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does anyone really know when they are ready to have sex? does everyone have doubts about their first time?
i'm very indecisive in the first place and have doubts about everything, and i'm afraid i'll never know when i'm actually ready.
does anyone really ever know? (link)
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when its the right time and the right person you know. no matter how in decisive you are its not like your deciding which chip dip to buy. if you have any doubt you should probably trust your instincts. yeah alot of people know when there ready. its your body.
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About a week ago i had sex with this guy and he was my first as in he took my virginity. I talked to him the day after it happened cause he came to my job to see me. And i havent talked to him since. I sent him a message on myspace asking him to please find a way to talk to me. And he told me hed work on it. He has a cell but he cant text or call right now. Im just really upset about everything that is going on.
Were not fighting about anything, he wouldnt of used me for sex.
I just need advice on what i should do before i flip out.
thanks
[id appriciate it more then anything if i dont get this long speech about how i shouldnt of had sex with him if i dont love him or how i could be pregnant, im old enough to realize the consequences thanks tho]
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then what was the point of this question. if your not willing to talk to him then how can you expect him to be willing to talk to you. you had to be attracted to him to have sex so he probably already thinks your attracted to him anyways.
are you sure he didnt use you..people can decieve. maybe if it was unexpected he just feels uncomfortable or cant face you or maybe hes trying to stop it from progressing into anything more. you should take matters into your hands and find away to talk to him. if he keeps it up then your better off and should chuck it off as a loss.youll know better next time i guess to prevent your self from being so upset. your not the first person in the world to do it.
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Im 17 and have been masterbating since I was 12, but A few hour ago I masterbated using a vibrator(it wasnt my first time either) and was going really fast, and a little hard, and when I was done I was bleeding, i bled for about and hour almost as mush as my period, but even though the bleeding stoped i feel a weird feeling in my gut and when I pee, can you help me out here, Is this normal? (link)
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if you havent already you probaly popped your cherry. if you already popped your cherry before this orthis persists then id suggest you see a doctor
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I dont want to have sex until im married. Do guys respect that or not? (link)
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A good guy who truly cares about you does.If they dont then they dont love you and are a waste.
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Okay. My exboyfriend is acting really weird. We broke up right before Christmas, and we have a great relationship, and we love to argue. The weird thing is, he's acting like before we went out. He asked me to audtition with him for the school musical and asked me to a party, but then said he was inviting some "hot" friends from a different school. What does this mean???? (link)
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he either is just trying to be friends with you. or is trying to get you to go out with him again and trying to make you jealous or hes trying to just control you and keep you at arms reach.
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People and documents that might help answer your question:
I want to ask you if you think my friend is anorexic. I never met her due to the fact that she was my online college professor (I took online courses) - but we became telephone and pen pals. Tonight I was talking to her about the models whose bones stick out and how the modeling world is tryng to stop that and how some of the models are anorexic and one even died recently. And her remark: You can never be to rich or to thin; MY QUESTION: IS that anorexic thinking.
(I AM VERY THIN BUT MY BONES DO NOT STICK OUT)
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i would say she has an eating disorder not because of what she said but becaause of what you told me shes eating people who eat nothing but lettuce normally do it to lose weight because its water based and will go straight through them. it makes them appear like their eating but its not anything of substance.so to say she going to get fat from eating something other then basically nothing then yes id say she needs help. she obviously has somekind of unhealthy fixation on being thin.
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When I go to the mall or movies with my guy friend he always holds the first door open. But my question is if there is a second set of doors should I just wait for him to open those too, or should I just open them myself? (link)
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he was just being nice.you should attempt to open it maybe even hold it open for him unless he gets to it first and holds it open.
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Ok heres the thing I like this guy and well I have only had like one conversation with him but I have liked him now for around 18 months and I cant take the heartache any longer so I need a way of getting him outta my mind and please dont say ask him out as I am too shy to ask I need other suggestions. (link)
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if your to shy maybe you could have a friend whos not attracted to him and you can trust to ask him about going out with you if your not comfortable with that maybe you can just slowly give him signs that you like him. you can forget about him but whats the point of liking someone if your just going to write it off without trying. i know how you feel im really shy when it comes toguys i like to i just try to make an effort to talk to him and smile and make eye contact. even if it takes a while. you could try to be his friend. but if you really dont want to try then you should focus your attention on someone else but you might end up in the same situation. you could just focus on something you enjoy doing when you start to think of him or think about all of thinks you dislike about him. i personally dont think you should give up or settle if you really like someone and dont know how that person feels about you but its up to you.
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say for my sweet 16, i wanted to go out for dinner with about 6 of my close friends .. since it's my birthday party type thing, would i have to pay for dinner or would they pay for their own food? what's appropriate and not rude? if it's not necessary that i have to pay then that'd be great =] not to sound cheap but dinner for 7 or 8 people can get kind of expensive (link)
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unless your extremly rich or something like that i think its better if everyone pays for theirselves. its not cheap.why would you pay for other people to go to your birthday party. just try to go some where with reasonable prices so no one has to drain their pockets.
