Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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in youtube there are tons of comments on girls that love emo boys because of their side parted hair,makeup,tight girl jeans and stuff.I was wondering why is that so? i mean i understand the hair maybe,but why do girls go for guys that look like.....girls? with their makeup and tight jeans? don't girls like macho man who wear boyish stuff? please clear my confusion thanks.
p.s:besides the above,comment on what else you like about emo kids. (link)
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hey i LOVE the macho guys. if i wanted to date someone who looked like a girl, then i would date a girl but im not a lesbian. i don't want a guy that's going to put on my skinny jeans and think they look good. i dont know what's wrong with those girls but i want a manly man who watches football and can protect me not a girly man.
hope i helped
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Hey everyone,
I've come to the realization that I should probably just get over my guy friend that I like a lot. I always thought that maybe him and his girlfriend would end, but its up to their 6th month together, and when he's on the phone with her thats the only thing he talks about. I text him a lot, and we always had been good friends since 3 years ago but since he has been going out with his girlfriend we've kinda slipped. I'd just like to know what I can do to get him out of my head, to stop looking at his myspace and texting him and basicially just torturing myself!
Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks so much (link)
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i dont mean to get your hopes up because this happened to me by luck but i was in your situation and the guy and his girlfriend broke up their 7th month. just start becoming closer to him as a friend and then if he does break up then you can become his shoulder to lean on and then work from there. but that doesn't always happen but it's worth a shot.
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so there is this guy. He is really fine and has a way with words. He is very sweet and fun to be around. Me and him talk dirty to eachother a lot. And one day he said lets hangout. so i said okay and do what? and he said anything. And i said anything but sex? and he said no, im down for that. i want to loose it to you. I really like him and he is special. i am a virgin. and so is he, but he has done everything except sex. and i want to loose it to him!
Should i?
no lectures (link)
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start with smaller things firts like bj's and hj's and see how he reacts with that. sometimes guy's personalities change towards you after you have become sexual. if he's still a nice kid and you really want to do it then do it but dont let yourself be pressured.
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is their any shampoos/conditioners or anything thats cheep and can help my hair grow longer? i cut it and i dont like it and i want to try to make it grow faster..is their any way? (link)
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keeping the ends trimmed will help it grow. i know it doesnt sound like it would grow by cutting it but if you keep the ends healthy and make sure you dont have split ends then it'll grow faster.
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m/13 so me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex. we dont know whether she should put her tampon in during it so she doesnt get pregnant, or i should use i condom. also, how do u put on a condom? when i put my penis in how fast do i go in and out? (link)
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so yeah you heard it a million times already and normally i would say if you're ready then go for it, but thats for people 15 and up. 13years old is rediculously young. i think i was still playing with barbies when i was that age. if the girl had a tampon in and you were going to have sex with her you could really really hurt her and tear something inside of her. this is really not a good idea. i knew a girl who was 12 or 13 and she had sex with a condom and got pregnant. now picture your life right now with a baby. you yourself have only been in the double digit ages for 4 years. i don't care what people say. 13yr olds are not ready for sex.
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there's nothing wrong with making out, blowjob, tugging, and all the other fooling around with your guy friend, right? i just wanted to make sure before i do it lol, thanks! (link)
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do not do anything with him if you like him. and just remember the dont kiss and tell rule. i learned from experience that unless you want people's opinions and comments, dont tell anyone about it. other than that go ahead and have fun.
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This is Pretty nasty i know but i have a question..I was making out with my boyfriend and i got on his and i dont know what it was but i was kind of grinding on it and i felt this huge rush through me it felt amazing..well after that i was holding a pillow which was long and it was against my front part also and it gave me that same rush after a little bit because i kind of did the same thing i did with my boyfriend but with it..What was that rush? and is it like masturbation?
Thnks alot in advance (link)
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yeah you cant have an orgasm from just a pillow, its pretty much impossible.you were probably just horny, which means that your body wanted sex but that doesnt mean you should have sex. and yeah its like masturbation.
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Can you help me to predict when I will get my period?
Info:
F/15 -going to be in 10th grade
dicharge: about 1 1/2 years somedays i get much more than others
Mom started: summer going into 8th grade
Dad's side: late bloomers
Bra size: 32A
Arm pit hair: none
Pubic hair: much
will i get arm pit hair after i start or before?
please any estimate is good!
Plus I thought that you got discharge as a warning, and within a year you'd have your period, I've had it a long time still nothing!
