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i shaved down there and there is still little stubs of hair and they wont go away no matter how much i shave
am i doing it wrong?
or is it just because i shaved the wrong way or just because i shaved?

honestly, i've tried shaving like 2350235 times. and it never works out right. just get it waxed. it's so much faster and easier. it hurts a little but if you just think about something else while you're having it done it's over in no time. and you only have to get it waxed once like a month/ 2 weeks instead of shaving every day.

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if you give a guy a blowjob , will you get an STD ? and how do you know if you have and STD?

yes you can get an STD. some STDs don't have symptoms and some make your throat hurt, you get bumps in or around your mouth, etc. just use a condom and save yourself the trouble.

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okay well, i have liked this kid lets call him alex and im pretty sure he likes me too, he's always flirting with me, always iming me, always waiting after class for me we sort of have a thing. except none of us are really brave to admit it. i dont EXACTLY know if he likes me though which is kinda annoying, maybe he just thinks we are really good friends.
anyway in english i sit at a table with JUST him and his friend chad. well alex didnt come to english today and stuff and i knew he was in band and they made an announcement saying they were gonna be late so i was just like oh okay.. so i was just sitting there with chad (we are really good friends) and one of the student teachers was like "wheres alex?" and i was like, "oh i think he is at band" and out of no where chad goes "oooooohh you know his shecdule" and i was like "actually he told me he had band?" and then like i kept looking at the door cause he wasnt there and i was getting kind of nervouss haha so chad goes again "awww getting kind of nervouss?!" whicih is totally weird, he never ever made comments like this before. Then when alex finally came and sat down at our table stupid Chad goes "awww your baby is backk! you like him so much" luckily for me, i had sunburn and you couldnt see my face turning bright red so i was just like "you know what chad, i dont like him, your a retard and can you shutup for once in your life?" and he said sorry and stuff, i dont know if alex heard me or not though.. cause he seemed like he wasnt paying attention but the rest of the period he was REALLY upset and he didn't even talk AT ALL ,or flirt like usual. But like i didn't know what else to do! i couldnt just admit to everyone i really do like him so i just said i didnt. i just think this is kinda weird tho! cause chad never ever ever talks to me about liking him EVER and me and alex have been
"flirting" for a long time now! why would he chose now to do it? does maybe alex like me?

i'm guessing alex probably likes you because he got mad and didn't flirt with you the rest of the period. he probably thought you liked him back so he was sad when you said you didn't. you might ruin this whole thing you have going if you don't work up the courage to tell him. he probably feels really hurt right now. maybe you could ask chad to tell alex for you? good luck =]

xo jobrolover3725

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Ok so my best friends little brother keeps kissing or making out with his guy friends, he is eight. Im over their house more than mine. i have nothing against gay people but how do we get him to stop!? I don’t want him to turn out gay. He said him and his best friend he was makin out with were gona have sex hes eight both boys and he was serious. I love him like a brother his sister and I realllly have no idea what to do and shes grounded for getting mad at him about it what are their parents tryin to do? What do we doo?!

her parents obviously want to be accepting of their son's choices. but EIGHT YEARS OLD?! girls and boys shouldn't even be having sex that young. there's something wrong there. try sitting down and explaining to him that he is too little to be doing that. he shouldn't even know what sex it yet! let alone making out.. jeez. good luck.

xo jobrolover3725

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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more

okay honey, he's not gonna change. you obviously aren't enough for him. or he's just a dick. which is kinda what it sounds like. if he's cheated on you 17 times.. get the hell out of that relationship. you'll be so much happier. cut yourself off from him completely. he's not a good guy. don't let him ruin your chances with the person you really get along with.

xoxo jobrolover3725

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so i have been wtaching my weight for mainiting and weight loss purposes.

breakfast= coffee
snack=apple
lunch= salad or soup or small portion of what their serving
snack = 100 calorie snack
dinner= steak or pasta
snack= rice cakes fort eh REST of the night!!
i liv eont hem!!!

r they bad????????????

and i am female 110 pounds 5 feet
is this diet okay?????


it's okay.. as long as it's just temporary. you don't have any dairy in your diet though. make sure you drink milk or eat yogurt or eggs. =) you could try having one of those things for breakfast. it's better to eat breakfast because you burn those calories off during the day.

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I run track & I have no idea what to do with my hair.