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When I broke up with my boyfriend for cheating on me, I gave away a 40$ necklace he gave me to my best friend. She was so mad at what he did, she broke it into a ton of little pieces.
Now my mom wants me to give the necklace back to him (she doesn't know my friend broke it) but I don't know what to do! I don't want to tell her my friend broke it, but I have no clue what to do now! (link)
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just tell her what happened.you cant giet in trouble because he gave it to you. and once its been given you have the free power to do whatever you want with it. its not like you were buying it from him or he made a contract that it was only temporary. your mom might be disapointed but does she know he cheated on you. tell her everything so shell stop bothering you about it.as for him he should of thought about it before he gave it to you aand then cheated on you.hes at fault.
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ok so i like have dark hair on my arms, and it really pisses me off and like makes me hate my body is there anything i can do about them?and im not hsaving my arms by the way (link)
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thats good because shaving your arms will just make hair grow in darker.yes its true for some people because hair grows diffrent on diffrent people you could get hair bleach kit like what they use for women who have tiny mustaches and bleach your arm hair. it should work just the same.
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If a guy was just using you for sex, would the guy actually makeout with you and kiss you?Or would he avoid it? (link)
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a guy who is using you will do anything what should tip you off is when you say no to having sex and hes not ok with it. because if he was really into you and cared about you hed be content with just kissing and wouldnt have to have sex. if he keeps bringing up the question of it and pressuring you then that should also tip you off that he only wants one thing.
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I have a friend, who I'll call Dan. Dan asked me out on a date over the summer and I said yes. I took it a little too far (I thought he was my boyfriend) and he said a few weeks later "Just because I asked you out doesn't mean we're going out). We didn't talk for a while but a few months ago we became friends again. We talk all the time. However, my sister hates him and doesn't want me to see him. He and I never get to meet up because he lives kind of far away and because when there's a midpoint, my sister has to be with me and they can't stand each other. He's 17 and afraid to drive on highways, so he can't drive to me, and I can't drive yet because I'm only 15. My sister said that if I ever hook up with him, she'll be extremely upset with me. So should I see him? I really want to. We're just friends. And if there's a chance and I want to do it and he initiates it, should I hook up with him? (link)
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well first of all its your life not your sisters but the main thing is do you really want him to pul what he did on you last time by saying just because we did this doesnt mean where going out or even on the verge of going out.if he know hell get away with it hell repeat it. and thats kind of bullcrap im the type of person that if you not wanting to actually make me your girlfriend then dont ask me out and definetly dont kiss me or even think of anything else. sounds to me like he might be attempting to use you alittle bit. he obviously knows you like him so if he wanted to be your boyfriend hed ask you. but hes not so if hes not asking you for a relationship by now then you need to keep it strictly friends or sop seeing him completely. hell just use you for what he can get hes that type and its not really that normal for a decent guy to do that kind of think. you need to start seeing through him
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I'm a 15 year old girl and a huge tease. I also like to brag about my life with guys to my friends. I think it's because I used to not be able to get a guy and I'm still very insecure about it. I think those insecurities are manifesting themselves in what seems like overconfidence. What can I do to be more secure with myself? (link)
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i dont think your cold hearted or bad just maybe confused a little bit its not a sin.ok so youve realized you have a problem thats step one. now since you are the creator of your own universe you have the power to change anything you dont like about your self. but it doesnt hurt to acknowledge your good points as well. when i say acknowledge i dont mean brag because no one likes that kind of thing not even you like it deep down. any think that makes you feel negative isnt the right thing for you to be doing embrace the actions that make you feel positive and others around you. if you need me to elaborate on this more just tell me on what part and i will ill even help you out through email if you want.you can tell me in my inbox if not then thats ok to.
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is nutrogena expensive?
and what products work best?
I did this little quiz thing on the
nutrogena website to see what
products would work best for me.
i think i'll get them.
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it depends on what your getting and which store you go to. walmarts is usually a dollar or more cheaper iusually get the 8.5 fl oz. it runs me about 5 to 6 dollars plus tax.clean and clear is cheaper and works well to i just switched to neutrogena because i needed it for my body to.just make sure the product has salicylic acid in it it should say on the back or front and of course wash your face when you get up and go to bed.good luck
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Has anyone used Playtex Beyond Tampons? With the flushable cardboard applicator?
1. Are the wrappers flushable?
2. How is the leak protection?
3. Do you know of any other rounded tip applicator tampons that are flushable that work well?
Any other comments will do fine.
P.S. 13/F... going on a two night trip for school and I'm sure I'll have my period during the trip so I need great tampons. (link)
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i use tampax and that works just fine for me. i've always used them.i get the super in petite or the ones that are pocket size.they do have rounded tip applicaters you just have to look for them in cardbord instead of plastic. im not sure if the pocket size minis come in plastic but the regular size should. you can flush the cardboard with the paper wrapper down the toilet but it also depends on the toilet system because the toilets can get clogged but thats with any card board applicater. if your going to a hotel or motel to stay then id say your safe on flushing them. but most girls bathrooms have little bins to dispose of tampons and pads inside the stall.
