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I had this horrible dream and cant get it out of my head. To make a long story short my 2 month old baby and I ended up in a truck stop when a nut came in with a big knife. He just started killing people left and right and when he came to me I said "please dont hurt the baby" he laughed at me and cut my throught. As Layed on the floor bleeding he cut the babys throught and the baby was crying and he laughed and said to the baby "ahh, are you crying, want me to get your bottle?"
It was so dramatic Ive been crying about it all day. I woke up with red marks all over my neck from grabbing my throught while I was dreaming. (link)
I really think you should see a doctor or a psycatrist about this because it's not good to keep it in. Usually dreams and nightmares are just nothing and reruns of your day. Like if you had a nice day you'd have a good dream but if sumthings troubling you its a nightmare. In rare cases dreams tell you things. Best bet is seeing a doctor but try to see if in the past week or so something was out of the ordinary. I think you should write your nightmare down or tell it thouroughly to a physician. Hope that helps.


I have a bunch of pimples on my chin and under my lips. I really hate them bc even with the tons of makeup i sover them up with they still pop out all gross and red. I would really love something that could make these DISAPPEAR!!! (link)
The food you eat can play apart on the acne on you. Try eating more freash fruits and vegetables. And drink lots of water!!!


How do you get rid of blackheads? The strips don't really work for me..does anyone actually know what will work? Please don't just give me a product you saw on a commercial or something..Thanks..I rate high!! (link)
Try Clean and Clear cleansers or Neutragena Biore is a little bit more but that works too. But if you're willing to spend a little bit more try any oaly products. Eating fresh fruits also helps control acne and black heads.


okay well in the past week my forehead and cheeks started breaking out (that area is like really oily and ive been washing my face like 2-3 times a day!!)... i usually never get pimples or zitz or anythin like that.. except for one everyonce in a while... well i was wondering what works best?! i dont have anymoney to go spend on proactive or whatever... but i have these facewash things and i was wondering which ones work the best? (any at home remedys would be great too!!) if your not sure what it is, i put a link next to it so you could figure out what the box looks like or whatever...

-pHisoderm 4 way facial wash::
http://www.mapdistribution.com/images/phisoderm.jpg

-clearasil (sensitive skin daily face wash)::
http://www.walgreens.com/dbimagecache/111983.gif

-clearasil total control:: http://www.clearasil.us/photo/full_size/WebColumnItem77.jpg

-dove::
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B0002FC7OU.01.TZZZZZZZ.jpg

-stridex pads (alcohol free)::
http://www.acne.org/images/products/stridex-pads-sa-max-large.jpg


i hope this helps you out!! but pleasee help! thanks so much.. if you want to be rated--ask!!
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try the face sheets they colect up oil. I think they're from Clean n Clear or Neutragena out $5 a pack they work wonders.


My one year anneversary is coming soon, and i have no idea about what to do, i want to make it special and something that me and my boyfriend will never forget, i dont want the usually movies or dinner thing, we do that almost every weekend, so i want to do something we have never done, and please dont say have sex, because we want to wait until were married, please give me some sweet and romantic ideas, im so blank right now!!! thanks in advance...♥

signed,
need your advice!!! (link)
Try a beach picnic that always fun seeing the ocean view. Long strolls. For a meal try some sandwich wraps fresh fruits smoothies and if you're willing try this fancy dessert its like a jello cake. Comes in all different colors and fruit flavors about $60 for a party size one but I think they have smaller ones. They're gelatine lyk layers usually in an asian bakery shop it's 21st century type dessert. Try some champion, roses, and a night under the stars. Have fun!


ok im 15 years old and my boyfrind is 17 we have been together since march 3 2004 and we are still together a week ago i went over to his house like i usually do around 9:00 and his mom was leaving to work we took his little brother swimming after we got out the pool his brother feel asleep on me so we went in his moms room to watch movies and then we started kissing one thing led to another and then we were having sex maybe an hour had past and someone started knocking on the door once i heard the knocking i jumped up grabbed my clothes and ran into the bathroom when chris(my boyfriend) opened the door he had already put on his trunks evnthough his mom hasnt told me anything i feel really uncomfortable when i go over or when we go and eat dinner with his family what should i do? what should i tell his mom?
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if you want this relationship to work you need to be honest not only to yourself and your boyfriend but eachothers family too. if you were his mom and your daughter did what you did wouldn't you want to know. i know its not the same but i'd tell his mom together with him. good luck.