Its CURLY & BIG & LONG (I'm african american with multiracial hair). I also have bangs, but are pretty long.

I've tried it down, but it got in my face. I've tried it half up, but it still gets in my face. I've tried a ponytail, but its too long so it gets in my face, so I do the UGLY bun thingy where its in a ponytail and I jus tuck it under the band. But the bad thing is, I'm always in the newspaper & last week I was on the news & I see it looks hideous!

I've tried looking at other girls' hair, but theirs is either fake, short or not my textured hair & they run long distance.

Thanks in advance.

try putting it in a ponytail and then using clips or a headband to clip the rest back. if it's so long that the actual ponytail part gets in your face there really is nothing else you can do except put it in a bun. or maybe try a braid. but if you have to do the bun then wear a cute headband or something with it to make it look cuter =]

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Okay, I can't decide what purse to get. I have just about every designer brand in every color. Should I get a louis vuitton or a different kind? Is there any you reccommend. Please dont say Gucci.

i like coach. and chanel. or jimmy choo.
there's always lots of cute ones.

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i dont smoke that much, only about 1-3 cigs a day. my bf smokes too, and he's who i get my cigs from. we always split a pack until the next time i get to see him, with is usually within a week. so yeah.

well i went to the store the other day and got a really good smelling candle and a thing of febreze so i could spray it everytime im done smoking to get rid of the smell of burnt tobacco. and its been working! but my friend told me today that if i keep smoking in my room that im going to get YELLOW STAINS ON MY FRICKEN WALL.

is this true?? cuz no one besides her and my bf and my bf's friend know that i smoke. and if my rents found out they'd KILL ME. so if that IS the case, how would i get rid of the stains...and also even though my little febreze and candle thing is working, does anyone know a really good way to get rid of the smell of cigs??

so i guess my questions are:

A)do i really get yellow stains on my wall?

B)if so, how do i get rid of them?

C)what is a really good product that gets rid of the smell?

thanks for any advice!! :))

P.S. im unemployed and im on a budget, so any ideas that are NICE TO MY WALLET, that'd be dandy, as well. :)

A) yes you will.

B) i dont think you can get rid of them.

C) it doesnt matter if theres products that get rid of the smell because you're still gonna have stains on your wall. smoke outside.. =]

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Ok when I'm with a guy he always tells me about "oh this girl likes me, she does too, she likes me.. Oh these girls we're trying to talk to me, they said I was cute & but I told them I had a girlfriend." Blah blah and they tell about all their incidents with other girls why??

AND THEN.

When I talk about my incidents with other guys they get mad?

Weeeeeird.

welll it sounds like he likes you. he wants you to think lots of girls like him.. so you know hes likeable. and then when you tell him stuff like that he gets jealous.

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i never tried this ask a random columnist thing before but oh well. Im 15 years old, female, from a small small town and like every teenager i have issues. sometimes i just feel so alone and i have friends and they are the best and i have family who are great as well but still i cant help but feel alones sometimes, also i cant help but feel like im not doing what im supposed to be doing like somehow im living a different life than what i was supposed to. i just need someone to talk to and maybe someone who can relate you dont need to answer this but u if do thats great too

yeahh i know how you feel. you love your friends. you love your family. but sometimes they're just not enough. you might kinda feel like you have secrets from them that only you know. stuff like that. i feel like it's weird to keep secrets and things only to yourself. like it just makes me feel alone. maybe you can try changing your life to make it how you think you should be living it. if you want to talk more drop a message in my inbox =)

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does anyone know where I can download the zoey 101 theme song? im desperate! it isnt on itnes and i cant find it anywhere
thx

limewire.

=]

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So my crush is also my best guy friend and we hang out a lot.
Well he is a very big people person and he has a lot of friends who are girls.
When we hang out alone, he is amazing.
But when he sees his friends who are girls while we're hanging out he gives them hugs and stuff and i don't know if i should introduce myself or what because i'm not very social.
He never hugs me and i've never hugged him because i'm afraid it would be awkward.
And i feel like he likes other girls instead of me.
what should i do??

