to a conclusion (please don't try to talk me out of it.. i think this is the wisest thing to do) i need our friendship to end, and the only way to end it is by having a HUGE fight.
Only problem is, she would NEVER pick a fight with me, no matter what i do wrong, so she needs to do something wrong that i could "not forgive" her for.. you know? but its not like i can GET HER to do something wrong, is there? and if so, what?
i know it's supid, but seriously.. my question is.. how can i pick a fight with my best friend that could end with me saying "shut up, you annoy the hell out of me..bye" or something along those lines??? (link)
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hay
well you have to make sure that you really want to end your friendship first cos you dont want to end up regreting it do you... maybe you could tell her something in secret that you know she will blab to someone else and then deliberatley find out, then you can cause a big fight about trusting her again and end your friendship. Or if that doesnt work you could just drift apart and stop hanging out with her as much... remember if you want to end the relationship so badly, you should not care if it is you who does something to hurts her and she ends the relationship, if anything you will just be glad its over.
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I went out with this guy last year on and off and we were best friends. We had become really close and could talk to each other about almost anything. This summer we hung out a little but talked a lot online, it was like nothing had really changed. Then school started and I went to high school and he stayed in junior high, still technically in high school though. We were still really good friends at the beginning of the year but then we started moving apart until one day he blocked me on the computer and ignored me completely when I went to visit people at the junior high. I gave him a CD i had made for his birthday and I had written him a long letter, but he never even said anything about it. Now he won't even talk to me but he still talks to everyone else. What should I do? I miss him, he was my best friend. (link)
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hay
well there must be a reason why he wont talk to you... maybe he thinks you left him behind when you went to high school or something. i think you need to talk to him face to face because that may be the only way to fix things. tell him what your thinking and open up to him, you never know he might just open up to you.
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