I love this guy and he loves me but where not together anymore but I have to make a chosie its either I move away and go to another school or stay here untill I am done with high school and the only thing that is keeping me here is my ex and my chruch but I love him and I want to make it work with my ex please help me I don't no what to do help? (link)
if you still like him and your both willing to give it another chance then go for it and time will tell but if yourready to move on then choose... take time to think. good luck.


I'm SO sick of my room. Its medium size and I used to share it with my sister so I have these two huge canopy beds in there and that takes up a lot of space and are very heavy so can not really move around. I just want some ideas to make it look a lot better without moving everything around. please help =)

Exs and Ohhs (link)
Ok well a simple things that I do without moving too much things is go buy a rug at bed bath & beyond of your choice and set it in the space between the two beds. lamps...cheap lamps you can find anywhere like Ross or TJMAXX. try using the spare bed as a stuff animal display if you have any. beaded curtains are so in for cheap ones chek out INCINGS or for a bit pricier ones go to Dry Ice. I need a theme so I can give you more ideas...write to me...good luck


ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my boyfriend broke up in march. but we still talk like were goin out like we still say i love you and everything. but than the other day i got asked out by another guy and i said yea. but when my xbf found out he was mad. and start sayin i thought you loved me and everything. so i broke up with my recent bf. cuz i still have feelings for my x i dont know what to do cuz my x says things will never be the same between us again so i dont know if i should move on or what someone please help me i rate high!!! (link)
You need to move on because if things were meant to be they would've been here. Still be friends with your ex give your new boyfriend a chance. Take time cause this is not gonna be easy. good luck.


i've been dating this high soceity broad for about twelve years. the other weekend, i finally met her parents for the first time. they were nice old timers, a little mad that we havent tied the knot yet, but polite enough to me anyways. the point is, i was at the dinner table in their *HUGE* home, and, being the lower-class truck driver i am, i had my elbows on the table while eating. her parents, sticklers for etiquette, were appalled that their daughter would date someone like me and forced her to break up with me. i think this is stupid. i left the house that night and havent seen her since. should i get back with her, even though her parents kicked me out of their house for talking with food in my mouth? what should i do?

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mannerless (link)
spen time with her and ask her to help you with manners. don't break up with her if you like her give it another chance. good luck.


im just starting cross country...i used to run just for fun but no matter how good of condition i was in i can never keep my breathing normal. i constantly have to keep fighting to get enough air. how can i change this?? thanks in advanced..

i'll rate 5s (link)
1st- i would advise you to see a doctor maybe you have an illness of some sort.
2nd- maybe it could be asthma.
3rd- when i run the mile i think...smelll the roses blow out the candles(in through nose out through mouth)it works!
good luck.


I'm doing some research on what teenage boys find attractive in girls, both in looks and personality for a creative writing paper. If anyone has any information for me, I would appreciate it. (link)
go undercover as an intrested online girl find out the facts yourself. go into chatrooms but play it safe look at other accounts and copy theirs. good luck.


i wanna make my boyfriend know that i like him. like i dont want him to break up with me cuz i feel like i havent been the best. and two other girls like him and i personally think they're prettier than me =/.. and i just really dont wanna loose him..like i feel like telling him i love him isnt enough but i dont wanna sound corny if i say more..help! (link)
spend time with him and do the things he does weather its sports or a hobbie. communication love's a two way street so start talking woman! be open and honest. good luck


okay so im not ready to lose my virginity yet

but ive been with my boyfriend for a long time

what are some fun sexual things we can do that arent actual sex? (link)
hm...role play, dress-up the whole rich man/ french maid thing make things up. good luck