maybe he doesn't know you want a hug! next time you see him give him a hug. if you guys are such good friends.. he won't think it's awkward. especially if he's hugging all of these other girls. you can introduce yourself to the girls if you want. you should also flirt a little with your friend because then he may get the idea that you like him. a good way to start doing this is giving him a hug.. as i said before ^^

hope i helped
jobrolover3725

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13/f 7th grade

all my friends are starting to "date". they go downtown or to the strip mall or to each others houses and have these group "dates" with their "boyfriends" but my mom doesnt let me go because she doesnt think im old enough. I just like the boys as friends even though i have been on 1 "date" myself I like the kid I went with as a good friend. but people are starting to ditch friends for boys and go out all the time and tell each other they love each other and thinking about kissing so I was wondering what age ae kids supposed to date? is my school ahead of other people? and my mom wont let me go anywhere with boys so how can i convince her most boys are never going to be more than friends to me even when im older and certianly not now?

tell her all of this. tell her she's lucky she has a daughter who isn't ready for all of this yet. she may rethink it. make sure she KNOWS you dont like any of the boys as more than friends and you aren't going to be kissing them. no your school isn't really ahead of other schools. my friends were making out in 7th grade. it really isn't a big deal. your mom should be letting you hang out with boys at this age. i don't think my grade was going out on "dates" in 7th grade though. maybe you should get your friends to all go out as a group instead of on "dates".

jobrolover3725

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is there any way i can get an ipod video nano with a regular ipod nano
can i trade it anywhere

no you cant trade it anywhere. you have a few options. you can bring it to the apple store and get 10% off when you buy a ipod video nano. (which isn't really worth it i don't think). or you could sell your ipod nano on ebay or craigslist and use the money for an ipod video nano. you are going to have to use some of your own money no matter what you do because the ipod video nano is worth more money.

hope i helped
jobrolover3725

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My mom gave me her palm pilot but I want to collage it to make it look more fun. I'm good at collaging and have made a ton with Mod Podge but I've never done electronics. Will this work?

if you're talking about using glue on it.. i wouldnt. it might damage the palm pilot and it probably won't even stick. i suggest using stickers instead. there's lots of different kinds of stickers that can be used to make a cute collage.

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a disease teenage girls could have that makes you die? like theres nothing doctors could do and give you a certian amount of time to live .. whats the name of a disease like that?

are you asking if there is one or what the name of one is? because i dont think there is one. except maybe AIDS or certain types of cancer.

hpv is not one of these diseases. you can live with hpv. it just may lead to cervical cancer if it is not caught soon enough.

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How do you french kiss really good?? and how do you make out and kiss really good?? i know it is based on what your partner likes, i looked on google but nothing really helped. So please tell me everything you know!! haha

okay well.. this is kinda a hard thing to explain. haha i'll try my best. and then i'll give you some websites too. basically you have lots of choices. you can put your hands wherever you want. his shoulders, around his neck, around his waist, on his cheek, etc. (i'm not really sure where guys like your hands to be..but personally i like his hands on my waist or on my cheek) but most of the times i've done it my hands have been around his neck so i would go with that. just dont awkwardly do nothing with your hands. i did that once and my other friend who we thought was sleeping wasnt and told me how awkward it looked. haha. so yeah learn from my mistakes. so now onto the actual kissing part. basically you can either start off like making out right away.. or you can start kissing first and then slowly start making out (which is what most people prefer). so basically you just kiss normally and then you start like making out without using your tounge and then you start using your tounge (or you dont have to if you dont want to) its kinda hard to explain what to do with your tongue if thats what youre looking for. just dont make the kiss too wet. thats pretty much the only tip i have. the rest comes naturally.

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out-for-the-First-Time
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out
http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm

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I'm really in a huge trouble.

A week ago I just found myself falling in love with an 11 or 12 year-old boy(he won't tell me his age)

I'm 14.

I've been against having younger bf.

I donno what I should do.

How to deal with the situation.

We are quite close. his class is right next to mine.

And I really wanna know if he likes me too.

How do I do that?

I would really appreciate all your advises.

don't force yourself to not like him just because he is younger. you probably will get teased. i have liked my little brothers friends before (i was 13 they were 11). i didnt tell anyone because i didnt want to get teased. if you go out with him or tell your friends you will probably get teased and you have to decide if you are okay with it. you could ask one of his friends to ask him if he likes you too. or just ask him yourself.

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14/M

Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date?

it depends on how long you've known her. if you just met her like a week ago.. then i wouldn't. but if you've known her for awhile then yes that's totally fine! people make out before they're even going out.

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