there's nothing wrong with making out, blowjob, tugging, and all the other fooling around with your guy friend, right? i just wanted to make sure before i do it lol, thanks!
leLovely answered Monday July 16 2007, 7:19 pm: If you're comfortable with him and with doing that, then it's fine. You just have to try not to become attached and like him more than a friend. That's why it's tough to be friends with benefits, feelings and sex can get mixed up. [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday July 16 2007, 11:14 am: I suppose there is nothing wrong with it if:
A) You will be doing this because you are ready to do so and not because you want to appease him.
B) You are willing to risk your friendship being ruined by it.
LoStNcOnFuZeD answered Monday July 16 2007, 2:17 am: I think that there is a lot that is wrong with it. If you like him, you should want to pursue more than just a sexual relationship with him. If you don't like him, I don't understand why you want to have any sexual relationship with him. However, there are many risks that are involved with getting sexually involved with somebody that are most frequently overlooked. Not only are there medical risks such as STD's and infection, but you must also consider the emotional risks you are taking. If you really do like this guy, you should want him to like you for who you are and not what you'll do for him. You must also consider who else might be finding out everything that you do with him. Even if you trust him to not say anything you can never be certain. So also, please consider your reputation. There is a significant difference between being sexually active with somebody you've been in a relationship with and being sexually active with some guy friend of yours. I've been in this situation before and from my mown personal experience it is NOT WORTH IT. [ LoStNcOnFuZeD's advice column | Ask LoStNcOnFuZeD A Question ]
modelkate11 answered Monday July 16 2007, 12:33 am: do not do anything with him if you like him. and just remember the dont kiss and tell rule. i learned from experience that unless you want people's opinions and comments, dont tell anyone about it. other than that go ahead and have fun. [ modelkate11's advice column | Ask modelkate11 A Question ]
lilteacup answered Monday July 16 2007, 12:27 am: Only do it if you want to do it and that you know him well, and you will not get any diseases from him. Also, do you like him and is this why you are willing to fool around with him? Because if you like him and this is as far as it is going to be, then you will not be happy and may end up regretting it. I guess if you are just having a friends with benefits relationship, you both need to make sure you are aware of exactly where you stand, because if you do not, then someone is wound to get hurt.
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