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does that clearasil ultra clearer skin in three days stuff work? or natures cure? if not what does. (link)
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i personally never had any luck with clearasel but i have had luck wit neutrogena and clean and clear. just make sure the product has salicylic acid in because thats what helps fight against breakouts the most.
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ok so i'm writing a story. Its about a little girl wo is very afraid of her dentist. She thinks that he is a murderer who wants to kill her mom and is very observant of what is going on. The truth is that his mom is having an affair with the dentist, but the story is told kind of scarily as if it is really a murder mystery. it would be more in depth and exciting in the real story, but what i'm wondering is:
should i write it from the point of view of the little girl who's only seven? or should it be from a narrator's point of view who talks about what the girl is thinking and stuff. It would be easier to make the writing better from a narrators point of view, but would it be more effective to write it from the little girl's perspective? (link)
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well i would say from a narrators point only because the girl is only seven and most 7 yearolds arent really that keen on whats going around them and dont have that broad of a mind so that wont give you much to work with. so it wouldnt be very believable to the reader. i think you should go with the narrators point of view unless your will to up the little girls age a couple years to about 9 or ten then it would be more effective to write from the girls perspective.
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Okay, so I'm 16 (female) and my boyfriend is 22. We've known each other since this last summer and we started talking more once he gave me his screen name.
We've liked each other for about 2 months and hung out a few times. We just started actually dating a week ago.
We make each other really happy. We argue about who likes and misses each other more. We have these deep conversations that end up confusing the hell out of us.
When I told my best friend that I was dating him, she flipped out and said "Ewww, that's disgusting." I guess she doesn't approve over the whole age thing. In my eyes, age is nothing but a number. I just wanted some opinion's.. whether it be good or bad. What do you think of the age gap? (link)
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i dont think age matters. but if your under age it might as long as your parents are ok with it then its ok. but if not it is illegal. but aside from that i dont thinks it a big deal as long as its not something like a 14 year old and 21 year old. really the big issue is your underage if you were 18 and dating an older guy it wouldnt matter age is just a number. but since your underage its a diffrent story because your parents could have him arrested. but if your parents are ok with it then i wouldn't worry about it.no i dont think its disgusting i think your friends will probably say that with a 18 yr old and 26 yr old. the only issue is the legal one. but aybe yur parents are ok with it and its no big deal in that case if your both happy dont worry about it and saying ewwww thats disgusting kind of makes her sound like a little kid.its really nobodys busniss except for you the guy and your parents because your underage.also its not that big of an age gap when some people are 15 to 30 years apart not that theres anything wrong with that.
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I'm a teenage girl (raised catholic) who has been atheist/agnostic/unsure since the summer. I have encountered several recent events in my life that have lead me to believe that there really is a God after all. All of my friends are really strong christians- but I just don't think that God is real.
I don't know if Christianity is right- or even real... but I'm feeling compelled to recommit my life to Christ. What does that mean anyway? How can you "commit your life" to someone who isn't even real? Who IS Jesus? I mean this whole thing makes no sense. How can there be a God when there are so many other religions like islam and such? My prayers never came true as a Christian.
Oh, by the way- I hate going to church and i don't see the point in doing it. It never even brought me closer to this so-called God. To be a true Christian (not a poser) do you HAVE to attend mass? What if I just want to have my OWN faith? I also don't believe in Bible verses and stuff- like I don't think that the people in it were real. Why can't we just have faith in GOD and not all the crap that goes along with it? (link)
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you can thats what i do because if you think about it with any religion they all have some kind of book and are worshiping some kind of higher power. so how cany any religion christian or non christian out weigh eachother.hey cant. another thing is god didnt write any of those things. your right whos to say any of it in any teaching is real. but for some reason it makes people feel good. i my self have no set religion but do believe in a higher power what ever it might be. i dont think it maters how many pews you sit in or hail marys,etc you say in the end or what you look like believe or have if your a terrible person then thats it in the end every thing will dissapear except our souls. every ones diffrent and if you think about it each religion non christian or christian is worshiping some kind of creator. i think any thing is ok as long as your not hurting any one,hiding behind it, or using it to envoke fear or in flict pain. i dont consider my self anything and wasnt baptised and dont go to church but stil believe in a positive creator no matter what it may be. i still have morals any try to treat others right but i refuse to choose a conformed religion because they cant out weigh eachother. they say christianity is the most wide spread but thats because years ago settlers conquered other colonies and forced them into christianity. just because some ones non christian doesnt mean their wrong or going to hell and just because someones christian doesnt necessarily mean their going to heaven and terrific and vice versa their all just diffrent opinions so why base your life on an opinion. id rather just have my own individual belief but theres nothing wrong with choosing a religion its what ever your comfortable with.everyones diffrent and thats ok. but if you dont like going to church and all of what you said then its probably not for you it doesnt make you evil or anything like that. so yes i would say it ok to just have faith in god be true to yourself thats what i do.
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