my best friend is depressed. and it makes me so sad! she says shes fat when shes NOT she says shes ugly when shes NOT and this one guy was like do you have a myspace so she gave him the link and said ew your ugly and signed off.. so she is really sad about that.. i keep telling her that if she thinks shes fat she should just go on a diet and i would go on it with her. she doesnt need to make herself prettier cause shes pretty enough! what can i do to make her feel better? (link)
A> I advise her to see a doctor.
B> She could be depressed and I don't mean just a mood swing but a really bad case of depression.
C> From what you've written I would say you and your friends are somewhere the ages of 13-18? These years are when teens look for their identity for who they are and can have crisis...I'm not crazy, I swear!
D> Try to get her to do a hobbie or sport and do it with her.
E> Treat her to a make over like a facial and a manicure/pedicure.
F> Compliment her.
G> Talk- communication is the best way to end a bad mood maybe something has happened in her life or family that she hasn't been telling you.
H> See a psycatrist(sp)they're not for crazy people, they're train to get through to people.
Your a good friend and she's lucky to have you, don't give up hope on her.


I am a 22 year old stay at home mom to 2 little girls. Ages 3 and 18 months. My house always lookslike a cyclone has just passed through no matter how much I go behind everyone a clean. Lately, I have felt so unappreciated and just don't have the urge or the energy to keep the house clean like I want to. Sometimes I make myself get up and start cleaning, but within a few minutes I'm back on the couch or in front of the computer avoiding the work that needs done. Anyone have any advice on something I can do to motivate myself to get this place spic and span like I want it and keep it that way??? (link)
Procrastinator....yup that's you putting off something until later. Its ok everyone does it. 2 kids wow that a handful already. ok i have afew advises. 1> Diet- Look at what you eat and if it contains too much junk change it cause they give you no energy. Try fresh fruits and veggies and low carb. 2> Goal setting Make a list say for each day... my goal is to do laundry today. 3> Treat yourself even a mom needs her time alone. Find a babysitter atleast once a month weather its family a relative neighbor friend whomever you trust. Take the day off and go to a beauty parlor get a manicure and pedicrue, massages,go shoppping, see a movie. Go alone or with your Friends. Set a side a day for that's just for you. Good Luck!


ok well my dad is so annoyin no matter wha he does or says. we really dont have dat type of dad n daughter realtionship. we dont fight or nothing like dat but how can i stop being annoyed bu him. im 14/f. i love him dont get me wrong (link)
I have the exact same prob. with my mom. Sometimes I just wanna say the meanest thing or runaway from home. But I usually get over it. Try spending time with your dad and what he likes to do. Get to know him better. I love my parents but I agree they are a bothersome at most times. Good Luck.


went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing.but he really started crying when I told him I didn't believe him. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. then he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Then yesturday, after our hockey game we were the only 2 people in the locker room and he turns off the lights comes towards me, grabs me and starts making out with me and takes my jacket off, unzipps and unbuttons my pant and starts to pull my shirt off and the my friend walks in. I don't know what to do?! does he like me or not? Please help! (link)
I don't think he likes you but wants you as a benefit friend or a bootycall. Don't fall for it cause I have and you'll end up hurt. Move on, try not to think about it, I know it's hard and WILL take up ALOT of time. Test him if he really likes you. But I believe he has know feelings what so ever for you and just wants to get some. Be Smart and don't let him take you for granted.


13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice. (link)
I use to do that whole internet and lon distance relationship thing. For some people its a soulmate finder for most its just a fake. I would never reccomending meeting someone from online EVER! I know you thik he's sweet but that's just online! He could be a molester or killer or anything. I don't care if you're bringing your whole school with you DON'T DO IT! I've seen people who have met their internet buddies and vanished. You gotta be smart and I can see that you are saying you would bring a friend but don't! DOn't put you or your friend in danger. please don't do it!


Age: 13

Gender: Female

There is this guy and i like him a lot but he only likes me as a friend. He knows that I like him and he's fine with it and we still talk. What should I do ask him out or just wait and see what comes next?? (link)
That happends to me sometimes. If he's not intrested move on I know its hard to get over a crush but you'll find someone else you're only 13, you got a whole life ahead of you! 2nd, if he can't see you two being together don't push it. If it was meant to be then time will tel. 3rd, Keep on being friends with him, friendships are good and relationships start out as a friendship. Good luck.




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