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my dad
it's a really long story so i'll spare you the details... anywho, my dad's going through some legal stuff... it's been dragged on for 4 years now... the thing is that when i was little all my friends turned on me because of it... so now i have tons of trust issues and stuff like that... is there anyway to get over trust issues. and also my dad's sentencing hearing is soon, should i go? my sister isn't... and i don't know if i should miss school...
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hay you should go.. your dad needs as much support as he can get and one day off school wound hurt.. trust is important maybe you should try trust exercises.
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U dont know if yu should miss school? You mean another boring lousy nonsense day over your fathers hearing lolz? Trust me gurl, u got thousants of boring lousy school days to come, go 2 your father.
If your friends r questioning your trust then they dont deserve your friendship. Go out n find better friends.
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If you have an important role in the case, go. If not, don't go because it can cause you stress or other damage. As for trust issues, you just have to remember that people come and go. The thing to learn is that you can't miss out on good people because of what past people have done. You can only try, and if it doesn't work, that's okay. Trying and failing is better than not trying at all. Not trying at all will only keep you stuck.
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I, personally would go, if it was my dad, but I don't know what the sentencing is about, so I can't just tell you if you should go or not. Do what you feel is the right thing to do. Don't base your decision off of your sister's. Choose for yourself what you think is best.
As for the friends that turned on you- they obviously weren't REALLY your friends. Otherwise, they would have been supportive to you, rather than judging you by what is going on with some one else.
As for your trust issues, that is hard to get over. I can't tell you a sure fire way to just be trusting again. Do realize that trust is something that is earned, not something that is given. A friend needs to earn your trust.
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