I've been waiting and waiting for everything
When will my breasts get bigger. My mom isn't small and my dads side is just late but not really small. Just want to be bigger!
brands of bras I should try to help me look bigger in tee shirts and low cut ones...not wonder or water thought thanks!!!
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you'll get armpit hair before you start your period. and your boobs will get bigger when you start your period.
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well i have this guy friend and we've been friends for practically forever and our parents are friends too. Since they know we aren't into each other, they let us spend the night at each others house. he said he doesn't 'like me in that way' but he really likes to cuddle with me when we go to bed and he always gets an erection and kind of grinds it into my back. so my question is, does he actually like me or is he just horny?
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he probably wants to be either friends with benefits with you or he wants a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, or he just wants you to know that you make him horny. if you want to go into a deeper relationship with him, then the next time he does that flirt with him. or ask him sometime if he's ever liked you before as more than a friend. there's a lot of way's this situation could go so you're best bet is just asking him what he wants.
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do most guys find it more attractive for a girl to have a big clit or small? or any preference at all (link)
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yeah i have a lot of guy friends and i've never heard them say "yeah i love a girl with a big clit(or small)" so i don't really think they care, they're probably just happy that they're down there anyways.
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I need help looking for jeans. I want skinny jeans, but not the ones that stick to your skin. Kind of like the baggy skinny jeans, if that makes sense. I've checked Kohl's, Old Navy, Walmart, and Target.
17/male (link)
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american eagle no doubt will have them. i have the exact jeans you're looking for, in fact im wearing them now and i know a guy that has them and they look good on him too so check there.
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i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything? (link)
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i don't care when someone doesn't use capitalization or punctuation as long as they use periods. but i think people should stop complaining about the advice given to them, what about the questions? half of them are written so badly you can't tell what they're asking or even what they're talking about!
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my sister has a ipod nano.
well her ipod nano has this thing come up when you turn it on it says " Enter Code "
and she doesnt know what the code is.
Any ideas how to get it back to the song part , cuz she cant even listen to her songs or anything
please help
xoxo (link)
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try resetting it. you slide over that button so it's on hold then hold down the middle button and the play/pause button at the same time, then let go when the apple sign comes on to the screen. if that doesn't work then call the company.
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hi i'm 14 want my breasts to grow im a size 34A oh and for all the guys is that big? how do i make them bigger without padded or water bras or implants thanks (haven't started my period) (link)
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the only way to make them bigger is if you gain weight. but when i started my period mine grew a full cup size so don't worry about it, you've still got time
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I used to have a ton of posters and random cut outs from magazines and stuff on my wall. Most of it kind of fell off, so i just took everything off of it. I need some ideas what i can do to redecorate it. Dont say leave it plain cuz its pink and icky. Your answers are much appreciated! (link)
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i dont know if you're the crafty type but my walls are covered with canvases that i've painted. i have a wall that looks like an art gallery. if you like painting it's a nice personal thing you could do to your room.
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um im getting teen vogue for the first time.. is it a good magazine for 13 year old girls? it looks pretty sophisticated but i got this deal in the mail and it looks pretty cool.. i put the stuff im supposed to put in the envelope, but on the envelope, im confused.. how do they know where the mail came from? how do they know where to send it back to? it doesnt say my house number or anything.. i dont want to just mail it and not get anything back! so like.. is it supposed to be that way and theres some secret method how they know which thingy goes for your house or do i just write in a random spot my address? thanks.
and what types of styles are in teen vogue normally? and dont tell me to go on the site.. i did but... idk i just like peoples opinions better. is it true that they show really expensive clothes? cause im not that rich so i cant afford like 100 dollar pants all the time. and do they have things in there for black people too? like i dont want it to be those magazines that like.. no offense, but like when they show hairstyles they make it only for white people and i cant make my hair like that since im black, and my hair isnt permed.
IMPORTANT:
MY MAIN QUESTION IS THAT DO I HAVE TO WRITE MY ADDRESS ON THE ENVELOPE THEY GAVE ME? OR DOES IT HAVE SOME SPECIAL CODE ON THE LETTER SO THAT IT KNOWS IT CAME FROM MY HOUSE?
its the type of mail that says "business reply mail, first class.." and then like it says the location of teen vogue, and some thingy that says "no postage necessary if mailed in the united states". im also wondering if i need to put a stamp on it................... (link)
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it is a very sophisticated magazine. normally there are no little quizzes to see if you're in love or which guy you should date. its a high fashion magazine. they tell you how to make $1000 outfits into $150 outfits. they dont normally have hair tips unless its a prom issue. they do have make up tips and about 90% of the time they'll have tips for darker skinned girls. i'll admit when you said you were 13 i thought you were a little young for the magazine but if you like high fashion like gucci, luis vuiton and marc jacobs, and all the celebrity gossip then you'll like it.
