Member Since: June 21, 2005
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Last Update: August 12, 2005
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mushoku,
i would like to im you sometime-hope you don't mind. just to talk. (link)
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c0lorlessgreen
I'm not on during the weekend, and I'm only on at work, so don't be surprised if I don't respond very quickly.
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Hi. Alright so there is this guy and i like him so much and he liked me until... well... i gave my really good friend his screen name and she flirted with him and acted all fake when she talked to him and now he likes her. They havn't even met! I am so mad but i dont wanna talk to her about it because she'll be like "what r u talking about?", and act like im crazy. She doesn't even know I like him. I don't wanna ruin our friendship but at the same time im so mad... and confused... im afraid if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot. Alright this probably sounds like another silly teen love problem... but it really hurts. And I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about it. Please help.
Thanks (link)
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Tell her you like him - he's fair game to her until you do - and that you don't want her to tell him.
If she tells him, /and/ he thinks you're an idiot, then he's not worth your time, and you should deal with her telling him with her. If she tells him and that prompts him to put some moves on you, then you're better than when you started.
If she doesn't tell him at all and acts like a jerk to you, then she's not worth your time. If she doesn't tell him and is cool with it and backs off, you're better than where you are now.
But I think you should be the one to tell him.
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Okay so I'm going out with this guy. He cheated on me with my "friend" at a party, and I found out. The thing is, I don`t think he would have told me if I hadn`t found out. I still love him so much, but nothing can ever happen between us because of what he did. He has apoligized and I`ve just been really mean to him. What the hell do I do???????
PLEASE HELP. (link)
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You break up with him. And I'm not trying to sound harsh here, that's the truth.
You love him, but you're being mean to him - is that what you want? Think about what is best for the two of you, not for the relationship.
And just because you two separate now, it doesn't mean you can't get back together. Besides, if you two aren't together, he will be able to be himself without regard to your relationship, and you can see whether he really wants to be with you or not. And, what I've found in my own experiences, people grow a lot more as people outside of relationships than in them, let alone in "soured" relationships.
So tell him you love him, but that you think that it's best if you two stop dating. If you want to leave the option open to get back together later on, tell him that.
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well, thank you for understanding my pain. i didn't mean any harm to you. i'm just in a state of stock. i understand your honest answer. sorry for starting off on the wrong foot. (link)
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"I'm sorry and you're sorry..." and I have no idea where that quote was supposed to go, but it kinda describes the situation, ne?
If you care to have someone to talk to, feedback doesn't really matter to me, and I'll give you my AIM if you ask. >^.^
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My friend (when i say friend im really talking about my friend not myself) but anyway she had a bf then he dumped herr and other day he likes her again and the next he hates her...shes going out with a guy that she doesnt love as much as she loves her ex...and does anyone know how to help her?
thanks and much lovee (link)
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It sounds like she needs to take some time off from dating.
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so i dont know if i was raped or not but there was this guy and like he was behind me and my friend was standin next to me but like... she didnt see it...so like this guy who was like a lot older then me was like feeling my bra and like feeling my back and shit! and i dont know wat to do its kinda embarassin and all!
plz help! i dont know wat to do
I RATE HIGH!
*confused* (link)
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It's not rape, and depending on which part of your bra, it was either molestation, or, at worst, sexual harrassment.
If it was the part of your bra that's on your back, and he only touched your back and not your butt, it's borderline molestation, maybe. Was he doin it with his hands, like feeling up your back, or was it just a crowded space and he ended up with like his arm or (if he was fat) stomache rubbing up against you? 'cause in crowded areas, things like this happen all the time - it's whether it was intentional or not.
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will thanks for answering my question. but do you always talk to women like that. as for the doctors i did ask. i just wanted more feed back by other people who might have had the same thing happen. thata all. please stop cursing at me. i lost him days ago and are having a hard time with this (link)
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No, I don't talk to people like that usually - only when they earn it. I don't consider women, or men, to carry any special privelage - they're both people.
I understand that you're going through a hard time, but not everyone is trying to rain on your parade. This never would have ben a problem if you hadn't assumed that I was being mean initially - it was honest advice.
So I'm sorry about your loss, and I know you're taking it hard. But don't think that everything that comes your way is done with ill-intent or you'll stay feeling bad even longer.
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when i see like sex seens in movies and what not i get this weird feeling in my vagina...what is this? thanks (link)
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Means you are coming into physical maturity, and your body is becoming sexually mature. Basically, what the others said - you're gettin horny.
Just don't fulfill it too early - wait until you're ready before you have sex. Just 'cause you get horny doesn't mean you have to.
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How do you get rid of dark eye lids and dark circles around your eyes? (link)
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You can use makeup, but it may also be health related, like lack of sleep or vitamins/nutrients.
