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My sister and a friend
I have a friend, who I'll call Dan. Dan asked me out on a date over the summer and I said yes. I took it a little too far (I thought he was my boyfriend) and he said a few weeks later "Just because I asked you out doesn't mean we're going out). We didn't talk for a while but a few months ago we became friends again. We talk all the time. However, my sister hates him and doesn't want me to see him. He and I never get to meet up because he lives kind of far away and because when there's a midpoint, my sister has to be with me and they can't stand each other. He's 17 and afraid to drive on highways, so he can't drive to me, and I can't drive yet because I'm only 15. My sister said that if I ever hook up with him, she'll be extremely upset with me. So should I see him? I really want to. We're just friends. And if there's a chance and I want to do it and he initiates it, should I hook up with him?
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well first of all its your life not your sisters but the main thing is do you really want him to pul what he did on you last time by saying just because we did this doesnt mean where going out or even on the verge of going out.if he know hell get away with it hell repeat it. and thats kind of bullcrap im the type of person that if you not wanting to actually make me your girlfriend then dont ask me out and definetly dont kiss me or even think of anything else. sounds to me like he might be attempting to use you alittle bit. he obviously knows you like him so if he wanted to be your boyfriend hed ask you. but hes not so if hes not asking you for a relationship by now then you need to keep it strictly friends or sop seeing him completely. hell just use you for what he can get hes that type and its not really that normal for a decent guy to do that kind of think. you need to start seeing through him
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If you aren't going out with him, why have sex with him???
Its NOT a good idea, no matter how good it seems.
Heres the big question you need to ask yourself before you do something:
Will I regret this later.
for this one, will he help take care of his kid?
Sorry for being so blunt, I just think its a bad idea.
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hey,
I don't understand why he asked you to go out with him and then said that just because he asked you out doens't mean your going out, that seems a little confussing to me... anyway... the seeing each other might prove to be problem but you could always trial a a long distance relationship, or try and work around it... if your relationship is meant to be things will work out! I think you should talk to your sister in an open conversation maybe she sees or knows somehting you don't.. ask her why she doesn't like him etc... The hooknig up and going out with him, thats your decision and no-one can make your mind up for you... also people should respect your decisions, don't let anyone influence you!
best of luck
Elle
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