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okay well I need very good advice on this quesitons so please try to understand my situation. Okay, well my pretty good friend is going out with this guy. I use to like him when I was around 9 but now I'm 14 & he's 15.. Well, they have been going out for about 2-3 weeks now. Well, me & him started talking through aim and stuff & I ened up telling him how I crushed on him before. A day later he tells me he "thinks" he likes me. So we talked,talked,talked blah & blah. Then he called me once & we stared talking for a long time & we finally got to know each other & figured out we have A LOT in common. & we were talking like a "couple" even though they are going out. But don't think I'm a man stealer or anything. He told me wayyyy before he even liked me that he was thinking of breaking up with her but doesnt know how. He tells me how she's like freaky taking about how she did "stuff" before & we all know thats a lie.I mean she's my friend & all but she's also been known to be a fakie. Anyways he's at some thing or whatever in Kentucy or whatever. & since his "girlfriend" is my friend she's been telling me how she really really misses him & how he's not calling while all this time me & him have been talking to like 3 in the morning & texting the whole day. This has been going on for about a week now. So I Guess what I need advice on is your opinion about the situation. Also, I dont know what I'm going through becasue i never felt like this before. He's been very nice to me telling me he loves me & stuff[ I know you cant love someone that soon but its out thing if you know what I mean]. So I'm wondering what is this I'm feeling becasue I'm like checking my phone every damn second to see if he called or if i acidentally missed the call or something. Uhh i'm so confused. He's like you know we could make such a cute couple & I really want to go out with you after I slowly settle things down with "her". Bit I told him is it right to do this to her becasue It's a chick thing & she's my friend would she hate me?I really need advice & help on what you think this phase is. He calls me his babe & how he just wants me by his side & such adorible stuff. Please don't tell me how would you feel if you were her becasue first I'm not her & he feels different about me then he does with her. So please please people give me advice on what to do and what I'm feeling. & should I go out with him? (link)
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ok i was in your exact situation. he told me he loved me while he was still going out with his girlfriend and i fell for it. after him and his girlfriend broke up we quickly went into a sexual relationship. people found out, including his ex girlfriend and i lost a lot of friends. nobody trusts me anymore and the guy and me aren't together anymore. in fact he said it would be easy to end our relationship because there were "no strong feelings involved" now maybe your guy isn't the same but the situation is very similar. if he truly loves you and is not even hinting that he is only using you then go ahead and be with him but im warning you, these relationships rarely go well.
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Ok Well a long time aog I knwo the sun was goign to go away and we would all die but that was goign to be way after I die so I guess it's ok but now there's news that we could all die in..i think 2012? Cuz of sun rays?
Now I'm scared and going crazy with WHAT IF..
Like the little children! So many of my relatives has little babies and now..omg I'm just so scared and going crazy.. and thinking stuff liek will it be a quick death or a slow death where we'll all burn?
Please help me I don't know how yet I can't even type all the things I'm feeling! (link)
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ok the news was probably talking about the new mel gibson movie called apacolypto. in the MOVIE it says that the world is going to end in 2012 because when 3 ancient civilizations created their calandars they all ended on 2012. just the calendars ended. the world is NOT going to end.
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do they have clubbing for teeagers? (link)
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we have one teen club, and i live in a small town. we also have a bar/club that has teen nights from time to time.
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what things turn girls on (things you could do to them, not type of people or ways to dress ext..) (link)
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personally i will like a guy much more if they are romantic with me as opposed to being straight forward about wanting sex and im not saying you're that type of person. if you're friends with a girl and you like her then sit next to her and put your arm around her, dont do that stupid yawn stretching thing...just put you arm around her but dont squeeze to tight. also personally i hate corny pick up lines, unless its like really good which most of them arent, dont use it. oh and this is just a personal thing that i love, i love when guys share their food with me. for example, if you have a cookie, offer the girl a piece of it, that is if she's not the type of girl who count calories. you have to be friends with the girl to do these things otherwise it might be akward.
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