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is it bad to use the comp before going to sleep? the light bothers your eyes right so they cant rest? if so, what can i do to recover besides wait?

you should'nt be on the computer that late it hurts your eyes oh use eye drops before you you go to sleep

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IMPORTANT.

15/f

ok. so my best friend is really starting to get me mad. one day in the summer, we were all at my boyfriends baseball game. and i wasnt paying attnention, and she took my phone, and took all the numbers. i just found out, about 2 months ago, that she has been talking to these people, and pretending to be fake people. and now im like really embarrassed about the whole thing. i dont know what to do. i mean, if these people find out it was me, that would be so embarrassing. because, i had nothing to do with it. so anyways, the one kid, that she met from my friend, shes like obbessed with him. and hes really weird. and every day at school she like watches him and like, thats all we talk about. its so annoying. and then we had homecoming tonight. and i didnt go. because my date was lame and said he didnt wanna go anymore. so i was like k. and i didnt wanna go with friends, because i knew the one who stalks boys, would want me to tag along with her, and like watch them. so yeah. & i think she does this, like makes up fake people, because she knows they wouldn't like her for the real her, well looks wise. anyways, not to sound like, conceited? but i am alot prettier then her. and i have alot of pretty friends tht ive made this year. and as me and her will be walking in the halls, ill stop and talk to all these people. and she'll get mad. and like i was like oh im hanging out with this kid tonight, since im not going to homecoming. and shes like ewww gross hes in 8th grade. eww child molester. and im like wtf? were just watching movies with my brothers and everything.

what should i do about her?
i cant put up with it for much longer.

sit her down tell her about herself if that doese'nt work get rid of her

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i have really oily skin on my face and it bothers me because my forehead gets shiny throughout the day. is there anything i can put on my face in the morning to make it not oily and shiny in the day? (please dont request oil blotting pads cause you have to do that throughout the day and i dont have time) thanks so muchh!

you should use alchohol pads and rub them on yor face in the morning alchohol pads help in most cases to dry out the skin

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I'm a junior in high school and i want to start a big community service project to impress college...any ideas??

yeah you should raise money for a cause like cancer,aids. ect

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Hello is this a scam or is it really for free cause i don't want to enter my address adn everything and when it arrives they ask me for money

http://home.freepay.com/AU

you should never do somthing you dont trust

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13, f
I just moved to Moore, OK a couple of months ago. Everything seemd to be okay. Except, Ive been deppressed lately. Not just like once and it goes away or my bf broke up with me deppressed, I mean deppressed on and off. I hide my true feelings, like I'm trying to shoot down my tears with other things. But I can't because either way, i feel way to deppressed to think. With personal problems, school drama, self-esteem issues. I mean Ive gotta a lot of problems. My friend, Rachel, thinks that I should go get some help for it. Like it's major. But I think all that's gonna do is make things worse. So should I just coop up all my stuff and stay deppressed and hide it? Or should I just go to my school counseler. Help me.... before I do someting really stupid.

you should see your school counselor because bottling up emotions is very dangerous and it can drive you to do stupid things that you may regret later so see a counselor then go lay on your bed hold your face to your pillow and scream the screaming helps then when you are done screaming just cry let all your emotions out though it may take you a while you will experience happness again but remember no one should ever have to bottle their emotions because they are ment to be expressed .peace and love the gaurdian

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I want to become a witch and i just want any one to tell me anything that they actually know about the process, consequences, and benefits of it.

i think you should start at teenwitch.com it really helps i went to the site this morning at nine

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all my life i've had weird dreams. for example i had a dream that i was talking to one of my friends. i had forgotten about the dream but two days later i'm talking to my friend that i had the dream about and he's telling me something i already know and i say "you already told me this" and he says "that's impossible it just happened 5 minutes ago." last night i had a dream and this old man was in it, today i watch a movie that i have never seen in my life or heard of, and the old man was in the movie. he wasn't a popular actor so it's not like i had a dream about brad pitt and watched a movie and brad pitt happened to be in it. does this happen to normal people? i don't really believe in fortune telling but this is just weird.

yeah you are alright because im the same way the name for people like us is clarvoyant which mean prophetic dream or psycic

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what's so wrong with washing straberries after they're cut? my family studies teacher screamed when she saw someone doing that! i was pretty scared, but didn't see much of a big deal of what it can do to the strawberries.

