My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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Okay, so my friend just hooked up me and this guy. & I like him, and I'm pretty excited.
But the chances are my parents arn't going to let me date. He want me to go to the movies with him, and personally I don't like going to the movies of first dates. Excpecially when you just turned 13 and have overprotective parents.
I offerered to go to the pool club with him, I don't think he's too crazy about that idea. And he really does like me, alot. I made up the excuse not to go to the movies. I feel bad. What should I do? (link)
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hey well thats great that you found a guy... but ask your parents again if your allowed to date... if not then don't bother too hook up with that guy because the chances of them finding out are alot... so before you date him talk to your parents and tell them that you and this guy like eachother... and if they don't want you to see him then i suggest you shouldn't because of they find out you had a boyfriend you will get in trouble... i know this because im not allowed to date.. and i still try to get me a guy.. but everything just backfires. so yeah i hope i helped bye!!!
nikita
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so recently ive been trying to lose some weight. running, eating right (or trying) and mentally training my mind. ive lost some weight but i just cant seem to lose anymore.. and its really making me rethink the whole process and just want to give up. what should i do? (link)
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first do not give up!! secondly. what you should is workout more often. try to force yourself to go to the gym aleats 5 times a week b/c that'll help you alot in weight loss and gaining yur confidence. another thing you should do is make healthier food choices. eat foods that have less calories. and eat lots of foods that r good 4 u b/c that will also help you! well good luck! bye!
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Okay so I sit with 4 other girls at my lunch table. 2 of them are really good friends of mine. The one girl, Jen, only sits there cause she has trouble walking. The other girl is friends with my one friend. Anyway, one of my friends, Brittney and her friend Sarah, told Jen that I was saying all this stuff about her when I didnt. Brittney and Sarah were the ones gossiping about her. So Jen freaked out at me and im innocent. My other friend, Ashley tried to tell Jen that the other two were gossiping, but Brittney denied it and Jen called Ashley a liar. Im innocent and I want to avoid a confrontation but how do i prove to Jen that i wasnt the one gossiping and that the other two were? Ive been having to eat lunch in the office cause my "friends" dont want me to sit with them. I also have some dirt on Brittany, and I dont want to stoop to her level, but should I tell people about her? I know it sounds mean but she did wrong and i want her to know how im feeling. Sorry, this was long. I appretiate your help. Thanks! (link)
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well i think that u shouldn't be friends with any of those girls b/c none of them r true friends b/c their just a bunch of drama queen gossip girls.. try to find a new group of friends to hangout with.. be open to them andnice.. and try to avoid drama! well i hope i helped good luck! bye!
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Mk... so tomorrow I'm going to hang out with a bunch of my friends at one of their houses. Usually I wouldn't really care about what I wear when I'm with them, but tomorrow there's supposed to be a few guys I've had my eyes on coming too. I know when you start liking someone you're supposed to be yourself and just act normal, but I atleast want to make a good impression. Any tips on a few cute things that maybe you guys would wear?
Thanks in advance.
14.F.Tx (link)
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well u could just wear a nice shirt nothing too fancy... && a pair of jeans and a pair of fli flops!!! and you'll be just fine... don't try to dress slutty just to get a few guys' attention... just be yourself!!! good luck!!! bye!!!
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I have plenty of clothes but I never can find something to wear. I'm overweight and its hard to look decent without looking weird. It takes me sometimes 2 hours to find something! Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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well if u think your chubby then maybe you shoould go on a diet and lose some weight... then u can buy clothes from like hollister, abercrombie, umm, aeropostale etc!!! hope i helped bye xOxOx
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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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no she isn't cruel maybe you think that cause she's just insecure... and you shouldn't really be friends with her the way she is acting... especially if she doesn't care that you are moving...
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I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me. (link)
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you shouldn't be friends with that guy cause what he's doing is wrong.. and a another reason is if he won't stop and he does it for a long time he will die and he needs some rehab hope i helped bye xOxO nIkItA
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i have problems. LIKE I AM A VERY NICE EASYGOING FUNNY PERSON BUT I DONT HAVE any friends.(sry cap locks was on!!) like there are people that are nice and i eat lunch with them. but i want a friend thAt i can tell stuff to hang out on the weekends stuff like that. i call people but there always "busy" when i call. since i dont have any friends and im lonely and have alot on my mind my grades are dropping.and since my grades are dropping my parents are getting mad at me. and i am always screaming at them and there always screaming at me. i cant talk to them they would like eat my alive. i cant tell my problems to my friens because i dont have any. i cry so much. i cry myself to sleep. i sometimes think about sucide. i have no one to talk to. i need some love! what do i do?
~unloved and unwanted (link)
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Hey well you should try to make friends b like sharing interests withother people.. and juz like be you.. and before you know it you will have tons of friends... and if you are depressed talk to a counselor.. and tell your parents how you feel.. and tell them that you are doing your best in school...
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my friend liikes this guy who likes me.. what should i do? (link)
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Well you shouldn't go out with that guy since your friend likes him... cause then her feeling will be hurt...
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