So my crush is also my best guy friend and we hang out a lot.
Well he is a very big people person and he has a lot of friends who are girls.
When we hang out alone, he is amazing.
But when he sees his friends who are girls while we're hanging out he gives them hugs and stuff and i don't know if i should introduce myself or what because i'm not very social.
He never hugs me and i've never hugged him because i'm afraid it would be awkward.
And i feel like he likes other girls instead of me.
what should i do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jobrolover3725 answered Monday May 5 2008, 4:53 pm: maybe he doesn't know you want a hug! next time you see him give him a hug. if you guys are such good friends.. he won't think it's awkward. especially if he's hugging all of these other girls. you can introduce yourself to the girls if you want. you should also flirt a little with your friend because then he may get the idea that you like him. a good way to start doing this is giving him a hug.. as i said before ^^
emochic1229 answered Monday May 5 2008, 4:02 pm: ive gone through that before with my ex... but see... i let it go one for a whole year just thinking they were all friends and it turned out he ended up cheating on me with one of the girls... i was heartbroken and i really never forgave him for it... i dont know how your bf is but i would just keep my gaurd up [ emochic1229's advice column | Ask emochic1229 A Question ]
xoxobridgettexoxo answered Monday May 5 2008, 4:02 pm: well i kinda know where you are coming from im in a sitution kinda the same.you should just introduce yourself it wont hurt its not like you guys have to become bffs.Also just hug him it might be akward at first but after a while it wont and just let him know how you feel it will be akward and if that would be too akward have a friend tell him.because you never know if he may like you back and if he dont like you just explain to him you understand but would still like to be friends [ xoxobridgettexoxo's advice column | Ask xoxobridgettexoxo A Question ]
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