washing strawberrys; after their cut washes away their flavor

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Okay, so I was having the worst day pretty much and I was on facebook and I saw this kid lets call him Patrick[not his real name]'s facebook. I knew him a little bit because of my cousin and I knew a lot of his friends so I added him, and right after I did he messaged me. Okay to make a long story short; He said he saw me at this football game before, he told me all about his family[his gpa just died, and his parents/brother got mad at him] he also told me if he ever needed me he'd be sure to give me a call, and he said I could call him whenever, and then we talked more about the weekend and my family. Then he never answered something I said so two day's later I asked him if he was going to this football game and he said he was and asked if I was and I said yeah we should hang out unless you don't want to or if your in the cheering section the whole time, but if you wanna hang out just call me or find me[he ended up being in cheering section the whole time, and I saw him walking around at half time]. Then at like midnight he messaged me and asked where i was because he didnt see me, and were still talking over messaging. But the only thing is, is that he is a sophmore but could be a junior, and I'm a freshmen but I could be a sophmore, and idk if I even have a chance or if its worth it? I'm sorry if this is confusing, I can re-explain it if you want/or give you more detail, just tell me what you think.. like do I have a chance, is it worth it, or does he maybe like me? Thanks!

you should go for it you wont know untill you try

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i love my gf but for the past week ive been off with her, i know why but last night i got a text off m cousin sayin theres a shag for and obviously i dnt want it because im with, and no she doesnt know whethe i cheated on . but i havent n she doesnt know whether finish me or not.

sit her down some where you two can be alone and not be disturberd and explain everything rationally trust the truth will set you free

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my boobs have started growing and i have hair in my vagina and armmpiits i shave my armpits and legs but i dont have my period will this mean it will happen in the next month or so??and i have white stuff in my undys is that another sign?

you should should see aa gynicologist immediately!!!!!!!!!!!

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i got a new screen name and i was wondering how to transfer all my buddies on to it from my old screen name. i have aim version 6.0 i think

their is no speciic way to do this so you will just have insert the buddies from the old one to the new one manually

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Hi I am a 16 year old female and I have been playing softball and during practice I took a line drive right to my lower shin almost where your foot meets your shin and it has been several weeks, but there is still a bump there and it is always numb feeeling when I touch it. And also whenever it gets bumped slightly it swells up really big and gets really hot. Does anyone know what this is. I am going to the doctor next week, but iwwas wondering if this has happened to anyone and what they do about it. Thank you!

it happened to me i had to go to the hospital the docter will just have to examin the aflicte area and if their is pressure which causes swelling they'll just lance it but when they're doing it hold your breath and count to ten .signed the helper

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does anyone have raynauds disease? im just asking because i have raynauds as well and im curious.

yeah my best friend does

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i use to like a girl but i dont anymore but i cant stop looking at her i asked her out in 4 and 7th grade both times she said no im not a freshman in high school and i want to no what to do so it doesnt feel weird looking at her?

well then my advice to you is to picture her as somthing you dont like

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does anyone know anything creative that would be good for a haunted house? it needs to be something scary, but not too scary, cause were going to have kids there.

me personally i would go with stuff jumping out of closets and fake blood and ghosts and ghost music

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ok so in the last two days one of my classmates' mother died. It was really unexpected to me even though she had been fighting off cancer. her son, who i dont really talk to that much, is in a group project with me for a class. I don't know what to say to him when i see him. The family is keeping this all really private and I don't want to be pushing. Since I think that they had seen it coming for a while, he doesn't seem to be all that depressed but maybe it's just taking a while for it to sink in. help me on what to say ! 16/f thanks in advance

i think you should tell him that you are there if he needs you and maybe you are right because i speak from personal experience and it took me a while to realize the pain of my fathers death but some recieve the emotion of what hapens faster than others.signed the helper

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i got a sidekick id and i was woderin how to transfer songs from my computer to my phone and how do i get free ringtones for my sidekick id

try to send the songs in an instant message to your sidekick.signed the helper

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3 months ago I really liked a boy (and I still do) I was with close friends with him for about a month, then I realised he really liked me and I felt the same way about him.
One night I had an argument with my mum and he offered me to stay his house and we ended up having sex.
About a week after I found out he was going out with one of my best friends behind my back. On one night he told me he loved me and he wouldn't leave me for someone else before we had sex etc...
I've met someone else now, he's lovely but, he's known to love girls and leave them also, he's known as a sex machine, I really like him but, I don't want to get messed around.
Since I've been together with someone new the other boy has kept asking me about him and telling me he's done his research about him also he's been inviting me around his house for house parties and doing stuff with his girlfriend that he done exactly the same to me right in front of my face!

What is he trying to say?

Please help.

he likes you and he also likes is girlfriend but for you not to get hurt you should play the field so nuthings ventured and nothing gained so no heart ache and no pain .signed the helper

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