You may want to ask a doctor, a holistic specialist, or a nutritionist, informerly (like, not making an appointment), if it has anything to do with anythinng like that. And, if you still live with your parents, talk to them for help, or for finding help.
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ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ? (link)
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It's because maybe you're starting to get a clearer idea of what it is, and what it means. Or wanting it.
The answer really can't be determined without delving into your history and thoughts, et cetera, though. I could be wrong, of course - this could have a rather regular reason relating to your age, and that is experience independent.
Try talking with your parents about it - they've got more life experience, and they know you better than we do.
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you havent read the question i wrote. you too are heartless. where do they get people like you. im asking if anyone had the same thing happen to a family member. you obviously can't read. (link)
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Yes, I did answer your question, I just didn't understand that you were asking about your family member, not about taking it yourself - try making your questions clear. It sounded like "I'm thinking about taking it, but I had a family member who died because he took it, so is it safe."
As for heartless, you must be stupid to think that telling you to get an answer from a professional is heartless. Heartless would be laughing at you, telling you an answer when I have no idea what it is, or letting everyone tell you "I don't know, good luck." Without giving you an answer of substance. The "blah blah blah" was because I couldn't think of other reasons why we can't give you a good response and you need to ask a doctor, but I knew there were more.
My advice is the same - ask a doctor. We aren't professionals here, and you want an answer we can't give. Any medicine can be fatal in certain situations, including over the counter.
So pull your head out of your ass, fcuk your ego, and go ask a doctor.
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hello i am having a pool party and i need a bathing suit i have picked out 2 that i think are cute from kohls can you guys tell me what one is better and keep in mind im 13 and im a size 16 so no worries about me being younger and also i like to be different and go bold with colors here is the link to it
http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla3.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=163769023&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=168393005&bmUID=1119630672104
click on the swatches to see the bathing suits up close is the purple and blue one cuter or the green and yellow one cuter and you see the little bow string tie thingis the front well im taking that out so it doesnt look kiddish please help me decide i rate HIGH (link)
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It really depends on your skin tone and hair color. The kiwi is louder, though, I think.
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Okay I'm like really bored and passing the time by looking at pics but I need some other site to go to. Can someone please give me some websites?
I'll rate five if you give me at least three good sites! (link)
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Go outside. Get off of your computer. Do something that requires physical activity.
And I don't give a crap about what you rate me. That's my advice, take it or leave it - I'm not gonna fulfill some requirements to earn your bloody rating.
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i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
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This will take time, for one. You need to keep yourself busy. And keep friends around. Talk to people you trust.
Also, My AIM is c0lorlessgreen. If you want, you can IM me.
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can fentanyl be fatal the first time it is used. my brother age 44 died after using it for one night. he was'nt sick just hurt his back. please help me. (link)
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consult a doctor, not people who can't answer your question as it applies to you. We can't examine you, don't know your medical history, blah blah blah.
Seriously, ask a doctor.
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my best friend marissa moved to germany.i really miss her.i've known her since pre-k.we did everything together.she was like a sis to me.but what really sucks...is that before she moved we had a fight.well actually she was mad at me for somethin real stupid.i can't call her b/c i don't have her#.and i don't know if she still has her comp.but i want to apologize.please help me.what should i do? (link)
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Send her an email, say what you wanna say, and tell her you'll wait for a response. Let her know you don't want to lose her as a friend.
She was probably upset not because of the stupid thing, but because she was moving away from you, or she wanted to distance herself from you because she didn't want it to hurt as much for either or both of you when she moved.
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what is really masterbating? (link)
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Or, for a more real definition, it is where a person intentionally causes themself to have an orgasm. They can use objects to help or not. Guys typically use a hand and something to lubricate, gals typically either rub the outside or put 1 or more fingers inside and move them around.
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I'm sorta chubby, and i have been invited to a pool party. anybody have anty good ideas wear to get a suite for a c36 5'5" 160pd girl?
please i really don't want to look like a fool! (link)
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one-piece, definately, with a skirt or something. Your mom or your friends can help you with specifics and locations, probably.
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ok so i watched the blair witch project.. it was pretty weird... but i was wondering if that footage was real or not... does anyone know?!?
im so confused... because if that was true... holy crap but if it wasnt.. that was the gayest video EVER!lol. thanks a alot! (link)
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It was a college video project - it wasn't real.
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if a blind person got shampoo in their eyes would it sting? dotn tell me its a stupid question i know ! i rate high! (link)
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stupid questions rock, man!! No, really.
anyway, if they're eyes are not cut off completely (like they no longer get blood flowing to them, no nerves connected, et cetera), they usually can. Unless they don't have the sense of feeling in their eyes, which would be different than blindness.
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